@kenobisbf
He can be an honorary gay. I can’t not love the man who said this:
“I’m doing my bit for the women’s movement. The women have always been naked in movies, and now I’m just desperate to take my clothes off as much as possible.”
@dreamsofskies
And they don’t get that when they interrupt you doing something you may never get back to it. You’ve messed up the flow I finally got in and now I’m trying to remember what I was doing in the first place…might as well get a coffee.
@lfeofash
And they know they’re doing it. Any guy who says pick better men is the exact type of guy who does this. They act like they are great and support women until they don’t but they’ll still try to gaslight you into believing it was all your fault.
@jenezmy
@BrittleSun
@xanabon
@JessHealyWalton
Yup. Even now know that your waiters, bartenders, and other service industry/retail are working sick because what else do you do when you live paycheck to paycheck with no real sick pay? And managers who say it’s your job? to find a replacement and you can’t find anyone
@johnomonroe
@_brandynd_
I remember telling my mom on the phone my 1st day it was like I had fewer thoughts so I could actually focus on 1 at a time and could actually think and enjoy things.
@queervengeance
Hard disagree. It was one of the first times my brain felt quiet. Screw capitalism. It got rid of my suicidal ideation because not being able to focus makes it hard to enjoy anything. Like no constant racing thoughts? Non adhders have it so easy.
@3commonsense
@pre_richie
@ProBandemic
@dearprude20
No bc enough dudes when they hear accusations against their friends say she’s a lying bitch or he’s such a nice guy. Or hear creepy or sexist jokes and don’t say anything. Point out bad behavior from every man in your life even if it’s uncomfortable or hurts relationships
@n0mij00n
Doing drugs with ppl in their 40’s is great. They’ve got their shit together and have all the vitamins to help with come downs or jaw clenching.
@wownicebuttdude
Welcome to the dark side where you realized you hated for hatings sake bc you were taught if it’s super popular (especially popular among girls, and that remains true even if you are a girl) that it must be bad and overrated.
@equalityAlec
Police should not be able to get overtime and only salary (like many workers). I know prosecutors who look at bullshit charges and will look up the cops hours to see if the cop was about to go off shift bc the cops will make arrests so they can get paid overtime to do paperwork
@TheMacAran
@Airistwt
@Vladeon
@itsjacksonbbz
I smoke pot and hula hoop (like circus tricks and stuff) so now whenever I smoke I want to hula hoop and get a great workout while playing around to my favorite music.
@willwordforfood
@niccoyat
What really pisses me off is that you know that was on the company card and not out of any of their pockets.
I have a friend who manages foreigners that visit nyc. They expense all their meals, so my he told them if he saw less than a 20% tip he wouldn’t approve it.
@OTirmizi
@AshleyGWinter
Excuse me, but this seems a disturbingly strange response to a urologist saying not to see them for what is a sexual service.
We no longer treat “hysteria” in women with doctors using vibrators on women either. And that’s not a bad thing.
@Not_CharLatte
@sammajammaz
I love this though bc two of my best friends were previous regulars of mine and I’ve had best friends who I was a regular of. But if you are a bartender you can make friends with bartenders.
@Dawning_of_Dusk
@FifthHarmany
@megatherium222
@_________cchh
My comment wasn’t a joke bc it actually was how women got out of abusive marriages before no fault divorce and since the GOP is trying to get rid of it we should remind them that if they want to go backwards in history two can play at that game.
@MMendlowPhD
@uglymoog
@Jillian_nSmith
I was literally just about to say that as a former bartender. Though I’ve always been told not to do it bc we didn’t want to deal with them vomiting.
@RuffleJax
@AdhdAngsty
Whenever I hear “what about the children” with kink at pride I’m reminded how so many ppl have their kinks even as a child and maybe learning kinks aren’t evil would be good for their mental health. As a former kinky child I would have appreciated knowing I wasn’t messed up
@GabriellaPariss
@holy_schnitt
Successful because if he takes care of you and doesn’t try to take advantage of you he’s better than 90% of men to begin with.
@HannahCurlyGirl
@3commonsense
@pre_richie
@ProBandemic
@dearprude20
Most men raping women are not bad guys in bushes. Their your friends and family who have been taught by society what is accepted by society. Most women will be raped by someone they know. And they won’t tell ppl bc if they’ve seen you accept rape culture they assume u won’t care.
