@motiblackart
Show them this study to make them understand:
Basically it says NTs develop a negative judgment of autistics within *literal seconds* of meeting, this judgement doesn’t change with more exposure & results in not wanting to interact with the autistic
@NdukaJustin
@OrangeangeI
80% of women don’t orgasm from intercourse and for the ones who do size isn’t the factor
Men don’t try to enlarge for women, they do it because THEY have a hangup about dick size
@kingbarkenshear
@Joan_Atoms
Why would you bother? You think the cops will get your stuff back? lol
If you’re currently being robbed, you should just defend yourself (2A), cops won’t get there in time & would probably shoot you and/or your pet if they did show up
@AstartesAp
@iamAtheistGirl
The context is that if it’s your daughter being cautious of all men that’s good but if it’s any other woman being cautious of all men that’s bad and she’s a misandrist? The context really doesn’t help.
@SoozUK
And even if Lolita had been an adult, it still would have been a horrifically abusive relationship—the narrator admits to beating and raping and emotionally abusing her. The fact she’s a child just makes it worse! It’s crazy to read it as a love story!
@disabledtudor
As soon as I read you use a wheelchair due to Tourette’s I thought “he probably has leg tics that make walking difficult” and I have zero medical training…how is it possible medical professionals don’t understand?
@ask_aubry
“Men have 2% more credit card debt than women. Men have 20% more personal loan debt than women. Men have 16.3% more auto loan debt than women.” Seems like men are the ones running up debt.
@TheMelWestbrook
@CupcakeGoth
Why? You know it’s a proper word right?
“sheerly adverb
completely or extremely:
It is a sheerly physical struggle trying to find enough water each day in order to survive.”
@aslak_randers
@televisualities
@TheRocketRalph
Being attractive has advantages but that applies to like the top 10% of people of any gender, most people aren’t attractive enough at any age to get advantages. Being 16-19 doesn’t automatically make a girl attractive and it’s creepy if you think it does.
@membrofpltncrt
@1776duo
The original tweet is just talking about fanfiction, the majority of fanfic is about fictional characters, why would you just automatically assume it was talking about fanfic of real people?
@lone_rides
@Pinche_Pi
Female nerds were already into these things when they were unpopular, just like male nerds were into them when they were unpopular. Nobody is “invading” anything by enjoying pop culture.
@Akr4s1a
@focusfronting
@mrpxssy
@thefemiurge
People usually just use it in a sexual context so you can’t tell if they’re talking about submission or being penetrated or both
We already had a word (sub) for submissive so it just makes it confusing if bottom means the same thing & there’s no word just for being penetrated
@KevinWaltman3
@not2shabii
@doxie_gay
Not being allowed to have a neon home sounds like a big negative to me! People should be able to paint their own property any color they want. I don’t see why people hate fun colors so much & want everything to be drab, or why they even care about the color of someone else’s home
@ThatUmbrella
@signulll
You’re just making this up though, she said nothing about income or height requirements. I’ve literally never known one woman ever who required a guy to be 6’ or make 100k in order to date. This is just the imagination of men online bitter they can’t find anyone.
@AindriuJ
@AriDrennen
There’s no evidence of that being a minor, but sometimes 16-17yos do get breast reductions, just like non-trans teens have also always gotten breast reductions (but it’s useless to do it before the breasts are fully developed so it would be at 16-17 at the earliest).
@tristandross
If someone assumes you’re in a monogamous relationship because of “nonverbal cues” and accuses you of “cheating” on a relationship that was never actually established and you never agreed to, that’s really their own fault
@thiagovscoelho
@nbouscal
A person can’t really fake being reasonable, either the words they’re saying are rational or they’re not. Saying irrational things and insisting you’re being reasonable isn’t virtuous, it’s actually highly annoying.
@amarchism
@emma24700547
@SCPRedMage
@PoliticsLs
This isn’t even anecdotal evidence, all he’s doing is saying “well I know some people who know trans kids, therefore I’m going to assume they were pressured into being trans based on literally nothing.” He just claims any trans kids with accepting parents were forced into it.
@joe983297696328
@thunderxstorm07
@ok_but_still
There wasn’t a back and forth dispute, the murderer just pulled a gun and held him at gunpoint and shot him after he put his hands up. An altercation would imply both people attacking each other and fighting, not a murderer just coming up and shooting you for no reason.
