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living that anointed life. sharing random thoughts to raise your vibration.

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But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ and be
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@Dineo_thulii True. Ear piercings are not necessary for children. I pierced my ears when I was 12 and it was my choice
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@BassieLastrassi Some parents (not your mom) use this thing called triangulation between siblings. Eventually, the siblings turn against each other and the parent who causes the friction looks innocent.
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@TintdWindws 1. You have someone to share good news with 2. You have someone to dream with 3. You have someone to cuddle & play with 4. You have someone who challenges you to pursue your goals, become a better version of yourself 5. You have someone who comforts you when life gets chaotic
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@naledimashishi Mandarin is all about tonality. A word like "shi" can have 4 different meanings if pronounced differently. Nguni languages are the same
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@LAYSAINTLAURENT It's such a creepy experience. They know they don't like you, but they force themselves onto you. It gives obsessed vibes. Ugggh I hate it.
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@Karabo_KB Imagine bring shamed for being economical 😂 so must we waste electricity to prove we can afford it? So silly
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@tshedz_m Pray over your job and income. Too many jealous people praying that you lose both.
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@THENEOPEARL In general ladies, keep working on yourself whether you are single or dating. That shouldn't stop. If I'm at a stage in life where I can wait, I'll wait. But true love is rare so there's no harm in waiting for it.
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@lindz_nyeleti Okay true, that's a perk. Both of us are young, naive, but ambitious. Working hard on our careers and personal growth. Celebrating small wins. Saving money. Going on budget holidays. 😎💯
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@____justsihle Or being the one to always reach out to confirm details like you're the PA. Like show excitement and interest too
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@thecocoapod_ Don't forget about Project Beyonce 😭 music is another untapped opportunity
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@Manqoba_Mbuli @eupraxiia It's a miracle. The odds are not in our favor.
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@sugabelly Love looks different in every culture. Not everyone subscribes to western ideals of intimacy and romance. He is probably very hurt and wants to hold her but due to protocol or masculine ideals of their culture, he needs to appear stoic.
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@_bbytorch I'd like to see more men doing emotional labour. They are capable, just need to tap in.
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@AboutNosipho @v_______03 This was me as a child. Very OCD and minor things would break my heart 😅
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@lee_Duruwe_ @AngeeMudau I don't even find people like that appealing.
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@mane3sha I feel my future husband's energy every day 🤞🏼
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@lwazilwapheshey This mindset BUT you are wealthy >>>
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@shukrani__ Biltong should not be a flavour imo
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@konylishious I think a talking stage should be the few days or weeks before the first date. After the first date, before midnight, the verdict needs to be given. Are you going to date or go back to being friends or strangers. Done.
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@GiftedAsia This logic only works if you have something to lose, like your sense of dignity. Some people don't have dignity. They don't mind ruining their lives just to ruin yours.
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@ZhaneJahnice I feel like 28-30 is a good age to have your first one 😜
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@alyssa0nline @contrrl That's a beautiful thought. God experiencing Himself through us. Every time we use our creative power, He is glorified.
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@essonnaaa Out of sight, out of mind.
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@mxmsworld .... and people who are actually pursuing their goals, healing, and actually engaged with their lives are so triggering for these people.
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@Firedesirre I don't date for looks but I need to be attracted to you. I need to want you.
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@zaghrah1 Durban yts are different from Joburg yts and Cape Town yts. IYKYK
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@bonganizikalala @lameessahib @naledimoshesh I have always found it cringe that these drivers can text or call you. Why must a delivery guy have that much personal access?? Not safe at all.
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@brandypapii Yes, and to children. Try your best never to make empty promises to kids. Rather surprise them if you're not sure
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@Heauxno1currr I've also heard that if you dream of people from your past who you no longer speak to, it could be someone sending the spirit of delay/stagnancy/lack of progress. Test out this assumption and see if you experience delays/no progress in the coming days or weeks after the dream.
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@SanPants Hilarious. I feel like being the big spoon would give me more freedom of movement 🤔 might actually be the better option
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@Bongs_Mahlangu My type doesn't have a physical form. We connect on a soul level.
