@Kharrotie
I donโt even know how you can ride comfortably with someone for so many months and not offer a cent? Iโd be so embarrassedโฆI even offer to pay for someoneโs Uber if Iโm asking them to leave their house and hang out with me. Please reconsider giving her a lift, sorry not sorry๐
Dating people who donโt really like you / love you must be one of the most humiliating and heartbreaking experiences everโฆbecause can you imagine being genuinely in love with someone and they are unsure / embarrassed about you๐
@Buhlenomuhle
My dadโs family tried this with my mother and she showed them dustโฆtill to this day the mere mention of her name scares the shit out of themโฆitโs been over 20 years๐
@TheeOnly_Shadi
Nikhohlakele. Some people have become orphans, some homes are abusive, some people donโt have homes anymore, some people canโt afford to go home, some people have to work, some people are depressed, suicidal, etc. No amount of social skills can cure / fix that. Be kinder.
@courtleighxl
Guys it really is okay not to like / prefer someoneโs looks and appearancesโฆjust scroll past their content, block or mute it. This angle of commenting and subjecting them to be laughed at, bullied and ridiculed on social media isnโt the way to go. People have feelings too
@Mrd_drops
Everyone just get on PrEP. Wena single, wena married, wena one night stand, wena fling, wena friends with benefitsโฆwena everything. Yes, there are some side effects but what else is the alternative? And yes condoms exist but thereโs a possibility it might breakโฆso what else?๐ฉ
@astoldbykea
After he said yes I wouldโve been like itโs not going to work outโฆI wouldnโt have even asked how many๐. As a person who doesnโt have kids yet I donโt want to overwhelm myself responsibilities that Iโm not ready forโฆcall me immature or whatever but thatโs how it is, sorry๐
@Neo52403448
The โgirlfriendโ also needs to do some introspection if sheโs going to fight with the father of child for giving the mother money for their daughter. And MOST IMPORTANTLY she needs to assess the principles and morals of a man who doesnโt support his child! Sheโs no exception๐คก
@Dr_Shiyaklenga
๐๐๐ asoze if someone ever said anything like that to me Iโd never look in their direction againโฆmy pride is stronger than my feelings๐ค๐ฝ
@Manqoba_Mbuli
And people will think youโre being paranoid or that youโre traumatised or that you havenโt healed but youโre actually trying to be realistic and cautious because people move funny๐
@NGOBAMAKHOS
This is why I absolutely hate men who hide that they have girlfriends / wives because some women will really go the extra mile for amadoda wabo and then an innocent persons suffers. Yes sometimes the lady may know sheโs messing with a taken / married man but some donโt๐ฃ
@frwontou
Some of these comments are so awfulโฆif you donโt like how someoneโs body looks itโs okay to keep quiet because Iโm sure thereโs a feature you donโt like about yourself that you wouldnโt want people to point out. This body shaming and bullying isnโt it in 2023? No man JUST STOP!
@nanaherself_
-Donโt procrastinate
-Donโt skip classes and tuts
-Take notes/record lectures
-Start assignments on time
-Study smart and hard
-Get 70+ for modules youโll need it for bursaries if you want to study further
-Get enough sleep
-Have a routine
-Make good friends.
