@milcasinterlude
not a woman but this is all very real n it isn’t exclusive to mens treatment of women either ! extends to all of their partners on the receiving end 😭 u would not BELIEVE how bad it is out here !
@milcasinterlude
i always hear about how scary and dominating and simultaneously misogynistic AND homophobic a lot of my friends tops have been and it’s like. lets unpack whyyyy exactly that is 😭
@scalarKnight
I think can ? autistic people are frequently kept out of the loop w neurotypicals on social things, this can extend to which platforms to use / what language to use / the types of things to send. neurotypicals love streaks ? and I cannot possibly comprehend why they matter
@milcasinterlude
i truly think it is because ppl who are vulnerable in that way are treated as weaker inherently, not just women but anyone, simply because being open enough & willing enough is seen as an invitation for ownership/domination/violence etc
@sundaysundya
i am aware of this, but cutting out the people who Fundamentally Cannot Do The Thing I Want is half of the steps to locating a person who Can. it’s literally That Simple. beyond that all you have to do is just Ask. but I am not wasting my time on people who just Can’t or Won’t.
@sundaysundya
sorry I just want an easy way to communicate that I want creamed. do I have to say all that every time instead is that the necessary procedure now. like im not good at fucking pussy anyway I don’t Want that because I’m Embarrasingly Bad at it. this is Reasonable and Okay
@scumbelievable
feel whatever way you want about Weird fictional shit on the internet but once there’s a literal kill count (and ang is not the only one, either) anyone who participates in this bullshit fandom war needs to sit the fuck down and think about their actions. for a LOOOOOONG time.
@AquaticJazstar
@selfcaregamer1
people can’t infantilize schizophrenics because our symptoms are “scary” and “unusual” and if we express those symptoms in public people get uneasy and even call the cops because we’re “acting threatening”
@AM_Pines
@zECCHInofe
@gabydvj
this is kind of false equivalency though. you didn’t have like five different computers all capable of accessing the internet in your bedroom in the 90s. games have been around always but the constant access & gratification is new
@denimneverdies
“art (any medium) can exist outside of capitalist exploitation” is a take that people can probably generally understand, but all of a sudden you make it sex and it’s “thinking about naked bodies makes you an oppressor”
@coolergrl96
@TheGameAddict7
@dyingscribe
this is so cool how none of these are low cost except the library almost like the concept of a third place has been converted into a luxury for the upper class rather than a common space for common people. but just find one of those I guess have you tried hiking
@BRATZULA
ok actually bad post. trans women use it too, and men w dysfunctions aren’t just old creepy and gross. i know a 20 yr old who needs it. everyone should be able to get it if they need it, it’s good for like 75 percent of human beings on earth
@allahliker
i know this is like a joke post but wouldn’t it be safer to grab right above the lil guys back legs instead of pulling by the tail ?? the tail pull just seems a big mean spirited is all
@rollerbladeshoe
@SHL0MS
@chillextremist
the natural offwhite of most paper in books isn’t as reflective as Pure White which does mean it produces less strain yes. unless you get one of those shitty books that does have the bleached white paper but those don’t deserve to see the light of heaven
@Ichika506
no genuinely. i was thinking about this the other day. it’s sort of like. the death of the online virtual world - online kids games like club penguin and pixie hollow and stuff like that provided a safe and fun environment for kids on the internet (and without brain frying algos)
@Sabo_Cat161
chores as punishment literally creates a negative association between the task and the child. just, like… make it. A fun game. try to race your kid to see who can wash the same amount of dishes the fastest. make laundry a sort by color activity. just . waugh
@themermacorn
my region has been recreating wetlands on as much land as they can set away for it for the past couple of years now and it’s decreased our runoff by over half :) we r trying out here at least !!
@RoboTranssexual
@K1LLYOURTV
i think you should come up with more words to put in my mouth yourself 🫶 be creative! bonus points for being extra vulgar. cmon now don’t be shy !!
@meganroseruiz
technology is definitely literally The Solution to poverty, the problem is capitalism corrupting technology. the problem is that the goal of most technological advancement is extracting value, we simply have to change their goals
@poodlewool
this is really fucking depressing but I do genuinely believe going to the fuckign library is better and will give you more factual information than a Google search now
@scalarKnight
if you missed the Snapchat train in highschool because the NTs didn’t tell you they were using it, you have no way of understanding the culture and social rules of the app, really, because they truly did invent it all in hs, with each other
@aligaytor_
@AroFrom
it really like isnt tho. transmisandry is like, trans men being barred from abortions & repro healthcare because they’re men so obviously they “can’t get pregnant” and etc etc. there’s more but ppl are very uncharitable w letting trans men describe their lives experiences
@heepofreep222
@_akhillos
@anthonytheminty
@_flowersnax
@paynushurts
sure: the rapid warming of the earth caused by fossil fuel use (which generative AI requires a fuck ton of to power itself…) the fucking genocide, oh and the genocide, and the genocide, and the anti trans bills, and the rise of surveillance by both the state and by peers, and t
@thewindarchon
@liv4bacteria
@selfcaregamer1
not….really, I mean you’re definitely not born with cptsd but almost every other thing on this list has genetic markers associated with it or it radically reshapes the architecture of the brain such that you can’t really call the person neurotypical
this is literally not true. your brain doesn’t stop growing and developing, ever. most of the heavy lifting is done by the time you’re like, 17. 18 year olds are still inexperienced in life! that’s real! you don’t need pseudoscience to justify social reality!
