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Bibliophile (Helluo librorum); oracle; wordsmith; gadget enthusiast; animal lover; III The Empress, Lady of Glencoe & Lochaber
@_TheJebs
@PDRMsia
Polis UK cepat buat kerja, sudah considered guilty for stalking and sexual harassment.
In Malaysia? People actually make excuses for perverts like this, and these perverts are allowed to roam free. "Alaaaa dia belum physical harm lagi" nak tunggu mangsa mati baru buat kerja?
@chairmanGLC
Saya Chinese, workers 95% Muslims. Kalau saya beli seasonal food mcm mooncakes saya cek dulu ada cop halal ke x sebelum bagi diorg, just in case la, at least diorg nampak cop halal tu rasa lega sikit juga hopefully. Tapi klu diorg x nak sbb was was I pun understand la
@MD_Hafidz
Itulah saya selalu tegur sikap kita ni. Bila terjadi hal serius, bising di medsos buat viral la, komen sini sana la, tapi bila minta saksi tampil ke hadapan, xde yg nak buat. Mcm kes di MRT/LRT yg letak beg, makan tu. Cakap je nak buang beg dia, nanti apa2 terjadi xde nak tampil
@theiafaayhac
@NukilanBiruni
Dasar pembuli. Threatening & chasing all over social media, then when get schooled by real lawyers and/or experts, berdiam je, tak apologise to person involved, just post blanket statement konon damage control. Buat kerja tak cantik
@HimawariCopea
@AnotherAznTart
@chillasaurusx
Yeah school is literally out for the summer until maybe Sept, mana ada school, enrolment pun xde. Confirm pergi cuti, sila meninggal 🙄 Ppl like this, my boyfriend in Spain hampir 2 thn x jumpa sbb x blh keluar negara, dia senang2 je tunjuk lagak puiiiii
@tattyhassan
Tapi abang tu betul... setiap wanita adalah ibu x kira ibu kandung, ibu furkids, ibu tiri, ibu saudara, ibu syurga, ibu dalam context mentor, ibu surrogate, ibu pengasuh, ibu yg xde anak sendiri tapi jaga anak2 org lain, etc
@malissaali
Western Europeans especially French mmg passionate gila about their rights/politics. My boyfriend is Basque (Northern Spain) & blh kata la hampir setiap minggu protest something- pencen, healthcare, women's rights, Palestine, youth rights, walau x besar2 tapi peringkat kg
@XavierNaxa
Tapi tolonglah gunakan Bahasa Melayu baku 😭 Saya sedih melihat mutu bahasa sekarang, saya faham bahawa kita memerlukan permodenan tetapi kita juga perlu menjaga martabat bahasa kita.
@chairman_GLC
It seems common that once the atok nenek are gone, the family seems to splinter. Siblings don't really bother to keep in touch or meet up as much anymore- someone is always absent
@bungaisme1
Dlm Cina Taoism kita percaya juga kadang2 klu org nak buat kita/hantar yg bukan2/ada -ve energy, haiwan2 peliharaan kita (X kisah kucing, anjing, ikan, etc) kadang2 blh tlg block jadi diorg yg kena sakit/mati tiba2. Atau diorg tlg block malapetaka yg akan berlaku seperti accident
@Amrlamnnn
Nak penjara lagi baru ingat bini anak ye? Masa buat tak guna otak. Kesian juga kat bini anak dia mungkin diorg pun mangsa baran dia. Abusive.
Satu lagi pls jgn panggil dia sado. Tak sado pun. Geli lah 🥲
@Azfarovski
Ikut Chinese style, yg belum kahwin x payah bg duit raya 🫢 If adik dah kahwin tapi abg/kakak belum adik kena bg diorg juga lagi 🤣
Or you can just give to family members (Anak2 buah, anak2 cousins, etc) only. Anak2 guests yg xde hubungan/hubungan darah xde.
