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Paul Lavelle Foundation

1 year

Over the past week since we aired this video it has had a superb response across all our media channels & more importantly we have seen a stream of men contact us for support,huge thanks to @Katgeer1 & the business & marketing team @LJMU for doing this for us, #breakthesilence

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

6 years

Our mate stopped going the game, he stopped going to Party’s, he stopped texting us, he stopped going the pub, he stayed silent, we put the jigsaw together when it was too late, look out for you’re mate, he may need that little push to open up, I wish we had had that chance 💙

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5 years

We did it 💙

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

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3 years

2 years ago last week we opened our first office, we now are ready to open our drop in hub, the first of its kind in the country, we are proud, but what a sad reflection that it is the first of its kind for males

Domestic abuse support hub for men opens

A hub supporting men who suffer domestic abuse opens in memory of a man killed by his girlfriend.

www.bbc.co.uk

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

2 years

If we see the roles reversed do we see 50k likes and wacky comments galore ????

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@jomas1704

2 years

Just been taking the bins out and someones missus has him in a belter of a rear naked choke

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@paullavellefoun

3 months

Richard Spencer is classed by the Government as being a victim of violence against a woman! he’s a man. This shows how male victims are minimised. We need change, ourselves & other male support groups are battling for such change it should not be a battle #mywifemyabuser

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

3 years

20 months suspended sentence! This country needs educating on male domestic abuse & it needs to start at the top

Man reveals horrific injuries caused by ex who was spared jail

GRAPHIC WARNING: Matt Kite, 55, woke up in hospital after partner Helen Fraser, 52, launched an attack on him with a hot frying pan and a serrated knife in their flat in Hailsham, East Sussex.

www.dailymail.co.uk

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

3 months

An important programme for all male victims of abuse … please watch if you can. 1 in 3 domestic abuse victims are male, time this country acted accordingly to them figures. Monday 18 March - Ch 5 at 10pm

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

2 years

1 in 3 domestic abuse victims are male…. Sadly this figure is ignored, often brushed under the carpet fuelling male silence to report their plight… we support these men as we battle to raise awareness #BreakTheSilence

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

Searching for a manager 😂😎🏃

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@paullavellefoun

2 years

#notjustanother His name was Paul💙

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

9 months

75% of UK suicides are male, 84% of homeless are male, a large percentage of them males are victims of domestic abuse, stop ignoring these men, or telling them to ‘man up’ it shouldn’t be a battle to support these men… sadly it is

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

4 years

Delighted we have been awarded £29,832.00 from The National Lottery Community Fund which is backed by Government funds from the Coronavirus Community Support Fund, this will help us in the delivery of our male domestic abuse support service, until March 2021.

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

8 months

It’s time to change things, 1 in 3 victims of domestic abuse are male, sadly that is not reflected when abuse is spoken about or the support offered …. It should not be a battle to support male abuse victims #MenYouAreNotAlone

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

3 years

3 years !! Speechless

Man stabbed so hard between the eyes kitchen knife reached his brain

She has been jailed for the attack, which left the man with one eye.

metro.co.uk

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@paullavellefoun

5 years

Superb Binxy your mate would be proud today 💙

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@paullavellefoun

4 years

3 years today, we will keep talking about you daily mate, you made smiles to last a lifetime for so many of us..... we cherish them memories....thinking of Paul’s family today take care💙💙💙

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

3 years

The youth of today get a raw ride by many, then you see things like this... be nice, be kind and speak to people, check out any silence close to you, many are struggling and need the help that just a few words can change 💙

Self-Referral - Paul Lavelle Foundation

paullavellefoundation.co.uk

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@paullavellefoun

1 year

The figure of 1 in 3 victims being male is not some drop in the ocean ….it should not be a battle to get them voices heard and supported

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

Thinking of all Paul’s family today on his birthday forever in our hearts & voices, the many memories you gave us will last forever 💙💙💙

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@paullavellefoun

1 year

Abuse has no gender… let’s not ignore 1 in 3 of all victims… all victims hurt, all families suffer the same heartbreak

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

Spreading the word

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@paullavellefoun

4 years

So emotional this, great mate of ours @gerardsmall9 battled in intensive care for over a month with Covid-19, thanks to everyone involved at Arrowe Park hospital, hope to see you back on the bus the game in not too distant future mate 💙

