@0ccultbot
Few true shamans. Generally thought to have the ability to heal the sick, communicate with the otherworld, and often escort souls of the dead to the otherworld. The term shamanism comes from the Manchu-Tungus word saman
@sassyashieOG
Common theme with basic therapists
A woman states her issue and a female therapist with a sonโฆ measures her clients trauma by imagining her son in the situation.
Then voices her concern out loud to her client! As ifโฆ
Not okay!
Healing wishes for you ๐
@corn65badboy
Can we make out the dysfunction?
He gaslights reality, even with video proof. He was cordial in public.
But behind closed doors with select people, these types get violently mad because they got caught, then anger again because of your reaction.
Love that she didnโt let him
@JoeyMannarinoUS
Unfortunately, this is what people need to read. Uncomfortable to know, and sadโฆ for adults choosing this, and absolutely, unforgivable, horrendous ABUSE done to children
@lovewins11011
No matter how you truly are seeking resolution, solution, peace and compromiseโฆ understanding. this is not enough. No matter how clear in communication you are, no matter how sincere you areโฆ this is not the desired outcome for them.
So they will go round and round and round
@domiono
Classic narcissistic behavior. Create inner issue to a misplaced feeling. Take it out on a person, use persons content said in their "reaction" Narcissist now a victim, uses to fuel their inner issue, instead of being introspective to self regulate & resolve
@Theholisticpsyc
@ClownWorld_
Exactly like a narcissist too. Dissociate, โchecked outโ โno acknowledgmentโฆ no empathyโ nobody and nothing else matters but their hyper focus
@AllBiteNoBark88
Saw a post saying they refused to pay the fines and received warning letters instead. ๐คฃAlso read about the idea to fine people who go 1mph over the speed limit. People are watching whatโs coming and learning what works & what doesnโt
@AMAZlNGNATURE
I live 2 min down the coast from this restaurant. Since 1941, makes it through most every storm with boarded windows etc, Sometimes it floods ๐ Amazing dining experience
@Theholisticpsyc
Depending on how pervasive the abuse and damage is, how long you endured, or how extreme the eggshells were that you were walking on etc,, nerve damage symptoms do vary. Vitamin Bโs are one of many helpful assistants in healing damaged nerves
@PeterSweden7
In April 2022 Make Sunsets launched โballoonsโ into the stratosphere to release sulfur dioxide to make the atmosphere more reflective. This and other solar geoengineering techniques aim to bounce solar radiation into space to partially counteract what a few people that we did not
@PeterSweden7
Maybe I ought to add this too. Sulfur dioxide may cause coughing, wheezing, phlegm and asthma attacks. โThe effects are worse when you are exercising.โ Sulphur dioxide has been linked to cardiovascular disease
@iluminatibot
In 1985 Monsanto purchased G.D. Searle, the chemical company that held the patent to aspartame, the active ingredient in NutraSweet. Monsanto was apparently untroubled by aspartame's clouded past, including a 1980 FDA Board of Inquiry, comprised of three independent scientists,
@LightofEmotion
@TehutiKhem
Avoidant is gracious. These people know they owe an apology. Especially those that know they mistreated you, knowing they caused all sorts of damage and unnecessary drama, that only harmed from โtheir behaviorโ (no excuses) it happened! This isnโt about our responses to their bad
@_Pammy_DS_
@MindTendencies2
Iโve got you. For a man, this may mean something different but equally as profound. When a man has your back, heโs a pillar of strength, can handle anything you say or donโt say, do or donโt do. You are free to express yourself, blossom โfree to be yourselfโ
@adoseofmars
Yes, trauma can do this. Our (in the moment gets robbed) You can get robbed from an aggressor. A coping mechanism so that you have time to fully absorb and process what it was.
