Pleased to announce that I have a new story in
@hobartpulp
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It’s a short piece based on my hometown in rural Massachusetts. I want l extend a heartfelt thanks-in-advance to everyone who takes the time to read it.
Every so often, someone in the know has a momentary lapse in judgment, and you get a glimpse of what geopolitics in the 21st century is actually like.
This is one of the most illuminating tweets ever in that regard:
Do people realize that “consistently good-looking on camera” essentially translates to “the most beautiful person you’ve ever seen in your life”?
I’ve seen Emma Watson in person… it was like staring at the sun.
College is the way life should be: walkability, access to gyms and green spaces, libraries, community building, lenient substance laws, etc.
They’re mini-utopias that provide escape from declining society, but you must go into lifelong debt for that 4-year respite. Pure evil.
Cousin just got married. One of her (many) rules was that only she and her bridesmaids were allowed to wear blush (other female guests weren’t allowed).
I don’t know much about the politics of makeup, but that’s pretty crazy right? I’m trying to gauge exactly how crazy it is.
I’m sorry for over-sharing, but I read this last night and started crying.
I started watching porn at ten years old. I don’t think I’ve ever truly “enjoyed” sex the way most people seem to. I’ve been trying to quit this year, but it’s hard when the hits are always in your pocket.
Hyper-sexual language is a form of linguistic bullying. You feel powerless so you assert yourself in a very cheap way- by transgressing a boundary in an attempt to make others uncomfortable.
Just because I have sex with mostly men doesn’t mean I’m not bisexual!When you can get deep-throated whenever you want at the press of a button, it’s very hard to go back to paying for drinks. That’s just some basic Base-Superstructure type stuff.
Someone just told me they were into “knife play”. Like, getting a knife dragged across their chest or held against their throat.
I’m open-minded, but this shit is getting out of control. Whatever happened to just having regular sex?
What possesses someone to invite you into their bed and then say “you’re tall but I was talking to a guy who’s 6’7’’” or “you’re big but I was with a guy once who must have been 12 inches”?
This has happened to me a significant number of times and it’s incredibly disheartening.
@shoe_sticky
The CIA paid academics to create a bureaucracy of language around Marxism. That is how “rich people have too much stuff” became hidden behind a bullshit veneer of “theory” and “deconstruction”. It’s part of their larger project to make the world seem un-understandable.
The Muslim call to prayer is the most beautiful thing in the world. I felt a profound peace and connection to the earth when I heard it every day, and I’m not even Muslim.
Is there a bigger red flag than “not liking cuddling”? I try not to judge, but non-sexual touching and affection and intimacy are such fundamental human needs… if you cant enjoy them, I think you must have some sort of crossed wire or emotional handicap.
I truly don’t understand people who want to stay single their whole lives. Sleeping alone and waiting for a text back is depressing enough at 25… imagine it at 45 when you’re bald and you know the best part of your life is behind you.
I love animals, but I am steadily becoming anti-dog (or at least anti-dog-owner). The other day I walked past a small woman walking a large dog on a leash. The dog went mad when it saw me. The owner tried to restrain it but eventually the dog wrenched the leash out of her hand,
Your life has to stop being (primarily) about you at some point; starting a family has always been the most accessible path to this, in fact there are very few other paths for most people.
With very few exceptions, a mature and healthy person should want to have children.
Is it wrong to want homeless people to be somewhat appreciative when you give them money? Like you don’t have to grovel and kiss my ass, but when I give you a 10 and you respond with “don’t you have five more”, I feel like that’s a bit rude. Like I’m not exactly rich either bro
Went to the hospital today, ended up talking to a nurse about Covid.
Me: “So is it gonna be like the flu where it just crops up every year?”
Nurse: “Yeah basically. We can’t get out in front of it.”
Me: “So when can we go back to normal?”
Nurse: “We should have already.”
The hyper-empathetic soft-speak of the modern lib:
I used to live in a co-op house- we all tip-toed around each other’s “mental health”. But when a girl had a breakdown, she was promptly ostracized, and the decision was justified using the same soft-speak (safety, “care”, etc.)
Terms and Conditions being so long and verbose that nobody can reasonably be expected to read them.
How is that not a blatant perversion/abuse of contract law?
@WhatQueerIsThis
I was staying with my gay uncle in Venice beach, it turned out that the person leasing the apartment upstairs was Emma Watson’s assistant. He’s actually an artist and one thing he makes is living plant walls, so he has a really nice garden. Emma needed a place to do a photo shoot
So now there’s “ChudsofTikTok” to compete with “LibsofTikTok”…
Can’t we all agree that watching carefully curated clips of people on “the other team” behaving badly is not a healthy way to engage with the world at large?
Hispanic street vendor outside SDSU harassed by a group girls: the vendor, Arguelles Alvarez, had refused to lower his price when asked by the four women, which led to them touching, eating, and throwing his food.
It just seems like people aren’t that comfortable talking to each other anymore. That sense of shared experience, that trust in the fact that others have similar frames of reference, seems to have disappeared.
I’m very affectionate and I always gush over the person I’m with; never in a million years would I ever say something like “your ass is nice but I fucked someone once with a bigger ass”.
Can you at least pretend to give a shit about me for five minutes?
Just saw a Publix employee wearing a pin that read “CARRY-OUT SERVICE IS OUR PLEASURE: NO TIPPING PLEASE”.
Like if you don’t want your employees accepting tips, that’s one thing, but the please-don’t-give-the-drones-any-extra-money scarlet letter seems like a bit much.
The more philosophy I read, the more I realize that God is always implicit within ethical systems. A true genius like Kant can hide Him very well, but he’s always there if you look hard enough.
