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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

5 years

“For the drama to deepen we must see the loneliness of the monster and the cunning of the innocent.” – Vivian Gornick

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

5 years

My dad died today. After a decade of cancer and kidney failure. He died in his sleep, and I’d like to think he was dreaming of better times. Please say a prayer for him, if you can.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 months

This is my mum. She is a trained gynaecologist, with over 3 decades of private practice. She spent the last 10 years being the primary cancer caregiver for my dad. Once he passed away, my mom was distraught. We live in the same matchbox sized Mumbai apartment, but we would…..

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 months

…..when Muffin came , we learned how to live in the moment. B is our rock and M is the light of our lives. They taught us to be happy again. We’re blessed to have them #NationalPetDay 🧿♾️🩵🐾

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 months

….into our lives. He made us communicate, though in those early days most of our communication was worrying about him. We began talking again, little by little. My mom laughed for the first time in 4 months after my dad’s death when B destroyed a remote. And then…..

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 months

…..not talk to each other for days. My mom was grieving and I didn't know how to reach out to her. Plus survivor guilt kicks you in the gut. Then little Bailey came into our lives. A colleague was moving overseas and he couldn't take B along with him. B brought light.…

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

Autowallahs have started saying no again. Nature is healing 🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 months

Abundance 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

6 years

STEM curricula need a healthy dose of humanities or why Ankush should understand that his app violates privacy.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

My mom and the puppy she didn’t want .

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

ALWAYS SHARE YOUR WORDLE SCORES

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

2 years

@bunsenbernerbmd Happy birthday Beaker ❤️❤️❤️❤️. Here’s a cupcake for you.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

I hate sharing this - but if you are looking at a crematorium in Mumbai, the one near Juhu Garden has very empathetic staff. They also don't charge for cremations, you can make a donation if you wish to.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

8 months

Binge watched the Netflix Indrani Mukherjea documentary and if anything, I'm even more convinced she killed Sheena Bora. Also, everyone on it is shady. Except perhaps Rahul.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

@Nicole_Cliffe I’m so so so glad Serena has a man who worships her like the goddess she is 💛

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

1 year

@doritenholm I’m going to use ‘the Bin Laden of emotional terrorism’ for a fella I know 😭😭😭😭

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

6 years

@Nicole_Cliffe got slightly better, but needed 4 pints of blood a day. I sent out a tweet for help - and literally dozens of twitter strangers came forth to donate blood. I have never been so grateful.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

10 years

Mark Twain said,“I don't want to hear about the moon from a man hasn't been there".Cancer caregiving is my moon. Take the next step with me.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

6 years

@alankruthahaha @RealChalamet I screamed in my cubicle at work right now. OH MY GOD, I AM AN INTERNET STRANGER AND I AM SO EXCITED <3 <3 <3

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

8 years

This is so fantastically cool.Marie Curie & Henri Poincaré once wrote letters of recommendation for Albert Einstein-

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

6 years

@Nicole_Cliffe My dad got very sick last year. He was in the ICU and we were certain he was going to die. I was overwhelmed and distraught and I stood outside the gate of the hospital sobbing. A watchman on night duty saw me, sat with me and prayed with me. I can't ever forget this. Then, dad

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

5 years

Here’s my #FlowerReport submission from Mumbai @alyssaharad 🌸🌺

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

2 years

@BOMgirltweets My mom does this every week. Updating her passbook is her favourite thing to do 😭😭😭

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

6 years

@IronmanMann My father was diagnosed in 2012 with Stage 3 spine cancer. We've been through radiation and chemo and hospitalizations since then, but he is here and alive and I am so grateful.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

💚💚💚💚💚

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

@zigzackly helped him gather some Bougainvillea because there were no flowers available anywhere. I don’t think I’ll ever forget bf and the autowallah showing up with armfuls of bougainvillea.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

6 years

#Sansa >>>>>>>>>>>>> #Daenerys (Always. Don't @ me)

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

Did anyone else find #EmilyInParis extremely cringeworthy?

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

1 year

@bunsenbernerbmd ❤️

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 years

The language of Cancerland is fraught with missteps. Personally, I hate all the war metaphors, they make one's body feel traitorous. Go read

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

@ChristieSmythe @FrancesRobles @ChloeWEARMASK @stephcliff Please please walk away. Yes, this comes from an internet stranger and yes this internet stranger has no business commenting on your relationship, but please walk away.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

8 years

Please remember these words the next time you feel like making heroes out of us cancer people. Also please retire the term 'battling Cancer'

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 years

No, Vodafone.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

8 years

@alwaystheself ...take you seriously because of this tokenism. That you need to battle condescension along the way, all the time

