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My circus my monkeys. Armchair investigating and advocating for clergy abuse survivors #IHOPKC and beyond. Inquiry Inc. 🔍

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Alyssa DeGraff
5 months
Music has always been a means of emotional expression for me. Since the IHOP scandal spilled open in October, I’ve known deep down a part of my healing process would be reopening this guitar case - the one that’s accompanied me on ministry trips around the world, the one that sat
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WOW! Watch this video of Morris speaking about how our subconscious often slips up. And guess what name just happens to pop out of his mouth? (CINDY) This man has been telling on himself in plain sight for years. Is this narcissistic flaunting he enjoys or is was he
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@KellyClinger Not unlike the way Catholic priests would just get shuffled around 😒 There must be a higher threshold for accountability. Props to you guys for packin.
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#SheWas12 I believe you, Cindy ❤️‍🩹 And I have no doubt there will be others searching for the same courage very soon. Because this does not happen once. We are going to use the real words that the Gateway elders avoided: child molestation. This is not a fallen pastor
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Dee Parsons
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"I Was 12 Years Old and Wearing My Pink Pajamas When Robert Morris, Now of Gateway Church, Began to Molest Me. The Alleged Abuse Lasted for 4 1/2 Years." #Churchtoo #ARCtoo " New TWW post. @ThouArtTheMan
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ARMCHAIR ANALYSIS: (It's not looking great, folks) 🚩Board retains huge corporate law firm to investigate (this is likely to assess their legal liability.) How do we know they are independent? Will the letter of engagement with Haynes & Boone LLP be posted publicly? 🚩Already
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BREAKING: Robert Morris has resigned from Gateway Church in Southlake, Texas. Story to follow.
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@charismamag @BishopJakes @PsRobertMorris @drtonyevans Charisma, I dare you to write a single piece that centers only the voices and stories of the victims of these men. See what happens. And STOP patting the backs of predators who have shown a lack of true remorse. @charismamag #churchtoo #gateway #robertmorris #mikebickle
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@wartwatch I’m sorry, Morris did WHAT 🤯😤 This is so bad. I don’t want to hear another pastor talk about immoralities happening outside the church or Epstein or ANYTHING ELSE until they confront the abuses happening on their watch. #churchtoo #robertmorris #gatewaychurch #gateway
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Apparently when allegations were surfacing Mike Bickle called board member Jose Diaz and made partial confessions about what had happened with the primary Jane Doe. So simultaneously MB was calling the exposure “the rage of Satan,” while also admitting to putting this young
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@Mike_Hixenbaugh This is community grooming. It equates rape with consensual sex, and paints men as victims of both their own impulses and the objects on which they act them out.
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I've been told the below statement was emailed out by IHOPKC leadership today in an attempt to get ahead of an impending @KCStar article regarding abuse of minors🚩🚩 I will add some analysis/questions later, but there is a lot of distancing and image management going on. Don't
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This is atrocious. A Gateway minor was assaulted by another member in 2018. Pastors did not immediately tell the mother. And they at no time did the required mandatory reporting to CPS. The mom ended up involving the authorities and was ostracized by the community. And claims
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Amy Smith
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Gateway Church child sex abuse lawsuit settled 4/18/24. “Defendants collectively & independently engaged in concerted effort to conceal assault accusations in an agreed upon undertaking to subvert accusations and avoid criminal investigation” #shewas12
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@jonochall It's clear now that Mike used Brad Tebutt as a means to rehearse his own indictment. And he made sure only the leaders who mirrored his dysfunction would remain. I'm so grateful for you taking a stand. Then and now.
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🚩Will James Morris recuse himself from senior leadership due to the conflict of overseeing an investigation into his own father?
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9-3-2018 🚩🚩🚩 IHOPKC Prayer Room videos show Larry Lucky regularly on a team from 2018-2019 when he was supposedly terminated in 2010 after “inappropriate contact with minors”? During this time, BOTH David Sliker and Lenny LaGuardia were on leadership and would have been
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Wow. I have a feeling more stories are going to pour out of Gateway ❤️‍🩹 A friendly reminder to those coming out of toxic spiritual environments - sharing about spiritual abuse does not mean you are bitter. Labeling you as such is actually a silencing tactic used by leaders to
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@pastorLeBlanc @kanders87 @watchkeep @wartwatch @Mike_Hixenbaugh @PsJimmyEvans @GatewayPeople My wife and I attended and served at Gateway from the summer of 2021 thru 2013. We personally know all but one of the current Gateway elders. I will agree with @PsJimmyEvans with one addition…we would describe it as dishonest, toxic, and spiritually abusive!
