Journalists: please don’t report this as caused by
#COVID19
. This is plain old horrific, controlling, entitled, gendered
#domesticabuse
and putting an excuse on it (“I couldn’t help myself” is old as the hills) puts women at risk
#Enfield
BREAKING: A woman has been pronounced dead after suffering serious injuries inside a flat in
#Edmonton
.
Met Police have said they were called at 18:04 to Plevna Road,
#N9
to a report of a concern for safety.
A man has been arrested on suspicion of murder.
Wonderful interview with
@RevRichardColes
- do read. I feel a random bond: You Are My World was my sister’s & my song, still desperately important to me. So reading a Communard discuss grief is special. And imagine being wise, clever *and* funny
One of the Qs today was “what about men opening doors, paying for dinner etc?”. I love that whole “you feminists can’t have it both ways” thing. I’m like, ok I’ll have equality thanks, you can keep the whole door thing
Men: please read this. I’ve REALLY wanted to write something similar (but probably not as good tbh) countless times but felt it was unfair on my employer. That in itself says something
Thank you so much for all the congratulations today. Sorry if I’ve missed replying to anyone. It’s an honour to work with our people
@Shelter
and to be recognised alongside some of the civil society leaders I most admire. The fight to defend the right to a safe home continues
This isn’t even going back. It’s going forward to chaos, destitution, death. Government must scrap homelessness tests, fund suitable temp accommodation, buy/build homes for people on low incomes. Stop looking for a clever alternative. There isn’t one
Great to be at the brilliant
@MosaicClubhouse
to see the Prince of Wales launch
#Homewards
- the 5 year programme of discovery and partnership to end homelessness. Also inspiring to hear Mosajc members talk about their transformational time with the project
Children are the unsung pandemic heroes. I’m not a clap for whoever fan (yeah, probably just a meany) but know what, I would get outside my door to clap for young people who are sacrificing so much, have the least power, and still get criticised for what a tiny number do wrong
On Westminster station and someone knocking on train window opposite. Think, nothing to do with me obvs. But what do I see but
@jessphillips
waving at me - you know how sighting a feminist can brighten your day? 🤗
My lovely auntie died in a care home on Saturday. She always cheered me on, first as a journalist, then in my charity career. She was a
@Shelter
activist in the 60s & 70s and supporter of
@womensaid
movement too. Clever, brave woman. 3 of her 4 children live abroad. Hard times
Domestic abuse murders are not about a loss of control. They are about control. Listen: this man is not panicking or raging. He is rational. Very disturbing audio (**trigger warning**) but important in understanding these crimes
Hi! My name is Roli. I am a Project Manager
@Shelter
and I will be taking over Polly’s twitter account for the day. A little about me...I'm half Bajan and half Trini, an arts & culture enthusiast and Chair of the Housing North Board
@JigsawHG
#ShareTheMic
Why does Britain have the highest rate of homelessness in the developed world, by far?
Because for decades we have not built anywhere near enough homes that people on low incomes can afford to rent. And the last decade has been worst of all.
#BuildSocialHousing
#VoteForHome
Our
@Shelter
client “Jane” refused to give way to discrimination when she ended up homeless because of “no DSS” policies by landlords that disproportionately impact women. Thanks to her, we’ve now proved discrimination: a victory for thousands of women
So we have now had both Eid and Diwali in lockdown. Unless it’s safer during Christmas than at either time, we have to question the “move hell & high water to get families mixing for Xmas” mentality. Much as I would love love *love* to see my parents
Her views on terrorism don’t alter the fact that she was groomed into child marriage and traumatised. We should have learned by now that blaming victims is a way to excuse those who commit horrific crimes. Blaming
#ShaminaBegum
excuses ISIS
@SamJenner77
@caitlinmoran
Yes me too. Reminds me of David Bowie "Where's your shame, you've left us up to our necks in it" (Changes). We have to lay off them
“I cannot think of any more obviously fundamental human right than the right of a man to have sex with his wife” - really? I can think of a few. The right to autonomy over one’s own body being just one.
“We’ve been socialized to believe poverty is a personal failure rather than systems failing us … villainization of those [with] unmet needs, whether access to health care (including mental health care), financial aid, affordable housing”
Mariah Carey. We need UK celebs like this
Let’s start the week using stats correctly. Last week the PM didn’t quite get his stats right. While the no of rough sleepers in England did reduce by 2% from 2017 to 2018, it is NOT an 8-year low. It’s 2nd-highest since 2010 (when records began) and has increased by 165% since
Great to highlight the furious backlashing of men’s rights activists against the basic facts of gender-based violence. Welcome to the world of pretty much every woman with a public-facing role in tackling
#domesticabuse
Teenage girls are not toxic. They are thrown in the toxic pool of patriarchy at birth and forced to sink or swim in it. This headline made me angry
@thetimes
Let’s not kid ourselves that when women lose their children through homelessness or domestic abuse (or both), it’s because children’s needs are at the centre of decisions. It’s because women’s needs are ignored until it’s too late
Just interviewed young mother of three. She's been found intentionally homeless. Council says it will house the kids not her - ie kids will be taken elsewhere. This is happening again and again. It's evil. What a threat to hold over homeless families.
