@sheena_plus12
I still think it's too personal. I think boundaries need to be maintained. We are professionals. Taking our hair out at school and having students help, is just not professional at all.
We want to be treated like professionals. We need to portray it too.
Read it. Read their text messages. Read their emails. Read their chats. Read it all. Too much grooming happening to not monitor.
And pay attention to who they're talking to when playing games. Better yet, make it so they cannot interact with strangers.
Overprotect.
@Conejomaloo_17
@AaliyahJay
Y'all just wanna go out your way to be mean. It takes no effort to just be a nice person. No you don't have to but a proposal last 30 seconds. You could let them get their pic because it's just a kind/considerate thing to do.
@CallHimPapahh
@GxldSociety
My dad has drilled this in me since I started driving but I just know if I ever need it my ass gone panic, hit the break and turn the wheel in the opposite direction 🤣
@drethemonarch
@ItsTaveon
@NewYearssBabe
@thatdamnbrook
@SheSavag3
He's a ten year old kid without a fully developed brain. He absolutely needs help.
He needs consequences for his actions, but he also needs appropriate help.
He for sure needs to be institutionalized. If he can kill his mom with no remorse, nobody is safe around him.
@zullaaababy
For the people who are confused about the original tweet.
If you don't identify as a woman, you are not a lesbian. You're gay. Or queer. Or some other word that you can make up to meet your identification needs.
Lesbian already has a definition.
@lexisryann_
@realtoriduncan
@DiaryOfKeysus
Talking like that in the privacy of your own home is very different than posting it on your platform of 500,000 followers that your middle school students can see.
You don't talk about your students like that online.
@GippyAZ
@JoshuaPHilll
All of the staff are literally white.
And there was no mention of the students skin tone.
So what makes this a "diversity school"?
@DOPECHICKBEATS
@_YoooINDY
Please delete the post if he was found so people stop sharing it.
You have his elementary school posted for everybody to see.
@222ayanna
@sheena_plus12
I'm not disagreeing with the way some teachers treat students. But professional definitely has a standard. Taking your hair out at work isn't professional. It never will be. There is no other way to put that.
@ModestTeacher
@strandj
Working?
They're studying. They're learning. They're growing.
Isn't the point to prepare them for higher education?
Comparing an adult working a job to pay bills to a child going to school to learn is not a relevant comparison.
@hardwhitemaraj
@itzBreezyyyy_
She didn't have to say that to the child. The child can talk to her, no matter what kind of music she makes.
But when you're talking to a child, it's certain shit you just don't say.
@Conejomaloo_17
@kebaaa04
@AaliyahJay
Get a venue for a 30 second proposal? Makes sense. You're literally miserable if you photobomb someone's proposal pics because it's a public place when you can easily take a pic elsewhere for wait s few seconds.
Misery loves company.
@Phyr12345
@ClementineOnlyF
@JebraFaushay
Gluten allergies have always existed.
Being gluten free as a dietary choice is what you are speaking of.
For people with celiac disease, gluten can kill them.
@AwwbyeAnn
@calvin_asia
@MotorCityVIXEN
You're being purposely obtuse.
Taking your hair out at work is unprofessional. Having children take your hair out because you didn't have time to do it (his own words) is unprofessional.
THIS is an appropriate way to build relationships.
@AlHendiify
@thrasherxy
@Meha
The attack on the judge kind of does justify it.
He's already shown he cannot handle himself in a courtroom in front of a judge without violently lashing out.
So are they just supposed to hope he doesn't do it again or do they take proactive measures to make sure he can't?
@nothanksnopeyno
@beththebigboss
Nah because joke or not, this is really real.
When someone has a toddler and has their own IG with "kid influencer" in the bio, that is all the parents doing.
These kids can't even wrap their head around what the internet is, yet they are plastered all over it for content.
I guess a baby being born all of sudden gives you everything you need to be a good parent.
Must be why there's so many great parents out there.
Because they have children.
People without children have no idea how to be a good parent.
I don’t care how many siblings you have. I don’t care how much you babysit.
You don’t know how to be a good parent, you’re just a babysitter who can keep a child alive.
