@indicachildT
How you know thatโs not a trusted family member? Or even her other parent? The caption is really inflammatory and blames the mother without facts that this is โanybodyโ
@indicachildT
Ten years? Thatโs not a stranger. Regardless itโs not the mothers fault to insinuate. Most all child sex abuse cases are from trusted family members, friends, etc.
@sighborgs
A lot of folks in these comments should seek therapy, is it not a strangers responsibility to be considerate of your past & feelings. Just take the joke.
Im annoyed at how she acting so oblivious. Iโm a shapely woman in healthcare & see these types all the time. Attention whores. Itโs not hard to dress down to hide your shape.
@indicachildT
Didnโt say you said, โanybodyโ is the word, which could signify that itโs a stranger. Mom may have terrible discernment, unaware of the details of his previous offenses OR this POS is an expert at being manipulative as predators tend to be.
@monkefresh
@DezMonk26
@PageSix
Itโs not hateful, disrespectful, or derogatory but itโs definitely predatory seeing as he wifed a teenager. Letโs not do this guys.
@sanaaxmckenzie_
@indicachildT
You know how many charges against kids get downplayed so that mfrs donโt have to register as a sex offender? How many mfrs still get to walk? Emotional responses donโt revoke facts. Donโt always blame the mama.
@tayvitothunder
@indicachildT
Again. Emotional response. Never said he didnโt. The problem in all is how itโs often thought that itโs always the mom having โanybodyโ around when statistically thatโs not the case. Itโs not always about carelessness of the parent. You can do all the vigilance & still.
@donwarbucks
@ricknmortified
@DerenicByrd
Iโm so confused at how you mention this as if itโs after the fact, โIโm outโ when the boundaries you have for yourself before even trying to be with someone to negotiate shouldโve had you โoutโ of their face to begin with.
Happy Easter everyone.
If anyone is attending physical service anywhere today, do me a favor give your church a shout out...
So I can alert the police.
Stay safe saints!
@ninasayersbmi
@tayvitothunder
@indicachildT
Exactly my point! Mfrs taking leaps over the facts to have a response. How tf yโall sound insinuating that the mama did something negligent thatโs further traumatizing the mother & child. Praying you and yours find healing & the offender dies a horrible death.
DDG has done so many things to sabotage Halles career, especially during the Little Mermaid release. I knew he had deep, evil intentions when he leaked that video of Halle cursing. And itโs not to say that she canโt curse or doesnโt curse, but why put that video out there..
@cHeesecHasin2
@indicachildT
Exactly. Related or not, there needs to be a change in the laws because mfrs plea down so they donโt have to register an offender. They hide in plain sight but itโs not right to automatically assume itโs moms negligence.
@solidgxld
@indicachildT
What if there is no reported abuse bc it was never reported? Letโs even go past a significant other. What about the trusted school officials, the teachers, the coaches, with a clean record? You can do all that & thereโs no sign. Itโs still her fault?
@KkNonyab926
@indicachildT
No, the legal system is. I think child predators shud die-but no they are released from jail to reoffend, downplay the nature of their charges to manipulate people. Even get out of registering as sex offenders too.
@indicachildT
& thatโs not taking away any possibility of her level of parenting being bad or good. Itโs just awful and it can be left at he a POS that deserves death. Itโs the legal systems fault if anyone elseโs if heโs reoffending. & no Iโm not critically reading Iโm at work lbs.
@stillnez216
I got down to the โproperโ weight for my height according to the scale and I looked sick. Iโve worked with physicians who have said that scale is unrealistic because of the many things that arenโt factored in. โProperโ weight does not equate to health.
@ChristineFYL
@Snaxy
@jiggyjayy2
Yes, you can get cavities and/or lose teeth during pregnancy. Iโve seen this happen and dealt with the cavities, your baby drains your body of the nutrients and if you are up on it for both of you, itโll affect your body.
@HBCUfessions
Heโs not the bad guy, the female is 10000% wrong. BUT, who gets hurt the worst here guys? Can you imagine not giving a shit but losing the only father you know?
@donwarbucks
@ricknmortified
@DerenicByrd
Thatโs the thing, everyone doesnโt. They donโt have to, you have the choice to walk away if that person doesnโt match your PREFERENCES. Thatโs all they are, boundaries are YOU choosing to avoid partners who are against what youโre comfortable with completely
@TyDavis1
GIRLLLLL. Yโall shoulda LINKED. If that sick bitch coming like that he wouldโve pulled up. Then the paramedics can come get his ass on the way to jail.
@tayvitothunder
@indicachildT
Then WHY does the caption suggest THAT instead of the only fact here-that the mfr deserves death. It says โyโall let anybody around your kids.โ Thatโs accusing the mama of some shit. Tf
Women giving birth, donโt make them more important or more divinely created by God than men. You have a function, men have a function plan and simple
@KkNonyab926
@Smdbitxhh
@StrawberriSplif
@indicachildT
Never said that either. When youโre done with these emotionally charged responses. Youโll see that my responses in general have been about how society blames the mom. Nothing more or less. Whether you like it or not, blame the legal system that he was allowed to reoffend.
Ngl mfrs who bring up โage of consentโ need to be outcasted off rip. 40 lashes. Thereโs not one time in my adult life where I was curious about how young is too young to find out what that number is. You a freaky frog ass mfr for even finding this out to me.
@MysticxLipstick
No seriously. Iโm considering speaking up about a coworker in my clinic who just lacks total empathy or real care with patients. The way she just carelessly speaks so carelessly and critically over patients who are here to see us for HELP.
Because sheโs black? Suing mfrs is as American as Apple Pie when the whites do it. They literally say so quickly, youโll be hearing from their lawyers-police included. Bad take.
@bigmoneylilmel
@solidgxld
@indicachildT
You mean like the one where it was originally insinuated that the parent let anybody around the kid?my responses have a been in general because the facts still the facts. Itโs often a close person. Canโt always blame the parent.
@shaTIRED
People just be really fucking dumb and entitled thatโs the problem. If you canโt handle the treatment -walk off but to think she should be able to put her illness aside is ridiculous as hell.
After additional discussion stemming from
@SientoPapi
post earlier, I truly want Men to know that I absolutely donโt owe not one of you mfrs NOTHING. Not a smile back, a RESPONSE (whether in person or DM), I donโt owe you S H I T.
@donwarbucks
@ricknmortified
@DerenicByrd
I can know what he doesnโt like-but that and boundaries are two completely different things. You lack accountability in holding your boundaries and choosing women? Like? Whut?
Before yโall begin to type out your bitter Fathers Day posts remember....
YOU fucked him.
YOU decided to carry & birth his child.
YOU did not become a MOTHER to do this on Fathers Day. This is NOT a reflection of You.
@deemarie98__
@MissieISNice
I hope she just talking bout all the mfrs (I know some personally) who quit their jobs, who looking at Unemployment as a โcome-up.โ
Mfrs have walked off at my job & made it worse for us. They gone be begging for they jobs back.
@tayvitothunder
@indicachildT
Youโre responding with emotion to take offense, where did you see me take his side? The blame needs to be left with him ONLY because it also traumatizes families when this happens. The mother is a victim as well. They have advocates for this.
Girlies, Iโm gone hold yall hand when I say thisโฆif that man act a fool with his BM in front of you 1000% he gone do you the same way if you give him a baby too.
His gf said he did it bc I interfered with their plans .. I wasnโt ready to meet him at 3:00 to get her back, I told him Iโll let him know when Iโm ready ๐