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@Thismediagirl

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FEMINIST, Creative Entrepreneur.

Hamburg, Germany
Joined September 2009
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@Thismediagirl
Emem
2 months
Did we win? No. Will we celebrate? Yes!!!!!! We did well! We’re proud of you @DtigressNG 🥳
@DtigressNG
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2 months
Bowing out on a high. Thank you, Africa!
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the nigerian pastor audio lizzo used for her tiktok video has me screaminggggggg 😂😂😂
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@Thismediagirl
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3 months
Didn’t know you had a problem with misogynistic men.
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3 months
It’s hilarious that any misogynist wants to be a fan of mine. I hate you and everything you stand for boo. Go and tell your mother to shut up. That one will not fly here.
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People are awwwing, but there’s something about this that I don’t find cute. + When these same men travel, is this what their wives do?
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1 year
Nigerian fathers when their wives travel: *pushes bedroom door open and stomps inside daughter's room* "Your mother said she was going for only ten days. It's been four days and she's not yet back. If I talk now, they'll say I'm restricting her freedom."
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@Thismediagirl
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9 months
I like her response to this question.👏🏽 @Mojibadeshow 👏🏽
@Yettyclassy
Fragrance addict 🫶🏾🤎
9 months
That “Wow” definitely comes from a place of disappointment because in 2024 why do certain older women feel like single women cannot be happy until they are married?
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@Thismediagirl
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2 years
@TheOluwabukunmi Imaging this coming from people with dirty saggy balls🌚
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2 years
@vhic3adibe @Oluwadunnii Even the one that cooks and cleans, and basically turns to a slave for him is wondering why he’s cheating on her. Just shows you that the problem isn’t the women, it is not about what they do or don’t do. It is men who have been socialized to think women owe them labour.
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2 years
Yasssss! And celibacy is a sex position.
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2 years
Atheist are religious people
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@Thismediagirl
Emem
11 months
Stxpid christians, please let this be the last time you people show up at this kind of concert and say rubbish after. Stick to NSDPPC and Nathaniel Bassey! You have enough gospel artists who make great music that align with your values. Please let the rest of us hear word!
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RAVAGE UPRISING/ My Ancestors bronzes sit in the museum of this very city so I remade mine. Hence, Edo is redefined, the map reshaped, your minds awakened & the mask reborn. Thank you London! 🦇🇬🇧
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@Thismediagirl
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2 years
A bigger LOL.
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2 years
A big LOL
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2 years
@francisinaku2 @TheIgboWolf Boya you wee help them….
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3 years
@omobaadegoroye @sugabelly You are the werey here, if you think it is okay for one woman to prepare all the food on that table , while grown men sit and laugh like there’s something funny. Also a werey if a child is more reasonable and aware than you.
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2 years
@CorrectGuy4L @niacerise Or a married couple going to enjoy their vacation after a stressful year, they’re walking away because this one decided to be a nuisance and disturb their peace by preaching about of the greatest scams in the world.
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@Thismediagirl
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2 years
@TheIgboWolf Nigerian accent? Accent from freshly heavily colonized people that gained independence the same year? Nigerian accent?
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@whatthadel @itsKARY_ Or they know what is useful and what is useless.😅
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3 years
@BarryKaturota @naledimashishi This tweet has given exactly what it should, it has also been received!
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2 years
@pappyyj @OlakunleSaid @kemaayy Why must they oblige because you’re honest?
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14 days
@Eniifo Religion plays a huge role in this
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11 months
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3 months
You were kiki-Ing with a man who said this rubbish about women on your show, but now you have a problem with misogyny? Hmm🙃
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@Thismediagirl
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2 years
@tcollector5280 @mySA @theestallion She doesn’t really care about your opinion too. Wait, she doesn’t even know you😂
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9 months
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11 months
@90sBabyShow @_melchapo_ @_melchapo_ they knew about all the other homophobic and misogynistic things he had said, and were okay with it. They just didn’t know about this one. lol
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@Thismediagirl
Emem
6 months
If she needs to block me, I think that’s okay. But as a man, you need to stay out of women’s business. 🤫
@boda_anjola
My mouth will put me in trouble 🥲 $RVV
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@Thismediagirl Be careful. She could block because you’re trying to make her see reason why religion and feminism just can’t work.
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@123itsmeMary @shadey000 They even defend predators they don’t know, because that’s exactly what they are too. They hope someday people will defend them.
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9 months
The end. 🥰 @Mojibadeshow 👏🏽
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10 months
@TheOluwabukunmi I’m still shocked. Nigerians???
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2 years
@LadySideshow @THESagerbomb You mean like how men leave their partners when they have health conditions?🤯
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2 years
@Themiladefilms @ulxma Same court session where the crazy things he did is revealed, but you don’t even acknowledge. Same one where you ignore all that and find new ways to demonize her just like these people. Lol. We’re truly not on the same level. Not now, not ever. As you were.✌🏽
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2 years
@OGTNB_SRR @LanaCakes23 @West1116C @RVAReid ‘Speak for yourself’ Said the man trying so hard to speak for women.🤡
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@tosinraj @itsharlima How does the nose ring affect you? Disgusting human being.