Spot on
@jessphillips
. Criminal justice response to violence against women must improve, but ignoring systemic disadvantage women face at every turn (not least in housing) makes real change impossible. That’s why only feminist analysis works
The constant “what about violence against men?” that campaigners against violence against women get is pathetic beyond belief. Now I work for Shelter nobody goes on about how I should be campaigning on something else
For the millionth time, I don’t support male circumcision but it’s not the same as
#FGM
. If you want to campaign on the issue you can and I will support you but piss off on demanding that I give up on saving girls and take on your issue. I am an anti
#FGM
activist.
This is not a home.
@DanielHewittITV
is not letting go of this one, and nor should he. Social housing providers must be accountable. And leadership from government - both investment and vision for a new generation of social homes - is urgent
Excellent rundown by
@TheEconomist
of why rapists get away with it. Won’t tell those in the women’s sector anything new, but still useful to have a summary. And vital reading for anyone who still thinks prosecutions fail because women lie
This lockdown, government must remember emergency measures are not solutions. What happens after “everyone in”? After eviction protections end? People on low incomes still can’t afford a decent home. Construction is continuing. Government can and must create social homes
So. I am very organised in all aspects of my life. Every week I plan to ensure each hour is maximised for family, work, wellbeing. No joke. So how am I on way to the office when I’m getting married *tomorrow*?
The risk to charities is a risk to the country. Yet government support has been neither proportionate nor specific to charities’ needs. Frankly the role and importance of charities are not well enough understood either by government or by the public
How on earth do you do social distancing in temporary accommodation? These interviews are a must see, please watch. And yes, both women, both BAME, both carers. Coincidence? Of course not
The last 4 days having a wheelchair has cheered me up no end. So happy to get outside and yesterday even check out the sea. Back to hospital today and hoping for good news and another step on the journey back to my life
If you see one of our
@Shelter
campaign posters while you’re out and about please:
Take a pic
Share on social
@ us in
Use
#buildsocialhousing
Amplify our message
🙏
Yep: if you do “austerity” by cutting public services and welfare, you’ll disproportionately impact women. If you did it by raising taxes, you’d disproportionately impact men. We apparently can only do the former. That’s patriarchy
Happy
#IWD2018
to my fellow feminists who continue to work for & talk about dismantling patriarchy no matter what their day job is. Outspoken feminist leaders are needed even more than women leaders: solidarity shout outs coming up
The start of 2019 marks 1,000 women killed by men recorded by
@K_IngalaSmith
on her
@CountDeadWomen
blog. Karen has made sure there is no excuse *at all* for seeing fatal male violence against women as random, isolated incidents. Respect
Back to work this morning. Definitely ready despite how badly I needed that holiday. Obvs I’d love to be off to the cliffs with climbing gear. But it’s such a privilege to be looking forward to work. After 3 years I still pinch myself and think I can’t believe I’m ceo of
@Shelter
I was all ready to live tweet the
#socialCEO
awards but then I bumped into the wonderful
@Kathy_CEO_CE
and obviously started chatting and drinking (come on the woman is a legend) and next thing I knew I’d won! Thank you so much
@Shelter
@charitychap
@zoeamar
& all the judges xx
The average monthly income of someone referred to
@TrussellTrust
is £319. The reasons people need food banks are NOT “complex”! Families with children are also over-represented especially single mums
Don’t get me wrong, this is great, as I’ve already tweeted. Fantastic work by women’s organisations. What it won’t change though is the health-denying, inequality-supercharging, dead-end-promises shortage of social housing. Only one answer:
#buildsocialhousing
Today we’ve announced that those fleeing domestic abuse and facing homelessness will be automatically considered as priority by their council for housing – ensuring more survivors of domestic abuse have access to a safe home
#YouAreNotAlone
I am exhausted.
All the campaigning over the last year comes down to tomorrow. All we have lived as a family since our father’s death comes down to tomorrow.
Tomorrow isn’t just about our story, it’s about thousands of victims stories.
