Past few months have been terrible for me. Every woman carries a sense of burden and fear for her safety. Has it always been this way? How do we move forward from here?
I wrote on sexual harassment and violence for TNS.
Women, please don’t fall into the trap of becoming super moms/super women. We’re only humans. We need better support systems at work and at home. We need breaks. We need a work-life balance. We shouldn’t have to compromise on our health to prove ourselves.
Ladies, please don’t make your whole life about one man. Have interests outside of that relationship, have friends you can depend on, make time for your family, build a career if possible. No need to be the other half when you can be a whole person and still be in a relationship.
I just took a Taxi driven by a Pakistani driver from Dir. He’s been in Dubai for 11 years now. We were doing small talk and I was discussing the mehengai in Pakistan. When he was about to drop me off, he said paisoun ki koi pareshani hai tou app rehnay dain. Koi baat nahin! 😭
My son has been praying for my health. He has made a personalized prayer on his own where he recites Bismillah first, followed by his dua and ends it with Qul Hu Allah. Last night he proudly told me that he has also added ‘Lab pe aati hai’ at the end.
The government is so horrified and shocked because he victim killed by the mob was a Sri Lankan. If he was an Ahmedi, this would’ve been a routine matter.
Few weeks ago, someone jumped from the apartment rooftop in Askari 11 and passed away. The Askari management decided to lock all apartment rooftops across all Askaris. I don’t know if there is a more accurate description of how we run this country.
Qamar and Sahil Nadeem's claim that 95% of women in Pakistan are illiterate is not only inaccurate but also deeply disrespectful.
Their condescending manner towards a young girl, who bravely countered with strong arguments, is appalling.
Such misogynistic attitudes should
My (late) father’s old colleague called the other day and family found out that my 7 year old niece has been sending messages on their whatsapp group from my father’s phone saying, I’m messaging from the grave etc.
Can we please make gender sensitivity and human rights training mandatory for all professions, irrespective of their fields, including government officials and especially for Prime Minister’s office?
When you lose a parent, you lose a piece of your heart, forever. I’ve realized that my heart will never be complete again. May your parents live a long and healthy life.
Facts I didn’t know before: Sahira Kazmi is daughter of Shyam. Indian film actor who was Manto’s best friend. He tried to convince Manto to stay back in India after partition by telling him tum kaun se itnay Musalman ho? Manto responded: “Itna tou houn ke mara jaoun.”
It's been 6 days that members of Shia Hazara community are waiting for PM's visit with 11 dead bodies of their loved ones brutally killed. PM's priorities:
- Meeting Ertugrul's production team & local actors
- Interview to Digital Media Publishers & Youtubers
- Attending launch
COVID SCAM ALERT!
My cousin tested positive for COVID few days ago. Today my Mami got a call from a random number asking for my cousin. The guy said he’s from the government department, since my cousin tested positive they will come to the house to test the rest of the family.
What happened at Karachi Eats is one of the worst fears of Pakistani women. It is triggering because most of us have severe PTSD after attending public events that weren't safe for women. I stopped attending big events, concerts etc. because I don't want to go through this trauma
Prime Minister Imran Khan proudly announcing formation of another religious authority, as if it is some groundbreaking revolutionary idea in this country.
Le cabinet:
Women are conditioned to believe that enduring physical & emotional pain is a sign of strength. This is why not taking pain meds during menstruation or not getting an epidural during childbirth is considered worthy of praise. Yes it’s a personal choice but there are no medals.
Son got some birthday money and said he wanted to get “expensive” toys from his money. When I asked him what does he mean by expensive toys, he said woh jo app har dafa kehti ho yeh nahi lay saktay, this is too expensive.
The culprits of Motorway rape have not been caught yet.
#CCPOLahore
& his team had one job, he is busy blaming the victim, making irresponsible & offensive statements instead. Why is he so powerful & the government so powerless?
@UsmanAKBuzdar
@ShireenMazari1
#RemoveCCPOLahore
The way fathers keep getting heart attacks because of their daughters in Pakistani dramas, it seems like a patriarchal disease rather than a medical disease.
Witnessed 3 men from Tableeghi Jamaat create havoc in Sri Lankan airline’s plane. They all wanted to stand and pray Maghrib, during a turbulent flight when the seatbelt sign was on. One even prayed near crew area. The rest wanted to follow suit.
Joyland was cleared by Censor Board earlier for release in Nov. after reviewing the movie. Why people who haven’t even watched the film have a say against its release? Please clarify who exactly have raised these objections and why were they accepted?
@Marriyum_A
#ReleaseJoyland
This guy who had been running a propaganda campaign on Twitter against Aurat March for being foreign funded etc. invited Cynthia Ritchie as a guest speaker on women’s day event, organized by him. What are these people yaar!
The whole world has watched and praised a film made in Pakistan by Pakistanis. It has gotten great reviews and standing ovations everywhere but the Pakistani public cannot watch the film in their own country on their cinema screens. We want to see Joyland!
#ReleaseJoyland
If you celebrated when GEO was banned/boycotted, if you mocked Dawn news and called it foreign funded media outlet, you shouldn’t be angry now that ARY is being targeted.
There could be many reasons why a couple doesn’t have kid(s). Maybe they’re not planning one anytime soon, maybe they don’t want one or maybe they are trying but haven’t been able to conceive but it’s NEVER because they’re waiting for some aunty to tell them ‘ab bacha ker lou’.
What message is the state sending to this peaceful grieving community? Does state only listen to those who pick up arms, storm the capital and create havoc in the country? The Hazaras are not blackmailers Mr. Prime Minister, blackmailers were those who were awarded by the state.
Grief is not linear and it cannot be measured in time. How can you measure something in days, months or years when it feels like that person you are grieving was only a fragment of your imagination? Grief however can be measured in moments, missed occasions and empty spaces.
There’s something about losing that one person who loves you unconditionally. Life goes on but you never fully recover from the loss. On every occasion, event, ramzan and eid, you just feel their absence more. You recall what life used to be when your loved one was still around.
When my cousin saved his number to see his details on whatsapp, the number has a profile picture of a young guy named Shoaib Khawar. My cousin also called Chugtai Lab and they said they haven’t shared the personal information or result with anyone.
When I was leaving for Umrah, someone told me to focus on small miracles of Allah that I’ll experience while I’m there and after coming back, I can only reflect and be in awe of Allah and say SubhanAllah.
Why are PTI supporters making fun of Ali Tareen attending Imran Khan’s space? Because the party, supporters and their leader have no concept of respectfully listening to other politicians and opposing views.