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VioletD
1 year
My husband called from the airport yesterday coughing and said that his eyes were red. Said it was "just a cold." I demanded that he stay overnight at a rental and take a same-day PCR in town today. He just tested positive and is mad at me for "being right."
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1 year
My 82-year-old mother is going to restaurants, movies, PT, etc. and has ditched her mask. I quit. I cannot save these people from themselves.
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1 year
@amethystarlight I wish. I'm just relieved that he agreed to take the PCR, stay out there, and not come near me. I'm immensely grateful that he didn't have to fight for his life at the ER last night. Wouldn't wish that on anyone, no matter how careless they've been.
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VioletD
1 year
@Silver_Lining76 No, Becka, it's much worse than a cold. Educate yourself.
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VioletD
1 year
I finally went to my GP for the first time in five years wearing goggles and an Aura N95. He said,"That's a little overkill, don't you think?" To which I replied, "I was going to wear a PAPR." He had no idea what a PAPR is, and of course I told him more than he wanted to hear.
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VioletD
2 months
My brother-in-law who is a multi-millionaire just returned from Hawaii with four kids. He suspects that they have Covid, but he won't test because he "doesn't want to know."
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VioletD
10 months
What do you say to someone who's been brainwashed into thinking that the pandemic is over and is trying to force their way into your home for the holidays?
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VioletD
1 year
@StillMask Sigh is right. I just hope that he avoids acquiring the post-infection rage.
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1 year
🧵My husband's parents died within weeks of each other last December. No tests were taken, no masks were worn prior to their deaths. Their ashes are being scattered next Sunday with elderly family members from around the country flying in to stay at the same house.1/
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VioletD
1 year
Ok, so Madonna was found unresponsive in NYC on Saturday, and we're just hearing about this now? And her story is buried under many other stories on NBC. Strangeness at its finest.
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VioletD
1 year
So what are we going to do when all executive function is lost, and anger takes over? I'm seeing this, and it concerns me.
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VioletD
1 year
Oh, if you guys didn't get the memo...he tested positive yesterday.
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VioletD
1 year
All trust lost. My husband just went out for a 2+mile walk around the neighborhood without a mask on.
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VioletD
10 months
Professors are telling students testing positive for Covid to come in and take their final exams at the uni anyway. Parents are supporting this decision.
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VioletD
24 days
Being a Mom is a thankless job, especially with Covid. 🙌🙌🙌 to the Moms who are still taking precautions! Love and see you all!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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22 days
@jubunnies This is becoming unbearable. I'm the crazy conspiracy theorist if I mention any scientific evidence. They're going out without a care in the world. But are they truly happy? No. Are they the same people they were before the pandemic? No. Hang in there, Julie. 👊💜🫂
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VioletD
8 months
Seeing friends and family who have been so careful all along jumping ship. I feel the tug as well, but there's no way that I'd go out now with my entire family sick this past week with "the flu." Any encouragement would be greatly appreciated.
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VioletD
1 year
This feels like a sucker punch after many sucker punches. I have tried my best, employing the guidelines many have suggested, but to no avail. 3/
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VioletD
4 months
A big FUCK YOU ⁦ @ashishkjha ⁩ and ⁦ @NPR ⁩ for serving up the biggest pile of ableist bullshit to turn my YOLOing family even more against me for continuing to wear a mask and take precautions. Immunity from previous infections? No mention of LC.
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VioletD
1 year
@neglectsound This has proven to be a problem. Men can be sick show emotion, etc. I know some but very few.
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VioletD
1 year
Despite my many pleas and attempts to educate my husband, he is going along with his brothers' agenda to let er rip. No tests will be taken, no masks will be worn. 2/
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1 year
@squirrelpalooza We don't and never will. Even in the thick of it, at a big research university when my daughter got it. I needed to jump in and pretend to be a doctor. No quarantine procedures at a VERY large university. We needed to have a united effort with protocols in place.
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1 year
@cdtwriter Thank you! I'm nervous even with him outside in an RV. I told him to keep the windows closed and let me know when he plans on going out of the RV. So immensely glad I convinced him to get that thing!
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VioletD
4 months
Every day, I'm threatened with the sale of my home and loss of my pets if I don't go back to the "new normal." This seems to be the go-to tactic of the ableist abusers.
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1 year
@perfectrose2011 Over my dead body will he travel. His job requires it though. I wonder how they will respond.
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1 year
@amethystarlight Thank you. I hope that I made an impact because he has two little ones. He was wearing an N95 and his assistant a baggy blue, but no one else there was wearing a mask, not even elderly patients who were using walkers. It was very sad to see.
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VioletD
1 year
A family member's company thought that it would be a good "team building" activity to have employees line up according to number of SARS-coV-2 infections. Of course, they weren't wearing masks during this sick activity. #CovidIsNotOver
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1 year
Family members are going to airports and restaurants unmasked. Flying here on Sunday. I was going to compromise and allow a seven-day quarantine since I thought they'd care and do the right thing. Now that I know that they give zero fucks, I think that a ten-day is in order.
