I had my first appointment with the amazing
@drclairetaylor
earlier this week and just WOW! She was lovely, so kind & understanding. It is no exaggeration to say that she has helped me more in 45 minutes than the NHS has done in 24 years. 🧵
On Severe ME Understanding and Remembrance Day my thoughts are with all those suffering silently, chained to their beds, hiding in the shadows, waiting in vain for a better day that never arrives.
#SevereMEDay
#EndMEMalnutrition
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
"Millie is declining further in hospital and has communicated she can only stand a few more days and needs to go home extremely urgently. She can no longer get out of bed at all and even turning over in bed is becoming a big struggle."
#SaveMillie
Update! Things have been much better for
@Mariararoo
since she's been moved to her own room. Most of the nurses & drs are treating her with care. One of the consultants she saw earlier in her stay visited her this week & has now read the NICE guideline. What a breakthrough! 🧵
Update! "Millie continues to be a patient in Royal Lancaster Infirmary. She has very severe ME and, prior to her mistreatment by the hospital, was estimated to have a mere 3% capacity by Dr Speight." 🧵
#VerySevereME
#NHSProtocol4SevereMENow
#DontLetMeDie
"I worry that this guideline seems to suggest that patients need to learn to live with CFS/ME, rather than be helped to recover from it." Yes Peter White, this has been our reality for decades! Imagine where we would be now if the focus had been on biomedical research.
#pwME
This is a big day for Millie & her family. In addition to the Twitterstorm at 11am, there will be a protest outside the RLI & her story will be covered by
@ITVGranadaTV
. Very grateful to
@JoshuaStokesITV
. Big thanks also to
@NickyProctor
@juancorlett
who made this happen.
URGENT
#BringMillieHome
#DontLetMEDie
We are in Lancaster at the request of Millie's family, Lucy and Abbie. We spent a few hours with them last night and they are amazing people. Why are we here? Watch below and sorry there's no captions 😔
I'm not adequately expressing all I want to say ( brain mostly on holiday & it has taken me so long to compose this) but you get the picture. Dr Taylor's parting words to me "Go home & rest, that's Drs orders!" No other dr has told me to rest - ever! /End
I left the appt stunned really & laughed hysterically most of the way home. Now, a few days later, feeling 😭. Just starting to realise the extent of anger I have been holding in for so long. Sinking in that there is a degree of trauma caused by the medical profession. /4
Update from the family, Millie has an official ME/CFS diagnosis! "On 15/03/24 Dr Weir sent a very clear letter stating that Millie’s diagnoses is ME/CFS and for this to be added to her medical records."
#SaveMillie
#VerySevereME
#DontLetMeDie
#MEKills
Anthony Komaroff has just been speaking in Berlin. Discussing the similarity of symptoms in
#LC
&
#ME
and similar underlying biological abnormalities. His paper analysing the results of over 1,000 studies will be published in the next few weeks. Some slides included below. /1
Jenny Wilson has posted an update on FB."The staff are just now grumbling about the deluge of cards pouring in for Millie, so please keep sending.They know they are being observed by the patient community. Keep them coming!" Thanks
@LiminalME2022
sharing.
#TeamMillie
#SaveMillie
"Medical education on ME/CFS in the UK has not progressed in the past 20 years. 41% of UK medical schools don’t teach ME/CFS at all. Meanwhile, a 2021 survey of UK doctors found that 73% had learned nothing at all about ME/CFS during their training."
Hi everyone, I have deleted the thread about Millie as there have been some changes so it was no longer entirely accurate. I have up to date information & will post this later. Thanks for sharing, the family are amazed that so much attention has been brought to Millie's case.
Millie continues to decline & her family is extremely concerned. She still doesn't have the type of feeding tube in place that would allow her to go home. Please sign & share the petition as a matter of urgency.
#SaveMillie
#EndMalnutritioninME
#severeME
As another week draws to a close please think of Millie who'll be enduring her 8th weekend stuck in hospital. She still doesn't have an NJ tube fitted nor does she have a planned discharge date. Please keep her in your thoughts.
#SaveMillie
#MedicalNeglect
#VerySevereME
#MEKills
It just can't sink in that I finally saw an HCP who didn't dismiss, disbelieve or ridicule me. She dx MCAS, POTS (prob/def OI, lean test coming up). Prescribed meds, referral to sleep clinic, chest xray & other tests. Writing to GP & hopefully will be able to get all on NHS./3
They knew the benefits of ventilation in classrooms in 1916.
Windows open, fresh air circulating.
