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@spxcialkae

6 months

@abs1k_ This is why a lot of you are depressed + have so much contempt for urself but don’t understand why. Like this advice, each act of betrayal or denial of your needs + genuine desires take away bits of you until you become a shell of urself. Do what works for YOU, forget the noise

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@liddycomidee @queenveej Give people their flowers (regardless of race) when they deserve it, it won’t hurt you

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@SiAngle568 @NickiNicoleSTL @isaiahgripper she definitely does because who watches that and comes up with “that was a lot”. She didn’t do enough if you ask me because I would’ve gone to her home (for record keeping purposes) and have the po po pick her up from there

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@blvckcouples more like + some darker tones

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@spxcialkae

8 months

@Antss1j & the room is still 1k kmttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@Teyamade @_CarinaWh Na there are these things called “composure” and “self-control” you primitive pervert

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@spxcialkae

10 months

@EllaDecember I used to have a “friend” who was sooooo triggered by this. Every time she saw my nails she always had a sly comment “Mrs Degree” “Working babe” “Short and boring” etc. Like my nails really upset her 😂😂😂 then a few years later she started rocking short nails too 😂😂😂😂

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@spxcialkae

10 months

@BigBadBunny2 I’m a nurse (MH) and honestly you’re super lucky if you get a compassionate and empathetic nurse, especially if it’s a physical health nurse. They do not care about you

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@spxcialkae

6 months

@shayraiix With all due disrespect, get over yourself. Just say you’re not a good friend and let’s move on pls, this “who can be the worst friend” Olympics you lot love to pontificate on is getting boring now

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@spxcialkae

9 months

@honchohooch Rewatching this, OG was right and all those ladies were so wrong on some mean girls sh*t. OG was damn strong to stand on business on her own. But this is what it’s like for *real black women, especially dark skin black women

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@spxcialkae

6 months

@badbitchteea @abs1k_ That’s what makes this advice even more dreadful!

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@spxcialkae

2 years

The guy that was asking me if I had slept well and/or if I had eaten 2 weeks ago has just gotten engaged today 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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@spxcialkae

6 months

@oatmilklover420 @ChiefBlackfin @abs1k_ why do you even want to work somewhere you have to police your being like this ???? have some self respect and integrity FOR CHRIST SAKE

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@spxcialkae

2 years

Speaking about gym culture and how uncomfortable it is for women, I remember at my last gym during one of my sessions I noticed this guy literally following me around, he would position himself either in front or near me everywhere I went to workout and workout there too

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@spxcialkae

11 months

@ZezeMillz Speak for yourself sis, YOU are not Lori Harvey. I detest when people try to make others feel as low as they do. YOU may not be able to move like this but I promise you lots of us can and do. But don’t fret, there’s still hope for an “everyday” babe like you 🫶🏿

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@spxcialkae

6 months

@ltsouthernbelle @abs1k_ 100%, it’s one of the toughest lessons I’ve had to learn but until you learn it (+ live it!!!) you will be miserable and not understand why

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@spxcialkae

8 months

@mindofprospect Before I started doing this, I cannot tell you how many times I have received dm’s “hey I see we’re in the same area *insert excuse to meet up here*”. I posted a tb last year, tagged the location, 10 minutes later “hey me and my friends just arrived, wanna come to our villa” 🙄

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@spxcialkae

2 years

This is the sad reality because men will beg you to keep a baby, only to disappear when the baby arrives

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@Pinky_Balboaaa

2 years

I was JUST telling my cousin, that as women, we should only become moms if we reconciled that we may have to be the sole parent and are ok with it. You can cross all the T’s and dot all the i’s with choosing a man, but he shouldn’t be considered into your decision to be a mom 🤷🏽‍♀️

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@spxcialkae

6 months

@_ethatsme @abs1k_ From ur response, I assume ur issue is u probably don’t know how or struggle to cultivate genuine community outside of forced settings. Yes of course be kind and cordial + that doesn’t mean to say you can’t build a community with colleagues from work but that is not it’s purpose

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@_CarinaWh If you’re a jealous hater, just say that b

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@kelechnekoff This was actually the day I lost faith in yt people smh

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@spxcialkae

9 months

@iam_enriched You did nothing wrong, she asked for your advice and got a response she didn’t like. Some people have never experienced genuine honesty in their life. Also it’s clear that your values and morals aren’t aligned so she actually did you a favour by blocking you

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@spxcialkae

1 year

@Skysarfo You’re boring for coming on here to seek validation for your choices. There’s no problem with not drinking or smoking, nobody cares and even if they do, everyone is entitled to be selective about who they want to spend their time with

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@TheBlackLayers And that’s the problem! Parenting should be intentional. Bringing a human into this world, who’s experience of their childhood is going to affect their day to day in adult life and how they treat other human beings, should be intentional