@iWorkTheHardest
Mhm, are you familiar with this teacher?
I'm not saying they are one and the same. But the whole point is you don't know a predator til they reveal themselves.
This teacher was charged with two counts of sexual assault on a minor at her school.
It's crazy how the idea of buying a house NEVER crossed my mind Bc it seemed so unattainable in California.
But now I can actually talk about it Bc it is a very real possibility for me in Texas to be able to afford to buy a house.
@lajadadon
@Marassta
You think forcing your child to sit and get a painful style or drugging your child will lead to a well-behaved child? Please make it make sense.
@222ayanna
@sheena_plus12
But that's the thing. He is their teacher. He isn't their friend. That's blurring the lines bc friend has a meaning. I have a different relationship with my friends than I had with my teachers.
Those are his students. A student can cross a line & be like "but we're friends".
Me "yall shouldn't be posting students faces or going live during class"
Other educators "you're worried about the wrong thing"
AM I?!
Please. We are not going to normalize this.
What do white people have to do with the original tweet? Y'all bring white folks into everything.
Anyways. I agree with the original tweet. I am a black American. I don't use the term African American to describe me because my family hasn't been in Africa for 5+ generations.
@lajadadon
@Marassta
Right, cause she said that. Maybe the kid didn't want her hair done because....it hurts?
Y'all treat your kids like property.
If you have to drug your child to do her hair, it's more than her not WANTING to get it done.
She could be in pain and y'all will still call a kid bad.
@terrinwatson
I think he should've been fired for being on live in the classroom. Completely inappropriate and unacceptable. Should've known better than that. And he has a huge following. Who knows how many people tuned into his classroom.
Y'all for the LOVE of God.
Read with your kids.
Help them with their homework.
Monitor them on the screens.
Provide them with educational games.
Talk to them!
Teach them!
DISCIPLINE THEM.
Please! It's getting scary out there.
Raise our black babies up.
- a current teacher.
When I learned about struggles with Interoception, I stopped commenting on children still in diapers or pull ups. We don't know them.
Interoception: the ability to recognize internal sensations such as hunger, a full bladder, illnesses, pain, emotions, etc.
@trapdashian__
@UpndOnEm
@MotorCityVIXEN
People can be involved with the youth without filming and making content out of it. He put himself out there for the criticism and backlash that could come with something controversial like this.
When I say teachers and faculty members do not take fatphobia in school seriously this what I mean.
He had girls taking down his hair but can’t stand up for those same girls when they are being called “big & mad”
Happy he caught that firing
@UntamedGemini
@TMZ
Punching your child in the face is correcting their behavior?
They don't need to post photos of a beat up minor..
Let another child beat your kid up for "disrespecting" them, I'm sure it'll be a problem then.
It's only okay for parents to beat on their kids according to y'all.
@lajadadon
@Marassta
You're not in the child's head. You can't say whether she finds it painful or not.
Whether she thought it was tight or not, you don't know how it feels on that child's hair. You think every time a child cries it's because they're bad.
@JaMakaveli
@MulhollandL0ver
@hoodservative
At the expense of??
She looks young as hell. She got her whole life ahead of her. What's the rush.
She just raised the bar and y'all can't reach it.
I MFN TOLD YALLLLL. I told yall that man is not a certified teacher and it shows!
That man got on the internet saying he taught a lesson 3 times and on the 4th day, only ONE student could answer a question correctly.
1/30 students.
HE is the problem! He told on himself!
Adults shouldn't ask children for help.
This the same thing we tell young kids about strangers and adults you don't know very well but may have seen around. Adults will never need help from children.
"Can you help me find my dog?" That's "'innocent' too right?
@DeeLaSheeArt
“please help me take down my hair” will lead to what exactly? im honestly curious! like what then could he ask for next that TEENAGE children wouldn’t identify as wrong?
there was really a massive cyberattack today yall. it impacted T-Mobile, MetroPCS, Verizon, AT&T, Instagram, Facebook, Sprint, Comcast, YouTube and more.
our kids are never gonna believe the shit of 2020.
My mum: you sure you wanna loc that up? You're gonna miss your hair.