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2 years
@chilnonamillion @llp2016 @cassiekumo @rachelkayw You’re still the real gold diggers. This is why most of y’all should keep quiet and sit in the corner when women choose to enjoy free cribs,food and 🍆. Shhhhhhhhh. #staymuted ✌🏽
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2 years
@Pro_TEG @theostoria Please tell their sisters to stop, that their purpose is not to be slaves to men.
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2 years
@Dawood3222 @Miankodah If you make jokes like this, then you never loved your partner in the first place. Jokes are funny, this isn’t. He said what was on his mind, and he tried to cover it up as a “joke”
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@Thismediagirl
Emem
3 months
I said what I said. I do not like the “get her” comments. There’s nothing funny about misogyny, and the tweet doesn’t need any ajasa. Say whatever you want, this tweet is now muted.
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And most of them don’t even like the mothers that love them unconditionally. They like the sacrifices & the labour she performs for them. They like how she makes their lives easy. Ask them about who she is outside this labour, and they don’t know. Her likes? Her dreams? Smh.
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TDHBXG
1 year
As a man, your mother is the only woman that will ever love you unconditionally.
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2 years
@JKwaor @instablog9ja He should fight for his marriage!🫢
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10 months
@Sisi_Yemmie It is such a big issue! Even worldwide. Biko see this thread.
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2 years
@damnassceci @joelle_lb Because it is not a party.
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7 months
@Sisi_Yemmie I think he was just trying to help someone he considered a brother, and he knew the Danladi people were dangerous and could kill Paulo. Maybe he felt guilty for getting the settlement and the woman. So guilt or genuine concern. (If na me, shishi e no go see😂)
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10 months
@NdukaEbubeDike “People won’t celebrate this”🥱
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10 months
@NaijaRadFem And that’s her ‘head’ Now the neck is telling the head to read bible. 😞😞😞
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2 years
@IwaluwaA @omoremibaby @iamscrummy_ Na Una go still say “let’s hear from both sides” “ are you sure they are not making it up” Rest.
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@Thismediagirl
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2 years
@Love_NotWar_But @Yemihazan The ones other people made helped her, but she mustn’t do her until after 2 years.👌🏽
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@Thismediagirl
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2 years
@Diogo_ate_Dalot @piersmorgan More disturbing than genxcide she mentioned?
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3 months
Please I don’t like all the “get her” comments.
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@Thismediagirl
Emem
4 years
7 billion people on this earth...which means there's an audience for just about anything, including that idea that you're too afraid to do.
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@Thismediagirl
Emem
10 months
Now imagine being afraid that someone will snatch your wife because he helped her lift something heavy. Also, if you eat and expect her to cook only when you lift something heavy, won’t hunger kxll you?
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@ulxma But when y'all need someone to lift heavy objects or fix something in the house, who do you call lol.
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2 years
@its_daqueen @fwflackoo I don’t know why they’re insecure. A woman can like you and still see other men🤭🤭🤭
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2 years
@MrGregBlackman @ericaleshai “He respectfully asked” Not “He invaded her personal space” Not “He offered his unsolicited opinion” Instead; “He respectfully asked”
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@ulxma @Tunde_OD A person can steal, lie, rxpe, kxll. And Nigerians still empathize with them. There’s no sin that’s too bad.
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2 years
@melodyogonna @TheIgboWolf Try again. This time, say something that makes sense.
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2 years
@Letstalk_010 @vhic3adibe @Oluwadunnii Same society where women single-handedly take care of their homes and families. They do ALL the chores, work full time, pay kid’s school fees and other bills? Oh, and they do all these things with their ‘husbands’ present o.
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@MissBleuFour @Apuje This is it!!!!!!!
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2 years
@Lauralty @LolaSaks Was Desmond also used as bait?
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2 years
@sayodabo @drunkdialerr @its_daqueen No! let’s start from you. Tell us what you have done to make womens lives better. Are you a feminist or do you hate women? Tell us why you falsely assume you have the right to question anyone in this matter. Tell us how feminism impacts your life.
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2 years
@TjayUkuwa @maenajaat Nice try, big miss.🤭
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2 years
@Thisanambragirl @_amaysing This is why it annoys me that many women are still religious. Like why are you partaking in your own dehumanization and oppression?
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10 months
@its_daqueen @EmmanuelEkei They never accept this. Clowns🤣
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2 years
@The_Nessa_ @Princeflex_ @MsAdaO These people stupidly disregard while benefitting from women’s unpaid labour they’ve gotten away with it for too long. And this one is talking about bills like many women aren’t the breadwinners in their homes, and they stay silent out of respect for their husbands.
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3 months
@Theariaspeaks For the people saying it’s an old video, yeah but this was about a week ago (21/07/2024) at the friendly game against Serbia, in Belgrade. They played the REAL national anthem.
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She’s a bartender or mixologist. You slide into her DM, and you compliment her on her mixing skills. You know she drinks, and she’s always around alcohol. You actively pursue her, then bring this up months later in the relationship. Is this not madness?