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

Here you go @SloganMurugan #cloudreport

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

@hussainhaidry I think that’s exactly why she was suspended - saying it aloud made her a liability.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 years

This man is all kinds of fantastic ❤️

Afroz shah

@AfrozShah1

7 years

Week 99 Visarjan cleanup.20,000 people at the beach.5 hrs( night) and 2 hrs (morning) cleaning for past 7 days.Beach at 9.30 am as we leave.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

Today is dad’s first death anniversary. My dad had a green thumb, and spent hours pottering over his plants. His beloved monstera has a brand new leaf today. I like to think that I’m a fairly rational person but sometimes, especially in matters related to dad, I start believing

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 years

Please take a moment to applaud the very wonderful @AfrozShah1 - the man behind the Versova beach clean up 👏👏👏

Afroz shah

@AfrozShah1

7 years

500 trees on the beach .Thank you @LavekarBharati @AmeetSatam @atulpatne @PoojaB1972 @YESBANK @SHMShipcare @sanjaynirupam @ErikSolheim .

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

Don’t laugh at us Delhi and Luru people, but it’s CHILLY in Mumbai. Like switch your fans and ACs off chilly 🥶

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

8 years

@alwaystheself That as a brown woman in STEM you might often be considered the token diversity representative. That people tend to not....

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

Help me with this, twitter. I didn’t have the heart to clear out dad’s cupboard after he died . I finally managed to do so today - and I have a wardrobe full of suits, shirts, trousers & tees all in very good condition. Is there anywhere I could donate these clothes? Khar/Bandra?

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

8 years

Isn't @SushmaSwaraj a masterclass in leadership and basic human decency?

Sushma Swaraj

@SushmaSwaraj

8 years

Shafiqa ji - Please contact the Indian Embassy. I hv asked them to issue visa for your husband's liver transplant in Chennai. @IndianEmbJkt

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

@ghazi_taimoor I honestly, truly thought you’d pull out a Rahul Raichand twist in the end.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

5 years

Everyone who reached out to me, thank you 💗. I’m so grateful for your kindness today. The funeral was peaceful, and exactly the kind dad would have liked (he was a bit of an introvert). Dad loved Vishu, and as we were taking him inside the crematorium - a dozen odd

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

8 years

I love taking pictures of the sky. The light filtering through the clouds, makes me feel safe, like I am part of a vast design.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 months

Self care Sunday #flowerreport

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

PREACH.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

5 years

flowers from the Indian laburnum floated onto his body. Maybe I’m desperately clinging to signs here, but it made me feel that he was going to a good place.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

8 years

@anamariecox We'd be fantastic at the Oval.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

Sorcery! Wordle 221 2/6 ⬜⬜⬜🟩⬜ 🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 years

Spotted these beauties in the temple. Checking in from Bandra, Mumbai for #FlowerReport @alyssaharad

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

2 years

@bunsenbernerbmd #dogfashion #dogsoftwitter

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

8 years

@soledadobrien 's uplifting piece on #soccer and #refugees . Lewiston - you have a big, big heart. You'll like this @FutbolsaCountry

Real Sports

@RealSportsHBO

8 years

"We didn't know anything about cleats. We played with our sandals, barefoot." - Lewiston HS's Maulid Abdow on playing soccer in refugee camp

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

Yesterday’s @MumbaiMirror carried a story of how doctors saved the life of a domestic help who had 24 fractures. Kudos to the medical team - credit where it’s due. But why isn’t anyone asking why this lady was cleaning windows of a 10th floor house with no safety precautions?

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

2 years

@bunsenbernerbmd AirPods 😭😭😭

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

6 years

Anyone who wants to #SpiritofMumbai this situation - people go to work because they have bills to pay. Not because they want to prove resilience.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

5 years

My folks were stuck on the road because of water getting into the car while returning from dialysis. 3 college students near Santacruz helped lift dad from the car, bundled my parents into a cab, dropped them home.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

6 years

For everyone wondering what high grade cancer is: Your cells tend to grow and spread more quickly than low-grade cancer cells. High-grade cancers usually have a worse prognosis than low-grade cancers and require more aggressive treatments immediately.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

6 years

@alyssaharad In this joyless time, my plant Toby says hello 🌿 #FlowerReport from Mumbai

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

@zigzackly I’ve said this here before, but anyhow. My dad died this year - April 14. My mum, bf and I were the only people at his funeral. Bf was coming from Chembur to Khar, and got stopped by the traffic police. When they heard what happened, the autowallah bf was traveling with and a cop

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

2 years

@bunsenbernerbmd Snaggletooth

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

1 year

Happy Onam from this floof 🧿🤍🍀

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

💜💛❤️🧡🧿🧿🧿🧿

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

4 years

Finally managed to get a picture without scaring him off 🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

8 years

@anamariecox Rafa is ready for his Christmas card photo-op.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

5 years

Me. Full-time cancer caregiver. Juggling lupus, higher ed, anxiety and a relationship, while learning to respect boundaries and live up to people’s trust. Constant work in progress.

