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I'm a mom and a widow

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@cincyjk
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@fesshole When my previously widowed husband died, I sprinkled some of his ashes on her grave & placed his headstone next to hers. That was also when I took down their wedding picture which had been hanging in our living room since we married. Why be jealous of a dead woman?
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@YeahJu I don’t care who you are, I don’t see how you can’t love Megan. She’s adorable, with a magnetic personality and her voice is amazing. She just seems like she’d be a fun friend and I’m thrilled for her success. I hate concerts, but I’d gladly go to hers.
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@clhubes Never travel without noise canceling headphones. I had a screaming baby one seat in front of me once. The parents tried everything but the baby kept screaming. I had a blissful flight thanks to Bose. I’d give my left kidney to be able to relive those difficult years w/ my son
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2 years
Yes, my husband died alone because of the mandates. I don’t know that I’ll ever be able to let go of that anger.
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Among most people’s worst fears is the fear of dying alone. During COVID, this was mandated by the state.
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3 years
@0ilvla @semaj_htx @WrittenByHanna @SafeToddles Thanks for posting, just bought one for someone on the waitlist.
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3 months
@_celia_bedelia_ @guscost I skipped periods from 16-30. Got pregnant my second month off birth control and had a super smart son who’s never been really sick beyond a cold.
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@NATERERUN I did this in Athens a couple of years ago. It was amazing! You’re so securely strapped in that it’s not scary.
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@taylorsschumann When my son was that age, I just told him that if we crashed and he wasn’t strapped in, he’d fly head first through the windshield and that the glass would rip his face off. He never complained about being strapped in after that.
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@GeebMinister When my mom was found dead in her home, this is what she looked like. The mouth hanging open like that is forever burned into my memory. The public had no business seeing a former president in this condition. Shame on those who allowed this.
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2 years
@troonytoons When my husband died in 2020 (not from Covid), I allowed tissue to be harvested from him. That tweet tells me I made the wrong decision.
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4 months
@VivaldiVril I believe it. It’s either this or put on 300 plus pounds. Anything to try to ensure they won’t be seen as prey by another man ever again.
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@TonyLStewart Love it! Reminds me of the scam caller who would call each day & he and my husband would scream the worst obscenities at each other. When husband had a heart attack, we didn’t answer the phone for several days, and this scammer was absolutely panicked that we were dead. Fun times
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@shawncbrown @fesshole Thanks! I’m actually deliriously happy with another widower. His wife passed 6 months before my husband did, we met 2 years later.
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3 years
@JaylonTheGreat1 @TheRightMelissa I don’t think a degree in necessary, but some college classes are especially useful. My late husband built up a multi million dollar business w/ no college, but he said he’d have built more wealth more quickly had he taken some business & accounting classes.
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@EmmaSzewczak I got my tubes tied because I was done having kids, period. If I’d died, I knew my now deceased husband might want more with the next wife. My dad got a vasectomy, then his wife died, and he and my mom had to use donor sperm to have me.
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@d_la_reina I pro rehabilitation for non violent offenses where rehabilitation or addiction therapy is actually possible. Some people need to be locked up for the duration, and the key thrown away. There is such a thing as evil.
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@Jani__Gee Pretty, but I’m too dumb to tell time without hour indicators.
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3 months
@KeenanPeachy My boy was troubled from 10-14. Bullies, depression, the works. By the grace of God, he got through it and is thriving at 21. He’s now discovering the Bible even. God has blessed me, that’s for sure
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@Radfemfuture I didn’t become a stay at home until my husband put my name on the cars, house, and all bank accounts. In fact, when he died I didn’t have to file the will because my name was on everything already 😭
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@iamrodneysmith When the time for a new van comes, contact me for a donation. I’ve donated before, ready to make another one
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@pettymami99 @NATERERUN The whole table is lifted by a crane. You’re a few stories up, but it’s not skyscraper high. This pic gives a better idea.
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2 years
@JasmineBager @zedonarrival Yes, I’ve met 7, one is not interested. The 7 of us are in a group chat & getting to know each other. The sisters are taking a weekend trip in July, we went last year to meet our biological father, who'd donated his sperm. I’m probably closest to the first brother I found.
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@Nikitalodeon Once you RSVP, you need to be dead or in a coma for me to forgive a no call/no show. Sorry this happened to you. The food looks amazing though!
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@kaylamellis_ One of my favorite childhood memories was telling my mom I was in the mood for some radishes. At 10pm. She went out to the garden with her flashlight, picked several, cleaned them and served them to me. My parents did things like that all the time, and I always felt special.
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2 years
@zedonarrival I found out I’m pretty much 100% Northern European, but I also found 8 surprise half siblings (so far), so there's that.
