@dianawasmrdered
dude there used to be this girl on tiktok who’s wholeee brand was that she “dressed like a lesbian” while she’s straight and it’s just so bizarre to me that they make lesbianism their “quirky girl adam sandler aesthetic”
fem4fems saying that
butch/masc4femme/fem relationships are “heteronormative” is so unserious bc then they’ll hate on butch4butch as if it’s not the furthest dynamic from heteronormative
@dykezillaa
@the_dyke_agenda
and when people want to use terms that aren’t for them all of a sudden it’s “we’re all queer why are we dividing ourselves😕”
Ive heard the "lesbians have higher domestic abuse rates than heterosexual couples" so many times today. Where does that even come from. And without any evidence either
remembering that one fem on tiktok who was complaining about the masc shortage on dating apps only to reveal that she had TWO masc girlfriends the whole time 😭
@pandorasgenius
i didn’t really like the original post bc most of these are butches or at least gnc with the exception of clairo. all this really did was point out that we don’t have much butch/masc representation. they should just focus on the people claiming renee rapp & billie eilish are masc
@MKHA1LO
fem doesnt have to be lesbian it’s just short for feminine, any sexuality can use “fem” even gay men use it :) pretty sure op was just talking about lesbian context
@jouchlibrary16
as long as you care about protecting & loving gnc lesbians, and are educated on lesbian history you can 100% identify as a femme it’s never been about “dating” you don’t have to date ANYONE to be a femme 😭
people are always like “which oomf am i to you?” but i actually do describe you guys when i talk about you to my gf, so reply and i’ll tell you how i describe you
my gf is doing a fire rescue clinical all day. while she’s helping save lives and shit i’m going to make myself smell really good, and when she gets here i’m going to eat her pussy WOOOHOO HAPPY PRIDE
@MKHA1LO
historically femmes have been part of butch/femme culture, so basically they’re lesbians who loves butches and all gnc women&lesbians, and protect them from the homophobia they face due to being visibly queer (ie: in bathrooms)