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@thankvis

5 years

name a badder bitch than kylie jenner.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

1 year

@LimpyLabMax Bailey says it’ll grow right back Max. They’d shaved off his tail and tummy too. So happy to see you smiling 🩷

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

1 year

@bunsenbernerbmd Because……look at him 😍😍😍😍😍

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 years

❤️

Haggard Hawks 🦅📚 Words | Language | Etymology

@HaggardHawks

7 years

A MOONBROUGH is a haze of cloud seen around the Moon.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

2 years

@heyitsmeghaaa @GauravSaha 😊😊

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

I’ve seen some bs takes on caregiving here and there’s a bunch of things I’d like to address : Caregiving of any kind, but especially cancer caregiving is a lonely process. Your life is divided into pre-cancer and with-cancer eras. It eats away at you and leaves you soul weary.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

1 year

God no. That honor is only for Nick jiju.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

2 years

@bunsenbernerbmd Noses #NFTS

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

2 years

@alyssaharad #flowerreport from Mumbai 🌸🌸🌸🌸

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

My mom and the dog she never wanted 🧿❤️🧿

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

6 years

#WhenIwas 9, and on my first long distance train journey, I was groped and forcibly kissed by a commuter. He patted my hair while he felt me up all over. I have a debilitating fear of train travel till today.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 years

This reminds me so much of your garden art @Neelavanam

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

If only all Sunday mornings could be like this 💗💗

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

Loads of us have lost parents to cancer and managed to not become this vile.

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@rahulkanwal

3 years

Quite an unexpected ‘mastermind’ of the Bulli Bai plot. 18 year old girl in the hills, Shweta Sigh. Lost father to Covid, mother to cancer: Here’s what we know so far about Bulli Bai mastermind Shweta Singh.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

@alyssaharad Checking in from Mumbai for #flowerreport 🌹💐🌸🌺🌷🌻🌼💮

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 years

Please admire the gorgeousness that is my friend's GOODEST boy Bailey ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

6 years

The pain is real. PMS isn't a joke. 'That time of the month' is awful, physically and emotionally. If I am able to work from home those days, I'm more comfortable.

Women's Republic

@womensrepublic_

6 years

What is a common misconception about menstruation that you wish people were more educated on? #WRTalksPeriods

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 years

@alyssaharad These beauties sprouted today, just in time for #FlowerReport

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

8 years

Post chemo breakfast. Appa ate one spoon of everything and we've waited for this moment for 4 years. Excuse me while I have a bit of a cry.

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

8 years

@eveewing She is the 'right' kind of immigrant - not brown, not black, not yellow. That makes it all right for him :/

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@Whyshalleee

4 years

And ta da....it’s like dad’s home again 💛💛

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

3 years

Happy February from this face who has decided that he needs to play all night and sleep all day 💙🧿💙

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@Whyshalleee

7 months

Mary Oliver’s words are comforting when you’re struggling with grief. You might think her work is banal, but when there’s nothing to keep you going, her poetry is like a warm hug.

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@Whyshalleee

6 months

@bunsenbernerbmd Bailey as a distinguished gentleman and as Sherlock Holmes

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@Whyshalleee

6 years

@nikhiljoisr @floydimus Hi, may I suggest connecting with @BloodDonorsIn . I needed blood for my dad’s cancer surgery and they really came through for me.

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@Whyshalleee

2 years

Gulabi @SloganMurugan 💜 #cloudreport

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@Whyshalleee

3 years

#cloudreport @SloganMurugan 💙

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@Whyshalleee

4 years

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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@Whyshalleee

4 years

Oooh I hope you caught the sky right now @SloganMurugan #cloudreport

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 years

@darth @matt___nelson She has a magnificent side eye :)

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@Whyshalleee

6 years

Yes please. Cancer does not turn you into a saint in a stained glass window. You are still you - messy and complicated and real.

Nancy's Point

@NancysPoint

6 years

#Cancer doesn’t miraculously turn you into a better person. It's a horrible disease, not an enlightenment program. … #bccww

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Whyshallee 🐾🐶🌻🍀

@Whyshalleee

7 years

@TheRealBuzz @TheRealStanLee Please, please, please do the cameo.

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@Whyshalleee

6 years

Today I held a stranger's hand when he talked about caregiving for his brother who is paralysed waist down. He held my hand when I talked about Appa. It was almost restorative - strangers comforting each other #hospitals

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@Whyshalleee

4 years

Ok, here goes #BindiTwitter

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