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

3 years

4 years today, not a day has gone by when you aren’t in our minds & voices and never will there be one either, you made us memories mate, thoughts to all Paul’s family today 💙

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

He did it 👏👏👏 super proud Joe … all that hard work 💙💙💙 done your family proud & Dad would be puffing his chest out tonight 👌

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@paullavellefoun

1 year

Someone suggested we should change the wordings from ‘can be victims’ to ‘are victims’ ….we couldn’t have agreed more

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@paullavellefoun

1 year

6 years and not a day passes without you in all our minds and never will there be one… the memories and laughs are as fresh as ever and always will be …thinking of all Paul’s family today 💙NSNO

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

Tomorrow night Channel 5 ...also massive thanks to @Everton FC for allowing us to be filmed at the great ground some 16 months back

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

2 years

The battle to break the silence & ignorance continues to the 1 in 3 victims of abuse but today we saw a verdict that is huge in helping male victims of abuse

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@paullavellefoun

5 years

Emotional 💙

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

Saturday in Manchester Paul’s son Joe runs his first marathon, it’s a testament to his friends & family who have helped Joe along a terrible road but more testament to himself, to see his desire to not be defeated is inspiring to all, something his Dad would be so proud of 💙

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@paullavellefoun

2 years

Break the silence ..

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@paullavellefoun

6 months

The woman who took Paul’s life once stabbed him with a screwdriver in his legs…. She didn’t stop there …. How is this a deterrent

Bank worker who stabbed boyfriend spared jail because she's pregnant

Kimberley Blyth, 36, of Hartlepool, County Durham, caused two knife wounds to Alan Kellett's arm, left him 'covered in blood' and convinced she was trying to kill him.

www.dailymail.co.uk

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

6 years

Saw loads of these on the railings walking over M53 bridge on the Woodchurch before, whether it’s the local school or just some kids it’s superb, it offers hope and it’s shows people care✊️💙

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

9 months

1 in 3 victims of domestic abuse are men… break the silence, break the stigma, break the ignorance…. Help men too.

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@paullavellefoun

5 years

Going to be emotional tomorrow when we open our office with Lavey’s hero @NevilleSouthall & his mum Barb doing the unveiling of a commemorate plaque which we hope aside from the tears it will bring will bring hope & memories for them & everyone else attached to Paul Lavelle

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

3 years

Was a great feeling that coming down Goodison Road after 15 hours cycling to meet family & friend’s... one feeling to last forever 💙

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@paullavellefoun

4 years

Over halfway smashing it lads @1878__joe 🏃✊💙

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@paullavellefoun

8 months

it's Supporting Male Victims of Domestic Abuse Day - Let’s break the silence Anyone can contact us on our referral page in strict confidence and speak to our superb team

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@paullavellefoun

2 years

All done … every single one of these lads has been absolutely outstanding… just off to Thiepval now the largest memorial of them all

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

Kharkov away... a 10 hour van trip from Kiev .. how we laughed.. you can’t take them days from us 💙

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@paullavellefoun

2 years

We can help … speak to us

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@paullavellefoun

1 year

Abuse has no gender … 1 in 3 victims are male … stop ignoring them

Rishi Sunak

@RishiSunak

1 year

No woman or girl should ever have to feel unsafe in her home or community. I am determined to stamp out domestic abuse. As well as extra support for victims, we’re making it a priority for the police to tackle violence and bring more perpetrators to justice.

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

4 years

Next week it’s 3 yrs since we lost our great mate Paul, cruelly the pain won’t ever go away... it wasn’t an isolated incident we found out (too late) He kept silent.... ignorance fuels the silence ... abuse has no gender.