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Why do journalists have to be the ones holding these pastors to a higher standard? Because their friends aren't. Forgive me if I missed it, but @seanfeucht have you stood up for a single victim of clergy abuse? Have you been silent after every exposure, or did I miss
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Sean Feucht
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God is exposing the real agendas of people like @reachjulieroys . Not only does she self-admittedly have a history of abuse with a teenage girl, but deeply loathes & attacks any conservative Christian standing strong against the tide of liberalism in the church. Her gig is up.
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. @bennettisaac is currently preaching a sermon to IHOPKC congregants calling for a season of corporate repentance. “They tie up heavy, cumbersome loads and put them on other people's shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to lift a finger to move them.”
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If I was a current IHOPKC member hearing rumors of ministry resources being consolidated, I would be reading between the lines (💸) and demanding to know how much money was spent on @ericvolz , the McNamara Report, additional lawyers, and the names & salaries of current ELT and
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If Chris Reed wanted to honor victims, he should also have publicly admitted to clergy abuse, apologized, stepped down, and allowed himself to be investigated. Instead he covered his tracks, spoke harshly at IHOPKC on the heels of Bickle's CSA allegations, and now he bolsters
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Julie Roys
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. @MorningStarMin prez Chris Reed has resigned, saying it's b/c he’s “on the side of victims” suing the ministry. But after confronted with allegations he pursued a woman sexually in 2021, Reed admitted sending her “terrible” sexual txts & kissing her. 1/3
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One month ago, I received a voicemail (below) from defense attorney, Rosalie McNamara, who was responsible for the Lathrop Report on Mike Bickle. In her message to me, sent February 13, she states that she planned to release an update to the controversial report due to the number
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Here is a story that won't leave you wondering what "inappropriate relationship" could mean ❤️‍🩹 Megan Anderson shares her devastating account of adult clergy sexual abuse perpetrated by Ed Gungor. The explicit and coercive details are really unsettling, but demonstrate just how
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Julie Roys
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Megan Anderson, wife of worship artist @jaredanderson , says she’s watched her former pastor @edgungor lead 4 churches over 25 yrs, while she’s lived with an open secret—that he sexually abused her. Now, she wants justice.
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@watchkeep @Prestonwood @mikebusterxp @jackngraham WOW. Attorney General Paxton will be busy this year, perhaps 😬
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@LouEngle Lou, I hope you remember me from KC. I am out here loud and proud out advocating for victims of clergy abuse. For years you’ve called us to repent on behalf of our nation. Now Che Ahn is saying “the church” needs to repent as a response to the sins of its leaders. When will
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@Jedidiahhartley This is not a culture of honor I want any part in. It honors false grace and the “restoration” of predators at the expense of victims. DO BETTER @BethelRedding @kvministries @BillJohnson2013
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🚩BREAKING MorningStar News🚩 Yesterday and today, two new lawsuits were filed against @morningstarmin In the same fashion as the first lawsuit, these new ones were filed by minor victims “John Doe #2 ” and “John Doe #3 .” 💔 One lawsuit alleges abuse happened ON ministry
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8 months
"The IHOPKC crisis is now over." No it isn't. Justice for every victim. May every voice be heard. May every corner of darkness be exposed. #ihopkc #mikebickle #churchtoo
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This week I started writing a song for the first time in 8 years. It made me think about all the other #ihopkc singers & musicians who perhaps have a strained relationship with music after leaving. I do. I'm just here to say it's ok if that loss still hurts.
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@bozlawpa "When you can’t even fill out a document honestly about working in your own church nursery, should you really be in the pulpit?" 👏🏻This woman has found her voice. Let's go Cindy👏🏻
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I’m beyond proud to officially announce an official endeavor, as Stephen calls it, “A vehicle for accountability.” Inquiry Inc 🔍 Teaming up with @alterofinquiry & @realprophetguy was a no brainer, and I could not be more excited to put our writing, creative, and investigative
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@mistydedwards Misty, why was Mike legally and permanently separated from IHOPKC?