#COVIDisAirborne
& yet there is no air filtration or CO2 monitors in our schools. We have the tools, why are they not being utilised?
@CleanAirClassrm
#CleanAirForAll
#LongCovid
I can't describe how great it feels to finally see someone who totally gets it & is so knowledgeable about the illness & comorbidities. She is totally all over it. I'm still feeling overwhelmed & in a state of disbelief/shock, did this really happen? /2
her own carer/advocate with her as much as she needs. Millie’s Mum is only "allowed" to visit for 2 hours every day and Abbie (her sister) is being encouraged to stay away for more hours in the day. This is a big worry as Millie is in such a vulnerable state." / End
Good news!
@Mariararoo
is getting home tomorrow. The MDT meeting took place early & they sadly said no to the permanent feeding tube. They are letting her go home with the NG tube in place. Nurses will visit her at home & she'll be part of the virtual ward programme. /1
"I feel like I’m going to die”. These were the haunting words of 18-year-old Millie McAinsh, wrongly sectioned and left without care in an NHS hospital." With grateful thanks to
@TinyWriterLaura
for this excellent article in
@BylineTimes
#SaveMillie
An incredibly emotional interview with
@therealmecfs
on
@Channel4News
. Jo spent several hours filming while also working extremely hard behind the scenes for
#TeamMillie
. Thank you so much Jo for doing this to raise awareness for us all, very grateful. Link available tomorrow.
her extreme hypersensitivity to light. However the psychiatrists that sectioned Millie alluded to Millie using/needing to be in a dark room as a way to control others and suggested that she doesn’t need to wear an eye mask. The hospital is trying to stop Millie from having /7
It's common how much we dread the bath/shower thing, how much effort it takes & the after effects. Well, guess what? It's not all in our heads. Validation from Visible Plus. I've discovered that it uses up between 52-112% of my daily pace points.
#pwME
#pwLC
@visible_health
Excellent news!! I thought you would all like to know that
@Mariararoo
is currently in an ambulance on her way home.
🥳 The great escape has commenced! 🥳
#pwME
"Watching our community lose people to this illness time and time again never gets easier. But what makes it far worse, is that governments and medical professionals aren’t paying attention."
@TinyWriterLaura
's article about
@KaraJaneSings
from last year.
How incredible this community is. Some of Millie's cards are now up on her wall. A tangible display of the concern, love, warmth & support she has from us all. Just fabulous! Please keep signing & sharing the petition.
#TeamMillie
#EndMalnutritioninME
#MECFS
Some of Millie’s cards are now up on her wall for all to see how much love and support she has from the ME community! More to be added soon!
Petition
#SevereME
#MilliesevereME
#pwME
Maria is currently in a crash following her gastric emptying test yesterday which "was a gruelling ME nightmare". No meds permitted & no muscle relaxant during transfer to the other hospital. She had to endure a very bright room & construction noise from outside. /1
@Mariararoo
understand the severity of her ME and the dangers of normal hospital protocols on worsening her condition possibly irreversibly or for a very long time (years). The hospital has refused to listen to the two well-known UK ME experts who have 60 years combined experience in /3
"Since then, she has deteriorated on account of the NICE guidelines for ME either not being acknowledged nor followed or not taking precedence in Millie’s care in hospital. Many of the consultants involved in Millie’s care either believe her condition is mental or don’t /2
"Nothing is going to bring Maeve back to life. I'm not there for Maeve. I'm there for all the other people with ME, especially those with severe & very severe ME who have been so abandoned." While enduring this process & amidst unimaginable grief
@swastrosarah
advocates for us.
I spoke earlier with
@swastrosarah
about the pre-inquest hearing related to the death of her daugher, Maeve Boothby O'Neill, from ME-related complications. Here's a recording of our conversation (it's on youtube but it's audio only):
"It says patients should no longer feel “blamed for being ill, staying ill or experiencing deteriorating symptoms” and must “experience the same standard of care as people with other long-term health conditions”.
#pwME
the
@DHSCgovuk
is publishing the first report from its ME working group: calling for better care, less dismissive attitudes towards patients,more research -
#pwme
and their carers can submit responses and help shape the final policy
Thanks to your donations Millie now has private carers for a few hours a day. The family wants to continue with this & use the same care company when she is eventually discharged. Please see the update with details of how to contribute.
#BringMillieHome
On the day of Maeve's hearing more concerning news. Karen's situation continues to deteriorate. "Karen is extremely thin, continuing to get thinner and is dehydrated." Filled with fury that this is happening again & again & again. How many must die?
