just here being a sex worker because of having mental illness and not being able to do any other type of work but then also not being able to do sex work neither
not feeling desired or appreciated by your partner when you are a sex worker and have thousands of men paying to be with you and would kill to date you is a sensation that has to be really unique that only us can explain
five sex workers killed this last week. three in italy, one in france and another one in germany. when we ask for rights we also ask for the right to stay alive. we work in clandestinity, surrounded by stigma and discrimination. we are second class citizens. who cares about us?
spain has passed a law today that makes the ads for prostitution illegal. we are criminalized and punished by feminist that offer nothing to us, just more stigma and worst conditions for our job. this is desperating.
it’s disgusting to see people, most specifically sex workers from united stated trying to tell sex workers from latinoamerican countries to raise their rates or work in a different way. you don’t know shit babe, u can’t imagine how much latinamerican SW could teach YOU. shut up!
i know everything i have to do to be a successful sex worker. i just don’t do it or it’s hard for me because i struggle with physical and mental illnesses and dissorders. not everyone is lazy or dumb. some of us do SW because is the only job we can keep existing in our own bodies
we need a book written by sex workers for sex workers on how to make the most money, about financial advice, how to get clients buying things and spending more. i wanna hear the stories and strategist of sex workers making clients buying houses for them, i wanna know it all!
this international women day i want rights for sex workers, a life free of stigma and criminalization. and for all the “feminists” against sex work to stop their violence, exclusion and discrimination 💋❣️
i gave an interview to a student about porn two years ago and she just wrote all the sex workers that helped her that she published our interviews in a book. she never asked or told us. academia exploiting us more than sex work itself.
clients that can’t have an erection should pay an extra. i am doing five times more work trying to make it happen plus the extra emotional work trying to make them not to feel bad about it… damn
i feel embarrassed of seeing so many sex workers or former sw trying to make money off desperate or new sex workers. take money from horny men, not from marginalized / doing bad economically bad people
SEX WORKERS IN SPAIN NEED YOUR HELP. There is a law about to happen in Spain that is going to criminalize sex work and sex workers ways of surviving. We need you to sign this manifiesto to show the government that we don't want this!
in nine years of sex worker, i had some sessions where i didn’t have sex with the clients but that’s rare. people contact sex workers because they want sex or some sort of human connection related to erotism or touch. denying that is a bit wild to me and just sounds whorefobic
i am so bad at sex work. but i am bad at any job i think. i can’t do much, i hate marketing and promoting myself, i hate chasing and pleasing men, i don’t do any of the things i know it will give me money. i could make so much more money of what i make and here i am
amazing how feminists against sex work think of us as victims until we unionize. just like magic, we become part of the pimp lobby or literally pimps. they want us silence to use us like objects to protect their morals and build their careers.
@alazeahnow
maybe we need to stop glamorizing any labor. sw is dehumanizing mainly because of the criminalization, stigma and marginalization we as sex workers face everyday.
i made an exception and i saw a client today and he was a 23yo model walking and posing for gucci and for any brand you can imagine and he told me that he thinks his job is useless, repetitive and boring and that he does his work totally dissociating and just doing a blank face
for all the SWs criticizing Lucia from the White Lotus because “she didn’t screen”, you all really need to stop thinking that the standards for the US are the same in the rest of the world. the serie is based in Italy and in Europe screening sadly is not the norm
telling i am a sex worker to some random people i met in a party just because i am so high i don’t care what they are gonna say. turned out they were like yaaassss good for you queen. lol
i have asked in the OF reddit if they know about agencies or SW assistants making it clear that i need it because i have an illness where i can’t work mucj now and the first answer is: “SW is not a job where you wanna be in a desperate position”. lol I can’t stop laughing
clients stop asking me what things i like. i am not going to enjoy it because i am not attracted to you. what i truly like is to not work and i would prefer to have being born rich and not have to have sex with you.
Colombia has a new Vice Minister of Equality and since he was a sex worker, they are harassing him and asking for his resignation, wanting to humiliate him by publishing his p0rn videos. Society does not want us to be SWs but then condemn us when we quit. Hypocrites. Stigma kills
Desde AMMAR denunciamos el hostigamiento a Juan Carlos Florian, designado Viceministro de Diversidades en el Ministerio de Igualdad de Colombia. El haber ejercido el trabajo sexual no anula su carrera de politólogo, su amplio recorrido en el activismo LGBT y su capacidad de
seems like since april Spain will criminalize clients of prostitution and everything is going to be seen as trafficking/pimping by the law, even renting rooms to sex workers will be illegal. ads for prostitution are illegal since a month ago and the situation is already horrible
my partner desires me and appreciate me. but my bar is too high. i am used to men being shocked by my presence. it’s not that i want the same with a partner but it’s difficult to not feel worthless when you notice just a little shift or change towards you
chloe cherry really made it. quitting sex work to work modeling brands and acting just because the director of euphoria send her a dm. i can only dream.