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Alyssa DeGraff
5 months
Below is IHOPKC's response to the @judylthomas article exposing a prophecy by Mike Bickle & Paul Cain as fabricated. “As a result of revelations and accusations against Mike, we are examining all elements of the ministry culture and foundations he influenced....With help from
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Alyssa DeGraff
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@Mike_Hixenbaugh Big corporate law firm hired for independent investigation ⛳️⛳️⛳️
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Alyssa DeGraff
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Here comes the transcendence response‼️ At IHOPKC, it came as a sermon about Lot’s wife being punished for “looking back.” How can a community grieve and heal without an honest stare into the abyss of “what actually happened?” A spiritual community is worthy of truth, time to
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Alyssa DeGraff
8 months
Apparently my Dad has a Twitter 😂 Everyone say hi
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Terry DeGraff
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@JosiahHawthorne If KFC had a Colonel, why can't IHOP have a General?
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Alyssa DeGraff
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The saddest part of Chris Reed’s apology (concession) video was his wife saying, “WE went through a disciplinary process.” Oof did I feel that 😔 There is so much collateral damage when someone actively chooses to abuse their power. The pain ripples through families and entire
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Julie Roys
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Chris Reed, who recently resigned as CEO of Morningstar Ministries, is attributing his recently revealed sexual misconduct to being “under attack.” The statement comes after TRR reported allegations that he engaged in misconduct with a former student.
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There is a heaviness as we are reminded that IHOPKC's leadership chose this painful path. All victims of abuse should have been given a safe harbor immediately, and they weren't. I am grieved, but I am not surprised. Decades-long leader, Matt Candler has been awfully quiet, but
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There is too much spiritual hype around revival & awakenings in these circles. It kept me in a psychological fight or flight loop for years. And whether intentions are good or not I think it leaves potential for people to be exploited.
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@joyklaprade Oof does this hit home. And at the same time, I felt like as a single woman I was treated like a liability who couldn’t fulfill *any* real calling until I was married because of the barriers to working around men.
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Actively pushing people to live in this prolonged state of prophetic hype can actually breed fear & desparation. It creates a sort of codependency between the prophet & the followers. The impact this had on me was staying at IHOP for way too long because I was so afraid that
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@kvministries Your take on this makes me think you could make a wonderful prison chaplain. Please stay far away from any actual abuse victims.
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Alyssa DeGraff
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Purity culture groomed (at least) a generation or two of women to believe that anything sexual that happened to them was probably their fault.
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Mason Mennenga
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a big reason why purity culture doesn’t teach consent is so that people don’t know they’ve been sexually abused by their church leaders
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Alyssa DeGraff
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@dwaynearoberts It sounds to me like your 50 page initial findings report was exponentially more thorough and potentially had more evidence than this "investigation" even did.
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Alyssa DeGraff
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@reachjulieroys @Mike_Breen Say it with me, an “affair” with a vulnerable congregant is 🗣️Adult Clergy Abuse🗣️ May the next generation know better and do better.
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@dieworkwear The joy this account brings me...🥹
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Alyssa DeGraff
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I don’t want to give curly-haired man any more attention this week, but here is my Message Bible version of his take on Jesus’ healing: Pick up your cross and GET OVER IT. Were any of us really surprised to see him railing against what he perceives as weakness? This is a man
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@WillCab8 “This isn’t entertainment.” Proceeds to get up on stage & crack jokes instead of clarifying where he stands. Garbage statement. How about public announcements providing safety for vulnerable populations? How is Bethel doing in that regard, hm?
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Some quotes from the latest article on Chris Reed/Morningstar 😳 This one is worth a full read @reb_hopkins @reachjulieroys 🚩Rick says he wants polygraph tests in place of a third party investigation 🚩Some board members did see the explicit texts 🚩The board & Rick saw no
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Learned of the allegations this month??🚩 You’re telling me IHOPKC leaders (and their respective attorneys) somehow missed the viral TikTok video that went around early on describing Larry Lucky’s abuse of minors? You’re telling me their very qualified and very independent
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Alyssa DeGraff
7 months
After giving Rosalie multiple opportunities to speak on the phone, I went ahead and emailed my questions to her. I believe these are all extremely important and are the types of questions a true independent investigator would be expected to ask. This was immediately following
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@AlyssaDegraff
Alyssa DeGraff
26 days
1000 followers snuck up on me 🥹 This advocacy journey has been one wild ride that has undoubtedly changed my life for the better 💕 Thanks for following along!