@amerhadiazmi
I love and miss this type of Bahasa Melayu baku. I only get to flex mine when writing to government departments and sigh at the rempit-isation of BM 🥲
@ComicsByVieN
Oh, my Northern Spanish boyfriend still cannot comprehend this after almost 6 years together. They don't even call their parents' siblings aunties or uncles, just their name. My mind is similarly blown though 😱
@FrenchSuriRumah
Bf I org Sepanyol. Arwah bapa dia meninggal semasa dia berumur 19 thn, kerajaan bg duit 150€ sebulan sampai umur dia 25 thn. Masuk universiti, dpt 150€ sebulan & degree 3 thn yuran cuma 1000+€ je. Klu tgk cara kerajaan lain jaga rakyat mmg kadang2 beza mcm langit & bumi
@amerhadiazmi
Literally great idea to increase workforce and economy of the capital (By attracting more people to come and stay) and reduce traffic woes at the same time. But unfortunately the future for these might be another ✨shopping mall✨
@tattyhassan
Nah, keyboard warriors. On social media/internet bising, in real life pengecut. Macam tin kosong juga. Because they know in real life if they act like they do online, they will be beaten up, so they hide under the anonymity of the internet.
@azarimy
I think most Asian cultures too- insulting to point your feet at someone for Thais, separate house & toilet slippers for Japanese, cleaning feet before prayers for Hindus, etc. When I toured Westminster Abbey I also tried avoiding stepping on plaques but it's an extreme sport 🥲
@ruffleseed
Alzheimer's/Dementia is called "the long goodbye" for a reason. Watching someone you love slowly lose their memories, their sense of self, who they are. And inverse to feel trapped, confused, disoriented every day you wake up.
@LinaKlasik
Grew up in Labuan. I always tell Semenanjung people that if you really want to know muhibbah, 1 Malaysia, Sabah and Sarawak are great examples but they will probably froth at their mouths la. Went to Kaamatan once, gerai jual babi panggang beside gerai women bertudung no hal
While everyone is upset about the losses of Nurul Izzah, KJ, Maszlee, I am most gutted by the loss of
@AbdMydin
😔 Goes to show the priorities and mentality of Malaysians for now sadly
#MalaysiaMemilih
#MalaysiaMenunggu
#PRU15
@RMelaninated
@_PettyCrocker
Am Chinese in Southeast Asia & can pretty much confirm that families here in general now prefer daughters because they take care of their families more than the sons do
@kyril_graguks
Bahkan kedai nasi ayam di tempat saya menderma sisa2 ayam dia utk kami feed strays, kedai daging pun menderma habuk daging bg kami masak utk strays. Kenapa hina sgt ke jadi strays especially anjing? Makhluk tuhan juga semua di bawah bumi tuhan
@IzzraifHarz
Orang yang betul2 kaya (old money) akan bayar pakai credit card, pastu bayar credit card. Dlm credit card dpt points/rebate/benefits mcm2 banyak. Ini mentaliti new money dan takde taste betul, tacky gila tulah dapat bag/baju yg semuanya logo2 🤷♀️
@efaperfume
@draensaari
Bila ES viralkan tentang golongan atas2, politik semua, semua dengar. Bila ES viralkan pasal ini, disoal credible ke tak pula 🤣
@redrun_
Yes, agree golongan M40 yg paling affected. Subsidi kena tarik, bantuan tak layak. Cukai kena bayar, kalau tak bayar atau lewat sehari je dah kena kejar macam along. Ultra kaya tak bayar cukai takpe, tak kena kejar, siap dapat diskaun, masuk penjara boleh reduce 🤣
@tristupe
@_abelim
Super embarassing especially for a candidate who claimed to be an environmentalist la, climate activist la... how are people going to take you (And the party) seriously?
@tattyhassan
Being able to DIY & fix things is such a power move for us women. Nasib bapa sya ajar things like basic wiring, plumbing, pakai tools, bina membina, etc. Katanya so x payah harap lelaki tolong 🤣 My bf pun impressed when blh troubleshoot/minor fix benda2 kecil kat rumah
@softcrocodile
2/3
Women deserve to be able to be alone anytime, anywhere without being harassed and made to feel uncomfortable and unsafe.
It's sad that sometimes we have to use the "husband/bf" excuse- these men seem to respect other men's "property" than the women themselves.