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2 years
@JesseKellyDC Yup. My husband died alone in the hospital and no services allowed because of the lockdowns.
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@hartgoat I have a gold Cartier Panthier, a gold Tank, a ladies gold Rolex DateJust & a men’s gold President Day/Date. I wear them for my own enjoyment. If complimented on them, I just say thanks & keep it moving. This woman is just an asshole & a show off.
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@Timothy96231253 @clhubes The poor parents tried everything to calm the kid the entire flight, I could tell they were frazzled & embarrassed. I told them they’re going to blink & the kid will be grown, so savor every moment, even the rough ones, & boohoo to those who hadn’t brought headphones like mine!
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@CaryKelly11 I’m friends with a manager. The butter served with the bread is whipped salted butter. Their finishing sauce on steaks is a blend of soybean oil. If you ask for “ cooked in butter only, no oil”, it’d come from block butter, which is salted butter.
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@more_meat_loaf Remember the girl whose embarrassed dad gave her an older, beat up car and she lost her mind over how much she loved it? Looks like the same girl! Anyway, nice to know this man realizes he’s basically the richest man on earth. I feel the same about my son, he’s everything.
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@ropirito I’m 52, a widow, retired, empty nester, both parents dead. Life has never been more fun. I travel abroad 3-6 times per year, golf, and play euchre often.
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@Rae_209 @EmmaSzewczak No, I married a widower. He had a child with me after losing a wife. Made sense to me that if I died, he’d remarry and have more. Plus, that’s what happened to my dad. Men usually can’t stand being alone, and they’re willing to have kids at an older age if the new wife wants one.
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@LaGrecca333 My husband died due to the Covid lockdowns, not from Covid, and my voting record will reflect that fact until the day I die. Never forget!
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1 year
@Aella_Girl @wil_da_beast630 Don’t use porn as a tutorial. We can tell. That’s generally not what we like or how we like it.
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2 years
@EmeraldRobinson To be fair, my then 65 y/o husband flatlined & was rushed to the hospital after a massive heart attack, had a massive stroke 3 days later, and still came home on day 7 and was at about 95%, back to 100% within a week. Also was at UC hospital.
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@OldRowSwig @Cernovich My parents' lives revolved around me, but they were broke. I had to make it on my own. I wanted better for any kids I had, so I carefully chose my husband. He was successful & I made him more so. Before he died, we’d set aside $250k for our son's future. My son has breathing room
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@KityLonglegs Very normal but never say never. I swore I’d never live with anyone after my husband died. Then I had water damage & stayed with my boyfriend during renovations, and I doubt I’ll go home. He’s super easy to live with.
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@CeliaBedelia I’d be thrilled to try to soothe an upset baby on a flight. Otherwise, I’ll just put on my noise canceling headphones and sleep through the screams. Young uns can be stressful? But parents who survived are happy to help
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@MattPaulsonSD I loved shopping when I was broke, it was the thrill of the bargain hunt, the dreaming of what I couldn’t afford. Now I can afford anything, and I HATE shopping! I walk into a store and it’s an immediate turn off. The thrill is gone. I spend on travel instead.
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3 years
@CassandraRules Ducks don’t scare me, their round beaks are less likely to peck out your eyeball. It’s the rest you have to be wary of.
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3 years
@BrandAdalia For kicks, I bought some in Ecuador while there on vacation. $2 for the box.
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1 year
@thecindynoir I married a successful man. I insisted that my name be added to everything before we wed, from accounts to cars to the house. My biggest fear was being left with nothing if he left, or being trapped if I wanted to leave.
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@d_la_reina After being widowed, I encountered a few guys who were uncomfortable with my wealth, & that I didn’t have to work. One guy enjoyed being the sugar daddy type & couldn’t stand that I had more sugar than him. I loved his leased car so much I bought one for cash, that killed his ego
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@KaeleyT Both my late husband and my current boyfriend paid for every date, neither expected any sort of heightened femininity from me. I don’t wear makeup, I don’t style my hair, and I tend to wear men's button up shirts. I even wear a men's Rolex. I’m also bossy and prone to cussing.
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5 years
@BillOReilly Please don’t describe a black person as articulate. I’m the most non-PC person around, but this always makes me cringe.
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@Rae_209 @EmmaSzewczak I always joked that if I died, he’d find his next wife at my funeral. It was nothing personal, he just was never single from the time he turned 18. On the other hand, I loved being single & swore I’d never marry. He charmed the pants off me when I was 30.
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@juicyarista There’s not a man on earth cute enough to make me want to buy him dinner, or even split the check for that matter. If you want my company, you need to feed me. Otherwise, I'm quite happy to dine with a friend or go alone.