Good luck๐๐คฉ
@maphili26
That prayer โGod please reveal all those who do not wish me well, who laugh and talk behind my back and pretend to be my loving friendsโ eyona le
@Tokyo_Trev
Iโm unforgiving! I feel that if you had a choice not to hurt me but you did because it benefited you in that moment, then you wonโt find me forgiving you. This goes for friendships and family. Iโm also very dismissive and wonโt resolve an issue for the sake of peace๐
@mabumdluliii
This is why I honestly decided to stay home and travel. Luckily for me I only attended classes Tuesday to Thursday for both my undergrad and postgrad studies. I saved so much money and didnโt have to stress about finding accommodation each year๐
@Thee_Cherri
You guys love giving the spiritual world unnecessary drama. What is this? Why would you do that? Does it make sense that a baby in the spirit world eats once a year? This is why people end up insulting and ridiculing traditional healers and spiritual practices and beliefs. Fok๐ค
@Fifzo_Mat
@astoldbykea
Not all of us have the burning desire to get married and have childrenโฆweโre perfectly fine without either one or both actually๐ซข
@sanelenkosix
This is why you should never drag your partner on social media if you guys fall out because now when you want to fix things and get back together you feel like you must hide things because of your irrational and clownery behaviour. Also that CF list must be reevaluated asap๐ฅด
@E_Thokozile
I actually enjoyed his content very muchโฆit was relevant, relatable and realistic๐ค๐ฝ. And honestly thereโs nothing wrong with his job. Itโs an honest living, pays the bills, he has accomodation, a furnished place, clothes etc. and he bothers no one. May he be blessed with more๐คฉ
@JayFromVenda
This is what they mean when they say โigazi lomuntu liyakulumaโโฆ.if he hadnโt confessed no one wouldโve known what actually happenedโฆbut eventually he wouldโve begun to go crazy๐ค๐ฝ
@chikopiter
LOL eyyyy bakithi take your family sentiments somewhere else pleaseโฆthereโs a very valid reason as to why I worded it like that! Have yourself a good evening๐ซก
@WireWire83
They end up earning those type of titles based on how they mistreat people. You donโt treat people like rubbish and expect them to associate and acknowledge you as family.
@JacLimpo
@TheeOnly_Shadi
Itโs very easy to speak from a point of privilege, whereby you still have friends, family and a home to go to, many people donโt have that. Even then donโt ever judge or look down on others because you think it wonโt happen to you. The world can be very unpredictable and unkind๐คง
@Fifzo_Mat
@astoldbykea
The problem starts with you thinking that someoneโs purpose must be tied down to a marriage, having children and having a 9 to 5 job. There are many more beautiful and wonderful things to aspire to than that. Marriage and kids arenโt a pedestal Iโd base my value and purpose on๐คญ
@Katli_T
I donโt understand women who do this? Like what is the reason? Do you know how shattering this can be for another person? Disgusting behaviour to say the least๐คง
@Ketso28
This can only happen when you NEVER had a calling and were never chosen to heal people and their bloodlinesโฆif you are really gifted and chosen to heal? Uzobona amasimbaโฆalso ubongoma isnโt a group project, itโs not a one size fits allโฆfor some bazokala for some they wonโt
@cwengs_
Ibuhlungu lento ngicela nifunde ukubuyisela abantu imali zaboโฆdonโt ever downplay the fact that they may need it back urgentlyโฆnow her sister has suffered because you were being inconsiderate
@VideosVuvu
These were the good old days where simple things like a cake and cold drink gave you best time of your life with friends and family on your birthdayโฆabsolutely love this๐ฅนโค๏ธ
@ReabetsweMoko17
Yes even in 2 hours!โฆbecause no one would post someone with a romantic intention hoping to be laughed at and posted on social media to be made fun of. She easily couldโve asked him to take it down and not post the conversation/response on Twitter of all places for us to see
@Ntombizamama
Mina whatโs dusting me is that they are actually in the car with them?! At first I was lost then I saw the seats facing the other way and Iโm like heeeeh?! This thing is actually happening in the moment๐ญ๐saba abo โit shouldnโt have been her it shouldโve been meโ girls๐