You either believe in God or you believe in nothingness… there’s no third option.
The Book of Job is funny because in the beginning God and Satan are just, like, hanging out. They talk like friends and even make a friendly wager.
This seems theologically significant…
Went to the pool at my apartment complex. It’s a complex for grad students, so we’re all around the same age, but nobody talks to anyone.
A big group of twenty-something’s in swimsuits completely ignoring each other. It’s sad- life shouldn’t have to be this way.
We’re being fucked over in ways that are hard for many people to conceptualize or articulate.
Hence I will always have sympathy for the “conspiracist”; in the face of an intentionally bewildering world, he retains his instincts, and sees the spirit of the truth, if not the letter
Today’s my 25th birthday. Just wanted to send some peace and love to everyone out there. ❤️
Many of you represent a potential for connection that will probably never be realized, which is sad in a way. But I’m still grateful for my little twitter community.
Recall this quote:
When I first got to my grad program I made what I considered to be a very mild and inoffensive statement- “I don’t like Trump but I can see why he appeals to people”.
My professor looked at me like I had three heads. It was like… oh boy, here we go.
Lots of talk about how romantic relationships aren't always the answer, how you shouldn't count on a partner to be your salvation, etc.
I think it's only fair to also occasionally bring up how profoundly you can impact someone by loving them and what a beautiful thing that is.
I just met a guy with a PhD in physics who works “designing laser systems for self-driving cars”. He lives in Gainesville, Florida in a shitty apartment complex with three roommates.
I feel like pencil-pushing bureaucrats and administrators are the only ones who still make money.
One time (when I was an undergrad) this guy in my class was so handsome that he basically ruined the whole dynamic of the group. Everyone’s confidence plummeted, nobody could focus, we didn’t learn anything.
When the British colonized India, they consciously attempted to “break the spirit of the nation” by dispensing propaganda that portrayed Indian culture as inherently backward and inferior. This spirit-breaking is now taking place on a global scale; there is a massive undertaking
@joanna_nuisance
@Jezzerat
The ruling class (which controls both parties) doesn’t want mass immigration because it threatens their position as de facto neo-colonialist rulers of Latin America. The empire returning to the metropol has always been dangerous.
You may be completely unsuccessful in life. You may have no distinguishing physical or mental characteristics. You may have nothing going for you at all.
And yet, if you have a beautiful name, you will never be without a certain dignity.
If you’re charming, you get away with almost everything. If you’re not charming, you get away with almost nothing. This still strikes me as unfair, but it is what it is- gotta accept it and plan accordingly.
I’m drunk for the first time in like 5 years (at my 25th birthday party). Feeling very affectionate- I guess I’m a nice drunk lol.
I love you guys!!!! Mwah mwah mwah 💋
I’d like to see someone- ANYONE- say something like “it’s morally wrong to feast and wear expensive clothes and attend fancy parties while so many people are suffering in this country.”
Morality has been eroded so thoroughly that we don’t even know how to aspire to it anymore.
If you “hate kids”, you’re an asshole.
Or maybe it’s a coincidence that the type of person you happen to hate is the one type of person that can’t offer you material gains and doesn’t have enough social capital to threaten consequences for your shitty narcissistic attitude?
@WhatQueerIsThis
I was at the gym and my uncle texted me “Hermione’s here” so I sprinted across the Venice boardwalk past street performers, muscle beach, homeless, etc.
I got back there as she was leaving. We did make eye contact but I was trying not to pant.
I did feel some chemistry though!
It’s okay to have social anxiety, it’s not okay to embrace it and make it part of your identity.
People are incredible and you’re missing out if you don’t interact with them. Trust me- I learned this the hard way.
You shouldn’t own a dog if the dog can overpower you— I think we should all be able to agree on that. If you want to adopt a large dog you should have to show some sort of proof that you go to the gym at least three times per week.
@The_Acumen
@ToweC
She didn’t “go from” anything to anything. People don’t get that kind of platform without being vetted in advance.
She’s completely astroturfed. Her “bartender” origin story is a complete fabrication. She worked for the state department.
Modern life does not lend itself well to storytelling. It’s hard to create a compelling narrative in a world with instantaneous communication, omniscient pocket-computers, and flying machines that bring you to distant lands in a matter of hours.
I’m getting the sense that a significant amount of dog-owners don’t really have their dogs under control. Most of the dogs in my neighborhood start barking like crazy and throwing themselves against their fences when I walk by. I’ve seen a number of dog-on-dog skirmishes.
It still bums me out that The Tonight Show, one of the true honest-to-god pillars of American culture in Carson’s day, is now hosted by the biggest no-talent hack ever to come out of the comedy industry.
@mell0wbr1ckroad
He has acromegaly. He’s actually a very kind and intelligent person- he used to host a Russian children’s TV show, now he’s a politician.
Life update if anyone is interested:
I finished grad school. I’m about to turn 27.
I haven’t been on twitter much lately because I feel like I have things I need to accomplish in the real world; I hate the idea of being in my 30s with the same faults that I have now.
My uncle has HIV. My grandparents (his parents) just told me that, when he first tested positive, they flew out to California to meet his doctor. The doctor said they were “the first family he’d ever met”.
I was not prepared for these feelings on a Tuesday night lol
When you take a train ride across America, you realize two things:
1) large swaths of this country’s population have been abandoned to destitution, crumbling infrastructure, and the depression-to-substance-abuse pipeline with no help forthcoming.
2) there’s a lot of corn.
Art and literature standing the test of time is one of the most amazing things that ever happens. It’s a beautiful amazing testament to the universality of the human condition, and we should be grateful for every chance we have to witness it.