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@spxcialkae

5 months

@chlosih Most definitely not

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@spxcialkae

10 months

@AiddyLFC Before I moved to the UK that was the postcode I used for UK websites and registrations 😂 the only one I actually knew 😅

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@spxcialkae

1 year

@REDSEASHAWTY My last manager was like this, when I realised that our definitions of “passionate” about work was different I made it abundantly clear (to manage expectations) that I would never be as “passionate” as her because I have a life and strongly believe in workplace boundaries

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@spxcialkae

6 months

@__scotchy and then they’ll say that our ego is too big, we think too highly of ourselves, lol like they don’t think so too

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@spxcialkae

10 months

Good! Until you accept the role you play in your suffering nothing changes

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@spxcialkae

1 year

@Skysarfo I had time, take care

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@spxcialkae

2 years

I’m so fkn hot

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@Alexander4oom @Unkle_K @faaji_alhajji I thoroughly enjoyed this thread. Guy friends like you guys >>>>>>>

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@spxcialkae

8 months

@niigato_ Stopped voting after Round 5, that shit was embarrassing. Why does UK rap sound like nursery rhymes compared to US hip hop ??? 😭😭😭😭

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@rayaldn BBL Fashions at its finest ‼️

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@spxcialkae

2 years

Obviously he thought I would approach him. I didn’t, as I was leaving he had the audacity to grab me and say “I noticed you noticing me and wanted to say hi”. I was sweating and in that gym daze, I literally just kmtttt’d and walked away. What a normal thing to do 🙂

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@spxcialkae

6 months

@sorathexxplora @oatmilklover420 @ChiefBlackfin @abs1k_ It’s important to be cordial I agree but this idea of betraying urself to be the ideal black employee to make ur yt colleagues comfortable is pathetic. It depends on the kind of person you are + what you want but more time the impact on your being isn’t worth the slight advantage

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@spxcialkae

2 years

💆🏿‍♀️✨

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@spxcialkae

8 months

@blixberrie When I lived in London, summer ‘22 I think, my friend and I would only go to Soho house events because we knew we weren’t the desired “type” and would have a peaceful girls night. We used to have so much fun!

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@spxcialkae

1 year

@REDSEASHAWTY She then started stuttering, talking about she hoped we could work it out. I told her in my experience, people who’s life revolve around work are not the kind of people I want to work with or even just be around. It was like 2pm, I packed my shit & left, so happy I did!

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@spxcialkae

11 months

@thekingsmind8 @ZezeMillz Who told you it was unrealistic and are you God to know everyone’s true hearts desire ??? All girlie did was encourage women, black women in particular, to have standards and not settle. It may be helpful for you to reflect on why you believe that’s “unrealistic”

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@spxcialkae

8 months

I think this way about everything, I have decided the kind of life I want and deserve and say no to anything that doesn’t align. Like “hmm my friend/partner/manager/colleague who actually cares for me + wants me to feel safe and valued wouldn’t do that.. ok bye”

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@alondramaren

8 months

sometimes i think to myself like hmm my future husband would never do that, and move on

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@spxcialkae

5 months

Lost a high paying contract this morning (even went to get my nails done to cheer myself up), just finished an interview (only applied this afternoon) for an even higher paying contract this evening. I start in 2 weeks 🥹

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@spxcialkae

7 months

@GoldingGirl617 They make it sound like they’re doing you a favour by treating you right and I honestly hate that because you could’ve just left me alone kmttttt

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@spxcialkae

9 months

@prettyforadarky @honchohooch You’re right, some darkskin women chose to align themselves with lighter skin women and bully other darkskin women so they can feel better about themselves and avoid the “darkskin experience”. Kinda like how bm use yt women to (try to) escape black trauma, hope that helps ❤️

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@ALLEON_K Na I agree, Ireland is the place to be (if you like a nice, quiet, sometimes boring but peaceful life) but for certain careers there’s no growth in Ireland. The goal is to up-skill and come back established

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@spxcialkae

1 year

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@ItGirlNqobee

1 year

Cute Bikini selfie thread🤭👙?

