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Nigerian in American 🇳🇬 / Therapist ✝️ / Need a Christian Therapist ? Email us now: info @agapelovecounselingri .com

Rhode Island, Massachusetts
Joined August 2009
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
3 years
Need a Faith based therapist ? Are you in the 📍RI or MA area ? Schedule a free 30 min consultation and learn more about our services
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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Your chances of getting a “bad therapist” is 80% greater messing around with that BetterHelp platform. I wish influencers esp black influencers stopped promoting them and started promoting more local therapist with independent businesses. Therapy for black girls is a good start
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Amanda self diagnosing herself with Autism and successfully garnering the hearts of the black community with her grade school racism stories to create the perfect shield to make a poor attempt to make us dislike Issa Rae is A1 manipulation.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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Secondly, I would appreciate these staffing agencies stop posing as actual employers to at the end of the day offer me a position at Better Help. I know where do go if I want to get on their platform, we all do.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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6 years
@headofpayless @maintishe Unpopular opinion: I never thought she was acting like a black girl. But carry on 🌚
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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4 years
This about sums up today’s debate 😶 #Debate2020 #PresidentialDebate
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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2 years
I plead the blood of Jesus over whoever is reading this. Untimely death will never be your portion in Jesus mighty name. Life will not be snuffed out from you or your loved ones, may the heavenly hedge of protection be upon you and your people in Jesus name ! Amen !!
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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3 years
Idk who needs to hear this but, social workers were on the front lines during the pandemic..and will be long after
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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3 years
I am no longer a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority incorporated. I denounced my letters since May 2020. I was a LOUD and proud member. So I will finally publicly denounce my letters 🙏🏿.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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@WesleyAdi You should personally speak with women who were homemakers about this instead of mocking folks…women historically evolved out of those traditional roles due to abuse and not being able to be self sufficient if the relationship goes bad. It literally was slavery for some
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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The Couple👩‍❤️‍👨 The Ring 💍
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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Some sessions feel longer than others. The therapist that get it get it.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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2 years
So many folks are talking about wanting and needing therapy but not being able to afford it. Like this if you want me to add some resources and ways to pay for therapy added to this thread? You deserve the help you are looking for.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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Something about people using the pain of underserved or underrepresented groups / people for their advantage pisses me offf. Because she really had people like “I feel so seen” “I cried because someone is finally speaking about Autism” . Like…??
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
3 years
Over sharing is a trauma response
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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6 years
No but, this is a real topic. Mental heath doesn’t stop at the mental illness, it’s also the way it effects the MH of those around them, esp the support system
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Blade Pinderhughes 🎭🇭🇹
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Do people w/ anxiety realize how emotionally and mentally exhausting they can be for the people around them?
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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Christians need therapy more than anyone, we have kingdom work to do, we have purpose to fulfill...our minds must be right. Optimum health is needed...if our health fails we fail..be a healthy contributor to your ministry we need you healthy !!
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@96mna “ I’ll update you when I am married” screaming
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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There’s a handful of y’all who have had good experiences with a BetterHelp therapist. I am always happy and exited to see my people in therapy. I am not taking that away from you !! Love it for you! But let’s be real…a broken clock is even right twice a day.
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Christians still not going to thearpy thinking all they need to do is pray and not process their emotions and learn new skills? Tragic
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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9 years
If you have type 4 hair and your looking for wash and go products..hello curlie is a bomb product line. Just staying
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@lvtaegi She literally just put the best pics of herself and couldn’t even give her siblings the same decency lmaoooo
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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@katiesaeturn Underwear is a social construct
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@ladytiffs_ My mom would beat me
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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Now let’s talk about how she lying about clearly presenting as racially ambiguous. We all see it.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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2 years
Staying at the wrong job is one of the most dangerous things you can do to your health and spirit. We should talk about this more
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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3 years
Why does ICE need social workers ? I’m telling you right now I’m letting everyone free and collecting my check.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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3 years
@ShesAltard People should do what gives them the least anxiety and promotes healthy relationship dynamics. I think it’s not weird, but a reflection of the scrutiny and shame from society around failed relationships. This is heightened with black women. We aren’t allowed to get it wrong.
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3 years
Idk who needs to hear this, but do the homework your therapist gave you
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The work of therapy doesn’t stop outside of session.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
1 year
Bringing your idols to church is CRAZY.