On back burner, to be opened in a
โsafe environment.โ
I noticed after a few years of the negative
@Theholisticpsyc
Oh geez yes. I noticed after leaving a narcissistic environment. Over explaining every thought to how I arrived at what I said & what was meant, to avoid walking on eggshells so he wouldnโt pout. Breath of fresh air to be free of over thinking & justifying every word. Liberating
@eurydicelives
Yep. Pull the band aid off compared to those that donโt (unnecessary, prolonged worry, anxiety etc., truth is scary to communicate)
If a burning candle were in the path of drapes blowing in the breeze, would you stifle in fearโฆoverthink about wishing you had a voiceโฆ or would
@anuatluru
I did this with my best friend, a professor at a college on the other side of the USA. I made like a student in her sociology classes. Such a fun day
@andtartary2
So many geniuses invented healing technology. Often die in mysterious ways and/or somehow their work vaporizes. Like Royal Raymond Rife, Rife machine, Tesla coilsโฆ if I remember right, and PrioreAntoine Prioreโs electromagnetic therapy machine, to name a few
@NoContextBrits
My hair is this long, sometimes itโs hot, but she could clip it. Hairs touch you & you think itโs a spider๐คฃWhateverโฆ I would never do this. She absolutely knows whatโs sheโs doing, not honoring someoneโs space. She deserves the comments
@Theholisticpsyc
Sad for children in this environment. Grown into adults, they recognize that they never want a relationship like they were exposed to. Yet, they do exactly this, itโs all they know, so put in a relationship with a partner from a healthy environment with healthy models, is
@bnzatro
Every morning, hearing the tide go in and out, all cozy and sipping on a warm mug. Everyone seems to be asleepโฆ and youโre tuning into humanityโs collective dreams. Majestic โจ
@qasimumar93
@growthclinicc
My parents were solid, model worthy. Exposure to a dysfunctional adult & his family dynamics, sure screamed how precious, healthy parenting is. Childrens life skills are stolen by unhealed parents/family. Being a parent is a full time job, why fail at it?
@Theholisticpsyc
I have excellent access to this nerve. Slow, stop, speed up the heart rate etc., When this is a strong point, we must face problems with resolve or regulating doesnโt happen smoothly and steady control becomes patchy. Iโve heard meditation helps blossom this nerve access ๐
@GeorgePapa19
Which ex? His brothers widow that he swooped in on after his brother died? Or the stripper he cheated on his brothers widow with, then refused responsibility for his child, she delivered?
@soulmuva
Have to remember little boys who take this dysfunction on because mom isnโt connected to a husband (she canโt hold healthy relationships) so the little boy must step up and be the little man. He models the mother.
This creates a codependent relationship and typically trails far
@Theholisticpsyc
Clear difference for me. One comes with a side of a blanket fear or walking on eggshells. Being in a narcissists environment, I experienced the difference. Any senses I had that I considered a strong point in my life before this narcissist, were minimized. Extremely hard work to
@MarioNawfal
@elonmusk
Iโll be impressed when neuralink gives people with schizophrenia a healthy life & alleviates the struggle just to survive. To finally feel themselves whole โฆall at the same time โฆand not be overwhelmed ๐ฆ
@Cicined2
@amuse
Yes! When somebody with a bolt missing, sent them to riot San Diego a few yrs back, San Diegans stood at store fronts โฆin arms, with their neighbors, defending all of what each of them worked so hard to build. Shut it down. Genx doesnโt mess around
@jeffreyatucker
Just had this conversation with somebody I see on occasion for business. She would back up when you approached her too. I never said anything, people have a right to be scared to death. She had her mask off, I had never seen her face until last week. I smiled big and said, โyou
@soulmuva
As ๐ as this is for the person suffering, itโs good to be mindful of the saints in their lives that are enduring this as well, by simply being in their immediate environment
@josh_uglyasf
Strong men can handle or hold space for a woman with more volume.
Strong women are fulfilled with a man of more volume and hold space for him.
Complimenting cycles. Good matchโฆor fall to the lowest bar between the two
@T3MaxxiAlt
From what Iโve read, dark blue to light blue is common.
Apsley Cherry-Garrard commented, early 1900's in his book 'Worst Journey in the World' questions on Antarctic
Whence came Bowers great heat supply? And my own white beard? And Xโs blue eyes: for he started from England
@Delic8WeeFlower
@dom_lucre
Plus babysitting the high maintenance drama when he canโt self regulate. Blek! Great as an acquaintance thoโฆ where they can go home to someone else who wants to endure that
@Theholisticpsyc
@SaveYourSons
@IAmAaronWill
๐ฏFor sure. I would add to this, a huge mistake of parents are not healing themselves, their lifelong issues before having children. Their dysfunction gets replayed and taken out on the children over and over and over again. Passes on to children. Not okay
@adoseofmars
Hating on a gf, canโt be fun internally, and you know he is abusing her in some form, if heโs hating on her. Wonder the stats, excuses โฆ& why itโs happening?
@historyinmemes
Fascinating. My mother did genealogy since the 70โs. Our tree is gigantic. Long days at a library in microfish. Sheโs traced blood lines trough Charlemagne where her & my dad are related. Eeek. St. Claire & many other interesting blood lines, many females named Mary Magdalene.