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@spxcialkae

7 months

@_dontfuckabout @Oquan_xi She’s 18. Wild idea but you know you could actually just not listen ? Like so crazy I know but when she comes on your screen, you can like not engage ? Maybe try that, hope it helps 💗

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@spxcialkae

10 months

Also that was HER choice to block her friend & be isolated with that man. Does the friend not deserve peace too ??? Do you know how exhausting it is to be a friend in that situation ??? Where is the accountability ??? Your friends are not responsible for your bad choices, be fr

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@spxcialkae

6 months

@TheRaddestRex @oatmilklover420 @ChiefBlackfin @abs1k_ And that’s ok.. for you. I have enough self-esteem and self-respect to ensure that I am aligned to spaces and opportunities that won’t make me have to compromise my integrity to “deal with it”

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@spxcialkae

2 years

The beauty I was referring to #thankyouGod 🤍

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@spxcialkae

1 year

@Raidz2Real This is the same man who tried to defend his deadbeat friend abi ? You are a rare kind of idiot and have been oppressing us with your stupidity for far too long now

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@spxcialkae

7 months

@PHREN0L0GY This is actually very true when you understand that societies idea (which influences our perceptions) of a terrible woman is a confident, unapologetic, self sufficient, autonomous woman. And a good woman is agreeable and subservient

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@spxcialkae

5 months

@kinglabi_ @Numberonesensei Yes

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@mashedwork @DifonMD By encouraging women to have standards, meaning that u believe u do not meet those standards. What’s amazing to me is that u tweeted this on ur own volition and not under duress. Please apply sense and/or shame, telling the world u lack basic skills is not something to celebrate

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@spxcialkae

2 years

Especially when they already know marketplace is gonna flop, PLT is not sustainable or recyclable!!! Is it just me ????

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@imnotforreal

2 years

Is this PLT deal they gave Indiyah good? Kinda feels like a “here nigga, damn” moment.

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@spxcialkae

2 years

I need to know why Jacques really left!! Because that was an amazing performance but give us the real tea ??? #LoveIsland

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@spxcialkae

8 months

new year, new space ft. my 1st hello fresh box ☺️🧺💖🍝

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@mdaixo and the music video *chefs kiss* a movie, timeless love 🫶🏿

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@spxcialkae

10 months

@MissLyricVoelle @EllaDecember I got the point sis but I actually think that train of thought is indicative of major insecurity because who tf cares, reflect instead of posting silly memes baby girl 💖

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@inmyownbrain @Teyamade @_CarinaWh he really thought smh

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@spxcialkae

2 years

Cruella De B*tch (of the Bad B*tches, first of her name)

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@spxcialkae

7 months

I set out on this mission a couple years ago, let go of those old connections (tbh that only reflected how much contempt I had for myself) & worked on developing new genuine friendships. It wasn’t easy but I am so grateful I did this and wish I had the courage to do it sooner

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@africanglo

7 months

I want a completely new group of genuine friends

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@spxcialkae

8 months

@Dabzzzz97 As someone who moved to the UK from another country, the situation in the UK is dire and not going to get any better. Economically everywhere is struggling but this country and their government are diabolical

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@spxcialkae

9 months

@prettyforadarky @honchohooch Ok babe, take care

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@spxcialkae

2 years

because not everyone deserves the effort

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@GURUJAHRA

2 years

walking away from people and situations when things get too hard instead of trying to work through it >>>

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@spxcialkae

1 year

@MonroweM Because she is an actual beg

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@spxcialkae

2 years

I don’t do that but you gotta let the people know so if you get this video from me, just know what time it is

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@deboscoo

2 years

Announcing you’re cutting ppl off at the end of each year is so corny

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@spxcialkae

2 years

Reminiscing about the times I was healthy and cute + had normal functioning of my airways

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@spxcialkae

1 year

@Dansnewgen THIRTY FIVE MEASLY POUNDS ???? (at the Shard????) I’m praying for you h*es 😭😭😭😭

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@o_keilani To whoever this man is, a quick Google would have helped with differentiating slaves and indentured servants because they are not the same thing sir

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@spxcialkae

6 months

@its_giving @oatmilklover420 @ChiefBlackfin @abs1k_ Then so be it. If likability >> quality of my work then they’re actually doing me a favour. I have no desire to be liked or build rapport with people I don’t respect. I do my work + I’m cordial, that’s all that should be expected

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@spxcialkae

2 years

When someone is sucking the life out of you and you’re not naturally an active person, I promise gym or exercise of any kind is the last thing on your mind

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@korejay

2 years

Getting in shape after a failed relationship is wild to me because why couldn’t you do that during the relationship?

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@spxcialkae

5 months

@ysmammri This is so me because you really thought you would let me build the bed myself and you could get in ???? Sweetheart you’re never setting foot in my home again 😂😂😂 Idc how much I like you, that can’t fly

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@spxcialkae

6 months

@lady_catheryn @shayraiix If you agree with that mentality I don’t expect you to understand my view and it’s not worth my time explaining. Take care 💗

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@spxcialkae

1 year

I’m going to teach my children that they (each individual child) are the most important person in their life and they should take care of themselves, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, by all means possible

ITUMELENG🕯️🌊

@itu_nadia

1 year

I’m going to teach my kids that their sibling is the most important person in their life. You take care of each other by all means possible🫶

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@relica85 @o_keilani Then they are not an indentured servant, boo try again

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@spxcialkae

6 months

after our first date 🥹

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@justdejiii

6 months

april dump but make it sweet/romantic messages🚮 🧍‍♂️

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@spxcialkae

2 years

I love being around people (I respect) who aren’t afraid to call me out or express themselves if they’re unhappy with something I’ve done, like yessss please I wanna learn and grow and I can’t do it on my own 🥺

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@spxcialkae

11 months

summer was so much fun 🥹💖🍹☀️

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@taynextdoor

11 months

it's the last month of the year, quote with your favorite pictures of yourself this year.