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How about “I don’t drink, so I don’t want a partner who drinks. If you want to drink, then I’m not the partner for you”??
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@its_daqueen Even the mothers deserve better. They take, take , and take till there’s nothing left of the mothers.🙃
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@Thismediagirl
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9 months
@Olas_Truth
Ola Ojewumi
2 years
@Travis2Legit Tobe Nwige said he didn’t want to date Fat because she has sickle cell. I don’t know why he keeps getting her pregnant, knowing she’s high risk as a woman with a rare and life-threatening disease.
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The men are 100% right! But I agree with you, they should shxt up! I don’t blame kuku women that think it is possible to be both. Indoctrination is not a joke. It is painful seeing women dominate these oppressive religions that don’t rate women.
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7 months
@____whitney_ @ScholarChefD please answer this question. When you visit your in-laws, who will wash the plate? You?
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2 years
@GiftIfeany @yabaleftonline What part of constantly cheating on your spouse shows forgiveness, tolerance and understanding?
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2 years
@green4plants @SebLin10 @queenveej Where did he say this? I stopped watching his content a while ago. Something just seemed off. The way he spoke about fat
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9 months
They’re now saying the quiet part out loud. They know how the systems in Nigeria affects women and lets them get away with everything. Very good👏🏽
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You’re right, and women already know this. For centuries, women have stuck to men through the worse parts. But guess who’s leaves 6x more when women are sick? I just wish these women receive as much as they give.
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Agbara Nwanyi
1 year
To be clear, this is the “for worse” that marriage vows are referring to. Not putting your wife through emotional rollercoaster. Not making the home unbearable for your family.
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2 years
@__araka__ @Themiladefilms @ulxma Feel free to watch the trial or do your own research. It is not my duty to list anything for you.✌🏽
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@TheMarilynC @TheOluwabukunmi You want women to be free, but also remain in shackles. Yeah, that makes sense. 🫡
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Emem
2 years
@itsokpwill @CorrectGuy4L @niacerise Christianity is one of the greatest scxms in the world. Why are you wailing?
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6 months
Shoutout to the women that still stan this fxxl.
@heymissjasmine
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Someone that went on a podcast and talked about how Nigerian women are ugly . And how the only thing black women had to offer was a fat ass and he would rather be with a white woman cos they now have fat asses too. That Ruger? 😂😂
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11 months
@Gracie_oguns His own child?????? Are you implying that it is solely the duty of his wife?
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@Thismediagirl
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2 years
@green4plants @SebLin10 @queenveej Yes! Now I remember the video. After I watched it , that was the end. I felt so sorry for Fat.
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@Thismediagirl
Emem
2 years
Allysyn my love, this thing with Hermes should never have happened.🙂 #bbnaija
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Emem
2 years
Dancing governor, giddem! #AKCAROLSFEST2022
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@Jayheff_Femi Jay, if you were chillin, you won’t be here in my mentions. 🌚
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@Thismediagirl
Emem
2 years
The truth is, many pastors and churches in Nigeria are complicit in the issues we face today. It's disappointing to see politicians like Sanwoolu shinning teeth at Harvesters Church.🙄
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9 months
@imoteda @tosinolaseinde If you don’t think they can be rehabilitated, and you think life imprisonment is too much, then what’s a better alternative?
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@Temitayo_GQ @larabillionaire Wonder why you people are weeping. What are you sowing that you’re afraid of reaping? 🤔
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2 years
@TheKYCatholic Your argument is dead on arrival. For centuries, men have had no problem slaving away for corporations that don’t love them. But doing obligations around the house is where they draw the line?
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2 years
@IitulaMagano @RyanMabuda @maNdeXii So when his turn comes, they’ll return the favour and keep it hush hush.
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2 years
@its_daqueen They really expected it to ruin her🤣
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2 years
@Ade__mideee @wickedsous @_DammyB_ Tell us what you know about Banky and his experience in politics. Can you vouch for him in any way?
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@Thismediagirl
Emem
9 months
Men: she’s a gold digger. Men: she’s only with me for my money. Men: she’s materialistic. Also men:
@JJExclusive1
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As long as you are financially alright as a man, you’re not ugly.
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@weelz__ Yet, here you are 🤷🏽‍♀️
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@kindafrika She’ll be where she is now stressed about her home. But this same husband expects peace when he travels.
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@Thismediagirl
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2 years
@EtimRene Did the marriage take away @Gbemisoke common sense? No. Do we see the impact of decisions based on fear and shame? Yes. More men still die lonely without meaningful relationships. But it’s women you people want to form Aristotle for😂
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2 years
@skelly_tor4 Because you don’t have a say, and you’re powerless! Why is the monarchy still up?
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9 months
@ulxma That’s exactly what she’s saying . She just got married and she was worrying about her friends wearing shorts. And she says she’s enjoying her marriage 🤣 Ma’am, what exactly did you marry?
@Thismediagirl
Emem
9 months
I like her response to this question.👏🏽 @Mojibadeshow 👏🏽
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@rassie_dot_dev People that have it in their blood? This is the first time in seeing an angle about their food. Every other time, it has been about their racxsm. Your video is nothing but facts sha. 🤣
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