@LilySimpson1312
This is the same guy who said women shouldn't complain about sexual assault in the workplace because Muslim women have it worse. He literally believes stuff just doesn't count if something else exists that is bigger.
@nendimagination
@Maria53001249
@kkshah
@TGM_1989
@anumness
@yunuskocyigit1
You think kids can’t understand the concept of “it’s impossible”? Just tell them it’s not possible to divide by 0, because there’s nothing you can ever multiply 0 by to get 1 (or anything else besides 0). Teaching that 1/0=1 is telling them that 1x0=1.
@meghaverma_art
It’s insane you think one visit with a dying woman is “polyamory.” People can have a platonic friendship with exes once there are no longer feelings, and obviously nothing will happen since she’s in hospice.
@autogynephil
@AriDrennen
No, if you’re a man obviously you’d naturally want to have sex as a man. Sex feels unnatural when you know you have the wrong genitals. Wanting different genitals is just bottom dysphoria, a part of gender dysphoria.
@witchesforhope
@jduffyrice
The text says they watched movies and had dinner, nothing about anything sexual
Circling back around to…a platonic friendship?
@ChadHupe
@rawmilkhoney
This “women only want Chad” is a bizarre fantasy some internet weirdos have that doesn’t exist in real life. I’ve never known even one woman insisting a guy has to be rich & tall & in great shape. Women just have trouble finding a decent-looking guy who is kind & compatible.
@MissGinaDarling
@AngryVetGaming
How is it weird? If your job was murdering innocents for zero benefit to anyone besides the ultra wealthy, obviously some people will object to that.
@aslak_randers
@televisualities
@TheRocketRalph
If it only applies to a tiny minority then it’s not true to say girls 16-19 have advantages, only a small minority have advantages. That doesn’t change the reality of male privilege, the same way a small minority of black people being born wealthy doesn’t change white privilege.
@aslak_randers
@forestofcake
@TheRocketRalph
Actually they’ve done studies showing if you have identical resumes with the only difference being a male or female name, the male is more likely to be hired. Men are also more likely to be promoted and get grants, it’s not true at all that women get jobs easier.
@teixido_heather
@fatfabfeminist
Statistically less than 5% of rape accusations are false so if you’ve got multiple people accusing (OP said it wasn’t just her but also others) it’s extremely statistically unlikely all the accusations are false.
@adrusi
@nbouscal
I don’t know that they’re less likely to be lonely. Every autistic guy I’ve ever known had no issue being open about emotions and thought social rules about masculinity are dumb, and every one really struggled to make friends or find partners.
@Tim0nline
@aliceseba
@Whatapityonyou
Yes but ASL is literally a different language than English with different grammar & everything. So the sign language & the subtitles won’t say exactly the same thing. ASL is their native language with English being their second language. Some just prefer their native language.
@crowbarcombat
@thechosenberg
She said she relocated FOR him, doesn’t sound like it had anything to do with her wanting citizenship to another country. It’s a weird assumption to make based on nothing; tons of people in the US have long distance relationships while both being American.
@LilithDivinatn
@iris9936
@wallowingworm
It can though, just because you’ve had worse experiences doesn’t mean others can’t get PTSD from being cheated on. Someone having their entire life ripped apart by cheating after 20 years of marriage can absolutely be diagnosed with PTSD because of it.
@gregdiehl9
@janjowen
There’s no “ideology,” trans people just exist and deserve equal rights—why should the existence of a minority not be normalized? It’s like complaining about schools normalizing black people
@chaossapphicc
@rootfayth
@jessloveme83
@RN_Atheist
A lot of people don’t want to date people they barely know, like how can you have feelings when you don’t know them? Feelings only develop once you’ve been friends for a while. I wish it weren’t verboten now to be friends first before deciding if you want to date.
@RayTempleton
@ObsFromLife
You’re arguing in favor of honoring child rapists. If a god existed who actually commanded that, it would clearly be an evil god unworthy of worship.
@Price1_Xx302xX
@_nomadic_soul
Why is your hand dirty? Maybe wash your hands regularly
Speaking of that, bodies tend to get washed…would you not use a glass someone put their hand inside even after the glass was washed?
@guyontheearth
@thechosenberg
Do you think most women would be thrilled if a guy asked her to come over and help him with chores for a first date? Would it be a red flag if she weren’t thrilled?
It literally is a chore, and one of the worst possible chores, I’d rather clean a toilet
@KatyMontgomerie
So the study is just about random kids who aren’t trans at all and never claimed to be and were never diagnosed with gender dysphoria, and they somehow claim that proves something about trans people?