years ago i did a shooting where the performer came inside me. it seems that the director suggested him to do. i didn’t knew it. i was not taking contraceptives or anything. when it happened i was so shocked i just smiled to have the scene ended and leave the fastest i could
after being assaulted by a client some days ago, my heart aches everytime i have to read a swerf saying that all prostitution is rape. they are minimizing our own rape and sexual assaults stories when they say that.
i can’t believe this. he is explicitly saying all over the internet he is coercing and exploiting women to do sex work for him, but then independent sex workers are shamed, criminalized and we can’t even post a selfie without getting censored. this world has no sense
what are good websites to do online sex work? camming, selling videos, sexting, phone sex, etc. help a FSSW for ten years now disabled and not able to see clients anymore to transition 100% online please 🥺🥲🙏🏼
you really should go out the bubble and see around a little more. the latinoamerican sex workers movement is so rich and revolutionary. the movement PUTA FEMINISTA, how they fight with the cops every day.. and u are coming here telling them how to work? so arrogant & patronizing
OnlyFans sending me a notification today that they will close my account because I didn’t tagged the 450 videos they flagged in just a few days. How do you think someone is able to do so? I am ill and disabled and OF is my only income now and you are closing it down? Amazing
last week i saw my last clients for now. i am founding out i have a debilitating chronic illness and i can’t put my body anymore in this situation. i am gonna transition 100% to online sex work. ten years of doing full service, i need a change. for my mental and physical health
this new OF creators think we are all doing SW for fun and because we wanna be rich with a hot girl career and not because we are mentally or physically ill, we have kids to feed or we are poor. welcome to capitalism babe, most of us work in desperation to survive
having your boyfriend getting offended and weird after asking to see a photo of you having sex with a performer is so annoying.
1. we didn’t enjoyed it, we were annoyed bc of positions and what the producer was asking. 2. i hate dicks that are so fat and big, i suffer with them
if i would have grown into a wealthy family i would never have done sex work. i would have the money for all the expensive mental health retreats in the world and i will pursue an art career. maybe i would be in some queer porn production for fun here and there and that’s it.
latinoamerican SWs are so well organized that academics from all over the world go to our countries to study us. what is happening in argentina with
@ammarsindicat
is not happening anywhere else. what happened in brasil with gabriela leite. what
@astrasex
is doing now in colombia
the problem is mine that i am insecure because of trauma, abuse and stigma so i put the weight on others to feel valid and worthy. i shouldn’t be expecting him to call me beautiful every day or wanting to be with me all time and be happy about it, but i do.
maybe the proper answer is how sw actually save money? most of the time i can’t. when i save some then something fucked up in my life happens and i need to use my savings. is not that easy to save money when you are in survival mode lot of times.
clients don’t know the real us so the relationship is mostly superficial. same with fans adoring us. but i have seen so many sex workers with partners that don’t appreciate them as they should while they make thousands of men desperate to be with them. just a crazy dissonance
seems like most people who don’t do sex work can’t understand how we can do a sex performance and not feel anything about it. i am performing sex acts, but i don’t feel i am having sex. it makes sense to me. but i guess it won’t be understandable for any of my partners, ever
but even if we have so many testimonies about models or the fashion industry of people not liking their job or even suffering on it, society still glamorizes it but stigmatizes sex workers saying we are the only workers suffering or dissociating while doing our job
clients from the USA texting me about thanksgiving: i am from latinoamerica and we are in europe. we don’t celebrate that. it’s funny but some people from USA really think that everything they do is universal and that they are the center of the world. big news: u are not!!! ❤️
i am sorry but i can’t stand julia fox. using her past as a dominatrix to be edgy when her fellow co workers have said how shit she was. also if you are saying u were a SW, maybe stand up for us? use ur privilege and fame to make visible the criminalization & stigma we suffer?
you don’t understand the context, the economy, the violence, the survival ways most SW live, how cheap turists are when they go there. they want the cheap rate, most of them won’t pay more bc they know everything is cheaper in latinoamerica and they check the rates in the ads
escorts from the US travell all the time around the world and work for prostitution or onlyfans. i see you all the time on tryst and i notice you are a US escort because you are trying to charge five times more than us. you can do it but we can’t do the same in your country?
sex workers from colombia or the rest of latinoamerica are organized. they KNOW. in the US the reality of sex work and many other thing are different from the rest of the world. you are not the center of the world and u are not the norm or good example of how everything functions
i don’t want to be with a fan or someone obsessed with me so i like that my partner is not that crazy about everything i do or am but it’s like, maybe just a little bit more would be nice? idk. maybe i just need the love bombing shit of the beggining bc of rejection sensitivity
before reading anon whore accounts or having one i thought i was the only one struggling, feeling alone, not having money, hating clients, not being able to work or function because of mental illness or stigma. it literally changed my life and the perception of sex work itself.
