Xe/Xem, fae/faer, 23, Bigender-flux guy just here to piss off the transphobes. 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈Polyam, Abrosexual. Newly Engaged. Women’s rights mean all women btw.
Me supporting trans men who choose to use sex-based language for their sexuality doesn’t make me transphobic.
Supporting bi lesbians (who are usually multigender) doesn’t make me bi/lesbophobic
@uglyspirit0
@starcowboyfan
@anarchoboognish
People don’t ignore detransitioners. What we ignore are the grifters who say made up shit for money. Anyone who has detransitioned because it wasn’t right for them deserves all the support and care. I think most trans people agree with me on that.
@catteronii_
@l33crys
Femme men exist. GNC men exist. Both of these apply to trans men. Femme clothes don’t make some trans men dysphoric because not all trans experiences are the exact same <3
@uglyspirit0
@starcowboyfan
@anarchoboognish
You don’t get to make peoples opinions for them. There are “detrans” people who have been manipulated by right wing media or are just doing it for money. The people who have been manipulated or detransitioned for themselves deserve love and care.
@ChiefLord999
@creepydotorg
Not accidentally nor before he died. They couldn’t get him out and once they got the readings he was dead they stopped trying. Sealed the cave off so no one else would suffer the same fate.
@yumiiguro
@IsabellaScar2
I’m both transmasc and transfemme. Being that I’m bigender and on HRT I don’t feel like my birth gender anymore and only experience being a gender in a trans way. Some people who are genderfluid may feel similar :3
@PamphletsBlue
@Pinko69420
I wasn’t taught about unions for very long in school, nor would I know how to research to start one yaknow. Someone can’t do things without being given the tools to do it first.
@nyro_logs
@keeetzo
Bed rotting is a term for when someone sleeps a majority of the day, usually due to things like depression or other physical disabilities.
@strangertemple
@edeniseepy
@KK_cooper448
I am calm? I’m just telling you what actually happened because you obviously have a hard time reading situations lol. Also I’m literally a dude lmao.
@TroonPlanet
@Zoe_Brain
@AGallagherAlly
Oh look at that, not answering the question AND throwing out slurs. Go back to the hole you crawled out of bro. The echo chamber you’re in is rotting your brain.
@strangertemple
@edeniseepy
@KK_cooper448
Nope, it’s not grooming, that information could’ve been found on google. Grooming is intentionally manipulating someone into something, which our lovely friend here isn’t doing. I also literally am a guy lmao. Love that you think what you’re saying is actually getting to me.
The fact that it’s the only thing transmascs are being told about T. How you’ll lose all your hair and you won’t be attractive anymore. How you’ll be forced to repress feelings due to toxic masculinity or how you’ll be so much better off and shouldn’t whine. Let people be anxious
you see trans men feeling anxious about t and you come to the conclusion that they are crybabies instead of realizing there's a relentless anti-transmasc propaganda to coerce them into detransition/keep them in the closet
@Wallace1Wells
@QueerHercules
Honestly people can use any term to identify their sexuality, why should I care tbh. And if a c!s person feels more comfortable identifying as trans then they probably are trans on some way tbh lol.
@Wallace1Wells
@QueerHercules
If someone feels like a label looses meaning for them purely because someone else finds meaning in it too, that’s not the person who finds meaning in its problem.
@Wallace1Wells
@QueerHercules
TRANS MEN USE THEIR BIRTH SEX TO IDENTFY THEIR SEXUALITY SOMETIMES
I don’t know how hard that is to understand. I personally don’t, but I know a lot of trans men that do. And you kinda are telling people how they can feel and how they identify off those feelings. Sooo
@Wallace1Wells
@QueerHercules
Well it is actually. Some enby leaning trans guys identify better with the label. Also some trans men prefer to use the label identified with their birth sex
@Wallace1Wells
@QueerHercules
Why would another lesbian care. We shouldn’t be enforcing labels like their the edges of a box, the whole point of the queer community is that we don’t fit into fucking boxes lmao
@kodydontexist
@Mariethemouse
@judgementshae
I did read it, a couple times. It still reads the same way to me. If that’s what she meant that’s fine I didn’t get it. But it still reads as calling a bi woman straight and I was confused.
@Wallace1Wells
@QueerHercules
Did u not read? Trans men use their birth sex to identify their sexuality at times. Stop telling people how they feel bro wtf. Also nonbinary people can and do identify in whole and in part as men or women as well. They’re still enby.