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@spxcialkae

2 years

I rebuke the spirit of scarcity and limitations around me, all I know and all I will ever know is abundance!

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@spxcialkae

1 year

Even if I didn’t like the babe, the way I would be screaming !!! Like there’s NO WAY

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@jiggyjayy2

1 year

I wouldnt let no black woman get hit with a brick and my presence and just stand there looking dumb. Me and all my homegirl are jumping him- tf, yall is really bitch ass niggas but we knew that, so next topic!

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@spxcialkae

10 months

@rococo_chanelle @JiorJette Thank you for this perspective 🙏🏿

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@illytweets This is how girls who have no style, no fashions, no pazzazz, or that certain je ne sais quoi, “joke” with bad b’s

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@spxcialkae

7 months

This!! I’ve had to distance myself from so many of my “friends” who refuse to see me as human because I am so “strong and independent”. The lack of consideration is really hurtful and I’m simply not dealing with it anymore

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@flyboiidotcom

7 months

You gotta be careful about being perceived as having it all together cause everybody gon start treating u like a robot who don’t need nothing lol gotta show a little chink in your armor every here n there to remind people you’re human

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@spxcialkae

5 months

& this is why I will never doubt her again, playing myself when I do

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@abillionheir

5 months

no one speaks about the resentment you have towards yourself after you didnt listen to your gut

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@spxcialkae

2 years

One of the biggest shocks at the start of my “helping” career was realising that most nurses are horrible self-serving people lol

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@MissWinz There’s nothing embarrassing about it at all. Her standards or expectations affect you in no way whatsoever. If anything, we should all strive for high standards. I think you need to reflect on why it bothers you so much because baby girl is just living her life and you’re mad 😂

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@spxcialkae

1 year

just a qt heading to werk xx

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@spxcialkae

2 years

I cannot believe I got a government therapy job wtffffff

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@spxcialkae

1 year

Milton is my dream man, a super tall nerd that’s passionate about his nerdy things and is willing to learn to be vulnerable ??? God whennnn 😭😭😭 #LoveIsBlind

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@spxcialkae

10 months

In the traditional sense because you have lost your whole mind if you think I’m carrying your child without significant commitment, idc who you are or how much I love you

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@miisstaay

10 months

If I don’t get married I’m not having children. Simple 😂

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@spxcialkae

6 months

@_yungkend @its_giving @oatmilklover420 @ChiefBlackfin @abs1k_ And that’s ok with me. My integrity and self-respect is what’s important to me, not anybody’s business. Funnily enough, I am more successful now than ever, even more than when I did play these games I don’t expect someone like you to understand sir, take care

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@spxcialkae

1 year

@REDSEASHAWTY Idk what she wanted but I just told her to hold up. Called my agency to confirm that I could quit on the spot and today would be my last day, they said yes. Went back to the convo with her and just told her not to worry about it as today was my last day

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@spxcialkae

2 years

Of all the things to do with a dragon 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love my people man 😭😭😭😭😭

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@Hauwa_L

2 years

If I had a dragon, I’ll be cooking party jollof everyday. Any small thing, *pack firewood* Oya Vhagar, sha na si

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@spxcialkae

1 year

@REDSEASHAWTY Girlie called me into the office the next week and was like “I don’t think this is working out, you’re not passionate enough and don’t seem like a team player”. Mind you, my actual work was exemplary, she + others on the team, plus other teams said this

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@spxcialkae

5 months

This is why once you lie to me, no matter how small, sorry but it was lovely knowing you. I automatically switch into HR mode and start wishing people the best on their future endeavours because you’re a whole liar and that can’t fly in my world #sorrynotsorry

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@soymeii

5 months

worst part about finding out somebody lied to you is having to sit there and wonder what else they lied about

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@spxcialkae

2 years

@brandypapii he has some other hits you know 👀

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@spxcialkae

11 months

@thekingsmind8 @ZezeMillz You came on the internet to express how you felt because a woman told other women to have standards and not settle. You are experiencing emotions sir, I’m so sorry to have to break it to you. I don’t claim to know what people are feeling or want because I don’t. Take care

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