You claim your life is in shambles but you have no routine, your room is a mess, you only getting 4 hours of sleep, you don’t call or hang out with people, you eat one meal a day, you sit in the dark all day and night…what do you expect
If you’re an adult and you want to maintain connections and friendships the only thing you really have to do is SHOW UP. You don’t realize how much people notice your presence/absence in important milestones
I stopped pretending that I’m not a sensitive person and started leaning into it. People want to act like sensitivity is such a horrible thing when it brings so much passion, empathy, creativity and introspection
I cannot see myself sticking to a single career path for the rest of my life. I feel like there’s so much to achieve + it would be a disservice to myself to not see how far I can take it. I will do every single thing I ever wanted to do in this lifetime. I am limitless.
Women need to stop scaring away from being audacious and entitled. If you want everything you want out of life, you have to be crazy enough to ask for it. Chaos is matched with order
I’ve accepted that it takes me a long time to warm up to people, but the people who take the time to actually get to know me instead of taking my guard personally will always gain a lifelong friendship in the end
When I’m not in a good mood I treat it like I’m actually sick and avoid hanging out with other people so they don’t have to be around the bad vibes, I’ll see you when my spirit is up🩷
I always laugh at this because you think a guy is not thinking about you and any sort of way then you meet up with him and he basically has a Rico of everything you’ve been saying and posting on social media the last time you seen them😂
There have been many times when I made genuine mistakes, but I was able to learn and grow from them, and I was incredibly grateful for the forgiveness I received. So, when someone shows true remorse, I’m always willing to give them at least one more chance
@candlelite15
Love bombing you (treating the friendship like a relationship), isolating you from friends/family, controlling you, downplaying or mocking you, embarrassing you infront of others, expecting you do drop everything for them but no reciprocating
So it turns out I’m actually so young, and I have so much time, there’s so much fun to have, so much to learn about myself & life. Patience, trust, gratitude are these themes of this chapter
I’ve lived my life as a people pleaser and I also lived my life relentlessly,? And I can now confirm that having the relentless cutthroat attitude will get you way further in life and respected.
The only plans I have for 2024 is get more money, look the best I ever have, travel as often as I can, meet cool people everywhere I go, and enjoy life!
Asking me to come out after I already showered, moisturized my whole body, oiled my scalp, filled my Stanley with iced water, put my humidifier on and reading off my iPad is INSANE
I love when when my timeline is filled with positivity, achievements and announcements. I be genuinely happy for y’all. I love that y’all in love. I love seeing y’all succeed and achieving your goals. I love that fact that y’all alive and free and happy.
Say what you want, I love a high maintenance, high standard, boujee man. A man who isn’t going for just anything or anyone. Clean cut, classy, bossy, all of it. THATS my type
My life fell into place, literally as soon as I just let everything naturally align where it needed to. No forcing, no trying to control everything; just trusting and being patient
And before y’all start yelling at me about specific scenarios that I wouldn’t know about because I don’t know you, im specifically talking about refusing to try other culture food other than your own
People are so bad at communicating. It just seems like when you’re trying to express how you feel, they see it as an attack & decide to just start gaslighting, guilt tripping, projecting, trying to tell you how to feel or just overall purposely misunderstanding what you’re saying
Stop watering down your accomplishments by saying it was by luck. You are good at what you do and you deserved everything you prayed and worked hard for
No matter what you choose to be in life, you have to treat your existence as a brand. You need to be your own PR team and be selective on the things you do, the places you be at, and the people you associate yourself with