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Alyssa DeGraff
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@judylthomas Will IHOPKC's "trusted elders" in the body please stand up? Who are they? Who trusts them? Whose sins have they rightly discerned? What is their track record of holding prophets and prophesies accountable??? A greater level of transparency is required for trust in the aftermath
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Alyssa DeGraff
8 months
Here’s me at 14. I had just gotten my braces off. #shewas14 I stand with Tammy & the Jane Does. Mike Bickle is a pedofile and a serial predator. #justicefortammy #ihopkctoo #clergysexabuse #mikebickle
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@judylthomas I'm going to say this firmly and directly - every leader still defending, preaching and benefiting off of IHOP's prophetic history is acting out of self-preservation. This is not the way of Jesus or His apostles, many of whom were martyred. We are waiting for you to embody your
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Alyssa DeGraff
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“Mike should have gone to jail & spent his life on the registered sex offenders list instead of building a prayer movement.” Let that sink in.
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Alyssa DeGraff
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It was an honor to stand with my Vineyard Anaheim friends yesterday to ask for justice for them 🙋🏻‍♀️ I still cannot believe what’s been done - pastor joins a church only to remove it from the Vineyard, retains the assets Vineyard donors funded, then rides on John Wimber’s legacy
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Alyssa DeGraff
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@BethMooreLPM It also takes immeasurable courage to disclose abuse, let alone to speak out against beloved powerful figures. We must find ways to support victims of both child and adult clergy sexual abuse.
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Alyssa DeGraff
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What spoke to me the loudest here is that likely hundreds of #ihopkc staff & congregants had to find out they were losing their job & mission via the press rather than hearing it directly from their leadership. This was announced to a wide enough pool of people for it to leak to
@reachjulieroys
Julie Roys
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BREAKING: Embattled @ihopkc announces it's closing & starting new org to limit liability. But @bozlawpa says IHOPKC is in "fantasyland" if it thinks plan will limit liability. Trying to do so would be "fraudulent," he says. 1/2
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Alyssa DeGraff
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It’s been crickets from YWAM as well. John Dawson, where are you? Is YWAM too heavily invested in the same prayer movement as Bickle to distance? Are schools being safeguarded from spiritual and sexual abuse? As a former YWAMer (New Zealand 2006) I would love to know if those
@jude22_23
jude
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Yes why hasn’t Chan publicly renounced MB & Chris Reed as “prophets” to be altogether avoided? And does anyone know if YWAM has officially broken its “prayer covenant partnership in the Great Commission” with IHOPKC yet? Has Andy Byrd publicly condemned Mike Bickle yet?
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@starcazm Thanks I hate it. This ministry attitude towards licensed professional counseling is SO dangerous. What if instead churches required pastors to be in regular counseling to ensure the health of their ministry?
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Alyssa DeGraff
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This is so much worse than I expected 😳 This is at a WOMENS’ conference. Anyone else hear a dog whistle warning for these women to never dare come forward with abuse allegations, or else they lose their soul? #churchtoo #ihopkctoo #mikebickle #louengle
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FortunatePDX
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Lou Engle (a leader of Her Voice Movement) believes the #metoo movement is an evil rebellious movement akin to the sin of witchcraft. *Engle is good friends with #MikeBickle , #ihopkc founder, who is accused of decades of sex abuse and cover-up.
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@reachjulieroys @GatewayPeople While it’s extremely validating to hear a male leader tearfully apologize to all survivors, it’s my opinion that they need to clarify 1. Whether Cindy has agreed to the investigation and 2. Whether they will widen the scope to look into any unknown abuses so others can come
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Alyssa DeGraff
4 months
This is the kind of armchair investigative work I live for 🔍 350k is a pretty cushy salary for Robert Morris, and somehow goes over the org's annual revenue?
@sarahstankorb
Sarah Stankorb
4 months
Nosing around and it's no surprise I cannot find business filings for Gateway Church (churches are not required to do so). But I did notice something interesting in the 990s for Robert Morris Evangelistic Association starting in 2018. Morris was paid more than the annual revenue.
