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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

2 years

one thing about me is I’m a lil slut for some bread w/ oil. throw some herbs in there ?? daddy

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

very gentle reminder that some queer ppl living in the south do not want to move out of the south. they want the places they love & call home to care for them the same, but the goal of every queer person in states whose governments hate us is not to evacuate, though those who

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

9 months

hey I’m gonna be really annoying for a while because my best friend said yes :)

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

wish to deserve the resources to. the queer ppl who choose to stay and live in southern states are doing incredible work daily to make that home a reality. pls don’t forget about that. queer ppl who call the south their home are just as important as those who need to leave

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

the south behind, and they are organizing better than most people in the north know how to. It can be hard to understand if you didn’t grow up in those places. It is still absolutely imperative to raise funds assisting the people who want out in getting out, often saving

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

their lives. but it is sometimes difficult to see a very black and white view of southern states as filled with evil people whom the queer people of those states are trying to escape (not to say there aren’t terrible, regressive people in these states but.. I also live in DC

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

now & there are just as many here as there were at home 🤷🏻‍♀️) when in reality the evil belongs to their governments & strategic gerrymandering that renders significant efforts at change less effective. I love Texas. I love so many ppl in Texas. I hate the government of Texas,

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

and I hate that they have soiled my home by turning it into a human rights wasteland to escape from. I hope one day I will be proud to call the state of Texas my home, not just the people who come from there. Because those people are and will always be home for me. (fin)

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

btw this thread was directly in response to a bunch of posts I saw today essentially suggesting that artists stop touring into southern states & it was breaking my heart a bit to imagine that reality. obviously the whole thing is complex, and the issue of safety is real, just sad

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

having some emotional reactions to getting to hug those people again sorry the novel 💘

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

9 months

best day of my whole life tbh

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

9 months

also hey thanks @hanfjob for this tweet we now have a giant banner of it in our home

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

while y’all are here, consider donating DIRECTLY to the pockets of queer & trans people who *are* trying to get out. some situations are truly unlivable. I get nervous w/ orgs but you can also get info/ donate here:

Southern Equality Fund

The Southern Equality Fund provides funding and training to Southern LGBTQ folks doing heroic organizing in their hometowns.

southernequality.org

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

2 years

leaning in at this point tbh

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

9 months

isn’t she just the prettiest in the whole world :)

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

2 years

LOOK! AT ! HER !!!!

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 year

:,) 📸: Olivia Gravatt

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

9 months

hey @Tinder we met on your app 7 years ago you should give us some free stuff :)

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

5 months

we met on tinder 7 1/2 years ago when both of us were in separate ‘fuck a relationship I don’t want to be in love I want to be a slut’ phases/ while both coming from traumatic romantic situations & then our intended one night stand lasted a week & a half & we both said uh-oh :)

Mrs. G 🕊️

@coastalmama_

6 months

Please rt with the story of how you met your s/o. I want to know. Even if it’s “not interesting” 🫶🏼

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

2 months

respectfully,

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

4 months

my dive bar is run entirely by cool lesbians plus one dude named ryan who has been adopted by the cool lesbians & they all yelled my name in unison when I walked in tonight after a week away. idk why but that’s more instant serotonin than I’ve gotten in a long minute

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

4 years

Cox Farms doing good work today and every day 🧏🏻‍♀️

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 years

in the midst of celebrating Cyntoia Brown being granted clemency, don't forget that she never should have been fucking charged to begin with

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

4 years

Police just sprayed CS in Lee Carter’s god damn eyes for asking a question about their body cameras in Manassas, VA.

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

5 months

a hesitant but ultimately agreeable business transaction

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

rare form confidence mel

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

2 months

alright 13 bookmarks is crazy y’all, you know I’ll just send you a photo of my ass if you ask nicely (or meanly in the correct way)

emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

2 months

respectfully,

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

2 years

howdy! my pronouns have changed! it’s been coming for a few years now, & even the act of changing them in a bio feels like a really nice sigh of relief. I’m non-binary. I enjoy the performance of femininity, but I don’t exist within it solely. ok thanks love you bye!!

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 years

hey here’s a concept: instead of women having to come forward w/ #WhyIDidntReport , how about men come forward w/ an instance in which they were abusive!!! it is ludicrous to place the burden of a “confession” on the abused!! we didn’t do anything! you did!