Absolutely. I know I'ma miss it. But I am so done with it. I've had my time to play with my hair. I'm ready for my locs.
New chapter 🤞🏾
Dec 12th, I'm so excited 😌
My gf and I have never argued. We have disagreements but there's no invalidating of each other's feelings. And we listen to each other. She's so patient and loving.
I've never had this kind of patience in a partner.
So grateful man.
@k__garner
I completely agree. She is having a major meltdown and is extremely dysregulated. My first thought was autism or adhd. Both can lead to meltdowns like this. Her caregivers need training.
I hope she gets some help.
when my dyslexic kid successfully reads a book with very little help from me & no tears.
damn near brings tears to my eyes bc this is all her hard work.
@JV_today_
@somecallmeLita
@ssoRasiLehT
Special education is a service, not a placement.
They can receive special Ed service in their regular class. Or if they are more severe, they may be in a self contained class.
But special ed is not a place. It's a service. And there are many ways those services are given.
It's very alarming hearing from so many adopted adults how many of their biological parents didn't even want to put them up for adoption.
Definitely changed my perspective as someone who has always wanted to adopt.
If we adopt, it will most definitely be through foster care.
Received my adoption file.
Hard to read, especially the part about how desperately my mom wanted medical care. The agency said they'd pay for it but only if she went through with the adoption. If she chose to keep me, she had to pay all the money back.
What a coercive tactic.
@lifewithyb
@talkingwithtai
People can like their career AND recognize that shit needs to change.
You can love your job but not the politics of it.
You can love your job but not all the extra education it takes to get there.
YOU CAN LOVE YOUR JOB AND NOT WANT TO WORK FOR FREE!!
Tf be wrong with YALL?
@bigzaddyej23
@havemercyv
@OcieSBanks
I think you're missing the fact that he also posted his students and invited them into be discussed in a very controversial topic.
He also went live on his TikTok during instructional time to his 600k followers.
There were so many things wrong. Beyond the hair.
@SkySantana
It's crazy cause for ppl in Europe, going to Mexico and the carribean is traveling. It's all relative depending on where you live.
Y'all just love to feel like yall better than others.
But hey whatever helps you feel better about yourself.
@lajadadon
@Marassta
You keep saying YALL. Girl I wouldn't take my child to a stylist that got off on posting videos of crying kids on her page. You going hard for this woman. Is this you or something?
@suzanne92024
The starting salary for a teacher in this district is actually $60K.
Still not livable in the Bay Area. But your information is incorrect.
@dandelionbeam
@ModestTeacher
@strandj
The point of school is for people to learn. Learning doesn't just happen at school. Therefore, homework isn't necessarily a negative thing.
The point of people working is to pay bills. Working shouldn't happen for no pay. Thats the point of contract hours.
Being on live while teaching or at school is completely inappropriate whether parents are okay with it or not.
He needs to have better judgement in how he chooses to use his platform. Absolutely NO teacher should be on live during the school day. Cmon now.
@nilanmorton
he's stated the parents of the students in question all signed waivers and had no problems with his actions...
I'd like to see some more talking points than this exact one because he had permission.
yes we know the internet can be a dangerous place.
@boldmango
@JimBean6789
@MissSassbox
Girl I ain't never had a lawyer. But if they wanted to go by their last names, I'd respect that.
These teachers clearly go by their last names but the commenter implied bc they call students by their first names they should be okay with being referred to as their first names.
@afrikanology
@moonlightmani_
@NiaEducational
@_NotMikeWill
@_kcole
There's hundreds of teachers on social media talking about it without degrading their students.
He is not the only teacher on TikTok I guarantee you. You can find plenty of teachers who are talking about the state of education.
You don't need to belittle your students to do it.
This is not... ugh I need them to bring back decorum trainings for teachers because cmon yall.
I just.....
Are my standards too high?!
Am I the only one who thinks educators need to present themselves like professionals??
Because this sure as hell ain't it.
This week alone:
I have cleared my CA teaching credentials. Meaning they are now permanent 🤞🏾 took two years of coursework to do this.
I got my Texas teaching certificate.
&
I just got approved for the apartment I wanted 🤞🏾
God has been working.