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@MphoMoalamedi Last time I'm commenting about this: For as long as women hate/envy each other, cheating men won't be held accountable. BTW cheating spouses are the real homewreckers, not the single side chick/dude who has nothing to lose
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@nubian6 A) You didn't grow up in a stable two-parent household so you haven't seen marriage work B) you are the breadwinner of your family so you never have a chance to start your own, or C) you are the 1st generation to make it out of the hood and securing the bag is your priority
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@moe_suttle Or maybe it's her insecurities speaking. Real rich people don't announce their wealth.
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@Yanga_Co This type of comment is what makes black women insecure to embrace their natural beauty. Stop rating people's beauty. You wouldn't want to be rated 👀
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@GirlNamedMarley This is true, except both people need to stop and validate each other before switching to speak about their personal experiences. Validation just means you have heard and absorbed what the other person is saying. Also a sign of empathy.
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@contrrl Same. I want to experience my aura from someone else's perspective. Be in my company. Ask me for encouragement. Just soak up all the energy and love. I want to be an energy vampire for me.
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@Dineo_thulii You consent for us to parent your kids the way we parent ours. Thank you.
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@Laza_Lurvin It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy 😥 now you start second guessing what you saw in him 🙈 eyi...
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@dumplings_r_yum @naledimashishi That's why I failed it 🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️
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@iamkaylanicole Men are hands down more sensitive 😊
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@TheRealMotase They both placed themselves in compromising positions 🤷🏽‍♀️
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@vndiamondbanks_ I'm always surprised by the person holding the video camera. How soulless must you be to watch and film this. One person even filmed someone losing their life in a fight. Gross
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@cnehshuga He was planning his next bite 😭😂
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@withlovesole It shows that they really don't understand how things operate in the spirit realm.
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@MaDhlomo_ My thing is, as someone watching this and feeling secondhand embarrassment, do you cheer and clap with he rest of the crowd or just stare? And if you stare, are you being a jealous Black? disconnected from your people/heritage? 🙆🏽‍♀️
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@GiftedAsia This always happens to me. Then somehow it's my fault and I'm attacked. Hayi...
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@MsomiSthandiwe I'm telling you! That covering is everything ✨
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@entertheunseen I've experienced this all my life. I have always viewed it as envy. I deserve praise and compliments, even if I make it look easy (it's not BTW)
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@Amza_5 How do you comfort your partner when their reason for being moody is their ex 🙈 seems unfair
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@Musa_Khawula You guys analyzed the footage and chose the most awkward few seconds where they look like they are miserable 😂
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@somuhleomuhle Speaking about alcoholism is still taboo in our country, even though so many people have a drinking problem
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@tysoloHD I'm realizing 2 things. 1) Clutter creates mental/physical heaviness. Getting rid of stuff or cleaning up makes you feel lighter 2) When you can't let go of things the universe can't bless you with more. Part of manifesting abundance. Let go of things/be generous/give things away
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@planetmari_ Yess. It's passive-aggressive. Clarity is so kind man 😭
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@plutonianluv Being manifested is witchcraft. Stop doing it because it will backfire. If you are genuinely into someone, go through the natural process of getting to know them. Accept the possibility of rejection. Don't dabble in spirituality. The karma is too heavy.
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@Ketso28 Also it's problematic to plant the seed in his mind that she cheated because of his looks. Like?? 🙆🏽‍♀️
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@MindBodyBronx My only issue is that it's not natural. There's nobody I talk to every second of the day, even family members. I think check-ins are more natural
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@_ellietteee Men rarely speak about side chicks. It's women who are leading the narrative and competing with each other for male attention. Wives are battling with mistresses, and vice versa. Let's love ourselves and respect other women, then men won't have side chicks.
