I don’t know who needs to hear this but, if people wanted to, they would. If someone wants to fix their relationship with you, they put in the effort to have uncomfortable conversations. If someone wants to love you, they put in the effort to get to know your love language. If
stop chasing temporary pleasures & start prioritizing long-term peace. train your mind to think about the consequences of your choices before you take action. see down the line. live more consciously. do things your future self will thank you for.
anyone can love you when it’s easy. real love is loving someone when it’s hard. it’s someone standing by your side through life’s ups and downs. it’s someone healing, evolving, & building with you. it’s someone choosing to take on the world with you every single day.
a healer will trigger you. it’s inevitable. that’s their purpose, to trigger you into healing. to trigger your wounds to surface. to trigger you to face your own darkness. to trigger you into accepting, integrating, & loving your shadow. to trigger you to grow & evolve into your
I love the part where someone that’s been really unlucky in love finally meets someone that makes them feel seen, heard, & understood. I love the part where someone that’s been really unlucky in love finally meets someone that makes them realize why it didn’t work out with anyone
In 2024, you're going to meet a version of you that you never even knew existed. The mature you. The healed you. The healthy you. The disciplined you. The focused you. The confident you. The intuitive you. The patient you. The graceful you. The faithful you. The highest you.
when you’re desperate for love, you’ll tolerate disrespect and bare minimum efforts. when you respect yourself and know your worth, you won’t settle for anything just so you have something.
✨ your self-love has to be louder than your desire to be loved. ✨
You’re not crazy for having uncomfortable conversations to try & save your relationships. Crazy is someone that would rather choose their ego over saving their relationship with you. That’s crazy.
People talk a lot about self-love but aren’t actually ready to do what it takes to truly get there. Self-love isn’t just massages, spa days, yoga retreats, & facials. It’s setting firm boundaries, not just with your words, but through your actions. It’s staying away from people
You’re not crazy for having uncomfortable conversations to try & save your relationships. Crazy is someone that would rather choose their ego over saving their relationship with you. That’s crazy.
I'm starting to see why so many people struggle with love. More people are attached to their pride and ego than they are to building healthy long-lasting relationships. It doesn't matter who's in front of you if you don't fix whatever is going on inside of you that's causing you
healing taught me that honesty won’t ruin a real thing. speaking on your feelings won’t lose you anything worth having. setting boundaries won’t scare off proper ppl. & authenticity won’t cost you genuine relationships.
People talk a lot about self-love but aren’t actually ready to do what it takes to truly get there. Self-love isn’t just massages, spa days, yoga retreats, & facials. It’s setting firm boundaries, not just with your words, but through your actions. It’s staying away from people
Real love makes you feel safe enough to be soft. Real love makes you feel open enough to be vulnerable. Real love makes you feel good enough to just be yourself. & that’s the beauty of unconditional love—you won’t have to try so hard to be loved. You just are. You won’t feel like
Real love makes you feel safe enough to be soft. Real love makes you feel open enough to be vulnerable. Real love makes you feel good enough to just be yourself. & that’s the beauty of unconditional love—you won’t have to try so hard to be loved. You just are.
@gaialect
I knew I was going to love him before I actually did. There was a pull. There was a strong intuitive feeling that this is the guy. There was a desire in me to finally put in all the work to heal from my past & be a better me. He did things naturally that were surprising to me
a healer will trigger you. it’s inevitable. that’s their purpose, to trigger you into healing. to trigger your wounds to surface. to trigger you to face your own darkness. to trigger you into accepting, loving, & integrating your shadow. to trigger you to grow & evolve into your
I stopped. I stopped begging, chasing, & vying for love that was never meant for me. I stopped making excuses for people that had time & time again shown me exactly how they feel about me. I stopped sending long heartfelt paragraphs to people that had never really cared to
Anyone can love you when it’s easy. Real love is someone loving you when it’s hard. It’s someone standing by your side through life’s ups and downs. It’s someone healing, evolving, and building with you. It’s someone choosing to take on the world with you every single day.
