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Stoyan

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Transphobes having a 99% Venn diagram overlap with aphobes remains one of the most fascinating social phenomena to me as an asexual person

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Choosing an asexual person to lead the Pride parade is a slap in the face to everyone who has ever been discriminated against for their sexual orientation.

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@terminallyOL “We just have to deal with the fact that some countries do not accept gays.” - a straight

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@isthisbicuIture How can a woman that is herself attracted to other women “fetishize” a lesbian? Fetishization happens if someone “rubs it” to a dynamic of sex / sensuality that does not involve people of their gender That then shaping how they treat the REAL people who can and would do that

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@lasthomewrecker @cocainecross So she still actively helped more people get killed Hands still bloody

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@JohnJamesNI @theyasminbenoit @dnalerinrehtron Yasmin is not straight? Most asexual people do not identify as straight Maybe take a seat when it comes to your opinions on asexual people, John

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@bleedingmothz Being asexual, or belonging to any part of the ‘-TQIA’, can be especially difficult Aphobia is still normalized and wide spread among most straight people as well as half our own queer community And being such a very small minority group makes us all the more vulnerable to it

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@jeriz1991 @GothyBatz …Come again

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@he_ls_him “Dressing like a w*hore” is a standard shaped by misogyny The term itself is used for women that are barely any more ‘promiscuous’ than the average man, especially if he is given the same chance

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@comradeyongie @PastelleAutumn Go off, but what does that have to do with bi women? Why are we targeting them as somehow responsible for the cys-straight men that do this? Seems like biphobia to me to pin this on them, when these men are fully autonomous to come by themselves or as anyone's relatives / friends

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@DanTheLeper @forrrestgreen “More men kill themselves than men kill women” Even if that WERE true (and it isn’t), what gender would the perpetrators of both those crimes be? The answer to that also shows you which group needs to do better to fix the issues

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@realMWO @scitt5000 @Psyxxxix @__Guntar__ Religion is a choice, being gay or Black is not a choice

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@comradeyongie @PastelleAutumn And do we know if that man was there because he had a bi girlfriend?

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@anomalous_blake @skyebatungbakal As a psychology major going onto a Master’s, this is NOT what we are taught Compassion and empathy is the first and mandatory stepping stone in any psychological practice with patients Even if you are research-focused / teaching-focused, you need that

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@realMWO @scitt5000 @Psyxxxix @__Guntar__ …You mean you ONLY rely on articles from BEFORE gay people got any legal or scientific recognition they are a natural variation of sexuality, about whether being gay is natural? Do you see how maybe you have a biased and outdated understanding of the topic?

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@realMWO @scitt5000 @Psyxxxix @__Guntar__ Being gay is not a choice I would know, you wouldn't

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@foorventingonly @bartouche3 All sexual intimacy is sado-masochistic It is all rooted in receiving / inflicting some sort of pain that all parties consent to None of us are fully above it There is no need to pearl-clutch to this extent

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@ladielabrys2 @ghoulhag Why are you, someone is not bi, telling a bisexual person what anti-bi stereotypes she can perpetuate and what not? Stay in your lane instead of speaking over a bi woman

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@realMWO @scitt5000 @Psyxxxix @__Guntar__ Some people mistake their sexual ORIENTATION, choose to repress it or experience it as fluid But it is never a "change back to straight" they choose It seems like a choice to you, because you are totally removed from the hardships and stigma of being gay No one would choose it

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@realMWO @scitt5000 @Psyxxxix @__Guntar__ If you want to go the bio-essentialist route, then what do you say to the fact that multiple other species of animal exhibit same-sex relations? It is clearly not caused by human society

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@VentingWonko @smokeismedicine My pronouns are he / not him Because I could never be him

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@BadSocialisms Ew, no I will always be 🇵🇸🇺🇦

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@BraddockBessie No, you do not target “gender ideology”, no such thing You target the science and literature that exists in support of trans identities and you deny trans people (who also are a sexual / gender minority) their identity and existence in themselves Do not attempt to obfuscate

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@reb3lliousgal @usermk_19 @sommaihezie @ClawYousay @mizandries This you “living in the Middle East”?