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strolling in the church is crazy, get out them ppl church
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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5 years
Ladies are you listening
@Sigujana_ZA
Sigujana 🧃
5 years
Awu bafo unjan nje
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@siusview_ Omg the weird stuff they do runs so deep idek know where to start 😩😩. You can tell when a platform was created solely for money and not to actually help people.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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I’m going to need people to stop stepping into Christian content online but not really sold out for Christ or committed to the call..gaining followers..then saying sike I’m not longer in the faith. That’s spiritual abuse too 🤷🏿‍♀️.
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@chrometweets1 No she doesn’t she said it
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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2 years
Want weekly mental health tips / support ? Join my mailing list 💜 …
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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6 years
@Leke47 @Za_World He literally drove her insane. It’s actually sad how men can abuse women, but when they react to the abuse and mistreatment that’s all that’s talked about. Granted she could of left him and it’s not ok to be physical, but he drove her to that point. He is responsible for it
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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@MadeInHawaii___ Let’s also highlight that some black women do not have extremely dense and thick hair and that’s ok
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@skimasksluttt @maintishe The truth !!!! They don’t want real ethnic food. Becouzzz sometimes the best food even has a little smell you just gotta get past all that. Not everything “Jollof rice”
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@TheManAfricano @4everNip Keep deceiving yourself
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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3 years
I encourage anyone in a D9 org to pray and ask God with a open heart to reveal to you about the organization you joined or are interested in. I believe strongly in the revaluation power of God. He will guide you.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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It was my bridal shower this weekend…I had a freaking BLAST. Theme: Niggas in Bridgerton 👒
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
2 years
Some people will just be overall more likable if they just stopped playing and went to therapy. Get the healing you need so you can have friends again pls.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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Today I become a licensed social worker >>>>>>>>
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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@sommyjr @WesleyAdi This is literally the definition of gaslighting…respect me pls like bffrrrr 😭😭😭😭😭
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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People can’t wait to use someone’s divorce to be like LOOK YALL ARE WRONG! 🍪???? Pray it’s never you. Send them good wishes this is obviously a source of pain for someone
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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3 years
I don’t know what Christian women needs to hear this..but twerk sis 💅🏿.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
5 years
@empressrosed @EmilyVROOOM Ehhhh, this is the mindset the good sector of men have. Most men fall into the category of what she’s saying. There’s literally men out here that complain about paying for dates. They could give a rats ass about being stable for a family. They not even trying to spend $40
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
6 years
@blackkyari Omg yes, I remember they straight lied about my credit score, and I was like that doesn’t sound right. But I signed anyways. How do I take action on this?
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
3 months
@itsTeeBee Please explain what the brain functionality is I want to learn
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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3 years
You can do ANYTHING...you hear me? MOVE do it !!
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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4 years
May his favor be upon you and a thousand generations, and your family and your children, and their children and their children
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
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@duijarrod It came across as such as she positioned it like …I was protecting her…now I am no longer willing to protect her. Protect her from what? I think she was aware it could change our perspective of her. I do think she has a right to voice her experience.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
3 years
Not people taking about “I can’t wait to be there” for my wedding they not invited to. Wow 🥸
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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Remilekun is actually super cute. Life update: decided to conquer my fear of dogs and got this cutie. Don’t let the face fool you. This is hard but worth it so far 🐶🐾 2 Timothy 1:7 💜
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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2 years
Ok so this is a thread of resources to get connected to quality mental health services 🧵✨ I will break this down into.. 1. Helpful therapy directories 2. Quality mental health tech platforms 3. How to pay for therapy 3. Other ways to get support
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
3 years
I am ready to radically let go of the concept of Black excellence and desperately hold on to pursing Godly excellence. The truth is being seen as excellent to man and the world Is impossible without constantly betraying yourself, not quiet being enough, falling short.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
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@AliciaBLike @AnnaTheFeminazi This is a cultural thing. Asian culture “personal space” isn’t a thing. Esp in China they live in really congested environments where people stand and walk really close to one another. This is just a misunderstanding. She literally doesn’t see this as wrong.
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@the_odditty Prob doesn’t want his tears to mess up her makeup
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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4 years
Message: Black Hair is beautiful 🌱
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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@ashleyncraddock Let me add be painfully specific !!! People will use grey areas and nuances to get you. People out here are evil and BORED
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@IamCassandraEsq @louUHvul lol yes that’s the point. She said it that way so she would be able to come back and say that.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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Please use this link to sign up for the email list ‼️‼️‼️
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
3 years
We need to shift our way of thinking and how we approach the word of God. Just because it’s documented in the Bible doesn’t mean God is telling us to do it or that’s it’s ok . Once I started reading some stories in depth I realized this.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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2 years
Christian girlies don’t want to admit the okie doke these Christian men will do for them right in front of their eyes. Dress modestly but will cheat on you with IG Baddest and blame you for not looking good. Abeg don’t fall for it.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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I think my biggest pet peeve is Christians posting these before and afters of them being saved..and the before picture is just them in a body con dress and early 200 aesthetic. Like what did we come here to see ? Pls 😂😂😂😂😂😂.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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4 years
Thoughts on the #Drkelseileann situation from a licensed social worker. Be easy on her, she didn’t know.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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The black community is still confused about what gentle parenting is. Just because you aren’t beating your child doesn’t mean you aren’t creating space for discipline , correction and redirection.