@wallywelles
@ask_aubry
If you’re 19 and a half, a little over a year ago you would have been 18. Only if she just recently turned 19 would she have been 17 a little over a year ago—and even then she’d be nearly 18. Calling someone a month from turning 18 a “child” is extreme when the gap is 3 years.
@aslak_randers
@forestofcake
@TheRocketRalph
It hasn’t been overcorrected for when the pay gap is still women making 80% of what men make. The majority of the pay gap comes from women being less likely to be hired or promoted simply because of their gender (only about 5% of the gap is from getting paid less for same job).
@Reicist_
@InstantSunrise
Nobody was “mad,” the entire point of the post/art was to criticize AI and many people agreed with the criticism. Like…you get that this piece was literally made to criticize AI, right? Liberals aren’t mad about criticizing AI. I guess probably some didn’t get it but most did.
@wallywelles
@ask_aubry
Weird assumption, unless she literally just turned 19, a little over a year would mean she was 18 when they started dating.
And regardless 17 and 20 is covered by close in age exception laws pretty much everywhere.
@DryOldFox1
@esjesjesj
You don’t think false arrests happen? The point is if bigots are convinced LGBTQ are “groomers” they’ll make false reports and arrests. Multiple people who have been executed have been exonerated by DNA evidence post mortem; innocent people do get executed.
@ask_aubry
Why do these people think a bear would knock down a door? I’ve literally never heard even one situation of a bear breaking down a door; bears tend to stay away from population centers and have no desire to get into houses, unlike human males.
@YugEsrever
@stacycay
Yeah, that’s the point—the person is a literal Nazi who denies the holocaust, and OP was saying these are the type of people who are transphobic. If you deny trans women are women, you’re literally on the same side as holocaust-denying Nazis like this guy.
@vanamerongen
@EmmaSzewczak
Getting your tubes tied doesn’t cause early menopause. Hysterectomies cause early menopause, but nobody is getting a hysterectomy for the purpose of sterilization; hysterectomies are for medical issues. For sterilization they just tie the tubes.
@CloudByter
@JWCartoonist
The hot coffee lawsuit wasn’t frivolous, that was just a smear campaign from McDonald’s. It was actually dangerously hot, way too hot to drink safely, and it actually welded her labia together and all she wanted at first was her medical bills paid.
@SomberPrincess3
Archeologists have found the skeleton of a trans woman from ancient Egypt. They didn’t go “that’s a male,” they went “that’s a trans woman.” They look at the entire gravesite to determine who the person was, they don’t just sex the skeleton (which often can’t be done) and quit.
@autogynephil
@AriDrennen
This is a debunked theory from the 80s. Wanting to have sex as your true self isn’t some kind of fetish. Any man would imagine himself as a man in his sexual fantasies, trans men are just no different from non-trans men that way.
@ask_aubry
“Make sure no boys steal your heart”? The saying “steal your heart” just means falling in love, did he mean “break your heart” or does he actually want her never to fall in love with a guy? He’s already doing that weird Christian dad possessive thing with daughters.
@AndreewGill
@_celia_bedelia_
One bullet won’t kill a bear; it will just piss it off and make it attack. The best strategy is to lie down and play dead. It very likely won’t even notice you because bears usually don’t like to mess with humans. Keep the bullet for in case the man is a threat.
@hydromerchant
@satchelmaloney
If he’s not going to do any chores at all, why does she need him?
If he only got married to have a maid, most women are uninterested in such a relationship.
@RazorsharpG96
@_meandmycat
@TheAntifaTurtle
You can still insult them, but not for features that have nothing to do with why they suck and that are shared by people who don’t suck. Attack the things about them that actually suck.
@yoshidasgf
@toffee_32
@Tyson_wd
So you don’t think the reason is because it’s socially stereotyped as a male thing and therefore professionals are biased against diagnosing females because they think only boys can have it? What exactly do you think the reason is then?
@FrogDeWar
@_celia_bedelia_
But she’s female and the “gender critical” types constantly call her a man so they’re hypocrites who are just lying when they say it’s not about looks, that’s the point. They don’t care that she’s a cis woman, they just call anyone who doesn’t fit their femininity standards a man
@_celia_bedelia_
Most horror stories are based on real situations, either literally or metaphorically. The person who wrote that story has very likely experienced something similar herself.
