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I’m up late tonight because I felt a peace in my soul I haven’t felt for a long time. This happens from time to time and is almost always triggered by a song I’ve never heard. Tonight that song was Carry The Water by @drewholcomb #TikTok

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@smashbaals No its not because its not even what Jesus wants

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@GlobeFarrah @Christ_Polygyny I don’t think you understand what you just said

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@TaraLynnSays Accidental worship does not exist.

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Is it just me or is it strange how grown men on the internet are complaining that college sorority girls aren’t working hard enough to be attractive to them?

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@MadiSP4321 Heating pad, Advil, chocolate pretzels, many episodes of Love On The Spectrum

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@BenZeisloft Y’all realize women go to PP for various medical needs including prenatal checkups?

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@WalkerArt64 @smashbaals Yeah, it would be pretty weird to see Jesus in support of fascism.

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@BraedenSorbo @ihateseedoils 😂😂😂 oh you can’t be serious. If my daughter ever dated a dude who thought he had even an ounce of authority over……nah, it would never happen. I raised her to respect herself more than that.

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@emilykmay Start with middle C and it’ll all make sense

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@Eli_B_Again @LChas22 Coming together after a fight is good and healthy. Overspiritualizing it not

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@WomnOfValor I love a good sub tweet

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@TaraLynnSays Worship and idolatry aren’t the same thing. Idolatry can come in any form, including exercise, but that doesn’t make exercise inherently sinful. Idolatry and worship are matters of the heart.

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@Joseph_Spurgeon Respectfully you’ve been prompting them for the last 10-11 years. I’m not going to argue your opinion here or suggest you don’t love your girls (you do) but to present this as some sort of “out of the mouth of babes” moment is disingenuous

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@Andwhit1249 @HollyStallcup I’ll take that action. When do I get my money?

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@LChas22 Wait until they find out that they fought because they were tired and hungry, not because there was some epic spiritual battle taking place.

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@ohmydepravity Knowing people who went to high school with people doesn’t exactly an authoritative source make. But assuming you’re right….who cares? So she came from some money? So did that “Friday” girl and, well, you know the story.

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@AEMarriott1 Excellent. Do the Eve test next where you suggest he eats an apple but if he does you condemn him to eternal judgement.

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@emilykmay It’s the weirdest freaking feeling, isn’t it?? I remember my youngest walking in the door one day when he was 3 or 4 and saying “Hi Glenn” as he walked on by. I said “hey” and then did a double take wondering if that just happened 😂

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@VitaUxoris Conflating “growing up” with being married and having children was your second mistake

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@peterwhite82211 @The_Imago_Dei @AbolitionWomen @Steadfast_Women @Protestia @AbolitionRising @Not_a_Victim_ If this is the one in Bristol the answer is no, she did not. That said, I’m pissed we’re talking about her and her healthcare without her consent.

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@DelaKram75 “I said something and I can’t believe the audacity of these people who responded to it! I mean, I know I said something stupid and vague but let’s talk about how they responded! That’s the REAL grievance!”

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@SwearingsCaring Pick better men Very very specific men Ok now that’s just too specific God you’re so needy… Something like that?

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@Eli_B_Again @LChas22 Let me try to break it down a little. Certain types of religious people are really good at blame shifting. It’s always some external danger that threatens to do damage to their health, relationships, and overall wellbeing. It’s Satan, demons, moon cycles, whatever.

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@JoelWBerry @TShackton Oh you mean the sniper school she passed, keyboard warrior?

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@harmonizedgrace “Get over it” is the wrong language. Learning to cope, regaining control of your nervous system, retraining your brain, and all of the other work put into dealing with trauma is not getting over it. Overcoming maybe, but the dismissiveness of the phrase get over it is harmful

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@Joannathelee @isierranichole Good God you’ve gone to great lengths to avoid admitting you’re on the wrong side of this

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@RenOfMen @conservmillen Maybe they’re just not into the same dudes you are. Leave people alone

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@EndOfDaysWoman Leave people alone. If you’re bothered by it maybe you should show up earlier. You’re not feeling “trapped” You’re feeling entitled. Mind your business.

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@WalkerArt64 @smashbaals Yeah but why bother with the gospel when we can threaten the heathens with prison, amiright??