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Alyssa DeGraff
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Any leader who has been in a toxic spiritual system like IHOP may have the best of intentions in their words and actions. It’s not enough. Good intentions won’t change how they respond on an instinctual level until they slam on the brakes and intentionally separate from toxic
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Alyssa DeGraff
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@dalepartridge It sounds like in your experience, Christian men are truly unable to control their lust issues, and are no better off than some dude at the gym. Guess where I would feel safer. Stop framing men as helpless victims in this.
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Alyssa DeGraff
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Today I am overwhelmingly proud of EVERY victim who has willfully faced their pain & told their story, whether publicly or privately, over these past 7 months. May every last one reclaim their voice and step into the healing and power they truly deserve. #ihopkc #mikebickle
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Alyssa DeGraff
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Allegedly, Mike has claimed privately that him and his wife Diane “are celibate” in their marriage 🥴 #ihopkc #mikebickle #churchtoo #clergyabuse
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Alyssa DeGraff
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What exactly is an “apostolic overseer?” And what good is an overseer when they are also benefitting financially from the org they are supposedly overseeing? Are they serving the congregant’s or the pastors? Are they on the board? It’s time to call for a new standard of
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@shaneholden1970
shane holden
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@ThouArtTheMan Is this real? Mark has elders that aren’t part of that local body? Not only wildly unbiblical IMO but dangerous… those of us that lead large churches need healthy systems that hold us accountable & keep the body safe
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@7MountainsInc @real_NathanKing “IHOP is safe, but also we won’t tell you why 4 ELT members resigned. And most of them are still involved on base but we’re being quiet about that too.”
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Alyssa DeGraff
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It is NOT over for IHOPKC or for Vineyard Anaheim 🧨 We are out here training our advocacy muscles - backing victims and fighting for the same justice and accountability owed in each scandal. If you don’t have the bandwidth to keep up with Gateway, that is ok! Pause to rest and
@Daybees31
David Moore
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To all of the victims of #ihopkc and #dwellingplaceanaheim , as well as all the other places where voices need to be raised against corrupt leadership, you are not forgotten.
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The closest thing IHOPKC had to a “reporting system” was sending both victims & perps to Mike’s sister Tracey Bickle for inner healing ministry. Perhaps she should be thoroughly interviewed regarding reports of abuse.
@SieNoel
🌵Sierra Noel is an autistic cactus🌵
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The number of incidents is likely low because y'all probably didn't keep accurate records. Likely it does not reflect reality. Can y'all prove you had a consistent reporting/documentation policy across the scope of this historical review? #ihopkc #mikebickle #churchtoo #ihopkctoo
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@kaitlynblosser @ihopkc It’s almost embarrassing to say now, but obsessing over hearing God’s voice on small unimportant matters like where I should park my car, or what to wear. In hindsight it sounds like anxiety.
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More info coming from inside #gateway 👀 Please know if you have credible info you may be able to whistleblow to journalists anonymously @Mike_Hixenbaugh @wartwatch @watchkeep @reachjulieroys #gateway #robertmorris #churchtoo
@Micah_Escobedo
micah escobedo 🥥🌴
4 months
from a former (and well-connected) member of #gateway ... burn it all to the ground
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@dkpooler It’s, “I’m sorry I was caught.” It would be encouraging to see a single disclosure from a leader that feels honest and not minimizing.
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Alyssa DeGraff
2 months
I first wished with all my heart that this article opened with a mugshot. But now I am absolutely reeling over the bravery of the victims coming forward with this kind of boldness. I have a lot of other words about this one but for now need to just sit with theirs. And cry.
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Alyssa DeGraff
3 months
Stick with me for a second… Dr. Brown, Kris Valloton, Bill Johnson et al. - have been sharing a suspicious amount of “don’t gossip” posts. A little sus, am I right Rita Springer? Then in the midst of this you have Bill Johnson’s girlfriend writing an article about sex
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@realprophetguy
Nameless Faceless Prophet
3 months
Dear Bill, You know what authority *is* for? Accountability. You have authority to hold abusive shepherds accountable for their actions, and by doing so, you protect the sheep. You’ve been silent over Mike Bickle, You’ve ignored the abuse and theft of Alan Scott. You turned
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Alyssa DeGraff
9 months
The spotlight on #ihopkc continues. This is not an isolated “affair” 26 years ago (clergy abuse) And it is not isolated to Mike Bickle. There are real reasons the 2019 GRACE report emphasized IHOP has a culture that proves safer for predators than for victims 💔/1
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Jessica Dedrick
9 months
Here is one recent incident with #BobHartley where he seems to be offering cash for s€x to a woman he doesn't know well & who clearly does not welcome these advances. #ihopkc has stayed silent about Bob, a well-known & connected leader, for years while he abuses women.