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

2 years

Man killed with broken dinner plate 'stayed silent' about abuse

Paul Lavelle's loved ones want to help men come forward about domestic abuse after losing their "brilliant friend"

www.liverpoolecho.co.uk

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@paullavellefoun

6 years

Great turn out for our mate, always in our thoughts and always in our smiles 💙💙💙✊️

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

Started an online diploma course 5 mins in... 85% of victims are female (incorrect) so we will be addressing the perpetrator as ‘he’ and the victims as ‘She’! We really do have a job on our hands sadly

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

3 months

With the airing of such an important programme tonight 10pm C5, we know all too well about where abuse to males can lead to, it’s why we are here, it’s why we fight to change the ignorance and silence to male victims of domestic abuse

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

Was so glad we could finally speak out last night in the powerful & very emotional documentary on channel 5... you can watch this on any catch up TV or the link below, it’s a tough watch it’s upsetting, but it had to be....help break the silence 💙

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

4 years

Brilliant @lennonefc London virtual marathon all done and dusted ✊🏃🏃💙

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@paullavellefoun

6 years

Getting the message out💙

'New girlfriend stopped our mate going the pub - then she killed him'

Devastated pals told how a toxic romance from dating site Plentyoffish claimed the life of Everton fan Paul Lavelle

www.liverpoolecho.co.uk

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

3 years

This is our ‘break the silence’ room in our hub, a room men can talk in confidence to our team, a place we hope can finally offer more than four walls to look at, a place we hope can move them forward.

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@paullavellefoun

2 years

Many years planned to come here sadly never made it… today we did it for our mate and will raise a glass to him tonight NSNO 💙

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@paullavellefoun

2 years

We’re off 🇫🇷

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2 years

He’s done it … unbelievable achievement Binxy ✊💙 waiting on Steve to complete his around the Wirral coast 🏃

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

5 years

Good Luck to Jake Lavelle who sets off to Uni in USA today, for such a young man you have shown the head of someone of far more experience the past 18 months, you deserve this go and have fun & carry on making people proud 💙

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

Great turnout for our mate 💙

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

Brilliant today Kieran Travis a member of our run club set out early yr to do a half marathon but today managed a full one raising funds for the Luke Brown Foundation.. big thanks to Binxy one of our coaches & trustees for running a good few miles with him 👏👏

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@paullavellefoun

6 years

Half way up snowdon

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

2 years

This is our mate Tommy, 26 yrs sober,dragged himself from a very dark place when he lost everything and despite in his own words each day is still a battle he spends his time inspiring & helping people, working with our foundation too & he’s riding to The Somme with us soon too💙

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@paullavellefoun

4 years

Off on our annual visit to Paul’s garden to raise a toast to our mate, forever in our thoughts as are all Paul’s family this time of year 💙

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3 years

Off to raise a glass for our mate today … forever in our voices 💙

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4 years

We are so proud of this 💙

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4 years

Goodluck @lennonefc who's running the London Virtual Marathon around the Wirral today keep your eyes out for him 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

2 years

Happy birthday mate … missed by all so much 💙

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@paullavellefoun

6 years

So we get the keys to our offices early January 4 yrs ahead of schedule all in the name of our mate, we will try & help people not to suffer the pain that we have seen & are still seeing silently day after day, onwards & upwards 💙✊️

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

9 months

6 years ago we decided to start a charity to keep a legacy for our mate, what he deserved…a year of tough work saw us confirmed as an official charity… anything is possible with desire, fight & friendship… we won’t stop the legacy, we won’t stop fighting for change 💙

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@paullavellefoun

4 years

Have a good weekend everyone... sometimes you will never know the true value of a moment until it’s a memory 💙

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@paullavellefoun

3 months

The amount of ‘shock’ and ‘surprise’ of what was seen on last night’s programme speaks volumes of where we are in society with the awareness to male abuse victims…..1 in 3 is not a drop in the ocean figure…. Time for change

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

5 years

one final post. Thanks to everyone on here & social media for your support & donations, thanks to friends, our families for months of help, support ... we went on many missions both as a team & solo in our minds but the main goal was our mate, we think we smashed it for him 💙💙

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

1 month

Another year passes … The memories last forever …. Missed beyond words … thoughts to all Paul’s family today 💙💙💙 We keep on keeping the memories alive

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

4 years

Life brings tears, smiles & memories, the tears dry, the smiles fade, but the memories last forever... You gave us them memories mate & you’re still raising our smiles...Happy Birthday... you will always be in our voices 💙💙

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@paullavellefoun

4 years

Our mate ... the best 💙

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

Had a lump in our throats watching Joe … there have been many great team and individual triumphs so far with this foundation but this one today hit something 💙💙💙

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6 years

13 lads & a dog up snowdon, great day, won’t be able to move tomorrow anyone want our season tickets 😂😂