@awesomebrandi
I think also when you only want to diagnose the most severe cases (and generally only when it effects ability to work rather than whether it negatively effects your life in other ways) then it just adds to the negative stereotypes like "oh you're too smart to have adhd"
@Terr
Once did get sat next hot plane guy and we shared a cab and ended up going on a date. But when you’re hot plane woman you generally just want them to leave you alone.
@fuckyouiquit
Do not be fooled by this play against the SW industry. There is more child porn on FB and they’re not shutting that down.
The goal is to make CC processors terrified to work with anything porn related. Without a CC processor you’re screwed. It’s censorship through capitalism.
@NDtriplethreat
@1Schoolhouse
I used to organize the fake fridge in kindergarten. It was my favorite play activity.
Later worked in a children's museum with a fake grocery store where I had to put back fake items, and I'd go above and beyond organizing them for fun...
@adelinawrites
@llamalluv
@AutSciPerson
Yeah I hate when I tell someone something bad that just happened and they're like "That's terrible, I'm so sorry" and then nothing else... Tell me your personal story that relates so I feel understood, and we can have a back and forth. Like I want that to feel comforted!
@jessejanderson
I hate “you must do this” if it’s not explained why. I need to understand all the cogs behind it. And if they don’t know or unevenly apply it I can never do it.
@wtfjummy
And then you move in with a partner and have to get rid of half that stuff because you have two of everything. RIP my red mini mouse couch with white polka dots from IKEA.
@momo_brooke
@sarahschauer
I’d want to insist on giving them my imaginary brothers number in case they change their mind as well. Or say I might pass on theirs bc he’s totally their type.
@ElyKreimendahl
Damn I wish I had a girlfriend to manipulate me into being queer at that age. I was still only dating boys and making out with my girl friends for fun 💗💜💙
@JohannesTEvans
Men who like cats understand consent better because cats don’t tolerate shit. Men want women to be like dogs who’d do anything for a head pet.
@AuthorShaunHolt
@sarcasmlemons
Labels can also help us feel validated and find our ppl we can relate to. When I finally realized I am bi enough to call myself bi I felt so much better. The problem is we are made to feel like we don’t deserve the label.
@nate_postlethwt
I remember the time my psychiatrist described my childhood as having a domestic violence situation and I was floored. When I told my sister she said, “that’s not fair. Mom wasn’t throwing things AT US” and it clicked for me bc we shouldn’t have to specify AT US.
@anxietyaloner
@glumirror
And it has been statistically proven that those in bdsm have a better understanding of consent. It does not mean there are no bad guys but outside of kink I’ve dealt with so much more coercion and consent breaking that everyone thinks is normal.
@vcwills
This! My bi boyfriend and I may look straight together, but we are both bi. It took both of us way longer than it should have to come out as bi because bi's are made to feel like we aren't bi enough.
We are bi enough, and shouldn't have to prove ourselves.
@HannahCurlyGirl
@3commonsense
@pre_richie
@ProBandemic
@dearprude20
They’ve done studies asking men their views on rape or if they have(wrong & hadn’t) and then ask more specific questions about sex in wrong circumstances where the same men said it was ok when it would be rape (ok & said they’d done it).
@Miley_Highrus
It makes me think you were trying to trick me into being at your house for the 2nd date just to make it easier to sleep with me bc we’re already alone.
But either way my autistic self is going haywire when I’ve expected a certain plan and had that upended without warning.
@kabylefem
Studies have shown those in the bdsm scene have a better understanding of consent than “vanilla ppl” and a huge section of bdsm is women dominants like myself with men submitting. Also especially appeals to neurodivergent ppl bc of literal language around consent.
@craziemamarose
@mayapetitee
If they were truly adventurous it would be anal, but with them receiving. But alas they’re always so close minded when the strap-on comes out.
@heartlesslyrich
@bellarose
I used to walk home in Brooklyn at 3 am after bartending without any issue.
But when I visit the much smaller southern city my family lives in I wouldn’t bc I’ve had 1 friend mugged and another person murdered a block from their house, and they live in the fancy area.
@awesomebrandi
This so much. While I’m realizing I’m autistic I am pretty sure my mom is as well and struggling to bring it up bc lots of family trauma. My aunt was also institutionalized her entire life for what my mom said was probably autism. I want to learn more about her but hard to ask
@TheycallmeEronz
@deprofundisdeo
@SoualiganAmazon
I guess all those boxes of liquor carried themselves for restocking…💜. But maybe we’d work in some of those “demanding” jobs if we weren’t harassed in them and told they’re not for us. Like the female coal minors or truck drivers that have shown women were harassed into quittin