#PWME
supporting severe ME patients. They informed the hospital that the hospital's treatment of the youngster could result in her death, but the staff ignored the warning and refused to communicate further. Millie is currently being feed via NG tube at 25-45% which is not possible /4
A few of the nurses are interested in learning how to treat & care for patents with
#severeME
. Maria says that 'it means that the next patient with
#severeME
won't have to fight to be understood." She's doing a great job of advocating for us all from her hospital bed. /2
Update Karen Gordon! Threats of legal action, the Court of Protection & yet another capacity assessment. "ESHT might send Karen home without IV feeding which she could not survive without."
#VerySevereME
#NHSProtocol4SevereMENow
#MEKills
code to communicate. Despite this and her agreeing to all life saving treatment the hospital has now sectioned under the Mental Health Act 1983 Section 2 and at present are detaining her to the hospital. Millie wears an eye mask & needs to be in a dark room on account of /6
for a severe ME patient without causing further harm. Some professionals continue to maintain that in Millie’s very severe ME there is a ‘behavioural’/‘mental’ element. Despite not being able to speak from exhaustion Millie is deemed to have full mental capacity and uses a /5
Maria has asked me to give an update. Things are not looking very positive. A nurse told her on Friday night that if her NG tube comes out again they will not replace it! They will instead try to get her eating & drinking again! 🧵
@Mariararoo
#severeME
#EndMalnutritioninME
"Millie's sister Abbie McAinsh, 22, who has been by her side every day, said: "It's totally heartbreaking, Millie is my best friend and I love her so much. I'm scared that Millie will be broken beyond repair, forever." Article by
@iEllieFry
#SaveMillie
Please sign this open letter to
@sajidjavid
ahead of Wednesday's debate. It highlights the current appalling situation for
#severeME
patients in our NHS hospitals. Let's draw parliament's attention to Carla, Karen & Millie & others.
@TheChronicColab
My wedding 1998. Within a few weeks all of the symptoms that had been building for months intensified &
#ME
hit me like a steam train. We never got our delayed honeymoon in the Seychelles or got to buy our dream house. Our lives were changed forever.
#MEAwarenessDay
@EmergeAus
Some brighter news today from
@Mariararoo
. Finally, after 6 weeks she now has an understanding consultant who actually listens to her. She finally got moved to a room of her own with a wet room on Sunday night. However, she crashed after she was transferred. /1
#severeME
#MECFS
"But the BMJ should not have given space to what is essentially an opinion piece coming from a group of heavily biased authors. The BMJ’s readers are doctors, who trust the usually authoritative journal to provide accurate, up-to-date medical information."
Things are looking far more positive for
@Mariararoo
. She's now been referred to a London hospital which specialises in gastroparesis, gut motality disorders & neurogastroenterology etc. A gastric emptying test is booked for 5th March & it's unlikely that she'll be transferred 🧵
"The NICE guidelines have now been read by the hospital and the staff are trying to follow them. Millie’s ME is being believed although some consultants are still looking into psychiatric disorders on top of ME."
#SaveMillie
Good morning
#TeamMillie
, an update from Millie's family. Please do not send unkind letters to the nursing staff who are doing their best to care for Milly. 🙏
"Millie's care is still not being paced and it has been suggested that she doesn't have an official ME diagnosis, implying that the NICE guidelines for ME might not need to be followed, this is still happening even after Dr Weirs visit."
#SaveMillie
#MedicalAbuse
#MedicalNeglect
I'm going to be taking a little break from here for a few weeks. Leaving you with a thread of recent articles about Millie. This first one by
@MrTopple
, a fantastic ally, is from back in February & nothing substantial has changed. /1
#VerySevereME
Disappointing news from
@DecodeMEstudy
. The extraction of DNA at the UK Biocentre has faced operational and capacity difficulties. Funding has now been extended until August 2025 to allow sufficient time to finish the study.
#MECFS
#LongCovid
BC have not included
#MECFS
in their 'pipeline'. They have identified other conditions with 'high unmet medical need' but apparently this doesn't encompass
#pwME
. Extremely disappointing. We remain Cinderellas again, no ball for us. We are always back of the queue.
@BerlinCures
"If you chose to, you could install a feeding tube right now, and have Millie home this evening where she would be back in a safe environment able to limit her exposure to stimulus." Thanks
@DafoeWhitney
for advocating so strongly to
#SaveMilly
.
@UHMBT
@aaroncumminsNHS
#severeME
"My doctor thought I was cuckoo and sent me to what he said were 'experts' - psychiatrists. One said I was trying to attract attention to myself and another that I was 'shirking work." Shirley Conran in an article from 2016.