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@Kirby_PPG @sapphiceya No, actually, it is you who is coping Because none of what you say “confirms someone to be straight” Plenty of (usually closeted) queer men do those things Which is to say, YOU can cope

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@realMWO @scitt5000 @Psyxxxix @__Guntar__

The evolution of same-sex sexual behaviour in mammals

Nature Communications - There is still no consensus on the factors favouring the evolution of same-sex sexual behaviour in mammals. This study presents evidence that it is a widespread behaviour...

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@selmacashmoney I would like us to keep in mind that, at one point, Trump was 15 and Biden was 18

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@TENTornado @WElRDFISHlES @OffThatBatPack @ellieinluv @Kris_alid You seem to be confusing “there are no generalizable rules” with “there are no rules at all”

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@C_scip @kailynsremains @KateBMwriting Most asexual adults known how to love ourselves, our bodies and others perfectly well You just assume that involves a ‘sex life’ when it doesn’t necessary Because you are not asexual Just take a seat and actually listen to asexual people for once

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@adamfare1996 Some (queer) people outside of the aro-ace umbrella think they can tell us what struggles we face and don’t face But asexuality has always been something as another sexual deviancy to correct Corrective “therapists” and rapists have never actually given it a pass

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@grassfay Cys-straight women have been some of the most homophobic people in my life They have assaulted me, they have ridiculed me, they have tokenized me, etc. And now I am hearing "I'd rather cys-hetero women come to Pride than bi people" INSANE

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@blowcalcaine @softsweetsoul @womenpostingws You can “just ignore it” if those religions don’t affect your culture Or if you are a straight man Everyone else isn’t always just “ignoring it”

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@Jenna_DeWitt There is no LGBTQIA liberation without the liberation of asexual and aromantic people

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@bogofhate ‘Sapphic’ means a woman that is attracted to those perceived by her as women Sapphic culture and art belongs to bi women just as much as lesbian women

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@Paolibry @nescartridges @Down4Mizzou Call it a hunch, but I don’t think @nescartridges or anyone liking their post is voting Republican

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@jplfit @_slimarella_ No I am fine with straight women existing but they really should keep them being straight to themselves

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@DrBanane0 @arrivalleneuve @AmouriJaee @WomenBeingAwful And now men learn the problem we need to correct is within our own group, before it is anywhere else

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@__TheBaron__ @imbethmccoll They do and are supposed to Sounds like a you problem if your friends don't Get better ones

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@l3l2ucelee @Z4ND1LE @educatedjayy @greyishdiamond @pallnandi Maybe if straight men weren’t so bigoted towards both of these groups, said groups would not be talking shit about them 🤷🏻‍♂️

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@theyfabsexual @chaseweezerfan There are quite a bit of “radical” feminist texts written by homophobes with internalized misogyny

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@mushycrouton @misswallison She is giving that sexist “there are no abusers without a penis” energy

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@2ulked @hiyenas It's like telling a non-binary person their identity is real, so long as they never EVER experience any gendered alignments towards male or female

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@nrduford She probably thinks queer women only exist to "snog in front of the lads"

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@isthisbicuIture That is… so bizarre To claim that bi women are “like hetero men”, but not literally HETERO women? C!s-straight women are right there If someone is fetishizing queerness, there is a good 50% chance it is them 😂

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@adamfare1996 All these alloromantic-allosex gay people denying aphobia can also benefit from a privilege check this month Socializing as an asexual or aromantic person is harder than most of them can imagine And they have the nerve to tell us we “don’t have it hard enough to count”

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@BioTransNelson Nelson, as a man with a male birth sex, I can tell you that is completely inaccurate for SO many c|sgender men

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@davepl1968 @iamAtheistGirl So men are selling safety from a threat they themselves created And you expect gratitude from women for that?

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@Shad07385692 @TheTylerKeller @RustyKu37492320 @DegenCPA22 Is that it? Is that the height of your pseudo-intellectual blabbering about what makes people gay? “But you are still gae” is exactly MY point Yours is moot, nonsensical and bigoted

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@mvlaad @MDMA_Enjoyer @BRAZZERSBOT @miskinmiyawaki @EddieRuffinJr @GangstalkingCEO Okay uhm, them being wrong is not your invitation to misogyny Those are not “the two genders”, last I checked

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@MariCeeCee98 Homo-misogyny actually goes crazy on this app too though I am encountering so many men in ‘my community’ that are just acting on a pure disdain for anything remotely female or feminine

