I was raised by a single father. My mom died when my two sister's and I were between 7 to 10 years. Abu g never remarried. I have personally witnessed the struggles my Abu goes through every day.Being a single father is the toughest and most empowering thing he has ever done.+
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We recite Ayat-ul-Kursi to make sure shayatin stays away. Good stay away we keep our Masjids clean we don’t want it to smell like garbage pajeet.
As i walk through the valley of shadow of death, i take a look at my life and realize there's nothing left. Acknowledge the greatness. Goosebumps for every cricket fan.
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Feel him. You were not in his shoe. Stop freaking out children. To understand this face, you need to watch more cricket not just a few overs of T20 world cup. Period! 💔
Don't steal the happiness of anyone, and do not trouble the heart of anyone. Our lives are short and in the grave, we will need those who pray for us and not against us.
I'm sunni. My family is sunni. We feel, from our parents and elders, that Muharram is sacred for reasons other than literal translation but don’t know why. We get lost in confusing debates about not marrying during Muharram. Elders argue over engagements being jaa’iz before and +
Kashmiri man who leaves his wife with his parents to work abroad returns after 3-4 years for a one month vacation. These kind of men shouldn't get married ever.
i usually deal with my own problems alone and i automatically distance myself from everyone once i feel sad and tired due to some personal reasons. i don't ask for help that often, even from my best friends, because i don't want to be a burden on them. besides, i don't know +
Kids of Kashmir who receive text over whatsApp that school is off will never understand the feeling of going to school, finding out that it's a holiday, and then coming back home to eat that tiffin/ lunch box while watching our favorite cartoon.
Most people carry a romanticized notion of Kashmir. The symbol of overrated natural beauty. Alas, there is an ugly face behind this bewitching romantic fairy that once was! But today, valley is plagued by drugs,theft, burglary, and murders of beastly nature. The place considered+
I'm surprised at a society which shows tolerance towards those who would like to go around half naked but finds it difficult to tolerate a lady who by her own choice wants to observe hijab. Yet we go around fighting against rape and sexual abuse when we walk around naked. Ironic!
I'm the only one here who hate kids. Kids are just annoying, they annoy me, in every sense of the word. They have no common sense, they can’t drink, they have to go to bed early, they scream, they cry, they annoy me. I’ll never have kids they’re annoying.
Kashmiri brothers studying outside hold ur horses and focus on ur careers. Nothing is worth ur life and families getting anxious for your safety back home.And while u watch this upcoming match, do remember this that there will be as many eyeballs on u as there will on the match.
14 years old girl from Kulgam on way towards her orchard wrongfully restrained her and forcibly raped her by a local person namley Mudasir,arrested within one hour💔💔😭
How to ask for help, so i just disappear and fix myself, then return once i feel better. some people think that i'm too aloof and being too distance from them, but that's just who i am and i badly want them to understand that.
The way I have saved myself from haram relationships since 22 years for the sake of deen. Allah Rabul Izzat you better be sending a hoor/ princess for me now. I know I shouldn't address God like this instead of praying but that sudden argue.
Heart doesn't stay away from Almighty and his remembrance for so long. You must be busy in your things but sudden feeling of missing someone hit u so badly and u know that where to go and where to look at,that fragility in emotions and u just want to cry ur heart out to Him only.
My friend fell in love with this anonymous girl named sana (name changed)on k twitter few months back after alot of online romance & interacting with each other on timeline & even after selecting names of their kids yesterday he got her number and when he saved it he got a +
Wake up early tomorrow. Eat a good breakfast. Do ur hair and makeup and put on a kick ass outfit. Buy ur cup of tea and enjoy every sip of it. Go to work, make that money, and learn something new in the process. Nourish. Grow. Inspire. Self destruction is not an option mate.
I'm so glad that Allah know what's in our hearts.Because even if people twist the truth, even if people go against u, even if no one stands by u, Allah Rabul izzat will always know the status of your heart. I'm so glad that Allah knows who is truly sincere & kind and who is not.
I pray that one day you will find someone that feels like home. Someone that will love you on worst days and even when you feel unlovable. Someone who understands every of your healing phase. Someone that will always be there for the ups and downs of life.
If u dance at a lot of weddings, you'll cry at a lot of funerals. This means if you're present at many beginnings, you'll also be there for many endings. If u have many friends, you'll experience so many losses. So, shorten ur gatherings. Build your boundaries. avoid people.
My biggest fear is being buried six feet deep when I am nowhere near being the muslim I want to become. May Allah Rabul izzat shower his mercy upon us, and grant us light in the grave.
Arrange marriage is such a scary concept nowadays.What if they just act nice in front of everyone but possess bad temper, controlling behaviour & a manipulative toxic personality. This is the worst fear. May Allah protect every pure heart person & naseeb sbke ache karein ameen.