#CoerciveControl
#FreeSallyChallen
Our legal team
@Shelter
are justice warriors. I’ll be discussing our legal victory over “No DSS” discrimination on
@BBCWomansHour
just after 10am with one of the women who made it happen: Shelter legal ace
@ArnallRose
Yes accusations of man-hating are used to silence feminists. Yes this has to stop. Until then, for women with enough privilege not to care or be silenced by accusations of man-hating, I believe that not caring and not being silenced will help make it stop
Well done
@womensaid
- fantastic campaigning and sheer hard work on this. Can we now see lifesaving women’s refuges have long term security at last?
Every day, two people died while homeless in England and Wales in 2019. That’s why our vigil tonight is so important. Share your candle picture from 7pm to
#ShineALight
on life-threatening homelessness
Huge congratulations to brilliant
@Shelter
colleague Nadeem who receives an honour from the Queen this New Year. In Lockdown 1 he was stranded in Pakistan but he found a signal on a rooftop so he could take emergency calls from the thousands facing homelessness in England 🙏🙏
BREAKING 🎉
Shelter adviser, Nadeem, has made the New Year Honours list for tirelessly helping people from his laptop on a rooftop, after getting stuck in Pakistan at the start of the pandemic.
Please join us in wishing him the hugest congratulations! We are SO proud⭐
Today everyone
@Shelter
is part of an anti-racism day of learning. Can’t wait. This is get the entire charity on the same page so we can work better together for justice
Hear that head-scratching and sighing? It’s the sound of hundreds of charities all over the country rewriting desperately needed existing services as “innovation”, to please funders.
@PaulStreets_
couldn’t be more right here
Today is first (ever? for many years certainly)
@Shelter
staff conference, as we make our new strategy happen. This matters. Very excited, a bit nervous. It’s a while since I’ve been properly nervous before public speaking, so probs good for me
#oneshelter
The moral panic about childhood obesity does my head in. Of course obesity is unhealthy. But it’s about poverty, kids desperate to feel full and comfy and parents with no money. Talk about victim-blaming and mother-blaming...
Surprised most Toronto victims were women? Don’t be. Women are routinely the target of the anger and frustrations of societies led and formed by men. Pointing this out is not hating men. It’s hating how dangerous patriarchy is and wanting men to see it
I’ve heard this story many times, including from
@clairethrossell
herself. But it is still haunting. The family courts must change: a father who abuses his children’s mother is not a “good enough” parent. See
@womensaid
for campaign info
#childfirst
1/2 Lost for words on
#IWD2021
. When I served a specific women’s cause I did everything to be heard on IWD. Now I’m overwhelmed by the tide of injustices today and every day and the knowledge that women are more unequal, more in danger now than just one year ago.
👇
Today is a big day for me. Launching the Commission on Domestic Abuse in
@lbbdcouncil
- we’ll strive to understand how communities tolerate and hide
#domesticabuse
and what a local area can do through partnership to change it, leaving a methodology for localities nationwide
The
@lbbdcouncil
Domestic Abuse Commission has its public launch today. I’m honoured and excited to chair a team of national experts to find out how local communities can challenge the normalisation of abuse. My blog for
@Telegraph
Time to rebalance landlord/tenant relationship. Tenants are unacceptably vulnerable, as new
@Shelter
research shows. That’s why
#RentersReformBill
must:
1. Be prioritised
2.
#EndSection21
“no fault” evictions
3. Create National Landlord Register
I’m hearing from other charity CEOs how inspirational their people are, as they adapt rapidly to this strange new world. So proud of our sector, and I’m beyond proud of our
@Shelter
people. Frontline staff shifting from face to face to webchat and phone support, shops still 👇
Today’s
@thetimes
. Actually every home does not bring opportunity. Shoddy “permitted development rights” temp accommodation doesn’t. Rented homes under threat of no-fault eviction don’t. And the only homes that bring the opportunity to end the housing emergency are social homes.
Looking at another full day of zoom meetings but still feeling dazed from yesterday’s. This virtual workstyle is teaching us a lot and yes let’s do more in future. But if you think it’s weirdly draining - it is. Here’s why
Great piece naming the misogyny that drives
#domesticabuse
- if agencies & opinion formers keep running from the gender issues, no amount of new legislation will overcome this fatal violence
Great news from
@HomewardsUK
@KensingtonRoyal
- taking much needed action for homeless people who need support. To truly prevent homelessness, we also desperately need social homes for the thousands who just need a home, pure and simple
Last tweet on this before I enjoy my Sunday. The words “many..from abroad” haven’t been quoted much. Immigration & asylum policy & “no recourse to public funds” cause homelessness. Immigration, especially during acute labour shortage, doesn’t. These words are divisive & dangerous
There is only one answer to the emergency our housing crisis has become: homes that people on low incomes can actually afford to live in. We
@Shelter
are saying it loud and clear at
#cpc2021
#BuildBackBetter
I’ve already tweeted this but I’ll say it again: please spare 10 mins for Lily’s story. I used to work for
@womensaid
and saw how women fall off a precipice between
#domesticabuse
&
#homelessness
and we see it every single day
@Shelter
. It does NOT have to be like this
Lily carried a camera for three days to document the reality of street
#homelessness
. This, from
@GiuliaGandini
, is well worth ten minutes of your time today - please share.