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Alyssa DeGraff
7 months
@Jedidiahhartley It's extremely concerning that leaders have known and not warned their communities. Assuming this was done out of some sort of self-preservation, this alone makes them bad shepherds.
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Alyssa DeGraff
5 months
@MatthewHartke @ihopkc "Let the Lord figure it all out!" Let the Lord shield us from paying restitution and move millions of dollars in assets into freshly formed LLCs 🤪
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Alyssa DeGraff
7 months
Mike Bickle’s abuse of the prophetic has ripped off the veil of secrecy many in the prophetic world have shrouded themselves in. “Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain.” Read this and @Jedidiahhartley ’s prior post about his father. This is spiritual abuse. #ihopkc
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Jedidiah Hartley
7 months
1/17🧵In a previous post I wrote generally about how my father, Bob Hartley, who was a major prophetic voice for churches like #IHOP , #Bethel (also #YWAM and harvest rock church), is a complete fraud. In this thread I will begin to share some specifics.
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Alyssa DeGraff
3 months
A survivor's "credibility" does not hinge on whether they talk about their trauma the same way every time. There is a pain point for survivors of IHOPKC because of the way victims have been elevated as "credible" based off of social status, morality, or consistency that needs to
@cptsdfoundation
CPTSD Foundation
3 months
For survivors of prolonged, repeated trauma, it is not practical to approach each memory as a separate entity. There are simply too many incidents, and often similar memories have blurred together. Usually, however, a few distinct and particularly meaningful incidents stand out.
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Alyssa DeGraff
6 months
Watching this interview with @ZionConsultTeam at 11pm (West Coast privilege👊🏼) and there are still over 450 people watching it premiere with me. People are ready for transparency. And hopefully they, like me, are eager to hear from an actual woman weighing in on things who has
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Alyssa DeGraff
6 months
Mike Bickle hasn't just retained his social media accounts, they are still quietly active… He recently went from following 0 people on Instagram to following 1 person, Grayson Bearden, who seems to be a Christian influencer & the head of a marketing agency “Bearden & Co." The
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Julie Roys
6 months
@EncryptedK @mikebickle No. And I think the fact that he's retained his social media accounts is telling.
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Alyssa DeGraff
7 months
IHOPKC advocates: this is hard messy work but your voices ARE making a difference. We got a shoutout on @bbtbpod They mention how we have basically jumped into the deep end w/ no prior experience & have held these leaders’ feet to the fire🔥 #ihopkc
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Alyssa DeGraff
3 months
I am catching up on what happened with Matt Chandler's Dad at The Village Church. First, I'm thankful for the whistleblowers who came forward and truy appreciate their transparency and humility. A few observations... Steve claimed he was not charged for CSA because he
@noedenelsewhere
No Eden Elsewhere
3 months
Never more true than in the case of Matt Chandler’s dad Steve - who confessed to child sexual abuse and was still hired to work at @villagechurchtx @bbtbpod @johnnarae
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Alyssa DeGraff
3 months
Four Gateway elders have been asked to take a leave of absence 🤔 I have questions… 📍Are these four men committed to cooperating with the investigation? 📍Does this statement confirm that Gateway itself has retained Haynes and Boone. If so, how is this investigation defined
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Amy Smith
3 months
Update from Gateway Church Board of Elders: Haynes and Boone recommends that 3 elders and James Morris, son of Robert Morris, take a leave of absence. #shewas12 @wartwatch @Mike_Hixenbaugh
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Alyssa DeGraff
3 months
@LauraRbnsn Ugh, YES. This happened to me and they also changed their policy on how frequently I had to come in. They're making sure you're taking the meds and not selling them. For me it was not only inconvenient but felt intrusive and somewhat degrading.
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Alyssa DeGraff
2 months
New internal #ihopkc statement confirms: 📍Isaac Bennett’s departure 📍Org is not closing - prayer room intends to *not* structure as a church (despite being filed as such with the IRS 👀) 📍Current board: General Fuller (retired former director of IHOPKC), Ed Hackett, Bishop
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Gracia Nope
2 months
Spit in the faces of all victims why don't you, #IHOPKC .