Someone that loves you will put in their best effort to communicate with you. No matter how poorly worded, or non-sensical, or emotional, or imperfect their attempts may seem, they'll keep trying to sort things out. They'll keep trying to better understand & be better understood
People talk a lot about self-love but aren’t actually ready to do what it takes to truly get there. Self-love isn’t just massages, spa days, yoga retreats, & facials. It’s setting firm boundaries, not just with your words, but through your actions. It’s staying away from people
Someone that’s committed to their growth is sexy to me. I’m not looking to do life with someone that’s stuck in their ways. I’m looking for someone that’s willing to change for us. Someone that will put actions behind their words. Someone that will grow with me. Someone that will
a healer will trigger you. it’s inevitable. that’s their purpose, to trigger you into healing. to trigger your wounds to surface. to trigger you to face your own darkness. to trigger you into accepting, integrating, & loving your shadow. to trigger you to grow & evolve into your
I stopped. I stopped begging, chasing, & vying for love that was never meant for me. I stopped making excuses for people that had time & time again shown me exactly how they feel about me. I stopped sending long heartfelt paragraphs to people that had never really cared to
anyone can love you when it’s easy. real love is loving someone when it’s hard. it’s someone standing by your side through life’s ups and downs. it’s someone healing, evolving, & building with you. it’s someone choosing to take on the world with you every single day.
anyone can love you when it’s easy. real love is someone loving you when it’s hard. it’s someone standing by your side through life’s ups and downs. it’s someone healing, evolving, and building with you. it’s someone choosing to take on the world with you every single day.
you can be loved just the way you are & still have toxic habits to work on. the right people will understand. they’ll see your effort. they’ll be patient with you as you evolve into the happiest, healthiest, baddest, & most loving version of yourself 🤍
Real love makes you feel safe enough to be soft. Real love makes you feel open enough to be vulnerable. Real love makes you feel good enough to just be yourself. & that’s the beauty of unconditional love—you won’t have to try so hard to be loved. You just are.
I'm at the age now where, I don't want a relationship where all of our time & energy goes into fighting over bare minimum things like respect, time, attention, care, & understanding. I want to have the time & energy to do the most for you. Love you beyond the bare minimum. Plan
a divine woman protects her soft-heart w strong boundaries. a divine woman knows her worth & doesn’t accept anything less. a divine woman doesn’t stay where she’s someone’s second choice. a divine woman doesn’t cheat, manipulate, beg, &/or chase for love. a divine woman isn’t
stop seeing people through the lens of the past & start seeing them for who they are today. people can change. some for the worse, others for the better. discernment in all things.
No one likes to hear this but, real love isn’t for everybody. It’s not easy to build a healthy relationship with someone especially when all you’ve ever known is toxic love. It takes a lot of self-work. It takes a lot of patience. It takes a lot of commitment. It takes a lot of
Healing taught me that honesty won’t ruin a real thing. Speaking on your feelings won’t lose you anything worth having. Setting boundaries won’t scare off proper people. & authenticity won’t cost you genuine relationships. Remember that the next time you feel like shit because
I don't know who needs to hear this but, there's better out there. Healthy love exists & it's pure & it’s magical. It's genuine & stable. It’s strong & soft. It’s gentle & reassuring. & it’s not some far away fantasy—it’s possible for you too.
a healer will trigger you. it’s inevitable. that’s their purpose, to trigger you into healing. to trigger your wounds to surface. to trigger you to face your own darkness. to trigger you into accepting, integrating, & loving your shadow. to trigger you to grow & evolve into your
When it comes to dating, my best advice is to stay in your body. You’re going to feel it in your body when someone is wasting your time. You’re going to feel it in your body when something is off about someone. You’re going to feel it in your body when someone is being dishonest
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If you fully understand what this means, you’d realize how much anything & everything you do trinkles down through social networks and really truly impacts so many people.