Let’s be clear: hostility to charities will damage the country’s recovery. Ministers need us. As charities know well, partners who are allowed to challenge power are for more use than partners who you keep sticking back in their box
Sometimes I feel like tweeting pix of all the men in their 20s and 30s who don’t stand up on the tube for a woman old enough to be their mother who has a walking stick. It’s a woman who stands the vast majority of times
I’ll be discussing this initiative by the Prince of Wales on
@LBC
at 7.20 and on
@SkyNews
at 8.45. The Prince is right: the housing emergency and the homelessness and other misery it causes should not be tolerated in 21st century Britain
When I joined Shelter 4y ago, 1st external meeting, 12 people, all men but me, facilitator and wonderful sorely missed
#DawnFoster
. In 1st hour I’d twice had bloke get credit for my point. I was “omg is this what housing’s like”. Then I met these 2. Thanks for yesterday too 🙏🏻✊
Horrified by the racist comments under the
@barnardos
tweet in white privilege and parents. Shows why they are right. Solidarity with
@JavedKhanCEO
and team. Thank you for all you do for social justice
This mother fled abuse with her children and now can’t afford to feed and warm them. Never ask why women don’t leave abusers. We see families every day
@Shelter
choosing between rent and food. Impossible choices that I wrote about for
@PauseOrg
this week:
8 year old Courtney and her family live off £5 a day - they rely on a food bank to eat and wear coats to bed when there's no money for heating.
This is Britain today, where more than 4 million children are growing up in poverty.
They aced it: fantastic work by
@genrentuk
and partners leading up to today’s government announcement on ending s21. What a brilliant campaign. We
@Shelter
salute you👏👏👏✊
Euston Station has always been my least favourite London station. I love London and as a Londoner I want to feel a bit of ta-da! as people step off a train into the city. Euston? Nah. But look at its history! Like or loathe it, it once had ta-da
The idea that homeless people don’t work is wrong. *Many* are in work - though losing a job mustn’t mean losing the right to a safe home. The only way to solve homelessness is homes people on low incomes can afford. I’m discussing working homelessness on
@SkyNews
12.20
Yes
@jessphillips
! Those women need support too, so local specialist charities need resources. When it ends, additional social homes will be needed for women to move on to. If not, Covid-19 will the trap women in abuse and leave survivors homeless
It’s mainly women picking up where the state leaves off, in their own homes, in myriad ways. Austerity - shrinking publicly funded support - has utterly depended on women, and is a choice only patriarchy would make: women disproportionately both use and work(ed) in public service
This week I've been bitten, punched & kicked by the daughter I love more than anything because there was no learning disability nurses in a children's hospital. Parenting a disabled child is unnecessarily stressful because of lack of support.
#GiveItBack
#WorldMentalHealthDay2019
We
@Shelter
are braced for a wave of homelessness born from cuts across welfare and services.
At this point it’s hard to imagine where public spending cuts can be made without unthinkable hardship. This winter is very frightening indeed - and that’s before any “finding savings”
Me and a bunch of CEOs decided to brave Tik Tok, give our colleagues something to laugh about and our families something to cringe about. And/or vice versa. And you’ll have to agree we succeeded. Hours of practice…
You spend a lot of your adult life trying to be a lovely understanding parent. Then you get your reward. One of your 15yo’s friends gets comatose and out of a whole group of friends you are the parent called for advice at 2am. Goals. Not
It's very interesting to see how all these orgs are using their platforms this week to show solidarity to the
#BlackLivesMatter
movement - but are they just playing lip-service? Here is what POC in the sector have been experiencing this week - a thread.
Listen, Reflect & Act!
In 2021 remember: we fled the virus into our homes, and we saw that hundreds of thousands of our fellow citizens have no safe home. We chose that. We can end it. Home isn’t anywhere the heart is. It’s a place. My hope for 2021 is enough people remember this to force change
It’s disgraceful for academies to refuse to accept children in care. They should be priority, owed the best that the state - having taken responsibility away from their parents - can provide. Academies must not be an exception
Parliamentary questions I have asked reveal academies have been refusing to admit children in care into their schools. ‘Kids in care should be at the front of the queue, not the back’.
@REWearmouth
@Huffpost