@joy_produced
@Theholisticpsyc
@ClownWorld_
So many things, a guess might be childhood abuse where the immediate environment required coping skills that were not mature yet, but dysfunctional and yet, still muted the current moment. Theyโre experts at diminishing the current moment and living beside themselves. So from the
@SpaceborneMedic
Had a crazy grandpa who was not afraid of anything in life, just fearless. Drove nitric acid in the 50โs & 60โs. Paid 15x the average job. They would give him a few shots of whiskey before getting on the road so that he didnโt stop suddenly etc., ๐
@LiveAction
Not sharing to force or talk about beliefs, I really donโt care about your beliefs on this topic, but if youโre interested in the miracle itself, this is a neat vid up to 10 weeks
@foreverdeb_
Any man who gives you the silent treatment is a little bitch.
Letโs stop being polite about narcissistic behavior that wasnโt settled between mommy and him that he endlessly plays out on you. And to use it on top of a vulnerabilityโฆ
A man will tell you, โI need space.โ
@iCashmiri
@PopCulture2000s
๐ no woman is okay with a man who says a baby would get in the way of him living his own life, absolutely selfish. Trauma bonds alone are enough to bury a person with a conscience. Add her programming & drama in lifeโฆ now we know why she dances with knives
@Chesschick01
To start, what he overlooks. First, health & color of teeth, donโt zoom in, trust me. Teeth are in your face, to see every time you open your mouth, to โbecome aware.โ Oral health cascades into other serious health issues. What else is he overlooking, unaware of, in his face?
@Theholisticpsyc
Such a great thread. I came from solid parents, a healthy upbringing. Most of my good friends as well. I seriously didnโt understand how dysfunctional, toxic and painful โฆ some peoples every day lives were โbehind closed doors.โ Until I was around an unhealed man from a
@toobaffled
Still so much conflicting information on this topic. Doesnโt matter what they tell you is safe from a vaxxed person. Weโre working with things we donโt truly understand, we donโt know long term effects etc., Safest bet is to avoid โeverythingโ
@archeohistories
Finding a coin in your partners belongings then ...would be like finding condoms nowadays! Can you imagine the great effort to their excuses. "I just have all these coins, I collect them" hahahah
@CartlandDavid
Oh joy. Sv40 was in 98 MILLION contaminated vials of polio. Also, Pfizer, Largest Health Care Fraud Settlement in Its History-DOJ. Do they these companies care about humanity? But somehow theyโll save your life this time, because they say they care?
@narcissistfacts
They small themselves, they no longer dress up or present themselves as they had done their whole life
They try to avoid the narc being around family or friends to avoid the narc fighting with them on the way home for something they innocently said or what somebody else said
@cybersygh
@getongab
Yep the easiest, dissociate personalities. Split them like a different branch of a tree. If people can't find their base, trunk, foundation, roots ...they identify with the limb their on, but never fulfilled. Depending variables, most partitions are for life
@kemimarie
My parents raised my brothers and I to be brutally honest. This has its struggles too. Not everybody can handle the truth and they love to renegotiate truth to themselves and weave it back into their lies because it feels better for them. After years of refining my delivery,
@starseedastro
Many astrologers pegged the demon star in trumps chart. Some said mid July and the head.
Millionaires donโt use astrology, billionaires do ~ JP Morgan
@BirminghamIII
@TexasLindsay_
There are other ways that people arrived to the island that are not logged. Well, maybe somebody logged them ๐โฆ a lot of people, a lot of sick and dirty people
@lovewins11011
Healing loudly is a thing, especially when your freedom is muted for so long, smallโd to walk on eggshells around a fragile narcissists identity, otherwise their dysfunctions flare. Like Cujo ๐ I can laugh now, but seriously
Your life was comforting a person who canโt self
@SchrodingrsBrat
Love this. A state of mind to cherish. Friends from childhood or college age are nurturing to our past. No falling out, life just got in the way as we bloomed into responsible adults. Reminiscing with others whoโve shared it, when living with mom & dad or when we had less life
@andrewOingalls
๐คฃ yep this is funny & true. With stand up men, as a woman, they see your manโs behavior and hear all about him then share with their men. Those guys go up to you man and say, โyouโre killing me, makin it hard for me (joking) โฆif your man is a leader, he says, โstep up your
@Theholisticpsyc
Iโve witnessed this in a codependent relationship. Mother mostly talks about herself, her past offenses from the other parent, ancient history, yet brushed in the adult childโs awareness each time they meet. Could break a person. Yet, a desire to connect past dysfunction exists๐
@VigilantFox
@drcole12
Smallest details in our every day lives can see patterns that werenโt there before Covid. In every store aisle of female products, heaviest flow items are consistently out of stock in every city. This was NEVER an issue before. On the ground information
@JamesOKeefeIII
Pfizer shouldโve never been part of anything in regard to health & safety of a single human. Pfizers criminal history is not hearsay. Court judgements tell it all. This is what theyโve been permitted to be caught with. This guy: sacrificed to be a fall guy
@NaturallyFTW
Pharmaceutical machines donโt learn lessons even after 98 MILLION contaminated polio vaccines were given 1955-1963 containing SV40, a cancer causing virus. Human health: not a value. Sloppily gave 98M before noticing an intentional ingredient? People got wise to symptoms, signs
@Theholisticpsyc
@_lexleo_
Religion is an excuse or justification for their behavior, like any other reason. Bottom line, if a person makes an agreement & deceptively breaks the agreement without talking to the other about the new boundariesโฆ (for them) thatโs inner issues!
