I'm missing my absolute favorite day in my neighborhood for a jaunt to Governor’s Island. If you don't have plans, get yourself to Fort Greene Park stat for the Great Pupkin, artisan fair and other amazing doings. You will not regret it!
@JeanneHoffa
It doesn’t sound like a cold. It sounds like his voice has run ragged from debate prep. It’s the mumbling, trailing off, swallowing words and forgetting what he’s saying that’s freaking me out. Everything he’s saying is true, though.
There are four writers—two of them popular on Twitter—who have been extraordinarily shitty to me in person. I’ve decided to write each one of them into my books, and you can guess who they are. And that, my friends, is how you get people to read your work!
It has been 137 days since I’ve given or received a hug. Being single has many privileges but living alone during a pandemic and feeling largely forgotten by people with families is not one of them. Hello, I am depressed.
Have you ever heard a man asked why he didn't report his priest for sexually abusing him as an altar boy? Or why he waited so long to say anything? No, you haven't. Because men believe men. Despite the fact that a majority of predators are men.
BREAKING: Employees at the Little, Brown imprint of Hachette Book Group have staged a walk-out in protest of the company’s acquisition of Woody Allen's forthcoming memoir. This story is developing.
@mkonnikova
@catdl
At the belly button there's a door that the baby opens. When it's time for the baby to exit, the mother simply rings the doorbell. I can explain it further when we next hang out.
I guess it’s official and can announce?
@AdamSandler
is making my 2005 Young Adult novel “You are SO Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah!” (written under the pseudonym Fiona Rosenbloom) into a movie for
#netflix
thanks to
@evelyngfrick
for her super fandom! (Yes, it will be updated!)
I’ve just started this book and I can’t stop talking or thinking about it. Please buy it, read it and spread the word. Not only is in an important topic, it’s a fantastic book.
What if in addition to receiving gifts on our birthdays, we gave gifts? We gave gifts to our loved ones, we gave gifts to the world. On this my birthday, I’m proud to say
#HowToBeAnAntiracist
is available wherever books are sold.
The best way to explain anxiety is to take the fear you feel now about the Coronavirus and imagine experiencing this every single day without a discernible threat. That’s us. That’s me, since I was 2 years old. That’s why I’m doing well. This is my wheelhouse.
#Coronanxiety
And now this: a newsletter. PITCH: An uncredentialed layperson uses her personal, lifelong battle with anxiety to introduce others to a variety of therapeutic modalities, historical figures, and concepts in psychology well known to those with credentials and medical degrees.
I’ve had a panic disorder since I was an infant. This pandemic is the sort of scenario I’ve been afraid of my whole life. Consequently, I’ve been preparing for it my entire life. This is why anxious people are doing okay and others are not. Ask us questions. We can help you.
Is anyone else tired like they’ve never been tired before? It’s 6:26pm and I can barely keep my eyes open. I feel like I swallowed the world’s stress and just want to sleep.
After much hemming and hawing, I have decided to blog twice a week about anxiety and panic. I'm trying for Tuesdays and Thursdays. May it last more than a week. Go have a look!
@reshamkarfa
Talking about it. When you tell people about what you’re working on, you get rewarded for work you haven’t yet done. Delay your gratification and get rewarded for the work you’ve already done!
It's true, our kids are in crisis, and it's urgent.
It's also true, that while this is news, it isn't new.
They've been struggling for decades. And so have we.
Read today's "How to Live" newsletter on what I learned and what we can do to help.
YOU ARE SO NOT INVITED TO MY BAT MITZVAH comes to
@netflix
on August 25th, 2023!
Starring: Sunny Sandler, Sadie Sandler, Adam Sandler, Jackie Sandler, Idina Menzel and others!!
FIONA ROSENBLOOM=AMANDA STERN.
This just in! My book was chosen as the best book of 2018 by a little boy in Boston who knows one word. “Was Little Panic your favorite book of 2018?” I asked him. “Yesh.” He said. Done and done.
If every person who watched a certain movie, bought a copy of the book it's based on (
#youaresonotinvitedtomybatmitzvah
), it would make the NYT's Bestsellers list, which means every buyer could say they made someone a New York Times Bestseller!
The last six weeks, my doctors, and 4 radiologists, and I thought I had lung cancer. My biopsy was April 3rd. NO CANCER. They don’t yet know what I have, but after 5 months of sickness, coupled with 6 straight weeks of fear, I’M TAKING THE REST OF TODAY OFF CUZ I’M TIRED.
#inbed
I gave a talk at the West Hampton synagogue on Thursday and I think I’m losing my game because it took THREE DAYS before one of the women emailed to say she had someone to set me up with.
Thank you kind strangers who saw my tweet quoted in
@JenSeniorNY
’s
@nytimes
piece and are now sending me all sorts of glorious virtual hugs. May you live forever.