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@LadieLabrys I’ve never worn makeup. I don’t think I need it, plus I have sensitive skin. I like never worrying if I smudged something on my face or left a stain on clothing. Plus, it’s too time consuming, which is the same reason why I also wear my curly hair straight.
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@hoeswitharose My late husband did this, kept quiet while the business was suffering. Once I found out, I made it my mission to right the ship. I took over all finances even though he was the one working. It took 2 years, but we came out the other side better & richer than ever. He was humbled
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@y4p3in Yeah, my boyfriend owns a large, successful business. He’s swamped with people wanting to connect via LinkedIn
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@SonnieJohnson My family comes from the coal mines of Pennsylvania, so it’s hillbilly for me.
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1 year
@Slatzism I wouldn’t have had to ask. My boyfriend would’ve exclaimed how good his was and asked me to take a bite so I could see for myself.
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@Cernovich I focus on my immediate surroundings. Any relatives that are struggling, close friends. A sister runs a charity (for free) to give clothes to foster kids. I buy them clothes. I helped a friend buy a house. I can’t save everyone, but I can help my loved ones.
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@TheRavinMaven1 @7thDean @JohnDParody It can be a bit much as is. I squeeze out about an inch onto parchment paper then freeze it. Goes down easier frozen with less aftertaste.
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@d_la_reina I love my boyfriend because I’ll do something crazy & he’ll say “I love that you’re so crazy!”
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@R_Spann08 @NATERERUN No, they actually served a multi course meal. I believe my ticket was maybe $200, and the food was what I would have expected at a regular high end restaurant, plus free wine. Lots of bang for the buck.
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@napoleon21st The vendors are aggressive, like in Egypt, but it’s not scary. I felt safe there. The key with the vendors is to act like you can’t hear or see them. Don’t respond to them at all or acknowledge them. Having a local guide helps.
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@SparksIgniteYou @VivaldiVril I’ve seen enough episodes of My 600lb Life to know that 99% of the time, extreme obesity is due to sexual assault in childhood or young adulthood. The other 1% is from extreme parental neglect, like leaving the kid w/ neighbors & disappearing for months on end.
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@ProudGayPatriot And that seems to be the whole point now.
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@miacockucci I get dry eyes while I sleep but fish oil supplements and vitamin A have mostly resolved it
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@proetrie After my husband died, I was going on 3-4 dates a week, I sometimes had a lunch date then a dinner date, but back to back is too much. I figured casting a wide net would increase my chances of finding the right guy. I wound up meeting him a year ago tomorrow as I dined alone.
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@Juicycewchee @KevOffStage @R_Spann08 @NATERERUN Someone in our seating had to pee, so we were gently lowered, then lifted again once they returned.
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@CeleneHawthorne @AKBrews As long as you don’t have little kids picking at the paint, and you don’t disturb the asbestos, it’s not so bad.
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@OutdoorFinance My boyfriend and I are going next month. I told him I’ll be carrying his phone & wallet. He can be oblivious at times, whereas I’m always on guard for pickpockets.
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@texanfeminist23 My dad made a slightly negative, off-handed comment about a dish my mom made. In 1968. My dad died in 2000, and my mom was still hurt about it in 2018. Smack talking something a woman does out of love for her man is often as damaging as a slap across the face.
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@Sophia_in_NYC Now that you mention it, you’re right. Peter Bergman acts like his life depends on it. Never phones it in. The rest act like their daddy owns the company and they can’t be fired, and they’d rather be napping.
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@she2juicyx @NATERERUN I’m also scared of heights.
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@TX_Bruce @robjh1 With my dad, I just learned to play along, it calmed him down. Like when he thought the neighbors were plotting against him, I said I’d called the police & had them all arrested. When he thought he won the lottery, I asked what he was going to buy w/ his winnings.
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@collnsmith At Sundance, I like the Leia pants and shorts. That’s all I wear when I travel. Colorful patterns, I pair with a coordinating tshirt and wear a coordinating long sleeve gauze shirt if it’s a little cooler. I get lots of compliments. I have them in orange, red, blue, purple.
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@fandaflames I was a housewife who was widowed at 48. I had to build my social life from scratch. I joined a women's group in my area that has almost 200 members, and it was a game changer! I’m always busy with book club, euchre, lunches, and other assorted activities.
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@CanFreedomLover @homemakinghunny They were all adults when I was born, so we’ve never been close. I later found out I'd been donor conceived and have since found 10 half siblings closer to my age. 😳
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@LaurenWitzkeDE It’s a matter of training and working out. My sister in law is a cop who is always training to be able to overpower the bad guy
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@d_la_reina Went to a wedding in Utah. Spent each evening drinking in the bar at the Marriot. It’s not forbidden, just more restricted.