People who share same kind of traumas become friends so easily here, even u dont share everything u just know & they understand the whole situation & emotions you'll be feeling, their aura matches with yours like you've met them before. Something is so strange about those people.
I have seen Allah Rabul izzat everywhere. While I pray. While I simply look at the sky admiring how beautiful the weather is. It's when I see a beautiful flower bloom or when a silent prayer is heard at once. He is there. Always. In all his glory.
How habits of your siblings and parents engraved in ur brain, u know how one knocks the door, sound of their footsteps, who eats that way, who might have done the disaster, who left the towel on bed, who didn't put glass in the sink literally you can guess it. They know u better+
Your sabar seems hard to endure at that time but u have to keep your intentions pure and leave the matter on Allah Rabul izzat, He handles everyone perfectly, you don't even need to indulge yourself in such acts when your biggest protector knows you and protecting you.
Or after 10th Muharram. They’ve become confused on the validity of their beliefs. However, Karbala wasn’t a sacrifice for Shias, it wasn’t even a sacrifice for all Muslims. It was a sacrifice for humanity. It should not be forgotten. It should always be remembered.
No one hypes a girl's cooking more than her father. No matter what you make, he'll always compliment it. My sister tried Biryani first time which turned out khichdi i swear. Literally, no one but my father ate it sounding like it was the tastiest thing ever lol!
On my wedding function inshallah, if my wife isn't crying when she sees me walking in Achkan sherwani, I am going back home. I can't marry an ungrateful person like Allah Rabul izzat gave me to you and you can't cry tears of joy.
Dear Kashmiri Girls when you are crossing a road and see a Bike/Car/ any vehicle approaching fast, “Please for God's sake make a decision. ” Either move forward or take a step back, “but please stop closing your eyes. ” like you have accepted your fate.
Support is very important in order to face any obstacle and hurdles in life. A husband and wife should be supportive of each other. A husband should lend his support whenever his wife faces any problem related to the house or her work. Similarly, the wife is also encouraged to +
Literally, my delusional self still thinks I'm going to meet someone organically one day in a restaurant or she's gonna mistakenly spill coffee on me in coffee shop. But the truth is that i don't even leave my room and hope I found someone miraculously.
Kashmiri aunties go to any wedding, see beautiful girls, approaches them indirectly, take their chin or hands in their hand and say“Haye itni khoobsurat ladki, iske zindagi to sirf mera beta barbaad karega. ”
Village life is more peaceful than city life. We South Kashmir people experience life in it's purest form. I can say with conviction that village people has a unique charm that srinagar people often misses out on.
That waiting period literally makes you a different person, that patience, that courage, that faith, closeness and maturity it brings, is something which make us that kind of person who actually deserve to have what they ask for it or something better. May Allah ease our matters.
Someday, you'll realize that everything you've gone through was a blessing in disguise. Thing's didn't work out the way u expected them to becuz u were prepared for something better, and all the restless nights wondering why everything happened to u will finally make sense.
Society is a collection of humans. If a society fails, it's because the humans who make up that society have failed. The best way to combat such lifeless people is to pretend they don't exist. We should simply ignore them like this brave sister did & they will starve.
Only a partner like Shraddha Joshi of movie “12th Fail” whose motivation, support and encouragement helped Rickshaw Puller Manoj Kumar Sharma to crack UPSC exam can save me now. otherwise I can't do it alone.
Education in Kashmir is left far behind cuz tiktokers, Ig martial art influencers & bloggers are earning way more & living a better life than some doctors and engineers! Doctors keep studying even when they're 35+ & here cringe content creators r financially stable at 22. insane.
Someday someone won't be afraid of how much you love. They won't stay on the shore, they'll meet you in the depths. U weren't made for shallow waters, your heart is an ocean mate.
Winter in Kashmir is great. No sweating. No bad hair days. No lizards. No ants. No cockroaches. No rishtedaar influx. No weddings of people that i don't even know . Just hoodies, warm showers, quilts, December nights, chilly winds and lots of reading.
Jawani, akelepan, ghar ki zimmedariyan, adhori khwahishen, sajda, mustaqbil, waledain sy dour, siskiyaan, mushkilat, thakawat, thaany, naa'umeedi, nakaam dostiyan aur pata nahi kia kia seeny mai liye agar jee rahe ho to kamaal kar rahe ho ap!.
That era when you dropped your Nokia 1280 mobile phone the battery flew out was just crazy life was good back then! Low key nokia phone era was something else.
Shoutout to the people who haven't felt okay lately, but get up everyday and refuse to quit, one day the word “soon” will be replaced by “finally” inshallah. Stay strong.
Our marriage culture in Kashmir from past few years is the just the liberal mindset people dancing in front of all these na mehrams and the parents cheering them up. I can't emphasize enough on how much haraam we have normalized. Honestly, it's gross+