@rotting_ghostie
Legally, yes. Scientifically? Our brains haven’t fully developed until around age 25. I think an 18 year old is closer in development to other teens than most adults - also an 18 year old
@Flixaard
@SapphJack
nawww. zoomer here 2 tell u millennials r the only acceptable old ppl ❤️ my older (millennial) sibling is probably the chillest person I know n I appreciate y’all for that tbh
I have been asked to share this by a comrade in Columbus who is being targeted by @ libsoftiktok
She does so much for the community. Protect her.
@TwitterSafety
Please share and report ASAP
@scalarKnight
it’s literally a hornets nest of weird bad social rules. absolutely Snapchat is just not commonly used by autistic people, and if you do use it you probably don’t do it in the same way as NTs use it
@tesserera
@AntifaCatraa
male gaze is a film analysis term about directorial decisions made about where the camera is “gazing” - the composition of the shot & scene
@sundaysundya
like, again, I don’t have infinite time to talk to every single person to negotiate with Every One I’ve Ever Met, these shorthand’s are just meant to make things Easier. certainly there’s a discussion to be had about that being impersonal and sad but it’s not Transphobia
@laurenancona
PERSONALLY I think it’s more ableist to assume all autistic people are incapable of empathy and kindness and minute social interactions such as saying please and thank you and it’s NOT ableist for people to ask, on shitter dot com, for people to be nice to them at work.
@scalarKnight
like apparently it’s incredibly rude to open a snap and not send anything back but I think that’s dumb? there’s no value in sending a black screen lmao ? and sometimes I don’t have the time! and they can see who sees their story and will complain if certain ppl don’t look at it?
@ARRI_SM_
@QuartsClock
some are puppies in a kink way which is cool, some are puppies in a trauma-art-coping way which is also cool, there are many ways to be a puppy girl. if you know what a catboy is you can use that as a point of reference maybe too
@migrainegal
it’s all these damn apps designed to capitalize on your attention span. like ten years ago you could be online and be kinda normal about it but now it’s just so impossible. and then I go outside and im like oh yeah im NOT gonna die that’s so crazy
probablyyyyyyyy because the internet created a culture of dependence on validation for personal worth rather than a culture of good faith, understanding and capability to articulate & comprehend nuanced opinions
yall need constant reassurance for everything and thats yalls problem. u guys needed immediate proof that the boycotts were working, u need ppl to constantly tell u its ok to post about things that aren't related to Palestine, for the love of god please grow up
@scream4shrikes
@VulgarViscera
@LA_Knight89
@SamAburime
@lizzylemondrop
literally mind your business. is someone doing actual murder? actual cannibalism? actual abuse? no? then why do you care? because it made you feel icky. It’s okay, but that’s not a justification for moralist crusading against people, taking their jobs & ostracizing them.
@Phlegmbuoy
doesn’t anyone ever get tired of acting like middle schoolers going “boys are better!” “No girls are better!” No boys!” over and over and over again
@ARRI_SM_
@QuartsClock
puppy girls contain multitudes the easiest answer is any/all. plenty are therians (your first description) but plenty are just people who act like dogs, but some are dogs like, identity wise and aesthetically, and etc etc.
@surelynotedbard
@wanderingdahl
former transmed here: absolutely not. no. literally no to all of those things. informed consent hrt was explicitly demonized, so much so that it kept me, myself, from getting hrt through it for years
@AM_Pines
@zECCHInofe
@gabydvj
i really just think that humans have replaced a lot of natural self soothing activities with phone usage which is probably not the best for us. so we’re always running on overdrive > burnout > avoidance of tasks > poor self regulation through more stimuli instead of Less
@Bun_Bun_131
@magicspeedwagon
boymoding is like a slang term for going out in public trying to pass as a man typically for safety reasons. typically these girls are pre transition but it’s used by transitioning & post transition girls also, & by plenty of non-binary people too
this is so fucking dumb. the artist is literally trans, has SEVERAL disclaimers on their profile about their content and it’s *their own fucking misgendering fetish* why are you people eating your own kin