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@fineassnayyyy It’s like a light switch flips off. I once dropped a best friend for 18 years, a sister for 20, and a brother for 25. No arguments, I was just DONE. Back on good terms with all now, but they know to tread lightly.
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@DonwanOlasa @EmmaSzewczak It’s fine. I had 18 wonderful years with him, got a beautiful son out of it, and am now in love again and living a blissful life.
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I’m in tears! I worked my butt off to get my 1st house at 21, & today I bought my 21 y/o son his first house. God is good! I don’t know what I did to deserve him, I’m so blessed!
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@mrgnbrmll They should’ve waved that requirement for the hurricane. When my son would travel from age 18 until he turned 21, he had to use AirBnB because he couldn’t get a room anywhere.
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@ChronicallyTati @clhubes I travel with Bose headphones and Apple AirPods. I find the AirPods don’t block out screams. I tend to use them once at my destination, or in one ear if I’m in a lay flat seat, sleeping on my side. Otherwise it’s Bose.
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@DonwanOlasa @EmmaSzewczak No, I meant “now deceased”. He died in 2020.
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@d_la_reina My then 74 y/o dad would drive an hour each way to mow my yard “so my baby doesn’t have to”. I was 22.
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@CWBChicago The penalty should be double when it involves home health aides. Disgusting.
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@FischerKing64 I refer to an extreme amount of extra weight as a rape bubble. It’s an outward sign of childhood trauma, usually sexual. The food offers comfort, and the weight is meant to act as a deterrent for predators.
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@Cernovich I told my husband he looked grey to me for months, he pooh pooped me - and then he had a massive heart attack.
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@SophNar0747 When my son was little and wouldn’t listed to my “guidance”, a threat to call Santa stopped him in his tracks every time.
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@Dreadful4Tymes My son threw up exactly two times as a kid, and he never spit up or had a blow out diaper. Cried only when wet or hungry, slept from 8pm-noon from 4 months. I never had to discipline him, & he was loved by his teachers. Kids can be a blessing.
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@luinalaska I’d have tapped out when he called me cursing. Had that not happened, I’d have tapped out when I realized he’d lied about his height, and definitely when he wouldn’t take no for an answer. Instead of finding his car, she should've gotten a police escort to hers.
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@AniseNot My dad's three wives could have passed for triplets. When looking through family photos, I know it’s the first two of the pic is black and white, and it’s my mom if it’s in color.
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@NonSociopath @rohindhar Mine's beachfront with an indoor and an outdoor pool, nice fitness center, and it’s not quite $1700 a month. I decided I wasn’t using it enough so I listed last month. Sold it in a day. Almost doubled my 2018 purchase price.
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@michaeljknowles Couples that devoted who are together that long often pass within hours of each other. He strikes me as the kind of man who's forcing himself to hang in there a little longer so as not to overshadow her passing.
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@yaydumpsterfire @taylorsschumann A the mom of a high school classmate had that happen to her. She flew through the windshield, her face did not. I already always wore my seatbelt, but that made me a fanatic about it.
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@d_la_reina She’d also be welcome to his ashes. I don’t have space in my house for the remains of a cheater.
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@SicarioScott It strongly resembles my Sig Sauer P238s. I couldn’t decide which I liked better, so I bought both
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@OldHollowTree Beautiful! A friend of mine is facing a public family & political battle. Her WWII vet grandpa just died and the massive acreage he had always planned to donate as a park - people swooped in as he was dying and had the will changed and it’s all becoming very ugly. It’s awful
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@Cernovich I’ve never been happier in my life. When bad stuff happens, I laugh it off and say “at least xxx (insert extreme catastrophe here) didn’t happen!” Why wallow in misery? Envelop yourself in all the good! I’ve got my health, I’m not destitute, my son is happy, that’s what matters!
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@JebraFaushay I’m a widow. I also think the term trans widow is appropriate.
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@sweatystartup My mom did something similar to me in 1978. It’s one of my most vivid childhood memories. This is borderline abuse.
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@EttaJames123_ @fesshole It was a casual wedding, so it just looked like a pic taken at a business function. It was also an amazing picture of her, so I insisted it stay. I think her kids (they had none together) appreciated it being up.
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@scrowder My sister-in-law trains like her life depends on it - because it does. She would’ve easily laid this guy out. My brother posts these videos & points out how proper training would’ve led to better results w/ both male & female cops. Too many get complacent.
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@GadSaad Luckiest day of my life was finding a dog just like the one on the left in a shelter. Fully trained, smarter than me, and just the most glorious dog to ever exist. She passed almost 30 years ago, I still think of her daily.
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