I thought the reporters traveling with Kamala might be a little lonely given that she never answers questions from them, so I figured I’d come say hello and check out my new plane while I was at it.
Hi. I am devastated by the misogyny in this country. Do not comment if you disagree. I honestly cannot bear to hear it right now. “Elizabeth Warren, Once a Front-Runner, Will Drop Out of Presidential Race - The New York Times”
@MarieMyungOkLee
Years ago, a now famous author was egregiously rude to me at a party. I heard someone ask if she’d met me. The famous author said, “No, and I’m dying to read at Happy Ending!” (My reading series.) When the guy pointed to me, her face dropped and I smiled, waved. Never booked her.
I tried flirting again tonight. Very handsome man in CVS with a cute dog. I bent down to pet the dog and when I stood up, I realized the man looked familiar. “I know you,” I said. He looked at me, smiled, and said “I’m your doctor.”
Damn, this really resonates with me today.
@NedraTawwab
is always able to organize the jumble of feelings and thoughts that tumble through us and organize, edit and offer them back, succinct and spot on.
#nedranuggets
If I had known how popular depression tweets were, I’d have live-tweeted through my darkest days. Thank you everyone for commenting and helping me out of bed. I feel your love and send mine to you.
@LisaSelinDavis
I believe I was the “middle aged woman wearing a loose fitting mask.”
If efforts by people with underlying conditions to protect themselves during a Covid spike makes you change your political party, it’s not the mask that’s the problem—it’s your lack of empathy or compassion.
I don’t know what happened, but I’m shocked and deeply saddened to hear that
@gabehudson
died. I didn’t know him well, but he was lovely and kind, and a hell of a writer. This is just terrible.
I knew it was bad news when there were no updates but somehow I did not think he would die. Luke Perry, you will always be my teenaged heartthrob.
#LukePerry
#condolences
We shared a limo, we hosted an event, we had a giggle and some real conversation, and I’ve never forgotten how deeply seen I felt in his company. RIP Paul. 💔
“Why Write?,” by Paul Auster | The New Yorker
14 years ago, I was the Mistress of Ceremonies at Paul La Farge’s wedding. This weekend I officiated his memorial.
Life is short.
Tell your people WHY you love them, not just that they are loved.
@Tim_Denning
Perhaps you should take to heart what Jung says about how people judge because thinking is hard. You’re judging people for being “losers” because you misunderstand what “work-life balance” and “self-care” means. You have some work to do, my friend.
Is there a name for the sadness and depression that washes over you at the first beautiful day after a long winter? The sounds of kids playing, the jingle of the ice cream truck, the expansiveness of the sun, the longer stretch of day, it all makes me sad, and I need a name.
@monaeltahawy
Well, wait a minute...before you get too stringent about this, maybe we should have
@realDonaldTrump
do a live demonstration of what he’s suggesting?
One of the best episodes of The Daily I’ve ever heard, and I’ve heard them all. Not just because I learned even more about Sondheim but because I learned about
@JesseKGreen
who feels (and sounds) like a friend-in-waiting. HIGHLY REC’D
You ever go on a date with someone and the second you hear their voice you know this will never work and need the date to end immediately? I’m on that date right now.
A wonderful intro to my beloved, brilliant friend Paul La Farge who, inexplicably, shockingly and without anyone’s blessing, passed away this week at the age of 52.
His email sign-off inviting friends to dinner: “Even if I saw you last week, it's been too long.” God, I miss him
One of my oldest friends, the novelist Paul La Farge, died this week. He was the charismatic and loving center of a vibrant group of writers and creatives for almost 30 years, and a great writer himself, especially about the secret and the strange.
1/3
@mdbell79
Agreed. A good host sets the right tone with an author. A great host sets the right tone with the author and the audience. If you’re smiling and jovial, the audience knows they too can be smiling and jovial.
On Facebook a friend sends me a photo of a man reading my book on the subway. A week later a different friend emails me a photo of the same man reading my book on the subway. I post both photos on Instagram and a different friend comments: “oh my God, that’s Rod!”
A while back I bought a small bowl at a stoop sale. $2. I love it. It makes me happy. So I finally looked at the bottom for identifying marks. It says Homer Laughlin China, which I thought meant “Made in China. “NOPE. Guys! My $2 mixing bowl costs $325. BECAUSE IT’S CHINA.
Global quarantine to an introvert is the dream we’ve all fantasied about. What we didn’t foresee was the constant demand to communicate on Zoom, email, text and phone. I’m exhausted. Introverts with kids, I feel for you so hard.
My brother had dinner with the Dalai Lama last night. I ate half my friend’s baked potato and watched an episode of the Bachelor. Pretty sure I’m winning.