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1 year
@kitundrum @Silver_Lining76 My heart goes out to you.💔💔💔 I can't begin to imagine how you are coping with this. Please talk to as many young people as you can because I don't think that many understand how serious this can be due to disinformation.
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VioletD
10 months
There has to be more to life than consumerism.
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VioletD
1 year
@FridaysChild14 I feel like I'm living in a bad dream and can't find an escape hatch, except here with our group of caring, smart people.
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1 year
My dog is dying, and the vets are just like vultures wanting money. I can't do this again. I want my old vet back.
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VioletD
3 months
Fuck my family who have indoctrinated my kid to believe that Covid isn't more than a cold. They will have blood on their hands if this continues. Dangling offers of concert tickets is the last straw.
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VioletD
1 year
@horseplayer7 @StillMask I'm so very sorry. Dealing with the post-infection rage is becoming a serious hurdle. I've lost my whole family. They can't discuss, only scream and are very mad. Not the same at all.
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VioletD
1 year
I was just gaslit by my husband, my kid, and therapist. I quit. But my cat is following me everywhere.
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VioletD
2 months
@robinsoped101 I have tried talking to my family and friends about the effects of "it" (because I can't say the C word), and they refuse to acknowledge that it exists or even existed. It is fear. Their constant projection of "You're living in fear" proves this.
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23 days
@Inadarkwood The normies are pushing that agenda hard, and the ridicule from coworkers, family, and friends is unrelenting at this point. I can't say that I blame her, but I definitely am not backing down.
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VioletD
6 months
How are we going to feed our pets? As if recalls weren't bad enough.
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1 year
@curiousdatacat I'm bawling my eyes out right now because there's nothing you can do once they're adults, especially if family members and everyone around them is in denial. My daughter had it, and everything's changed. I now understand how moms sending their kids off to war must have felt.
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VioletD
1 year
@heatherwritesss I haven't brought my pets in but had the vet mask and do blood draws outside of my home at the beginning of the pandemic. Not a vet in town is masking now. COVID is a zoonotic disease, and I'm not willing to let my pets get infected.
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1 year
@NjbBari3 People have gone mad. My husband's family had the "funeral" in a bar and my mother-in-law who was a nurse practitioner and a kind woman did not get her own obituary but was written into her husband's.
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VioletD
1 year
@Leigh76777 @perfectrose2011 Isn't there a song called "Go Away Leigh"? Oh no, it's "Go Away Renee." Cranking it up in your honor. Every accoutrement has been provided, thank you very much.
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29 days
I guess that no one gives af about David Lynch stuck in his house because of #Covid and isn't making any changes to make directing or events safe for him. That says a lot about the rest of us.
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11 months
@JessicaLexicus The five days was a thing started by Delta to keep capitalism going.I just spoke to my dentist's office. They say ten days.
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VioletD
1 year
@mikki807 It's so frustrating, but there's nothing we can do. The government's messaging is brilliant. Mission accomplished.
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1 year
@DewainaS There are people walking, running, biking, and pushing babies in strollers.
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1 year
@E_catservant However, I don't think that anyone in this family cares about the loss of lives.
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1 year
@skymelilemyks My question exactly.
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VioletD
10 months
@nerodenc It's their house too, and apparently they think they make the rules and are fine with infecting me and the pets. I know many people in this situation.
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1 year
@MLS_Dave Right there with you. I wish that my family was as supportive as your wife and children.
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2 months
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VioletD
11 months
@TheActualJasonM I'm hearing this from family and friends. No one cares anymore according to them. We know better. Stay strong, and say goodbye to the fake friend.
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1 year
@amethystarlight Thank you! Me too!
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1 year
@Nobody35810036 Look at Annie Lennox...
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1 year
@sardonicsurly You are much too kind! Ironically, I'm pretty sure that Portland is where my husband got it, but he said that many people were wearing masks there.
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VioletD
11 months
@gravybish In the exact same place. No one cares about the poor Moms who are taking this seriously. Don't listen to them. Trust you. 💜
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1 year
@EmilyHayesArt My daughter is 20, so this hits hard. Why in the hell would parents treat their own kid like a burden or an inconvenience?
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2 months
@ChristinaAuria It's breaking my heart, and I'm begging my husband to talk to his brother about the kids.
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1 year
@marianneneal72 Oh, I let my freak flag fly and gave him my all. I'm not letting down my guard down after isolating for over three years.
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1 year
@germanfrancie 💔 Sending much healing for your friend. Thank you for advocating. I'm currently trying to explain how going to a sold-out Barbie showing 2x in a week and out to dinner in Madison is not a good idea.
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VioletD
4 months
@rjgroner After teaching high school, I realized that many of the teachers and administrators promote conformity.
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VioletD
4 months
If I don't go to a restaurant, I'll lose my home. This is beyond insane. We need a community here where people like us can go to if our families are not conducive to staying safe.
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23 days
I miss my friend who took her life who was amazed by the fact that I was making pot pie from scratch for my kid on a weekday.
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VioletD
8 months
@1goodtern I think that those of us who do care are collectively grieving. I honestly did not expect this at all. The teasing and rage on top of their not caring makes it all even worse.
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VioletD
1 year
Just got this lovely text.