SW gives me the flexibility and possibilities that any other job could never give me. when i am not that bad and i can handle it, i work non stop and save the most money i can because i know i will feel bad soon.
men know that if they kill us, most part of society won’t care about us because we are seen as bad woman, as deserving of this. prostitution didn’t killed them. the lack of labor and social rights, stigma and hate we face every day did.
i understand that we want to show society and our clients that we and our work are more than sex. but denying that we are *sex* workers and that what we offer is erotic labor is not gonna help us. it’s just rebranded whorefobia
@Aella_Girl
@NYC_Demimonde
u are not mentioning that u had a fan base already for doing camming, u have been in a big documentary, had media validating you etc. you didn’t cracked any code, you are just appealing to incels, pseudo intellectuals and gross men that feel outcasts so u have a niche to cash in
nah, lot of us are not doing it just for fun or because we prefer it to another jobs. we depend on sex work. but sometimes we can’t work for several days or months because of being sick or not being able to even think in working because we can’t get out of bed
a group of swerfs went to a feminist library in Spain and destroyed all the Revolting prostitutes books that were displayed in the showcase. this is another proof of their violence and how they want to silence sex workers
it’s honestly a bit shocking to read US escorts saying that making 10k a month is a low salary. in latam and even in europe it’s so much money, like most of my sw friends are not doing even 1-2k sometimes. i think they really need to learn a bit about how other sw live worldwide
@JgMeteoro
@PauCandal
@sofiev_
@LaPuntoLore
@femifilda
@IL_TANKE2
A Lolo y Monoto se les fue la fama a la cabeza, querían más protagonismo y plata, se puede ver en sus entrevistas después de no estar mas en Miranda. Bruno se fue porque el quería dirigir la banda hacia algo mas electrónico y Ale hacia algo más pop.
imagine being a sex worker and defending men jerking off to us only sending 2$ or nothing. i have my porn pirated everywhere and i get DMs of supposed fans saying they love me and that they watch my pirated porn while I am trying to ask for disability benefits. i can’t be mad?
please rt and share what the sw activist in spain are saying. i only see people talking about what happens in USA and UK about sw rights. we need to be together in this.
some SW charge more to turists. i did in latinoamerica and i do now in spain. here in spain spanish clients don’t use tryst, expats or turist do so i have a higher rate there. but most clients go to brothels and want to pay nothing. to have sex for a few dollars bc they are CHEAP
during the morning you give a class about sex workers rights and stigma to harvard students. then you come home and your partner is upset because you did too many porn shootings and saw a client in a week. the irony of life.
i love my boyfriend and having a meaningful relationship but the reality is that i lose money and potential clients opportunities and dates because of it
it’s really hard to see a thin white woman do miserable content for OF for a month and earn 10k while you are trying really hard for more than ten years and still struggle just because ur body is not as normative.
i see clients from the US all the time. they don’t know but i charge them more than to spanish clients. even charging more, for them is still cheap. but u know what? most of them don’t even tip or give me more money even if they are paying me 300 when in US would be paying 800€
i left the shooting feeling guilty thinking that it was my fault bc of not letting them know i was not taking the pill or that maybe i misunderstood something bc english is not my main language. i had to take an emergency pill. i only told it to my friend hosting me those days
i am doing sex work since i am 19 years old. i am 31 now. she was in highschool and i was sucking dick for money already to run away from an abusive house and she is gonna give me advice in not to work from a position of desperation! why they think they know better than us?
everytime i do a photoshoot and i receive the photos i feel so ugly, literally makes me wanna die. i truly wonders if it’s my body dismorphia or i am truly disgusting as my eyes see. i am definitely sick
having clients pushing boundaries when you say you dont do meetings anymore has to be one of the lowest things i have to see. one just told me “oh please, make the effort”. how disgusting has to be to pressure and push someone into having sex with you when they said no?
as always, criminalization of sex work always impact and harm the less privileged and marginalized already. sex work will exist anyway, it will just exist under more fear, more violence and more stigma.
breaking news: you can be a sex worker and figh for our rights without defending the misogyny and bullshit of men just because they pay you and you wanna validate your job. you can see how unethical is that they lie to their wifes to see us and still charge the money babe