@ShaFoShizzle
No, you don't have to be sorry. You deserve a life of peace, of security, as do many & all other victims who have & are going through what you are. It is your right. The nightmare is not over yet & may never even be over, but at least there is a light in all the darkness
@chairmanGLC
I would make extra show of taking out a wet wipe/tissue, with disgusted face, to touch his bag & throw it on the floor
But I think byk x buat sbb "x nak problem". What if he reacted aggressively balik? Pastu witnesses semua buat x tahu x nampak x tolong, paling2 video je
@XavierNaxa
Bukan sahaja mujarab untuk cirit birit tetapi muntah. Saya pernah muntah-muntah agak teruk, makan ubat minum apa-apa pun dimuntah balik. Telan satu botol pil ini, terus lega.
@aswaliaaa
Dan lagi our former coloniser isn't even nice to us. Kena ambil English test even if you studied in English medium la, xde priority apa2 pun la. Spain to Philippines & Netherlands to Indonesia at least diorg bg special treatment, like Filipinos in Spain nak citizenship fast track
@syahredzan
The inverse happens too YB. MPs or politicians don't care about/listen to marhaen issues but when a Datuk brings up something they are all ears
@tattyhassan
XM4 ialah model yang superior. Memang tiada tandingan. Tak menyesal saya beli, dah pakai setahun lebih. Masa flight pakai just on tak dengar music tapi untuk noise cancelling pun boleh. Dia punya competitor Bose sound cancelling better sikit but audio quality & mic tetap XM4
@dot_burn
Kan. Saya paling x setuju beli property sebagai investment. Klu kebanyakan org mampu byr sewa utk kamu tutup kos mortgage kamu, org lain dah sendiri beli rumah byr mortgage sendiri laaaa 😪
@alffm_
Sama juga dengan warga2 Malaysia yg ditipu sindiket di Myanmar baru2 ini demi mencari sesuap nasi bg keluarga. Nasib diorg pun dikurung; dipaksa berkerja; passport, duit gaji semua kena tahan "majikan" atau "agen". Kita Malaysians pun sudah ada terkena nasib mcm diorg ni
@farahkhairuddin
Expected or unexpected I really hate people who honk when they arrive, tak bertimbang rasa not just to the house occupants but also neighbours 😤 I selalu minta at least either pls ring the doorbell or if doorbell ada hal pls miss call/Whatsapp la jgn la malas sgt!
@kerol_nizam
Berdasarkan perhatian saya, yg masuk bomba ini semua mental dia lebih kental sikit, lebih tenang. Boleh harungi bahaya head on. Tapi diorg juga la yg klu PTSD, trauma, lebih byk bomba yg simpan dlm makan diri, diorg lebih kepada self harming dari harm org lain
@azmirliberty
Dah musim panas di Eropah, cuti sekolah mungkin sampai Sept, mana ada sekolah, pendaftaran pun xde. Confirm pergi cuti, sila meninggal 🙄 Org2 camni la, boyfriend saya di Sepanyol hampir 2 thn x jumpa sbb x blh keluar negara, dia senang2 je blh keluar siap tunjuk lagak puiiiii
@1Obefiend
Condolences.
There is a saying that our parents lived half their lives without knowing us & half knowing us, while we live our whole lives knowing our parents.
@Khairykj
Good effort tapi juga tolong perbaiki standard doktor pelatih. Arwah makcik hospitalised di GHKL, bila doktor pelatih buat round, we asked what happened to her etc, they can't explain/communicate, x tahu apa2, amoxicillin in pt chart was prescribed for what pun x dpt explain.