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@turnedchristian Having a choice in those situations is nice, isn’t it? Would to God that everyone had the equal right to handle such a traumatic experience the best way they saw fit for themselves and their family

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@ComradeDoyIe It’s not “excessive” It’s wrong. It’s illegal. It’s abusive. It’s assault. It should read “Man assaults teenager for abdicating his parental responsibility to teenagers”

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@megbasham @lastdays_really Yeah, right after he labeled everyone who called him out and stated how disappointed he was with all of them. That’s not an apology, Meg. It’s deflection. It’s him crying that he’s the real victim for the things he said. Like a jumbled DARVO

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@kencottrell @JennMGreenberg Sex with a minor is always rape, Ken.

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@William_E_Wolfe @drmoore @KaitlynSchiess @edstetzer @DavidAFrench Whataboutism doesn’t cover you here. Which is worse? Blaspheming and monetizing gods words or the world doing what the world does? Jesus didn’t flip the tables of Baal worshipers, he flipped the tables of his own house.

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@Eli_B_Again @LChas22 So they will blame Satan but not the fact that they forgot to eat, demons but not address their awful sleep hygiene, democrats but not their endless consumption of cable news, or their spouse but not their lack of emotional intelligent. Satan makes a great scapegoat.

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@XianJaneway That whiplash of emotional turnaround when she got fired was what did it for me. There seemed to be zero self-awareness, zero introspection. Instead she wanted us to mourn with her for being fired and a heartbeat later tell us she had perfect clarity over the issue. 😒

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@GradeGabe You chose to take a situation where someone was legitimately terrified and make a nonsensical joke in the name of Jesus. You’re a winner.

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@ItsBeenAWhale @emilykmay Exactly! I don’t know what you think about math but all music is math. There’s patterns and logic behind all of it. Keep it simple, take your time, and give yourself a year. Excited for you!

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@WomnOfValor This is just like how when I was leaving the IFB/KJV movement and my dad told me he would be fine with it but didn’t want to go to a non-KJV church. I told him you can’t find KJV-onlyism without all the baggage. It doesn’t exist. Same with men obsessed with modesty

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@re_form Wait until you find out that the trad wife thing started in kink communities 😂😂

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@RalstonBrusco Who are you and why should I care?

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@BenZeisloft Ben I’ll be honest, I think a room full of pastors could handle seeing you in short sleeves.

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@RenOfMen I love how you just say things are a sin when God never said anything about it. Your doctrine is flawed.

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Three things I asked my ex for in our custody agreement since we’re coparenting: 1. Help with transportation 2. Let them spend the night when they want 3. Acknowledge that I’ve been a damn good dad and to stop trying to dictate how I do things in my home. Got them all.

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@_nomadic_soul Does anyone else here understand how insanely expensive private hockey lessons are? Not to mention the cost of being on an ice hockey team. That man is making mid to upper six figures and their life is anything but average. And all that “inspiration” talk….geez

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@truth_trek @WomnOfValor Dude you’re 21, single, and childless. Let them men speak for themselves.

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@CoryMoesta @LesleyJWilliams @SlowToWrite You obviously don’t have very much contact or experience with child abusers.

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This is what you tell a child who is crying because he only got two cookies instead of three. This is not what you tell a SA survivor.

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@onlymyembers @harmonizedgrace Wrong. Sometimes a person needs to be told to suck it up and move on. Enabling weak self indulgence creates weak, self indulgent people.

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@XP_Unplugged @_nomadic_soul I’m not convinced you know what any of those words mean but feel free to prove me otherwise. Last time I checked not being down with the patriarchy was not akin to, say, denying the virgin birth of Christ - something that could actually make you a heretic.

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@Shshshshawnn Aw man, you’re really going to run with the “you misunderstood me” line? A man who needs his steak cut AND wants to try and lowkey gaslight people?? There should be a bingo card for this thread

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@DelaKram75 This is quite literally the story of Brooklyn Tabernacle

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@sacwriter Waaaaaaait…..hold up…..how might one obtain such pen because I just discovered I was into collecting color of the year pens at this exact moment.

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@Eli_B_Again @LChas22 On the one hand acknowledging that there’s more going on in the world than what’s happening in our own head is important. It helps build empathy, reframe our lives in the bigger picture, and learn to move forward. At the same time it can also distract from very real needs.