@the_midwits
@PinkNews
Statistics show only 15% of trans adults identify as straight after transition. The vast majority aren’t starting out as gay/lesbian.
Being trans is way less accepted than being gay so the idea that anyone would be trying to make gay people trans is just ridiculous.
@eirianqueer
I totally agree with you that the biphobia people are doing is gross, I’m also someone who dates men. But you’re misrepresenting the study the same way conservatives do by saying lesbians are facing high rates of violence from other lesbians, the study said it was from men.
@TaijahShanee
@xm_muva
All the science says the opposite, that negative reinforcement is the least effective method at changing behavior and actually worsens behavior. Parents should use actual effective methods to change behavior, this kind of thing does cause trauma.
@mushycrouton
@REGIMEHARDLINER
Just remember it by thinking about how it would sound to call a gay person “person with homosexuality!” That’s why we like autistic person, since it’s our identity and who we are.
@FrogDeWar
@_celia_bedelia_
It’s not occasional though, the TERFs do it on here constantly. They claim they’re for women’s rights but spend a huge amount of time calling women men for not fitting into femininity standards well enough. That’s the opposite of feminism.
@notcapnamerica
@BKoorstad
@SusanJamesWA
This clearly shows a larger proportion of Gen X are left-leaning compared to Boomers, and a lower percent of Gen X are conservative compared to Boomers.
And this is Pew Research, not the opinion of one psychologist like you posted.
@VerysaneGravey2
@_celia_bedelia_
It’s misogynist to call women men because they’re not fitting well enough into patriarchal beauty standards, yeah. And there’s a racist history of calling women of color masculine for not fitting well enough into white beauty standards so that’s likely at play too.
@ladielabrys2
@Potatopolitics
From the video, sounds like she was getting backlash for using the terms “male genitalia and female genitalia” and for agreeing with a TERF, not for having a genital preference or for saying she won’t date/sleep with people with penises.
@animefanatic781
@TheMemeWalker
It depends where they live but in most US states and most countries the age of consent is 16 to have sex with adults of any age. In places where it’s 18, there are usually close in age exception laws (which is different from an age of consent).
@Gtwy
@ask_aubry
SB means sugar baby, a kind of sex worker. The prostitute has no desire for him to leave his wife for her, she’s been in it solely for money from the start.
@twinkophrenia
@posting_forever
You know “allah” is just the Arabic word for “god” and it’s the exact same god the Christians & Jews worship? The difference is Muslims think Jesus was merely a prophet rather than the son of god, but they believe in the same god and still consider Jesus an important figure.
@iseeuliars
I wish I could remember the name of the therapist that told me “autistic people can’t experience loneliness because they don’t have emotions,” I only saw her one time years ago and don’t remember her name.
@karibuwu
@verysmallriver
It's an advert, obviously they're not going to show a gun when it's not advertising guns. Plenty of women have guns, weird to make some blanket statement about women based on one ad.
@relar13
@_dumpster_
@ParadigmCityy
Not really? 25 was the average age of marriage for Gen X, most had kids in their mid 20s so someone who’s like 46-47 having a 22 year old kid is pretty average.
@aaronkrol
@meatballtimes
Everyone feels better by venting, that’s why all men will vent to women and also usually to strangers online, they’re often just too uncomfortable to do it with other men.
@ITjanitor
@thechosenberg
Being so sexually repressed you call your wife a “perv” for saying you’re sexy in bed isn’t cool, it’s weird and prude and a bizarre sexual hang up.
@FlintAgeScholar
@meatballtimes
But acting like the crying makes you so uncomfortable you have to pretend it’s not happening does the exact opposite of preserving the person’s dignity or normalcy. He probably wanted him to just say like “hey what’s wrong, what’s going on?” Let him talk about it, give advice.
@lovrbutch
@TW1NKD3STR0YER
No, like someone you’ve promised to spend the rest of your life with, share finances with, live with until death, etc
It’s obviously more serious than a roommate, aromantic people basically have platonic life partners on the same level as a spouse
@JesseMBRFGC
@hollowearthterf
She was already engaged to someone else when he asked her to marry him, I think it makes you the villain to propose to someone who is already in a serious relationship.
@AndreewGill
@_celia_bedelia_
It’s the least risky strategy, lying down and playing dead is the recommended strategy for bear encounters. For brown bears anyways, for black bears you can likely just make noise to scare it away.