for those of you who don't know, i work in the architecture field and โ as someone who also writes smut โ i cannot stress to you how i have to triple check my keynotes to make sure i didn't accidentally type 'cum' instead of 'cmu' on my elevations ๐ญ๐คฃ
it takes literally five seconds to say 'no feedback, tysm ๐' at the top of your work.
commenters these days are terrified of leaving feedback, whether good or bad, bc either way, it might piss the writer off.
@CasianH
personally, I think that criticism is really helpful! i am always looking to improve my craft and while yes, it's not professional writing, I think it's entitled to ONLY want positive comments and praise for work that you're inviting random ppl online to consume.
coming back to add background context โ
there was discourse in the group that screenshot was from talking about how newer writers are feeling discouraged bc they aren't getting engagement due to the unspoken rule of 'if I don't ask, don't give it'
like โ you guys, my main point here is to just say at the top whether you want feedback or not.
but NOT saying anything and stereotyping the assumption that if I don't explicitly say I want crit means no feedback whatsoever is crazy.
@nyxeni
exactly though, that's my point โ you can just say you either do or don't want feedback. but assuming that unless I ask for it, don't give me anything at all is doing a disservice to newer writers and artists coming into the space who *don't* know this rule.
so if you don't want it, that's great, say that.
if you do want it, that's also great, say that.
but not saying anything and intending for it to be taken as the former is killing comment culture.
'his lashes lowered, dark and thick as he spoke in another tone altogether. reverent, "i want that quiet rapture again.."'
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a look inspired by 'quiet rapture'
@Lala_Zee
"you're the only what-if i've ever dwelled on," izuku gritted against his mouth. "and it pisses me off." // โi want my name to bounce around the inside of your skull the same way yours does in mine.
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doctor midoriya | ch. 4 |
@cassthruart
@jackharkness
and that's absolutely respectable bc they *said* 'no constructive criticism'. it's a boundary that the creator would prefer to not be crossed.
"Mmm?" Hitoshi hums, a question that reveals itself to be amusement when he pillows his cheek upon folded arms and eyes Shouto with pink cheeks and pretty eyes.
He's so, /so/ pretty, always.
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A look based on "You Swallowing Matches" by
@Lala_Zee
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me, a chronic insomniac, on my phone and reading, pushing thru the sleepiness bc i'm almost done with this chapter
also me, ten mins later, wide awake now: "did i... did i just miss my window of being Sleepyโข๏ธ?" ๐ฉ๐ฅบ
@taijujube
Y E S.
but then reo comes home to find their kid duct taped to the wall simply bc dividing his attention between his game and his kid was too much of a hassle.
"mendokusai.."
imma just let y'all talk. get it out of your system bc i asked for polite and civil discourse and y'all don't wanna abide by that ๐ตโ๐ซ๐ตโ๐ซ๐ตโ๐ซ
@roomieofficial
on your channel where ur concerned about monetization? bratty bottom for sure
in other people's vids where you don't have as much of a filter? like emma's vid in making a swedish song? dom af ๐คค
@_thespicerack
and that's what I'm trying to tell so many people tonight that you can just say whether you're open to crit or not at the top of your post but stereotyping the assumption that not putting that up at all means it'll be taken the wrong way is bonkers to me.
"Your work is incredible,โ Shinsou says, in all seriousness. โI wonโt pretend I havenโt seen the news about what youโve been though over the years, but here you are. Healthy and beautiful and inspiring.โ
R U Mine? | Ch 2 |
@Lala_Zee
Itโs getting really difficult to maintain positivity in life right now. Thank you to everyone who is so kind to me, those who comment on my fics, who reply to my posts, who DM me nice things. Iโm consuming these like air to keep me going through this time ๐๐๐
she can fuck her friendโs boyfriend without consequence?
โi mean, i guess?โ
โthen iโll ask hanta. iโm sure heโd be happy to oblige you occasionally. he certainly has a higher sex drive than i do.โ
ah, fuck. she is.
@rinniechoi
not a moot but I wrote a thing about exactly this a few months ago! attitudes about what is and isn't acceptable have really changed over the last 20+ years and I think it's super interesting.
@laurDIY
felt this in my soul. ate some pineapple a week ago and gave me heartburn for 3 days straight ๐ญ
eat a banana (they contain natural antacids!) or if you have those lil asian aloe vera drinks, sip on it (it'll soothe the irritation)
@Lala_Zee
This fic literally changed the way i viewed bkdk and I'm not joking when I say this is one of the best fics I've read across the ass load of fandoms I read for ๐ฅบ take care of yourself, pls ๐
@rizaelei
@calqmit_y
how we're raised brings into the conversation more nuances. as an asian american, asian family members were not afraid to give criticism, constructive or not. so i'm used to it.
and I've learned that many others were not subjected to the same circumstances.
ryusae enemies to lovers but it's just a progression of shidou calling sae sweetheart (derogatory) to sweetheart (affectionate)
and sae hates them both but hates the affectionate one a little ๐ค less
Want a little inspiration for prompting? Screenshot this gif twice to get a ship, then screenshot the second gif (in the threadโ) to get a trope! Show us what combinations you end up with ๐๐
here to offer my crumb for
#nagireo
day โจ a look inspired with a quote from a
#bllk
fic by the ever so talented
@taijujube
regarding
#ngro
| "i've spent enough of my life with you then without you then with you again to know it's what i want and that you are what i want." ๐ค๐
#BKDK
cw/ angst
I was listening to As The World Caves In last night. Now, all I can think about is Izuku and Katsuki being ex-boyfriends. They didn't date for very long, but it was the best time you'd ever had. It just wasn't the right time, they kept telling themselves.
copied over from a fic writing group im in โ but tHISSSSS. all feedback should be welcome if you're making art meant to be experienced and consumed. and if you'd prefer to screen what comes in, define your terms. it takes five seconds to say 'no feedback/concrit, tysm โจ'
who in bllk:
caught yr attention: kira ๐
first fav: bachira
current fav: reo, nagi, isagi, kaiser, bachira, rin
first otp: bachisagi
fav otp: nagireo/bachirin/isakai
fav from bm: kaiser
fav from manshine: nagi
fav from barcha: bachira
fav from pxg: rin
fav from ubers: aryu
the way i was scrolling here while at dinner earlier and i just hear the old man a table over from me at a hightop say "oh my" to the pic of nagi eating reo's ass that was on my screen ๐คฃ๐คง