@PowrfulWizard
I felt like saying you’d date trans men as a lesbian kinda invalidated trans guys gender (as a very sensitive early trans guy) but now it’s kinda like…personally it make me feel a bit invalidated so I probably wouldn’t date someone who uses the label but if others want to 🤷🏼♂️
@RealityBent
I keep forgetting ;-; I’ve used “poly” for so long and I’m not involved with that part of the community a ton so I didn’t learn till recently. The important part is we’re trying. :3
@JamieRecklin
@IsabellaScar2
People who use a certain queer label are what they say they are. It doesn’t invalidate anyone else’s identity for using the same label.
@Wallace1Wells
@QueerHercules
You can still express it as wlw because it’s how that person expresses it, it doesn’t mean that’s how someone else expresses it for themselves.
@NimatGray
@adamfare1996
I think the abuse standpoint may come from the fact that being abused physically and/or mentally CAN. cause a bad relationship with food especially if it was centered around weight and lot of the time. These two things look very different tho. Speculating about-
@catowner234
@MikeHooray
@finngalkn
Not all of them. There are gay men who date trans men. This doesn’t make them bi. Just like a straight guy dating a trans woman doesn’t make him bi/gay.
@Wallace1Wells
@QueerHercules
She can just say no, just like she has before. The only problem arises if said someone harasses her, that’s not okay and has nothing to do with the label.
@catowner234
@MikeHooray
@finngalkn
I am in the real world sweetie. I don’t know why you brought asexual into this tbh. Gay men like MEN. Straight men like WOMEN. Notice how those are both gendered terms?
@kodydontexist
@Mariethemouse
@judgementshae
It’s not that I felt defensive I was genuinely just confused. Then you said something about reading comprehension and I assumed I read it wrong so I tried again. Once again if they switched the words or something that’s what happened I was just expressing being confused.
@loseroan
@ph4sm0kin
@kochamwiem
Thank YOU for actually being open to understanding new things. A lot of people think everyone should conform to the rigid lines of an umbrella identity and won’t budge when people try to explain.
@WolfHouseAK
@thechiyodan87
@SerraAetheria
@AriDrennen
There are bad apples in every group. Literally every single group. Saying a group should be killed (as a lot of people do) because someone who identifies as part of that group hurt someone else is not the call you want to make.
@AyoolaMatthee
@crazyclips_
The girl was literally bullying the poor trans girl, spreading rumors about her. She can literally countercharge with defamation.
@Wallace1Wells
@QueerHercules
Yes that’s my whole point. Why are people trying to take labels away by only allowing the people who fit rigidly into those boxes to have it?
@Wallace1Wells
@QueerHercules
So you do believe that people should fit in boxes which I’ll say again, isn’t the point of the queer community. No one is taking a label away from someone else. They’re just self identifying as such. If someone who a specific lesbian isn’t interested in hits on her at a bar-
@darkstarellie
@TiredAshleyGay
It may make someone’s life easier but that’s the same as telling someone to go back in the closet and not be happy with their body.
@kodydontexist
@Mariethemouse
@judgementshae
I’ve seen a lot of biphobia on Twitter recently as well so I don’t think it’s a reach to think that someone was being biphobic. My reply was trying to figure that out. I’m also autistic and dyslexic so yes my reading comprehension fucking sucks.
@PantysExploding
@SomberPrincess3
@Egg_irl_bot
No one is trying to convince anyone lmao. The egg thing is a joke about how everyone who is trans now at some point very heavily denied it (due to societal/family pressures) until they “cracked” (yaknow….like an egg)
@Wallace1Wells
@jesterhat03
@QueerHercules
Trans women fit the defenition of women if they feel that that identity fits them. We’re fitting identities to people here, not the other way around
@feiryfilmsalt
@g0thkittiez
@IsabellaScar2
Forcing someone to change their sexuality and identification purely because (for example) their partner transitioned is harmful imo. I don’t think theirs anything harmful about what this is doing except promoting inclusivity. Preferences can narrow down what youre into-
@polyanthems
Nah I completely get it. People are dicks. Like the way they said it made it seem like it was prio-ing menstral products over condoms when they’re both important;-;
@Mighty_Lich
@adamfare1996
You can have an extremely high libido and not be sexually attracted to your sexual partner. You can be aesthetically and romantically attracted to your partner, have sex and still not have a sexual attraction to them. That’s still asexual.