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@paullavellefoun

2 years

We shall be throwing our full support with this day supporting and being a voice for the 1 in 3 victims of domestic abuse

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@paullavellefoun

6 years

Just looking at my book and this piece Lavey did for it, I had asked him for a memory of supporting Everton 💙

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@paullavellefoun

5 years

@NevilleSouthall 😂

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@paullavellefoun

5 years

Big weekend for us, however this is about remembering Paul our tribute to him, a way of keeping him spoken about, helping Paul’s family in some way, the smiles hopefully help, keeping the name of Paul strong, he made smiles, there’s no better tribute than this weekend for Paul 💙

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Paul Lavelle Foundation

@paullavellefoun

2 years

Well after starting yesterday 18.44 hours later at 4am this morning Binxy finished his 53.4 mile 🏃in the Sahara day 4 😳 He has clearly got our messages blowing us kisses to us 😂 would love to know what’s he’s saying tbh truly magnificent mate✊💙

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@paullavellefoun

1 year

Never lose belief 💙NSNO

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5 years

Go ed Binxy 💙

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@paullavellefoun

5 months

This is a harrowing story that hits home hard with us … family & friends please watch for the signs of those close to you and please men if you’re in a similar situation try and speak out as help is there by contacting us

Parents of man stabbed to death by girlfriend 'begged' him to leave

Graham Anderson, from Liverpool, has urged victims of domestic abuse to seek help and support before it's too late after his son Kasey was stabbed to death by an older lover who was twice his age.

www.dailymail.co.uk

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@paullavellefoun

5 years

Absolutely fantastic from @TranmereRovers ... thanks for the support .. let’s hope others can follow their lead 💙

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@paullavellefoun

3 years

Was great to finally have our first trustee meeting after a year in the new hub ... our service is needed our service is working & helping & can help many more... we are here for you, don’t suffer in silence contact us

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@paullavellefoun

4 years

Couple of our lads in New Brighton this morning 🥶 the effects this can have with anxiety & mental health you can read in this link #WorldMentalHealthDay

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@paullavellefoun

5 years

Our mate Binxy is running the London marathon in the name of @ManKindInit to help raise funds for their helpline which helps male domestic abuse victims, he will be doing the run in honour of his great mate Lavey💙

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6 years

Superb write up on Steve’s English Channel swim, he’s now been nominated for a pride of Wirral award, good luck mate ✊️

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2 years

On our way home it’s been a lifetime lasting experience 💙

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6 years

Albufeira with the blues, Goes everywhere with the lads and always will do

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6 years

He made it, base camp Everest, for those of us who know Dave well it’s one huge feat and one he’s always dreamt about hats off mate✊️👏👏👏

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5 years

Happy 18th to this kid today Joe Lavelle... his dad would be very proud of what he’s become with hard work & fight... have a great day from all your mates 💙💙

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@paullavellefoun

4 years

Great to see so many swimming the Mersey today in tough currents and weather ... hats off to our lads too who all hammered it

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2 years

Back to it …🏃good luck to our lads today in Manchester Half marathon ✊💙

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3 years

Good look to Healey Cullen tomorrow, he’s a member of our run club, he’s only 10 but he hammered 5k in 21 mins this week & will represent Wirral at the British cross country event in Sefton Park tomorrow, get them doing the good things in life early doors 🏃

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Two years ago today we started a trip of a lifetime in our mates name, 9 days 100+miles a day, Lands End to John O’Groats an unbelievable experience with unbelievable friends for an unbelievable lad💙

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If we don’t speak out we will never be heard… male domestic abuse victims are continually ignored … 1 in 3 DA victims are male … when we think we are moving forward things take two steps back… we won’t stop this fight .. the ignorance fuels male silence … it has to stop

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5 years

A woman threw a plate at our mate.... he’s not with us now ... we can only forever regret the police never knew when she’d previously assaulted him with a screwdriver as they may have stepped in while he tried protecting her from prosecution

David Fergus🇳🇪

@dave204

5 years

So wait a minute - a woman who appears to be about 5ft 3ins tall, is accused of assaulting her 6ft 4ins tall boyfriend? C'mon - how many women have thrown things at partners in a rage? Surely, the police could have applied common sense here? Feel for her..

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