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 years

@SarahKSilverman is a fucking national treasure & one of the only things bringing me consistent comfort in this fucking hellfire is her beautiful, thoughtful (actual masterpiece) I Love You, America. I have a lot of feelings about this can u tell

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

5 months

:)

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

4 months

my wife introduced me to a kind of love and communication I had come to believe was myth , showed me care I previously believed was reserved for others and others alone & in the process made space for my heart to expand its understanding of love . I introduced her to below deck

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

4 months

no :) but here is a picture of my wife from across the table looking pretty!!!

lex in tx

@alexissTyler

4 months

show me a picture of you from across the table looking pretty

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 years

reasons to not comment on what ppl eat: 1. why would u? It's not ur tummy! 2. eating is rlly hard for some ppl in general 3. Refer to #1

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

5 years

the other day my coworker told me that, actually, therapy is not helpful & is in fact DETRIMENTAL, & that instead of dwelling on the bad, really you just need to be positive-minded :) so :) we have the answer now :) go forth & tell ur wonky chemicals :) to be more positive :)

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 years

him: me: stevie nicks wrote silver springs about her breakup w/ Lindsey & got to sing it to his FACE can u imagine yelling “you’ll never get away from the sound of the woman who loves u” at ur ex for yrs?? they screamed their breakup songs ABOUT one another TO one another & I jus

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 year

I’m hangin out in the boywife kitchen wbu

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

9 months

ALL PHOTOS ARE BY ALEC PUGLIESE GO FOLLOW HIM IF YOU LIKE *UNREAL* LIVE MUSIC PHOTOGRAPHY HE’S THE FUCKING BEST

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

8 years

if Trump wants to call a federal judge a 'so-called judge,' I'm officially okay-ed to exclusively refer to him as a so-called president

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

9 months

I sent her on a scavenger hunt to a bunch of places that are deeply special to us and each spot had one of her best friends waiting with roses and 12 of our friends were waiting at the last stop & we had bubbly & cheese & she loved it & that’s all that matters to me :)

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

3 years

we are phoebe waller-bridgers

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

5 months

it’s my birthday!! i made it to 29!! most of my life i could not have dreamed I would make it to this birthday & life’s alright rn :) the only real things i want this year are to marry my fiancé & make this album so if you feel so inclined my Venmo is @ prettybitter ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 month

if I am moving through the world with more whimsy & confidence just know it is entirely because kohei took this photo & as a result I’m currently pretty fine with having a physical form

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 years

The Year Of Taking No Shit From Shit men

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 year

uh hey quick q, what the fuck is up with the gross little renaissance the r word is going thru right now?? are y’all trying to cosplay as 4th grade assholes in the early 2000s? because that’s what you look like

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 months

I am so proud of my remarkable wife

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

4 months

good afternoon, new favorite photo just dropped .

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 years

@dietcig is making (achingly good) essential music for every single confused, creative-minded woman trying to figure it out or scream about something or make noise until someone listens. The music they’re making is not only important, it is crucial.

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

3 months

TEVAS WITH THE TRANSANDALS

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

2 years

hi I look like this now :)

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 months

we smile! in front of plants this time!

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 months

that’s fucking RIGHT

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

10 months

:,)

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

16 days

our dear friend cooper embroidered the moment alec captured after miri said yes this past february :,) I am in awe of the talents of our friends. a prized possession kind of gift. 📸: @alecpugliese 🪡🧵: @cooperjoslin25

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 month

really don’t wanna be annoying about this but I’ve noticed a lot of people reverting back to she/ her for me recently & I’m not sure why but I’d deeply appreciate it if that could stop.

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 year

if I can be very real for just one second— I haven’t recognized this much active joy in my eyes in any photo of me in .. Years and years. I felt so held this weekend. I love my community.

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 years

I GOT MY DEGREEEEEE

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 year

this is the face of a girl I am so fucking proud of

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 years

i give a fuck about an oxford comma

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

9 months

🥲

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 days

genuinely fuck any person (at best) making light of the nc & florida disasters & (at worst) saying that southern states deserve this. I am so fucking serious, if you claim to be any kind of leftist, and you are touting these talking points, you should be ashamed of yourselves.

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

10 months

“are they..” wearing the one of a kind hand-stitched @Wednesday_Band_ shirt at their gf’s punk show in nyc? yea

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 year

my friend George will sometimes come and photograph pb shows, & I stg I never feel more handsome than when he does

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

11 months

if I can be a little sappy I am really proud of this.