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@vixidescent The rehabilitation of abusers does not attempt to erase or ‘move on from’ what they have done You clearly don’t know very much about that process

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@Shelley61265352 @minimaddii_ They need to “dispel your delusions”

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@skeletonb00biez @ignoblerot @An_Aria_Blooms Average subby male behavior

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@chibibinch @Novusgemma Having a age-based DNI is so strange I am saying this as someone younger than 25

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@rampancy We always have had There is also a lot of overlap A big part of the asexual community also has an attraction to both / all genders And even among those who don’t, (like gay and aromantic-asexuals) a lot have relied on the bisexual label to explore their identity

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@4ltedits A hasanaBI would be too powerful The community isn't ready The world isn't ready

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@Sociallyempty @XarifIno Treating masculinity as exclusive to people who present male and/or were AMAB is so strange to me Some of the most masculine people out there are butch women who can fold most cis guys like a camp chair

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@atragicvillain @HasPause And how many of all these streamers that allegedly know more about politics, actually address most political issues on their platform and express all their views?

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@TheAntifaTurtle Not just houses either There are many PUBLIC gender-neutral and bi-gender bathrooms across Europe

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@junkerqueenssub @idkeiden @KrisSkulls Because ‘csis’ is not an insult It is just a subcategory of gender and before that, a type of molecular structure ‘F*ag’ WAS British slang for a (typically used up) cigarette and a fried meal, but became popularized as an insult that denotes gayness

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@XarifIno Hot Take but a lot of trans women on this app have decided they are not oppressed enough until they can see themselves as more oppressed than most or even ALL other trans people MAYBE because oppression is an element of womanhood they have internalized, almost as a sort of need

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@kotoskopos @NonuserN @mattxiv

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@Wileluth @SocDoneLeft @strike_dr No one deserves Trump and I am not American

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Westerners finding out they are all colonizers like

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@theneonrequiem He had HIS breasts removed because it helps him exist as a man and is celebrating that with the look He hasn't removed or told someone to remove their breasts It is provocative, but that's the point There is nothing wrong with it

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@QuantumFister @KatyMontgomerie @clyptomaniac @True_wesT Ironic, since most people that are “of use” to your movement are right-wingers I guess that comes with the territory of being in a hate movement

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@thelgbgroup Nope Most transgender people I know and have talked to are attracted to others of their gender Actually progressive gay people like myself will never let you falsely frame this as “invading heterosexuals” Trans people have visibly been in our community for most of its history

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@isthisbicuIture We cannot trust these people to take the side of trans / sapphic / asexual women that happen to date c!s-hetero men, whenever said men are bigoted towards queer women This is a tragic level of patriarchal pick-me behavior for other queer women to exhibit

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@bleedbuilds @usahbel @nickmoats15 @AfricanDoll__ @Yerckz Men have always worked What is their excuse?

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@LeftHandedSWM @Shubhum45 @FixYourLife No. No one should.

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@softer_s0ft3st Older men make up a lot of the pedos in general And twinks are particularly vulnerable to said men in our community Not just in porn, this happens in gay bars on most days

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@DoctorLockwood @benoflan21 Yeah, so we can judge for ourselves show shameful and horrible it is

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@X_Aeon_X Queer theory has nothing to do with that You have clearly never engaged with or listened to it You are just a privileged, white American gay looking for a minority to demonize and hate

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@bisexualchimi “Everyone benefits from trans acceptance but me and this specific group I belong to. Everyone else that dissents to the established social norms I choose to uphold is speaking over and oppressing me. REEE!”

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@MrReality_sp @Provokethoughtz Homophobe detected: opinion discarded

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@BioTransNelson Yes, I am Proud of having discovered and educated myself I am going to be open about that, especially so this month Now, let's get back to you being increadibly out of touch with how men work

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@doctorassman @adamfare1996 That is the worst attempt at education oneself I have seen Asexual people are real, we experience love in a very tangibly different way and we are tired of being marginalized and pathologized for it

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@TheTylerKeller @Shad07385692 @RustyKu37492320 @DegenCPA22 I went to private school, one of the more lavish ones in the UK I had loving, opposite-sex parents in my life for 18 years and counting I have never been abused or so much as inappropriately touched by an adult all that time Still a homo What now?