@LadyLionSA
Yes itโs very possibleโฆhappened to me many years ago. It started off here on Twitter, then it went to BBM eventually WhatsApp too. We spoke everyday like the best of friends and when we met they were even in more perfect in personโค๏ธ
@SlevinDlamini_
Waโkhipa izinbaba and secrets of her mother in law and the one daughterโฆzakala from there onwardsโฆngoba yeeeeey nabo they were very scheming people
@lekoloanemanam2
Iโd rather stay single until I feel like I can afford to be in a relationship. We must be honest relationships require money. Also no one is in their best moods or best selves if they are broke and stressed about money. Also I donโt want to inconvenience someone else๐
@LollyMkunqwana
@astoldbykea
I still wouldnโt date someone with a child / children regardless of how good and loving the man will be, itโs as simple as thatโฆitโs just a preference, please just leave it at that, all this explaining and convincing isnโt going to change my mind๐ . Have a great Sunday๐ธ
@MDNnewss
Sheโs unnecessarily dramaticโฆshe wasnโt ever going to get the exact same look as the lady in the videoโฆhead shape / circumferenceโฆthe braiders techniqueโฆthe brand of fibre usedโฆthe thickness of the braidsโฆthe spacing between the linesโฆI could go on and on
@mihletshemese
We tried this once in 2020 during Covid with an ex friendโฆweeeeh we almost died bandlaโฆher man came there with a gun (he was Zulu man, with kabi vibes)โฆnina? If it hadnโt been for uMabaso? We probably wouldโve been dead that day. Sometimes itโs best to leave izindaba zabantu๐ญ
@Matema_
I definitely think being on PrEP and staying on it regardless of the state of your relationship is the only option. Itโs easier to control and monitor yourself than someone elseโฆbecause this goes to show how people can hide things from regardless of HOW long youโve known them!
@CarlynHastings
@Kharrotie
Thatโs definitely something Iโd do tooโฆyouโre an amazing person๐ค. Itโs just so unfortunate how people can be so inconsiderate?! I mean itโs a door to door pick up and drop off, something a taxi wonโt do for you but you refuse to compensate someone? Or thank them with anything?
@Babybonnieee
-Our parents were right
-Everything is expensive
-Your 20s are stressful
-Itโs okay if things donโt go your way
-You really are your biggest investment
-Sometimes you just have to cry yourself to sleep and figure it out in the morning
-Must be kinder and forgiving to yourself
@SamL17401277
The only thing my dad doesnโt have is the heightโฆbut in terms of looks, qualifications, money and cars? Excellent example๐๐ค๐ฝ
@tsakani_sheen
My temper and Iโm very unforgiving. I donโt like to mend / fix relationships that are falling apart, I donโt like giving second chances and Iโm very quick to cut people off (friends and family).
@SamkeloS___
The fear of regretโฆI donโt ever want to feel like Iโm the one who fumbled myself from being the greatest version of myself. If I ever had to give up on something it had to be because Iโve exhausted all and any options available and thereโs literally nothing left that I can do
@SiphoSensimbi
Everyone needs to be arrested, the mother and ALL those clients who consented to a minor touching their private area. This child is being exposed to conditions that are not appropriate and acceptable for her ageโฆJAIL EVERYONE WITH IMMEDIATE EFFECT!๐คฌ๐คฌ๐คฌ
@innocent_mpofu
@TheeOnly_Shadi
Kuzolunga. One day you will have an opportunity to make your own. May it be a blessed, happy, loved, healthy and wholesome family๐ฅน๐๐ฝ
@mankunkunku
@TheeOnly_Shadi
Excuses? Clearly youโve never experienced traumatic experiences in such a way that theyโve left you scarred for life that youโre so scared of trusting people, trying things and places. Keep quiet if youโve never experienced that wena Mr Perfect! Go be delusional elsewhere. Bye๐๐ฝโโ๏ธ
@lindz_malindz
โMy boyfriendโ thatโs where your biggest problem isโฆhow is another man that is married and that youโve seen being with his wife your boyfriend?
@TomiRikhotso
Itโs actually quite disturbingโฆit portrays signs of jealousy, envy and hate. Why would you want to take someoneโs bread away simply because they had a different opinion/view on something and you didnโt like it? Us black people are our own worst enemies๐ค๐ฝ