There's nothing like 50/50 in a relationship because humans are complex. There's always one who will give more than the other be it mentally, emotionally or financially because you and your partner will always be in different seasons of your lives. I'm not saying use people tho!
@uua_murangi
When i ran for Junior Miss Botswana years back, our parents were asked to make donations on our behalf to childline, and then later told the top 10 would consist of 7 people who donated the most and only 3 that were liked by judges. I since then ended my modeling career.
#IpeleKaSegarona
@MoflioSC
#mofliostolemyheart
Today KC a.k.a my brother came to collect donations that I received during my August donation drive to go present at the charity cook off that is taking place today, all the best to the team! Make sure you vote for them 🥳
Parents especially divorced parents really need to realize how much their decisions affect their children, it’s like they don’t get it. I’m all for that moving on shit & doing what’s best for you but is it really worth it if it’s at the cost of your children? B for bathong.
I feel like a trip to Maun then CPT will give me all the healing I need. I just need to be by the waters, I'm not really interested in groove. From my mouth to the universe bathong
@Kanyo_M
If I am reading this properly basically they decided to keep the P’s value by giving it certain weights; 45% compared to the Rand & 55% to the IMF's currencies. Also decided how much the Pula's value can change each year (1.51%), taking into acc how inflation is affecting Bots.
Today as my sister & I were literally watching TV , I just wept. That’s how deep of a depression I’m going through. Everything hurts - physically, mentally and spiritually.
Hey guys, it’s me. Please make sure you pass by Masa next week Saturday for my charity bake sale. There will be goodies from the price of P8, nothing over the top. Thank you✨
Love both frames. They are amazing. However, frame 1 is a bit distracting because you can’t tell which is the main dish if you get what i mean (the samp). Love them both though!
The challenge was straightforward… take Sarona Samp from
@BotswanaFoods
and be creative with it. Our participants, unmistakably great at what they do, pulled a great show as yall can see the submissions; now it’s up to you. Vote below 👇🏿
#StampaSarona
In as much I've genuinely healed & I'm in a good space in that aspect, a part of me fears I'll let someone in & they'll ruin all I've worked so hard to restore. Yes I have no control over a person's actions but it's also not entirely a good reason for me to let someone in y'know?
Today marked 6/8 sessions of therapy. I can't begin to express how grateful I am that I went on this journey. 2022 was a difficult year for me. I lost my way in many aspects of my life but I'm realizing now, losing my way prompted me to confront the things I swept under the rug.
Waking up on a random Tuesday in another country and having bomb ass morning seggs then skydiving with the same person till I die. Having a foundation that actually enables and empowers the underprivileged in my country esp youth. Doing world book tours for my book series. etc.
@uua_murangi
The trauma I endured shattered my 11 year old self’s dream to ever become a model because of how uniust the industry is. Till this date a little part of me wants to be a model but nothing’s changed & I don’t want to go through that ever again so I kill that part of me constantly.
This will be me tota. This is the wife I'm destined to become.Small businesses here and there to cover basic costs like petrol, car service, house bills, gifts etc. but other than that tbh you'll catch me just sitting pretty, supporting my man and doing nothing🤟
To be honest in my ideal world I want my future partner or spouse to just shop all day and eat my money. All I want her to bring to the table is herself and her thoughts. Nna ga ke batle mosadi o berekang.
She kissed a guy I was dating at the time on our monthaversary, i forgave her. Then she started sleeping with my first love for months behind my back meanwhile I was crying to her, coughing blood bc I found out I was his sidechick. That's barely half of it. Some things? Ng...🤐
Ion know about going straight into a new relationship but I do know if a relationship has run it’s course then there’s no need to still be attached to it. Let go so love can find you again. For as long as you are moving on for the right reasons it’s ok tbh
Girl,same & it doesn't help that I'm those people that tend to get impatient so if i give you reassurance the first couple of time & you're still persistent on this, I lose interest bc now it's giving overly insecure. Something that'll grow into a bigger issue as time goes.
my struggle has been how difficult it is to show/convince a man that you actually like him and you’re serious about dating him, because in his mind,you probably have a lot of options and what are the odds of you liking him forreal or just choosing him
But Sir I really love you😭
We claim independence yet we run to EU for solutions about problems THEY are causing then they want to talk partnership with THEM & meet THEIR demands? This is far from freedom ! The stronghold these people have on alot of African ppl in power is going to be the end of Africans.
When you meet someone who is healthy for you, loves you for you and not who you could potentially become...hold onto them for dear life. Shit is rare these days.
The thing about most mental illnesses is that when you're at your lowest, you literally cannot recognize yourself. Your behavior and mental processes completely shift. I can't explain this further to anyone who hasn't been through this. It's a painful experience I wish for none.
Mine taught me I ain’t have to worry about sht bc people’s actions have less to do w me & more to do w them. Just go where you are loved, respected and valued.
Last year this time I was suicidal asf, alot of things happening around me that just weren't making sense. I was so broken and I really didn't think I'd make it out the hood. Who would've thought a year later I'd have such a peaceful life? God I'm just so grateful rn.
This guy INSISTED on driving me to my meeting cos he wants to see me next thing he's asking me to pour him some petrol.👀
Now he's asking to swing by to see me cos I said I'm not feeling well and says "O apeye lunch tlhemma." 😳
In my defence, if i say this it’s because the conversation is making me feel unwanted & the other person is not keen on us finding a solution to the situation. Like you can genuinely tell when your partner no longer wants to be with you honestly, esp in disagreements…
I hope him &
@edikoloti
are aware that an elderly woman who could not walk was carried by her kids into a clinic because the 1 wheelchair that was there had blood on it that was allegedly from an incident that happened the previous night. Anyways.
I really don't understand why in most of Africa we have this notion that we need to collaborate with western countries in order to solve African issues. It's so weird.
Maybe it's bc I don't go out enough but I'd rather listen to Da Capo, Lulo Café etc than bo kilimanjaro etc corner to corner. I think the issue with Gabs is that there aren't segmented entertainment areas so they can't really target a certain niche & so instead they follow trends
My grandfather always treated me like a princess when he was alive. He'd always kiss my hand, give me the warmest hugs, pull chairs and open doors for me etc. Young as I was, losing him made me feel like a huge piece of me was stolen 💔 May his soul continue to rest❤
I'm going to assume everyone in that room ne a hupile 1-nyana bc how are we meeting the green energy demands of a continent that is part of the reason we're even experiencing climate change? [Thread]
The recent Africa-EU Earthshot session emphasized stronger partnership for transformation of Africa's economies through green economic development & industrialisation. With the right type & amount of investment capital Africa can meet Europe's green energy demand
Sometimes you don’t even need to put up all these quotes or a front but instead you just need to feel everything so you can understand the purpose of your pain. I think so often we glamorize being so quick to move on from things that hurt us and yes moving on is good but..