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@joer0952 @Provokethoughtz Abortion is not murder More than 94% of abortions happen before there is any sentient life other than the mother’s That is a better death-less rate than that of many life-saving surgeries

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@CarafaadCi89040 @memeswaley @weirddalle Only queer women have ankles?

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@BittyCommitee @realMWO @scitt5000 @Psyxxxix @__Guntar__ It IS the source he wants Because it is one that affirms his homophobic beliefs He pines over a previous century for the same reason He misses the dehumanization of gay people in his country

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@vibrantyolk @Dragnmastralex_ @GrumpyGunny @iamAtheistGirl You don’t understand Apparently, we shouldn’t even be saying “men harass women” We need to be PC, walk around eggshells or else how will men FEEL After all, their biggest threat is to their feelings

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@ninafromcanada @gusherrz The lives of bi women, whether they date women or men, are of no obstacle to your lesbian-ing whatsoever If you perpetuate harmful stereotypes and prejudice toward bi women, you are indeed punching down on them and doing biphobia Hope this helps

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@XarifIno These people get off on the idea that they are stopping trans men from establishing some sort of trans-patriarchy which doesn’t already exist in cis-patriarchy (against all people with marginalized gender identities)

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@Rooc40 Let’s be clear too, this content is not primarily for white women either A lot of the racist white men that are opposed to “Third World migrants” are beating their meat to exactly these kinds of scenarios Their own heterosexuality transcends their racism

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@KateBMwriting Kate, by labeling trans people as ill sexual deviants that are dangerous to children, you are doing what was done to our community in the 70s and what still informs the law and norm in most of the world today You just have reached a point where you can do that without seeing it

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@JessDeWahls A “woman’s brain” is perfectly fine after birthing a child and not raising it No adverse medical or psychological effects are found in it during studies Stop shaming surrogates by proxy of what is clearly your disdain for couples that can’t conceive

Medical and mental health implications of gestational surrogacy

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@TwinkBussyLover @computer_gay Firstly, many asexual people absolutely share the struggle of attraction to their own gender Most asexual people who aren’t aromantic are attracted to their own gender, it’s almost half Secondly, we ARE marginalized for our sexuality being non-normative and getting pathologized

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@thangbrandr @ericeffiorg @RobProvince I don’t think there is much of a difference in how Hamas and Christian groups a la WBC wish to treat LGBTQ people The only difference is the legal hurtles, which Christian conservatives have only ever undermined in the West as well Never led contributions to

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@ErenStraak @SocDoneLeft @GigaBasedDad Um, if a behavior can lead to prison time / legal punishment, it is not a 'right' Like... what are you talking about?

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@raenarchy @theyasminbenoit One time would be *monosexual

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@tisflying @MarieScorailles Ask the IDF, whom have devastated Gaza for even longer Do you think they stop to ask the Palestinians they reduce to dust if they support gay rights?

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@mytains @THEEsimphunter @itsmegangraves Give that face reveal then, gorg

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@LordAslanThe2nd “Super straight” is a label that only exists because some straight people misunderstand sexuality and think others like them were “gay-ed” by the existence and acceptance of trans people It is simply reactionaries that think they can weaponize LGBTQ language against LGBTQ people

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@BevJacksonAuth @mushycrouton @janeclarejones No We do As gay people, we have a shared need to be rid of the hetero-normative structuring of society

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@jonnie1waffles @CaelanConrad Hi Jonnie! Are you aware many stalls can already give you complete privacy from anyone, of any anatomical makeup? That those who attempt to ignore this cue are not stopped by a stick figure sign having a skirt? And that they are almost always cisgender men?

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@jacob61582 @davantagedupain @BillyJigsaw8 @legaltweetz @libsoftiktok This whole argument relies on No True Scotsman-ing what a ‘sane woman’ is “No sane woman does this, and if one does, she is not sane”

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I find it CURIOUS I never hear bi men saying all that Almost like what these women hate isn’t the woman they dated, but simply dating in a socially unacceptable way to straight society…

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sorry, but the “dating women is worse than dating men” “men could never hurt you the way a woman could” “i dated one woman and then went back to dating men because men are easier” queer women are so loserishhh it’s actually unreal

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@finngalkn As a (cis) gay guy, I would be flattered if a trans masculine man wanted to date me It is still much less likely I am the rejecting one in that scenario 😅

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@EndConservtism @danielrotger511 If you identify with genocidal war criminals, you are identifying with conservatism

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