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@hawillisdc I think it's a sign of low intelligence when people aren't continuously learning about themselves and others
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@KatieDeal99 I had my first period on my birthday and I thought that would be the case for the rest of my life. Very depressing thought lol
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@nyatrends Makes you feel like a piece of meat 🤮 don't do it fellas
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@nu_mindframe I can relate to this. For so long I called it the "fear of commitment" but the truth is I'm not afraid of commitment. I'm afraid of being confined and not having a voice, choice, control, etc
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@MarthaDinaledi Stay celibate until you get married and you won't have this issue
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@SintlePearl Let's sign a petition
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@otgyana I loooove admiring my body in the mirror. So therapeutic
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@TheNeoMosala I wish you included audio recordings of the type of twang you're talking about so we can benchmark ourselves 😂🙈
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@MDNnewss Post-marriage analysis: "I now know what I want in a relationship" 😳😳 that's scary.
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@Chris_JNdonga They'll tell you about crypto 😂
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@EarthToGazelle Some of the deepest convos I've had were with men 💯 and I don't have a preference on this. I think them being a different gender adds more depth and variance to our conversations. We come at it from different perspectives and lived experiences.
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@ThatPHCBoy Or calling two small kids boyfriend and girlfriend 🤮
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@nu_mindframe A very powerless feeling that leaves you feeling nothing but disgust toward them.
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@_BlackZA I'm a lemon and herb babe 😂 can't do hot food
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@Gqama_September I think Ndlozi has more empathy. He would make a great leader
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@MahiaSinn Exactly. Softness is the energy you bring and leave with. Nothing to do with the other person
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@flyboiidotcom Lol whenever someone compliments my free spirit I laugh inside because they really don't know how far I can take it 🤭
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@AVenusianVirgo Or making jokes at your expense. Passive-aggressive
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@MDNnewss The man is greedy. His big belly is proof of it. Don't marry greedy men ladies
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@petty_mami34_ If I could mention everything I dislike about men, I'd put myself off. So I rather accept them as they come
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@Mr_Nkay @ilovezamah I feel the same. I've gotten better at filtering content. I don't absorb everything
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@bobdaduck Nurturing is seen as a mother's role, so fathers isolate themselves. They don't wake up at night to feed the baby, they don't change diapers, they don't put the baby to sleep. So, naturally, they feel like the third wheel. More fathers should get involved.
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@scottdomes .... and surrounding yourself with people who can see the gap and won't shame you for it's existence too. Instead hold space so you can evolve at your own pace
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@theHirohito What if she has social anxiety and answering the call (or pretending to speak to someone) calms her down? Having all that attention isn't exciting for everyone.
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@l3bogangk You should've kept that thought in your head sis 😂 but low key/high key understand what you mean.
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@iHad2GoGetit It's harder to commit the longer you wait to make a commitment. You already have the dopamine release from being together so neither of you are motivated to take your relationship to the next phase. Same happens when you hook up too soon or move in together.
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@kaniyaarmani I can't imagine my person suffering in silence because he's afraid to ask for support 🙈
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@DonVusMiz @TintdWindws What did you want me to say
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@Simply_rantia @Ziningi_Leo Lol exactly 😂 feels like a competition of which family is most proud.
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@pastorbolaji There's nothing to force. God doesn't need our words. We are the ones who need His presence. When you don't know what to say, just connect in silence and invite His presence in the room ❤️
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@echolaliass @miwsov That "mmm" would get me
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@yaar_Osamaa @madinong_ Huh? So we should be immature? But then we're called toxic?
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@Givenkazeni Blate for pasta dishes
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@estxev @maynieboo And pregnancy neck and acne 😭 anything that would make me cry while looking at myself. Rebuke.
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@conconconling @dustintate I also noticed that. He insisted on calling it "unkind" 😅
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@Shadaya_Knight There's something petty about this drama. Like we're trying to stretch it and make it something huge when it's not.
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@Rawwyaltee Most people don't have a mindset like yours. Please don't lose it. And don't try to explain yourself to others either 🔥
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@gsgetlonelytoo True remorse is changed behavior 👆🏼
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@KaManzini_S Please let's stop mentioning KFC. I'm in a vulnerable state right now 🙆🏽‍♀️
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@phumz_24 @__reefa__ IMO children need a relationship with God and a sense of community. BUT that doesn't have to happen in a church building. It can happen in so many different places and contexts. God is everywhere
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@Sifisov1 She needs to travel more. Go to different countries. She'll meet amazing people who aren't intimidated
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