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1 year
@Nantanreikan What in the hell is this? This DOES NOT fall under the First Amendment. They need in be charged with hate crimes ASAP.
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VioletD
10 months
@M8Void I'm standing my ground. I don't have a place that will take 6 pets. You'd think that people wouldn't want to endanger their own pets.
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VioletD
1 year
@Sophiepedia Lots of misinformation out there to the contrary.
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7 months
@inkblue01 @MamaSitaa__ @D_Bone She needs to file an appeal. This is beyond ridiculous.
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VioletD
1 year
@oddswith @E_catservant Thank you. 🫂❤️That's a much better way of approaching it. I am feeling that I am the one who has failed, am unlovable, and deserving of being despised for my views. Being the only one is brutal, friends.
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VioletD
7 months
The denial hits me in the face first thing every day. It feels like groundhog's day.
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VioletD
10 days
I mentioned Milton and Marburg, and the person on the other end of the phone laughed. How I wish this was a joke and not reality.
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VioletD
1 year
@GreeneWendy I am honored to be in your company! Thank you!!! Cranking up Scandal's "Warrior" song because yes, am that old and want to get older. Not going down without a fight!
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VioletD
1 year
My husband is waiting for his PCR test results from Labcorp, and they seem to have lost his specimen, are short-staffed, and now the system is down. @POTUS why don't you make free or even low-cost PCR testing more readily available? What are you trying to hide?
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1 year
SARS outbreak @UWMadison . ZERO precautions in place. Some students "just powering through" and parents calling it mono. Parents telling kids to just suck it up.
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1 year
@Friesein We are living in a horror movie or dystopian novel.
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1 year
@ltsailsFL I can't thank you enough and don't know how you're staying strong in the face of your own illness. As if you need their ignorance in addition to everything.
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VioletD
1 year
@DALupton My husband is done with it. He is up traveling and staying with about 30 relatives for a family reunion. Many elderly are there. I voiced my concerns. I got a nasty text back saying that he wants to divorce me because I need to drop my precautions like 99% of the population has.
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VioletD
11 months
My friends and family are buying Teslas. I need a new family. Help please.
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VioletD
1 year
@MelpomeneMel Nothing about this story makes sense.
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1 year
@PaintedHorse14 Uh, yes we do. If it is Covid and it's being covered up by the news, we have a right to know. If they have taken away all of our protections in healthcare and all of the data, then those in the public eye who suspect that they have it need to start coming forward.
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VioletD
4 months
@AnyAnagram Scared to death as mine who is now an adult is being influenced by those who don't mask and are already seeing what COVID can do. They're not connecting the dots with seizures, cancer, anxiety/depression, etc.
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VioletD
2 years
@PeterBellRober1 @orang3_aura Every damn culture. My, that sounds inviting. Maybe try "embrace," "welcome" etc instead of "used to" and maybe you wouldn't sound like a grumpy old white dude.
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VioletD
11 months
@DrHawken What in the hell? I am one pissed off mama now.
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VioletD
2 months
@curiousdatacat It is everywhere, and I've become the family pariah for even mentioning it. I just want to keep the family & pets safe. Thank you for your support! It is horrifying to see the majority of people caving right now. I have a hunch that we'll end up back we started or worse soon.
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1 year
@PCAdams1950 @ravencallin He's staying out there, so that's something. He knows someone in the family has to stay alive to take care of my daughter, pets, and property.
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VioletD
1 year
I had a dream last night that I was explaining to a small group of friends how RATs aren't reliable, data is hard to find, and that SARS-CoV2 is a BSL-3. The people in my living room were actually listening and kindly asking questions. But then, I woke up.
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VioletD
2 years
@ThatEricAlper Frances McDormand is an actor.
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1 year
@chantz_y My husband did this with my daughter in college. Told her not to tell me about going to a large family gathering. Sadly, lying is becoming the norm now.
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1 year
@Kephri1 I give you so much credit for still masking. You are so lucky to have found a housemate who is doing the same. A rarity.
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@RebeccaH22076 If only mine did this.
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1 year
@1goodtern @oldfshndanne This helps me more than you know. Just released from the hospital after a nearly successful suicide attempt. My entire family is still ridiculing me re my fear of contracting Covid in a largely unmasked setting. One doctor who is still wearing an N95 & two sitters were kind.
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4 months
The big one is restaurants. Seriously?
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24 days
@catladyactivist Only watching old movies distracts me from this never-ending shitshow. No joy in cooking, reading, gardening, etc anymore My family is not my family anymore.
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1 year
@audisdead This is why I isolate and make family quarantine for ten days before entering my home. My dogs and cats matter. I continue to wonder why none of the vets and their staff in my area refuse to wear masks. They went to the university where most of the research is being conducted.
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VioletD
1 year
The dread of waking up to face another day with these people is heavy.
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1 year
It’s exhausting being pissed off at and really disappointed with absolutely everyone while also being incredibly concerned for the health and well being of those same people. It’s also tiring to think that a lot of those people don’t share the same concerns for anyone else.
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@AcrossTheMersey Don't be sorry for saying fuck. It's all we've got now.
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