@soulaaangel
𓆩♡𓆪 GODS FAVORITE 𓆩♡𓆪
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one of these days ima talk about how the millennials taking that gentle parenting shit a lil to far bc they are traumatized from how they parents raised them. I ain’t saying it was right and that a shift ain’t need to be had. But it’s like we went from one extreme to the other
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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If anyone wants to pay for my student loans I will provide you and your family with free thearpy until I retire. Bless me I bless you.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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@nizaddy @maintishe Literally created the whole entire concept
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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@ChiefBinedu I can’t stand people who don’t know when to go home lmaooo omgggg
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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Social work jobs that put social workers in danger <
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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1. Helpful Therapy Directories 💜 : this is the most popular and will give you access to many therapist in your area. You can also filter through to look for a black therapist or a specific insurance that they take :
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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3 years
I’m feeling her, she knows her limits and is staying in her lane while looking cute purrr
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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4 years
Let’s also...read the room. She’s clearly going into some type of water, it makes sense for her to be wearing a bathing suit 🤦🏿‍♀️ and showing her skin. She was talking about the lot that do it unprovoked for likes. But go off
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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@Prettygirl_390 As a director no less than 6 figures if you don’t think they plan on running you to the ground you have another things coming.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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@Burns23 Expose the sins of the church
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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@blkgirlculture Providence RI doesn’t have clean water either, it’s just not publicized yet. Medical students at Brown are urged not to drink the water because of links to cancer
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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2 years
Therapy for black girls is a good directory for searching for black therapist in your area.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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2 years
This showering conversation is interesting. Maybe it’s cuz I am a therapist. Someone saying they don’t shower everyday isn’t surprising to me, it’s a symptom. People should be nicer.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
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@BarryClerjuste : when you gotta give up all your hoes. http://t.co/yu1f7UcEl3” y'all turn a beautiful thing into this...😒
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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@moniesuuh I don’t agree really they verify their therapist and have them add their licensing information. I am on there myself. It’s a pool of therapist and it deff takes work to pick through so I can deff feel that and the frustration.
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Nah black women explain this. Y’all made fun of Derick Jaxson’s wife for wearing a bonnet on camera. Now y’all supporting the bonnet ministry. Make it make sense pls,
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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People will really ask me where I am from. I will tell them I am Nigerian...and they will really start telling me about the time they went to Rowanda....aye won ko bosi
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You can’t be close to 13 people as a full adult. I started ranking friends and it helped me so much, some people associates, some people are conditional, some are good friends and some are close friends. Knowing your place in people’s life will save you so much disappointment
@KryssyLaReina
Certified Hoodie Thief 🏁
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So how you moving after this y’all? 👀
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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Some pastors be chatting and yall ingest it into your spirit like it’s nothing. When the word said guard your heart it wasn’t just talking about romantic relationships. Ask more questions, rely more on the Holy Spirit vs man
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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4 years
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but my God is a God of justice and wrath
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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3 years
Afro beats throw backs are better than all this gbese, shedibalabla rada rada we are doing now a days.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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3 years
My idea of soulmates have been confronted over the years. Not sure if it exist, or if it’s even helpful. One person can’t give you all you need. We get what we need from community. I will stress this forever.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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5 years
@ameyaw112 Imagine having to defend a grown man to this extent. Yuck.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
4 years
My church is live streaming service on YouTube...username misssexy types in the comment section “amen” 💀
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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3 years
It’s the most heartbreaking thing when you realize people won’t treat you the same way you treat them 💔
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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4 years
😌💜
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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@louUHvul Here he asked her directly if she was clinically diagnosed and she bold face lied and said yes.
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
2 years
One thing I learned in life is people be HATING real baddddd
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
4 years
@hbfromkc_ Someone did the same thing to me. I’m so happy black women are getting married in droves so this stereotype can die
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
Ebunoluwa
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I remember I could literally feel that I was about to meet my husband...like spiritually I felt him close..soo yesss sis, circle back and let us know
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@BunieGOTCHAAA
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3 years
Instead of Juneteenth, Biden could of canceled our student loan debt, but he’s playing in our face
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