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@LaFountainHolly @XianJaneway An observation from an expert on ADHD isn’t a diagnosis. That said, it’s not hard for people with diagnosed adhd to recognize other people with adhd. We’re like penguins. We always find each other.

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@SwearingsCaring @agiftedbaby They/them I think. They are legion.

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@DeeGoingsGirl @MattWalshBlog Two

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@JennMGreenberg Reposting an abuser doesn’t harm the cause of Christ. Reporting an abuser doesn’t ruin the reputation of the church. Reporting an abuser isn’t unloving. Reporting an abuser is doesn’t mean you have a “bitter spirit”

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@mackamili @MattWalshBlog Worked out exactly as expected. Triggered dudes gone be triggered

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@madys_daddy @smashbaals Bruh…..history. It exists. Look it up.

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@sacwriter “Long term…….(statement ends)” This is exactly how my adhd works. What are we talking about again?

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@CarissasNewLife I was accuse of doing Satans work yesterday because I didn’t hate the “he gets us” commercial. Meanwhile my entire family has chosen to condemn and avoid me for choosing to leave an abusive marriage earlier this year. Their standard of acceptance is crushing.

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@Ineverglow HA! Tricks on you!! They’re all the same band now!!

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@JennMGreenberg If there’s one thing I know about you it’s that you are never unnecessarily forceful or rude. So maybe to add to what your husband said it’s time to rest until you no longer feel like you’ve lost a parent. Rest until you feel no need to pull punches.

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@h_hayes2020 @Eli_B_Again @LChas22 Im not speaking to individual faith as you are correct, I am not an authority. What I am speaking into is the broader idea that saying “the devil made me do it” is code for “I don’t want to take responsibility for my actions that contributed to this argument”

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@garagelogician @tim_bertolet What’s wrong about judging someone for showing up to church? Let’s assume their purpose is nefarious and they did show up just to get a response. Shouldn’t the response be warmth, with kindness, and not turned away? Should the response be “We’re glad you’re here”

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@WomnOfValor Trauma is part of you for the rest of your life. At no point can you be a person who didn’t experience trauma and that trauma has helped shape you in various ways. There are both positive and negative ways to approach this. Yours is positive, Hannah’s is dangerous.

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@BenZeisloft A few hours after Jesus washed Judas feet Judas betrayed Him leading to Jesus crucifixion. Delete this post. It might be “anti-woke” but more importantly it’s anti-Christian.

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@TheEcho13 @Shshshshawnn For me it’s that she DID serve him. Perhaps there was an oversight with the knife, but by preparing and bringing him a steak service had already been rendered. It’s that extra part where he attributed value. I just get the feeling that we’re not getting the whole story

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@CatherineMcNiel I’ll tell you what, it’s enough to make one clutch pearls! *faints dramatically*

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“Get over it” is the wrong language. Learning to cope, regaining control of your nervous system, retraining your brain, and all of the other work put into dealing with trauma is not getting over it. Overcoming maybe, but the dismissiveness of the phrase get over it is harmful

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@OliveGarden5505 @thisisfoster Men who are threatened by the the opinions of women are so fickle.

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@toddsworld2023 @Jennerallyplays @SwearingsCaring Welp, there it is.

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@TexasSpiderpig @HibsMcgee @NancyRPearcey What exactly is “polar opposite”

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@tim_bertolet @garagelogician So let them try to shock. To be shocked would be to prove their point - that we not only will judge them based on appearance but that we also require them to behave like us to avoid such judgement. To say it plainly, to be shocked would be hypocritical.

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I just left a relationship where I was constantly told “I know I said x but what I meant was…” I’m well versed in that level of manipulation. It doesn’t work on me anymore. Words mean something and if you meant something else you should start with an apology.

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@haymes_joshua Yeah, confess those sins from when you were 12 and got abused by a church elder. That’ll do it.

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@adsfasderger @TheHJBennett @JamesMLoft @JoelWBerry @Strangeland_Elf Weird obsession with genitalia there bud but pop off. Do tell why women shouldn’t be able to take you out from a couple football fields away

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@fairlyspiritual When you spend an inordinate amount of time on passages of scripture that are the least discernible you’re bound to start connecting dots that the scripture never connects. In fact, scripture might not even contain the dots you’re connecting.

