Call me Bo. My presence in your TL is a gift. My adventures teaching, exercising, raising 2 small boys, meeting women, becoming the man I know I still can be
My dance teacher: “Always first position, never second”
Me: “Always first position, never second—in dance, in life, with women”
Bo, it’s time to stop playing small
Also really good advice for a (first) date
Like I tell my students: What is everyone’s favorite topic? Themselves
How to win friends, or have a really good date—get other people to talk about themselves
@GrainSurgeon
Rented a truck to move a couch a couple of weeks back—noticed this sticker on the dashboard
I live out in CA—is this a threat or a promise, Home Depot?
I turn 40 in a couple of weeks
Some days I feel like a colossal fuck-up as I approach 40
Been trying to turn some things around, but still…
Bookmarked and screen-shotted to remind myself
“I wasted my 20s and 30s.”
Doesn’t matter. You can peak later in life. Start making moves today and in 2-3 years your reality will be completely different.
Agreed 💯
I’m a teacher myself (Catholic HS)—but one of the (many) things disenchanting me about my profession rn is the incredible self-regard and tone-deafness displayed by many in this field
What about the students? What about the parents?
What about the grocers who never got a break? The mail carriers? The doctors? Nurses? LEO? First responders? Every single person who went to work EVERY day? Even when teachers were staying home.
Could you be any more tone-deaf?
Rare that I shop at Wal-Mart (youngest had his glasses fixed there)
“But
@AJA_Cortes
, it’s so expensive to eat a healthy, high-protein diet!”
Yogurt (15 g protein—$1.18 each)
Eggs, 5 dozen—$6
Milk? 2 gallons @ like $3.35
Ground beef? Hit up Vietnamese grocery ($2.59 / lb)
In my bio, I talk about adventures ‘meeting women’
Brief confession time:
Been learning cold approach
Last week, got 2 numbers
Tonight was first date post-divorce—coffee date
Last night at grocery, a woman I asked out told me “good effort”
Progress
Off to bed, night y’all
@PUA_DATING_TIPS
Learned the hard way. I thought that she would reciprocate / understand / appreciate sacrifices I made for her and our family. I could not have been more wrong. Lesson learned. They don’t care / don’t understand / don’t appreciate. I expect that going forward.
Ask
@FWPlayboy
:
Matched with this girl on Hinge (honestly do not remember seeing this but okay)….but wat do?
Ignore and run my game regardless, correct?
@allicovington
I’m separated / divorcing. As nice as female companionship sounds right now, I’d rather be on my own than with someone who doesn’t love and respect me.
Been seeing the Chinese-American girl for about 6 months now
Earlier this afternoon, whabam she hits me with this text:
“Curious: where do you want our relationship to go? Am I just for fun?”
Yup
Can confirm—been doing it for a couple of weeks now
MgCl and inositol in my water to start day—less brain fog, less of nerves, I’m much more clear, direct, and loose (in a good way) with my words and thoughts
Def helps
Thank you
@Grimhood
YOU are MORE important than any girl
-Walk through doors ahead of her
-Step first from elevators, you have places to be
-She can carry her own shit, keep your hands free
@GregBuffett
@JesseKellyDC
Just like my HOA padlocking the gates to pool / deck at my place—did that this past Friday, like 5 weeks in to stay-at-home orders.
@alpharivelino
@mahcneto
A few differing vibes, from my gut response:
Indifference
I don’t need him (or anyone else)
Why won’t he call me / approach me?
She’s a Hard 7/8
Her Dad pays ALL her bills
She’s quit every job she’s had because it was “icky”
When she sneezes she pees her pants
She can’t find her own state on a map
She’s wrecked 4 cars in 5 years
And you think she can tell if YOU have YOUR shit together?
My daily affirmations (credited and adapted):
I can do this. I make things happen.
@beamanforreal
Money (and women) are attracted to me. (adapted from)
@joserosado
She's not into you, but many other women very much are. I am a success object.
@TW_Beckett
You don't have to know what you will say when you're approaching her. If she likes what she sees, she will laugh even at stupid jokes.
All women are 'pick me' girls to those men who are worth it and who she wants to be with.
@FWPlayboy
Some mix of game (agree / amplify / re-direct)
And comfort
“We both know you want me for my body”
THEN
“6 months is not just for fun, at least in my view”
Many, many problems with surrogacy
When I talk about it with students, I also frame it in terms of exploitation (since that is a term our culture supposedly cares about) as well—as there is often a significant financial inducement to become a surrogate
Yes, I’m anti-surrogacy as a general matter
Children deserve to have their biological mothers, and adults shouldn’t be arranging their affairs to deprive children of their mothers
Pretty explicit about the heels part
Don’t really care about hair color (I prefer dark-haired women—keep it long, ladies)
Fun, fit, feminine—yes pls (the Indonesian [the widow]), are these things
She is 4’11” (!!!!), but 120 lbs—on our last date I literally picked her up
In your Online Profile, state EXACTLY what you’re looking for in a girl.
This allows girls to SELF-SELECT (either opt in or out) requiring YOU to have to do LESS qualifying.
Ex.
- Blondes over Brunettes
-Redheads go straight to the front of the line
-Fit
-Fun
-Feminine
-No
“Fellas, you shouldn't care about anyone but yourself.”
Basically, this
Mental point of origin stuff
Being obsessed with ‘revenge’ means she still lives rent-free in your head
It was one night (or, one period) of your life
Let it, and her, go
The Redpill™️ never was and will never be about the revenge fantasies.
If you as a woman are mad at this post it's because you the took TRP personally, see yourself in this woman, or you need content.
Also, she is an anomaly. Exceptions don't make the rule.
Fellas, you
Yup
Was me
“I’m unhaaaaaaapy”
/lays out things she is ‘unhaaaaaaapy’ with
//I attempt to comply
Later:
“I’m still unhaaaaaaapy....”
Don’t fall for it, gents
I won’t again
Reminded of a quote from
@FWPlayboy
Keep running more girls
Got a number from a Bumble girl—may have a date for this week
Boys go back to their mother later this week and with her over Easter Break—time to, among other things, meet girls
I have 20 girls’ numbers in my phone
Time to get 20 more
And 20 more
And 20 more
And so on....
Have an Ana? Get an Anna, Annie, Anne and Ann to join them
Want to date 4 Lauren’s? Of course you do—you find Lauren’s hot, so go get them
Get back out there &
#FillThePhone
Lesson learned
I have a date tonight, but it’s been about 2 weeks in the making
On the 10th, I took the boys to the pool, thinking nothing of it
After some time, in walk 3 women, all with young daughters. 2 of the adult women are very heavy, 1 is rather slender, but she was….