@passport_cutty
I would want people to leave me alone! When I’m going through something tough I am a lot more negative so I stay to myself and do the work to pull myself out. No one else can do it for me. They just have to understand that. I don’t have any children so I don’t owe anyone anything
Modern polygamy is simply rooted in a lack of sexual discipline and a culture of over sexualized people. It’s literally about sexual desires. That’s it.
@_qualeman91
Taking care of the kids isn’t enough accountability. It’s a mental shift and acceptance that needs to happen. People will take care of their children and still be bitter and make the same mistakes.
@DontWorryBoutB
@LonelEyeEyeEye
You’re saying we only have to take extra precautions before giving someone a child because people tolerate deadbeats? That sounds like abnegating personal responsibility. We can’t change deadbeats we can only use discernment and make better choices. We can only change ourselves.
@DriftVagabond
@JustJJMills
@xoBeanxo_
Nah I was joking! There’s no reason it needs to be private unless you’re hiding something in my opinion. But whatever floats others boats.
Just had a convo with a guy who said men understand women but women don’t understand men. But that’s not true at all. Women and men equally don’t understand one another.
@lmTheReasonWhy
Agreed. Honest and stand on what they require. Also not broadcasting those specific needs on social media for the world to misunderstand or scrutinize. Which will just result in people telling them what they need like you said.
Negative people dwell on their problems which creates more problems. Positive people understand anything is possible which allows them to attract an abundance of opportunities.
A lot of men glorify sex because it’s the only true fulfillment and ego boost they get in life. No real connection to others, no real love, no real intellectual stimulation just surface level satisfaction from women.
Women always complain about men’s delivery. We have to accept that men simply deliver messages different from us. The sooner we accept it, the sooner we can understand them better but also inspire them to deliver messages in a more loving way.
I can’t stand debating someone who has a hood mentality! They literally can’t see past the limits of their thinking.
Their viewpoints are solely based on the people in their neighborhood, their homies etc.
@ReneejamesC
@DontWorryBoutB
I agree and I think that was the overall message behind the original post. People skip over things, pick and choose what fits their narrative.
@DriftVagabond
@JustJJMills
@xoBeanxo_
I respect your perspective! I think it’s fine that people have different perspectives. In this case, posting helped her. I’m not opposed to keeping things off social media but to hide your engagement from people in general seems a bit fishy to me. Are we only referring to sm?
Life gets easier when you accept reality for what it is. The good and the bad. The fair and the unfair. Focusing on the wrong things will have you less focused on yourself and what you can actually control.
Never trust an older woman who says “don’t worry about men” they give terrible advice. Instead they should be advising you on how to attract quality men. Truth is, they don’t know how.
Spent the day with a beautiful wealthy married couple! The husband is a doctor with his own practice and his wife stays at home, raises the 3 children and helps manage his business. Their teamwork, hospitality and the energy between them was inspiring! ❤️
I have no desire to “make it to the top” I genuinely want to live a very simple life full of love, family, knowledge, self mastery, health and financial comfortability.
I honestly just have a burning desire to be the BEST person I can be! The best business woman, friend, partner, family member I can be! It’s me vs me 🙌🏾
Stop dwelling on those who DON'T support your business, way of life or ideas. Focus on your craft and the genuine support you do receive. Personal and professional improvement as well as genuine support from like minded individuals will drive success.
People are so used to toxic surface level relationships that when you over communicate, practice healthy behaviors, openly share your feelings/ needs and they are unable to, they think you’re crazy 😂
When it comes to your customers, stop thinking about a quick check! Provide quality work and good customer service. Be professional! Think about sustainability and longevity. This is how your business will grow.
The hardest thing about being a passionate person is having to accept the fact that most people wont reciprocate your energy. On the flip side, you don’t do it for reciprocation, you do it because it’s genuinely who you are.
When presented with a great opportunity that you are unfamiliar with, take it! If you don’t know how to do it, accept it anyway! Master it along the way. Push yourself out of your comfort zone even when you’re terrified. This is how you foster growth.
@spartans33d
I’ve literally had a man compare himself to an animal as a badge of honor when it came to this.
Guy: “Why would I only sleep with one woman, lions sleep with multiple.”
Me: “Are you a lion lol.”
Motivational videos feel good and may get you through the day but attacking the root cause of why you’re unmotivated to begin with is more important and productive.
Why do men go on social media and talk about religion this, God this, Jesus this, Allah that… and then an hour later they’ll be promoting adultery, fornication, threesomes etc
@franklinburrus
The solution is to stop having sex with them and making babies. When your discernment is off and desire for validation from men exceeds making better choices of course you can’t be soft. I know men who don’t act like boys.
Men don’t have the same ability as women to say “I’m scared” and that’s their sacrifice/ responsibility. The pursuit of fearlessness or simply courage admist fear to protect those around them. And I appreciate that.
The thought of continuously improving different areas of myself gets me excited. It’s amazing… the journey of self-improvement never ends, and we have the opportunity to become even better versions of ourselves.
I’m pretty certain now that I’m too deep and too much for most people. A lot of what people talk about and find important is surface level and I really crave depth.
It’s wild to say we care about poor children who have nothing and then go spend $1500 on some shoes. That’s 15 pairs of Nikes for 15 kids. But materialistic greed and the desire to flex on others runs this world!
Honestly I love living below my means & being a low maintenance person! It really forces you to be grateful & develops your character/ an authentic love for yourself. Instead of being dependent on happiness and validation from external sources & meaningless materialistic things.
@hakujinthehuman
I’m not mad at making money/ this perspective. Me personally, I’m not asking people to come somewhere to celebrate me and demand they pay me too! It’s giving entitled and full of myself. If my loved ones naturally feel inclined to do so well that’s wonderful.
@Theholisticpsyc
Unbelievable part is if we just remove ego for a second, ask questions instead of being defensive, we realize that we simply took the feedback out of context.
@NicoleLewisLCSW
Case by case. I try to put myself in their shoes first to see where their actions or words stemmed from. Most times friends aren’t intentionally trying to hurt you. They could be dealing with their own issues.
@NordwallKyle
That’s very true. Recently someone told me when they are depressed they just tell themselves “I’m not depressed” and I thought to myself, how does that solve the root of the problem?
More men and women need to be committed to understanding one another. Understanding breeds acceptance. Lack of understanding promotes frustration and problems.
Nobody is exempt from hating. Your family, friends, teachers, men and women etc. Most people just aren’t as secure as they’d want to be. It’s a human thing.
There’s a lot of beautiful women but they lack intelligence and the ability to think. Dope men get bored all the time because of the lack of mental stimulation.
I know honest people exist because I'm honest. I know loyal people exist because I'm loyal. I know great friends exist because I'm one. I know there are kind people because I'm kind.
It sucks that so many people are making divisive content. I follow some intelligent people and I love to learn and hear their perspectives but once they get into the victim/ divisive mindset/ gender wars content I really just want to unfollow!
@The1stGentleman
@bj_blunt
It’s easy for me to understand he wouldn’t want to settle with the girls in pics he likes. I feel its contradicting and misleading to most women because he’s condoning, validating and celebrating what he claims to not want. He’s promoting what he doesn’t want Actions should align
Argumentative & disagreeable people are exhausting and drain the fun and enjoyment outta life 😂 How on earth is every convo an argument? There’s no way!