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Alyssa DeGraff
6 months
This is disgusting! When will these Bethel leaders prioritize the safety of their community over their “love for their brother.” I’d also love to know whether Bob Hartley has been supported Bethel ministries financially. #churchtoo #ihopkc #bethelchurch
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Jedidiah Hartley
6 months
I can’t tell you how much is made my skin crawl and my stomach sink to see my father still allowed within a church setting. Much less to see him drunkly speaking with a child. I immediately texted the bethel chief of security:
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Alyssa DeGraff
7 months
@Jedidiahhartley I am so proud of you, Jed. May your words help stop him from destroying any more lives.
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Alyssa DeGraff
9 months
Mindblowing that executive leaders like Misty herself have left their positions w/out anyone knowing.
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Alyssa DeGraff
3 months
@sheilagregoire Blaming it on spiritual warfare is bogus gnosticism so they have some demonic scapegoat for their actions. The church and leaders need to better distinguish between sin and abuse.
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Alyssa DeGraff
2 months
Not only is this comment towards Gracia shocking…. It raises the question of why @ericvolz would have been privy to conversations between victims & IHOPKC’s attorneys (plural.) Was he truly acting as a PR/spokesperson or a legal liaison? Did this carry over when people were
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Alyssa DeGraff
8 months
I have so much room in my heart for recently departed IHOPKC staff bc I know the pain of not being heard. Yet their voices are some of the most powerful right now. “We left out of conviction and protest...” @AaronBack22 #ihopkc #mikebickle
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Aaron Back
8 months
Re: IHOPKC Staff departures & the benevolent "blessing" by @bennettisaac and @ihopkc leaders for us to pursue other kingdom assignments. Brothers, for once in this horrible process get honest and humbly tell the truth: 1/ Here's the matter, it's still manipulative rubbish. God
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Alyssa DeGraff
4 months
It’s a newsworthy day, if you ask me. Lots of reasons to celebrate 🍻 @realprophetguy
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Alyssa DeGraff
7 months
Everyone make sure to say happy birthday to @jburn today! She's the one you want in your corner. From music, to roommates, to shared NICU traumas, to advocating for victims of CSA, girl we have been through A LOT. Thanks for recruiting me to IHOP, I love you 😆 2007 baby us
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Alyssa DeGraff
4 months
Tammy Woods, in her interview with @HeavenBentPod , perfectly portrays Bickle painting himself as a victim instead of the abuser. "One of the things I began to notice regarding the Jane Does that Mike would acknowledge is that he placed a large amount of blame on the women. He
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Alyssa DeGraff
3 months
@Ritaspringer You have been a widely known worship leader for decades - when was the last time you were a part of a church and were not a leader/authority figure? For everyone else, it’s actually super reasonable and wise to consider whether the governance is set up in a healthy way. I’m
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Alyssa DeGraff
8 months
One of my dearest friends, with her perfectly precocious response that she’d rather be herself than “the next Misty.” #ihopkc #mikebickle
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Joanna May
8 months
@peace_got @jude22_23 I initially shared these posts through Instagram stories. I think @blaiseforet mentioned it at some point as I started getting tagged by other people. Susan & I also know each and talked about it before.
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Alyssa DeGraff
8 months
Chris Valloton, saying he shouldn’t have to clarify his position on MB bc anyone who knows him understands where he’s at. You are saying this to an entire community who just found out their pastor was living a heinous double life. READ THE ROOM & apologize to your bro’s victims
@AlyssaDegraff
Alyssa DeGraff
8 months
@WillCab8 “This isn’t entertainment.” Proceeds to get up on stage & crack jokes instead of clarifying where he stands. Garbage statement. How about public announcements providing safety for vulnerable populations? How is Bethel doing in that regard, hm?
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Alyssa DeGraff
4 months
Charisma Mag cites “spiritual warfare” as the issue behind all these abuse exposures. 📣The call is coming from inside the house, Charisma 📣 Who needs deliverance now? #churchtoo #mikebickle #robertmorris #gateway #ihopkc #tonyevans
@charismamag
CharismaMag
4 months
Within just a few months, we’ve seen famous pastors and their megachurches in the Dallas, TX area come out with controversy and scandal. Read here: @BishopJakes @PsRobertMorris @drtonyevans #megachurch #spiritualwarfare #CharismaMag #charismamedia
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