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
Hi everyone. The billboard in Cardiff for the Covid inquiry has gone up. This board was put up by an independent and not directly by us. If you would like to support him, here is his GFM. Thanks to
@GarethEvans1977
for the great work.
#LongCovid
#MECFS
A tilt table test several times a week until Katie passed out. Not to test for POTS but because it was the physio's opinion that she was fainting because she was lying down too much! This is horrific abuse of a patient with
#severeME
.
#SaveCarlasLife
#ExposeMENow
@physiosforME
@chrisms150
@NeleHelena
It wasn’t as a test. I was actually never tested for POTS since they said I was just fainting cause I was used to laying down. It was my phsyio. They would hoist me onto a tilt table, strap me to it and leave me stood up on it until I fainted or passed out.
Bit of a strange one. Does anyone lose all of the colour from their lips when feeling particularly vile or in a crash? This has happened to me for years & wondered if it's just me?
#pwME
#LongCovid
"This is a landmark move from UK gov's two health-research funders. It looks as though both organisations are now serious about biomedical research for this disease."
@sjmnotes
on
@The_MRC
&
@NIHRresearch
in his straight-talking blog celebrating
#DecodeME
A really lovely idea from
@MEActNetUK
. Let's show Millie our support by sending her a card if you have the energy. I'm sure it will make the world of difference for her to know that so many of us are concerned about her & holding her in our thoughts.
A message from
@Mariararoo
. "The M.E community really are so amazing! I can't find the words to express how greatful I am to be part of it, it really does feel like we are all in this together fighting for the care we should all be getting." She feels so supported, thank you all.
The response to
#CardsforMillie
has been overwhelming. Several members of the community asked if we could do the same for
@Mariararoo
. Maria is very touched & grateful for the support she's received. If you would like to send her a card it would be greatly appreciated.
#pwME
"Millie is continuing to decline, she feels like she is dying. She has now been in hospital for nearly 6 weeks and has told us daily that she is desperate to go home and can't stand another day in hospital."
#SaveMillie
#MedicalNeglect
#DontLetMeDie
#MedicalAbuse
"BACME says that disordered eating is common in people with ME. They say that people who are not getting enough nutrition are likely to have an eating disorder." This explains so much about the way inpatients are being treated. Thanks
@SockFoam
for your informative video.
I did a presentation on BACME, the British Association of Clinicians in ME/CFS. BACME has great influence on the treatment of people with ME, yet they cling to outdated and harmful ideas.
She also has has a new doctor whose partner has M.E so he is being very understanding & helpful. Maria had several visits from her family last week, including her grandchildren which was lovely for her & helped to lift her spirits. Maria has the gastric emptying test tomorrow. /3
Royal Lancaster Infirmary this young woman is at serious risk of harm or death due to the failings in the care you are providing. The situation is now grave. It is essential that she receives the appropriate feeding tube without delay.
@aaroncumminsNHS
Call to action
#ChronicIllness
community! There are currently several patients in hospital in the UK at risk of severe harm & even death, because there's no NHS Protocol in place to treat them. Whatever illness you have please sign & share widely.
#NEISvoid
A question for you all this
#MEAwarenessHour
. Can you still remember what 'normal' feels like? No pain, no cognitive issues, no limits on what you can do, no PEM. Can you remember waking up feeling rested, having energy, feeling healthy, feeling alive?
#pwME
#NEISvoid
#LongCovid
She's expecting that she will feel worse tomorrow. Really hoping the crash doesn't last too long. What a lot she's endured since she was admitted. Now she awaits the results. Details will be posted soon if you would like to send a card of support of Maria.
#pwME
"In 2021, 27 year-old Maeve Boothby O’Neill died after she became too unwell to take in food & water due to the severity of her ME. She was discharged three times when an NHS hospital allegedly mishandled her care and she died at home in Exeter."
#MEKills
Great to see
@MEAssociation
promoting this open letter by
@MEFoggyDog
. What is happening to
#SevereME
patients in hospital is horrifying. Can we please see a more collaborative approach with both main charities and our trusted advocates going forward.
#NHSProtocol4SevereMENow
I've been blown away by Maria's strength & resilience. She has somehow managed to hold it together remarkably well in the face of an extremely challenging and difficult situation. Sending her more love, strength & support to top up what must be ever diminishing reserves. /End
Despite crashing Maria has managed to send out some messages. The gastric emptying test results were within 'normal range'. She's not tolerating the full feed now & has had to ask them to stop a few times, which is very concerning. There will be a MDT meeting on 15th March. /1