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Also, “I’m sorry you misunderstood me” isn’t an apology. Instead try “I’m sorry I wasn’t clearer with what I said”

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@legitleavitt @ohmydepravity If you can’t dance with em’, kidnap em’. If it was goodnuff for my grandpappy it’s goodnuff fer me!!

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@itskellydiane @MBurtwrites From my reading of it she’s not saying any of those things are bad, but incomplete in the face a bad marriage (no matter how you define it). A lazy husband will not change without boundaries neither the abusive husband stop abusing. All is included. Pray, but also say no.

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@NathanielJolly You know who the experts are on PTSD? People with PTSD. Go talk to them. JMac is wrong.

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@SwearingsCaring Whaaaa!? All I did was tell the lord that if this girl at the bar would make the first move, buy me a drink, flirt with me, loan me her credit card, AND buy me a Valentine’s Day present within 24 hrs of meeting her I might consider giving her a call back. Simple and spiritual.

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@someguy0474 @Eli_B_Again @LChas22 I have much more than a rudimentary knowledge of the subject my guy. Next time you see yourself heading towards an argument with your significant other ask yourself when was the last time either of you ate or drank some water. See what changes.

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@DelaKram75 You got it. I’m sorry the ministry folded but if it impacted you this way it seems that it was beneficial for its season.

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@JosiahHawthorne Oh man that drives me absolutely nuts. They add one line or a bridge and suddenly it’s their song. I love reimagined hymns but dude, credit to where credit is due.

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@BasedAnglo3 @smashbaals It’s almost like they did it on purpose.

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@Staylor3912 @DelaKram75 No message from someone on the internet deserved that response. Even if the dude was being a nag and just not letting it go that guy could have gracefully backed out. Instead he got defensive, emotional, and then made a play for the support of internet strangers.

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@pathforward327 @_nomadic_soul @mattnightingale @Realnotmyjesus @Respectibiggle It’s not “more complicated” Race laws were morally deplorable and any desire to go back to them is moral bankruptcy. Listen Riley, there’s nothing stopping you from choosing not to vote (pre-1919), being a stay at home mom, and dying young due to pregnancy complications.

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@clhubes Let me find the video of me and my ex sitting on the front porch of our house while the two youngest are just losing their shit inside because they didn’t want to clean. My parenting advice? Admit defeat, accept that they’ll stop at some point, move forward.

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@ivy_wylder Dude that first, agonizingly slow, pause after about an inch, make it twitch a little bit while looking down into her eyes with a smirk giving her the chance the reach down and literally try to pull you inside…….why would any dude ever skip that part!?

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@someguy0474 @Eli_B_Again @LChas22 I was speaking to those who specifically over spiritualize biological impetus. If you follow the Christian faith you believe there are spiritual elements to virtually everything you do, but sometimes the spiritual element is you and another soul trying to work it out, not Satan.

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@rachkmc My (ex)father in law once got upset with my youngest because he wouldn’t give a hug. FIL yelled from across the room and told me to tell youngest to give him a hug. Looked that dude on the eye and said “No. he doesn’t have to hug anyone” His anger towards me was beautiful 😂

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@DougSides @William_E_Wolfe But not shocked at Trump making a little coin off of the Bible. Which doesn’t shock me at all.

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@WomnOfValor Aw man. Old fashioned Sunday still gives me nightmares. Thats like when we had “Dress as a preacher or preachers wife” during spirit week at my “college”.

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@haymes_joshua Is a woman rescuing herself or others while being attacked by men inherently an attempt to be a man?

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@BillVigus @JosiahHawthorne @pastherandie @the_blind_guide Bill, man ≠ husband and woman ≠ wife. Do you see how that works? You can be one and not the other? Do you see how we’re all talking about biology while you’re talking about a social construct? You’re not having the same conversation and getting mad at others for it.

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I received the most womanly of all instructions tonight while folding putting away laundry. Asking where an article of clothing went I was told, and I quote…..”on the right side furthest to the left” My adhd brain died

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@PastorBenMarsh Christ is king but only so I can lie about my motivation for saying it.

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