@KLVeritas
We were saying this when this door of playing a false God opens with the ill or elderly, soon it will be for anybody for anything and eventually in the legal system โฆfor bad behavior etc.,
@itsmontyj
Some canโt own themselves. Inner truth, is extremely shamefulโฆ and it becomes easier to handle reality if they deny themselves, endure the inner lie and pain instead.
Huge & reckless energetic debtโฆ that accrues interest & penalties. The lack of energy skills when looking
@prettyblushh
So very true. Iโm so grateful my daughters praise my parenting and me as a person. The only thing I ever wanted in life โฆwas to be a mom, so I kicked ass ๐๐ผ๐ซถ๐ผ
@karenmitchell__
Desperate to โappearโ as a good guy is the glue that holds the self psyop together.
They can not bare to look like โthat guyโ that nobody wants or wants to be. But that is the epitome of them, as their true behavior reflects.
They would not make it in life if they didnโt care
@scriptedT_
Aaaw the opposite happen. I had a great childhood with kickass parents & siblings. My couple of exโs felt like home. Comfortable and easy. I loved this part. I lived my life, actually.
These were smooth and effortless relationships. I ended them because I didnโt see them on the
@dearlybeloves
Yes! I go natural, mostly. When I wear scents, waterfalls of compliments. Any of these combinations, mesmerize people๐คฃ๐ฅ
*Sintra - Memo
*Brazilian crush 71
*VS bare Vanilla
*Love & nature coconut vanilla orchid
@trulykaykay
Yep โwhat traumatized youโ is first thought. What happened toโฆ or where is this persons fortitude to introspection?
Next I think, โcan you acknowledge what traumatized you to move through yourself now, or are you in denialโ (which can affect me in less than ideal ways)
Inner
@DrJessTaylor
After gas lighting reality - and in betweenโฆ I got caught by reality
Something happens internally at this pointโฆ of โoooh Iโm caught.โ change up the ego game to continue finger pointing and appear as a โgood guyโ
@NickTheLuvCoach
True, and your dynamic NEVER gets better with this typeโฆ if he canโt acknowledge the dysfunctionโฆ and own himself. You will be played out as mommy, with no resolutionโฆ until you finally refuse to reparent him and leave.
Brutal but so are the trauma bonds youโll drag yourself
@libsoftiktok
@rochcommschools
Information gets out that adults are participating in grooming behavior toward children, and they get away with it, ignites other adults to reveal who they are. At some level this is being tracked & categorized
@Brink_Thinker
Taken yesterday! After a couple years of trying, my daughter & her husband are expecting their first baby. She got me the tiny book to share the good news. I got her the big book that she learned to read on as the babyโs first gift. Only thing, I didnโt know she was pregnant. The
@jk_rowling
@NicolaSturgeon
Our birth right as women, speaks volumes without words. Womenโs gender does not get taken away, nor does it get awarded or assigned. Sub women can gas light all they want. Reality, nature, truth without words is what theyโre up against. Good luck with that
@47chakrasishere
So trueโฆ both are potent ends of the spectrum. Destructive or blissful.
Difference is destructive wonโt ever provide bliss.
Blissful can be destructive but he owns it. Heโs learned to be human ๐ซถ๐ผ
@Oilfield_Rando
I have a friend who works the monster cranes and heโs gone from his house for 3-6mo at a time with his traveling dog.
His regular house check wouldnโt be in town either. I mentioned that I could check on the house. โNO!โ
He comes home with his pit bull and a side arm. Because
@zeinawaleed29
True. Wild how most heal, but narcs never do. After coping mechanismsโฆ super glue, to the point of no return, and inner demonsโฆ rule them blind, to themselves.
@Milli_0601
Great advise. That sincere apology will never come if youโre resorted to writing long form to someone.
You write because youโre shut down face to faceโฆ in some way because reciprocity will never happen when they deny, lie, gas light, deflect, omit parts of the truth, distort or