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 months

I love philly

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 years

Love to survivors. Love to survivors who don’t want their name spread to the public but want their stories told. Love to survivors who haven’t told anyone they’re survivors. Love to survivors who dnt want to be re-traumatized by repeating their story to skeptical law enforcement

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 years

@Cliiitoris_ @stopdotcom

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

4 years

suddenly the same dudes who punch walls when they’re slightly inconvenienced are real concerned about property damage 😬

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 years

man: *says something vaguely sexist* me: *cell block tango begins to play from behind my twitching eyes*

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 months

the music community is actually very similar to collegiate speech & debate in that you will meet both the best and worst people you’ve ever known, and most of the worst are the most charming motherfuckers on earth but if they got good words you’re sorta sol on accountability

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

day off say it back!!!!

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

5 years

I truly do not and would never wish disassociation on anyone, but I do wish more people knew what I meant when I say I am experiencing it.

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

5 years

haw, and I cannot stress this enough, fuckin' haw

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

9 months

:,)

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 year

this whole thing has sucked. I’m genuinely sorry for putting this on your TL, pls share if you’re willing ♥️ (if you have something cruel to say about this, I am begging you to just think it in your brain & move on.)

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

i am a non-binary bisexual switch in an open marriage i simply exist in a rich & beautiful in-between wherein binaries dissolve upon contact with my fucked up brainwaves

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

2 years

my abortion saved my life. it was not easy, it was traumatic, but it was the right choice. if I had brought a child into the world at the age of 23, that child would have been traumatized. I would have tried my best, and it would not have been enough. /1

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

9 months

pretty :)

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

5 years

@jeannakadlec

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

5 years

y'all today at work I dropped off food to a table & the dad said "look! she has beautiful tattoos like you!" to his 3-4 year old son, & this little kiddo's face lit up & he showed me all the temporary tattoos he'd just gotten & explained why he loved each of them & my HEART

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

11 months

you ever spend so long listening to the same unreleased song over & over that you genuinely do not know if it is good or bad or a figment of your imagination altogether

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

8 years

"Like any unloved thing, I don’t know if I’m real when I’m not being touched." — Natalie Wee

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 years

my partner of 2yrs still asks for consent nearly every time, & when he doesn’t there is a clear nonverbal signal. don’t throw me that lazy bullshit about checking in being a “mood killer”

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

8 months

I know this is too much info, but I do believe it’s pertinent to the conversations happening today. I’ve been suicidal since I was 11. I’ve attempted multiple times & been hospitalized for said attempts. I’m so lucky to have survived. but suicide and self-immolation are different

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

9 months

got a death threat bc of how I .. proposed? i am a child of chaos and thus it fuels me that some people are *very* angry that a years-long inside joke so stupid and ridiculous made its way into our proposal ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ it’s not that serious!!! marriage isn’t even real!!

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 year

as an america hater, this day is whatever. as a hot dog enthusiast however ..

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 years

SHE GOT A BIG BOOTY SO I CALL HER karen, like god intended,

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

9 months

I’ve never had a tweet get more than like 100 engagements but we’re also in a band together & we released this song today lmao

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 months

why? were they born

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

11 months

in a shocking turn of events the creepiest reply guy I have ever had has been charged with murder 🕺

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 years

maybe she's born w/ it, maybe it's been subconsciously drilled into her since birth,

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 months

it’s really cool watching people you’ve previously been wary of grow and change in a positive way and being able to accept that current version of them that is committed to being better. what an honor to know directly that people do change.

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

7 years

hey!! don’t talk to people like this. The choices I make with my body are my choices alone. I happen to love my armpit hair & it makes me feel feminine. If that’s not ur thing, ok!! that doesn’t mean it can’t be mine. After yrs of body policing, I am done with it. Here’s to love.

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

3 months

about 8 yrs ago I lost nearly 150 pounds. the world changes, and it made me feel true disgust for the world. there is no peace in being considered more conventionally attractive by others when those standards themselves are deep rooted in racist, white supremacist ideals.

Lev 🇵🇸

@abookofsymbols

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the thing is it’s kinda impossible to realize “oh wait people do treat me better when I’m more conventionally attractive” and simultaneously continue to live life without feeling a profound bitterness toward other people/the world

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 year

they cry a lot

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

6 years

u can nap if u want to u can leave ur friends behind bc ur friends don't nap & if they don't nap then they're prob'ly really tired

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 year

fourth job interview in 2 weeks where the position is billed as remote and then in the LAST INTERVIEW TIER they go “oh lol also! this actually isn’t remote we just have more ppl respond if we say it is! you’d come into the office that is 2 hours away from you everyday!” hehe

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emelia (they/ them)

@Stolenwine

1 month

never had an asthma attack on stage before tonight but thanks for stickin with me 🤪

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