"i havent had sex in ages im only on the pill to regulate my periods" LOOOL yeah sure and my internet search history is only empty because i never use it
-Get a nanny
-When she argues with her siblings don't invalidate her by telling her she's older. Listen to her too and validate her.
-Ask for her help and don't be upset when she says no.
-Treat her like your child, don't make her feel like her role is to assist raising yr kids
Bar the issue, I think you should understand that women mature faster than men. A 19 year old boy and a 19 year old girl aren’t the same. I bet you didn’t date a 19 year old when you were 19.
You can continue your dragging now
We shame people for having sex but protect rapists, we shame people for getting divorced then blame the victims of domestic violence, those are the values……oh and we also perform respect
“As Africans , we have values…”
I sorry but this statement gets me all the time😂
What values exactly?
The rampant corruption that permeates all levels of leadership and future aspirants?
The rising insecurity levels, highlighted by recent kidnappings and murders?
Just a reminder that she is not a stay at home mum, she is a working model and so is her husband. So before you quit your job, know that she and Lucky make the same amount of money, if not more
Reading that Nigerian thread where the men are saying their daughter who is studying should get up and cook daily for her father and brothers and I wanna say.. don't ever mention Jamaican men with Nigerians again. A Jamaican man will cook for his family, no complaints.
Alphabet date ideas:
A- Art Gallery, Amala hangout, Amusement park, Aquarium visit.
B- Beach picnic, boat ride, bowling, biking, beach bon-fire, book store date, baking classes, board games.
C - Cooking, Cinema, Car date, Concert.
That’s why they be having so many kids, cos they first daughter automatically becomes another parent. Stuff that is hard for you and your 35 year old partner you expect a 13 year old girl to be able to comfortably do it and be a child also
I know this may come as a shock to a lot of people but First daughters are NOT mini mothers. They are not born to be care givers to their siblings. They are equally children. They are not supposed to bear the burden of the family instead of a parent. Let first girls be children.
Please seek therapy and never put the responsibility to heal the wounds other people caused you on your children.
Please understand that it is not your responsibility to heal the wounds of your parents.
The funniest skincare scam ever is the Dr. Barbara Sturm Darker Skin Tones line 😭😭😭 A HYALURONIC ACID serum for “darker skin tones” for $110??? Ajsjsjsjsjs this is anti black to me.
Black skin does not need a different kind of hyaluronic acid serum. Like be fr. 😭
”You lazy fool, look at an ant, let it teach you a thing/two. A nap here, nap there, a day off here, day off there, sit back, take it easy, do you know what comes next? You can look forward to a dirt-poor life, poverty your permanent houseguest!“ Prov 6:6-11 MSG 😭
Lol
Did I not ask at St Joseph and the doctor looked at me told me to close the door behind me and call the next person.?
Did I not ask for a nurse at the new general hospital Asaba and the doctor said “I’m a married man, I am not interested in whatever you have”.
But okay
What I said was “too sensitive” and unspeakable. But evoking the memory of Ted Bundy and the women he murdered isn’t too sensitive. Rape and attempted rape of women aren’t too sensitive topics too, and victim blaming isn’t too sensitive.
It is only too sensitive when it’s a man.
It’s also a male doctors responsibility to make patients aware of this but they never do it. Consent has to be informed and that includes letting patients know their entitlements
Chimamanda is trending and I remembered in primary school when I read 'Purple hibiscus' 7 years later I got admitted into the University of Nigeria and Everything was true. Cartwright Avenue was real!! Description of lecturers quarters was real too!! 🤭🔥
Kuje • shola
I video call my father and the man said “ you’re so fine, your patients will come to your office and forget that they’re sick and just watch your face” 😂😂
This post reminds me of an argument I had with my mum about cooking for a man. She said in Yoruba “it’s the slippers you leave outside that a dog will carry,” so I asked her if a husband is a slippers.
I proceeded to call men slippers for a week. She was not pleased.
No cos so many times I’m absent minded and I don’t see the person and the next thing they call you back and ask you why you didn’t greet them. Idk maybe if you said hi you would have gotten my attention to actually greet you
Nigerians are so unhealthily obsessed with greeting. I remember tweeting that it’s okay for adults to greet children first because respect should be mutual and children deserve a good morning too and some people said I have come with my “woke” shit again. Pure ment if you ask me.
When I had hormonal imbalance and I was lactating, the first doctor I saw (general medicine) insisted I just had an abortion.
He referred me to another doctor a gyne who acted weird and implied the same thing. The whole check was weird and he was being weird around my breast.
You start to believe that you have to do something extraordinary to be worthy of love. The way you’re treated is a direct reflection of your worth because that’s what you’ve been told you whole life
I want us to understand that it is stuff like this that prims women up for abuse in their future relationships. Many women have no good template of love to follow because the number one people who should’ve taught them that failed them. Abuse is not a foreign language to them.
Omo. Get in tune with your body o. How do you miss it?
I know what time of the month it is from the smells and sweats around the region. Ovulation smells different, pre-period smells different, period smells different. Sigh.
He has dropped another one again😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
"Which you didn't tell your husband " this part is sending me🤣😂😂😂🤣
Tell you as per?
So he knows what permission is
Where was his knowledge of consent when he went outside his home, kept another relationship, got
I’d never understand the big deal in two people wearing the same outfit, it’s literally just clothes and two people can enjoy the same thing at the same time
Why are y’all so obsessed with women getting married, it’s actually sad at this point the Disdain for women just loving life without centering men and idea that women expire after a while. I can’t believe people like this are roaming the earth untamed
Gen z babes thinks this world is all about making money and being independent till you got 30yrs, we will then find y’all in prayer camps or waking up 12 midnight praying for husband by then na you expire