@tattyhassan
Frequent international traveller here
Rule of thumb is all documentations ikut bulat2 passport. Outside of Malaysia itu main identification bukan IC. Semua tgk passport. Klu dpt imigresen memahami maybe ok lepas but klu dpt yg strict esp negara strict mmg higher chance of denial
@NewsBFM
Of all things the Home Ministry can focus on, like citizenships for children born overseas to Malaysian mothers, and stateless children, is banning a book that came out almost a decade ago. Talk about priorities 😮💨
@meinmokhtar
Buat malu org O&G je show off pakai coverall bawa helmet ni 🥲 But yeah I grew up in the industry so a lot of the men especially in senior positions have a lot of affairs, they would even tell me when I was young when I grow up don't cari bf/husband O&G mcm diorg 🤣
@TemahUluBanat
Sama dgn pemuda2 Cina di Lembah Klang. Asal buka mulut, keluar kata2 kesat. Mungkin saya dah tua tapi mmg naik darah mendengar rasa nak tampar saja. Tak ada hormat langsung 😮💨
@meinmokhtar
Sex education kita mmg kurang ya. Mcm bab oral, kebersihan mulut pun penting; nak fingering, jari pun pastikan bersih, kuku x kasar. Byk rupanya yg x tahu. Sexual hygiene is important, bukan saja utk cegah STD tapi overall health mcm infections
@CeddyOrNot
So excited kan! I'm not Team Raya but feeling sebak and terharu gila juga, finally after 2 years dapat reunion. It was like when I finally got to fly to Spain after 2 years to see my boyfriend again last December 😭
@sfqomhz
Yes. Really rich people go for bespoke/custom, low-profile pieces. Only discerning eyes and those in the know, knows. "Luxury" goods that are mass-made are for the middle class but sells the promise of wealth so it's really nothing.
@nzranasr
I explained to my (white) bf's friends- Western people like being tanned bc it shows they can afford to go to sunny places, beaches, yachts for holidays. Asians like to be pale bc it shows they don't labour under the sun. Blew their minds 🤣 But yeah all goes back to classism 🤔
@AmeeRamly
I dislike her after an encounter with her in a domestic flight. Really rude, spoilt & entitled mentality. I didn't know who she was & actually neither of the flight crew really cared tbh (No "special" treatments) which made it funnier
@pelisahh
Okay, for Europeans, common law marriage is recognised ya. Law berbeza dr kita. Klu satu couple tu duduk serumah sama2 lebih satu tempoh (Spain is 10 yrs), diorg ada hak yg sama seperti pasangan yg telah berkahwin. Bg diorg x penting sgt act of marriage tu
@ArishaRozaidee
So happy mental health is beginning to be seen as a real health issue now. Even 10-15 years ago I was diagnosed as OCD with ADHD (And lexical-gustatory synaesthesia) it felt like a weird thing I should still hide from others, but the relief is palpable and everything makes sense!
@AbdMydin
@RadziJidin
Kenapa banyak yg kecam Dr tag/complain pada MP? Bagaimana dgn mereka yg sikit2 tag/complain pada menteri mcm Anthony Loke bukan sama saja ke? Cuma satu jaga constituency dia, satu jaga kementerian 🤔
@softcrocodile
3/3
We as women are conditioned to jaga muka org, don't make a scene, be nice, just smile, that's why when faced with these situations we freeze and feel shitty afterwards, and why victims of abuse don't always speak out immediately for not wanting to cause troubles.
@nzranasr
Just no. I date a white person. I know white people hygiene. There is a reason I avoid going to see my white person in summers even if he is OK. Winter can be bad because of musty clothes, but even with less sweating in winter they do not have a habit of wearing deodorant so 🥲
@_AmranFans
Mcm kes saya 😊 Dia dah kena tangkap curang berkali2, last2 dgn staff kami sendiri. Bila confront pasal tu, dia pukul saya, semua salahkan saya. Sekarang dia dah kahwin dgn perempuan tu lah. Bangsa semua sama
@twtmalaywedding
Kaunselor bukan judge ko sbb ko nangis. Kaunselor judge ko sbb ko bangang. Ini namanya narcissist- dahla x sedar diri sendiri salah, tuding jari kat org lain (isteri) salahkan org lain. Victim mentality me me me, I'm always the victim. Ex husband I org mcm ni, that's why ex 😊
@AnotherAznTart
Eldest daughter. I am tired of being the responsible one, just tired of carrying the burdens. The reason I was stuck in an abusive marriage was because I was considering all of you but never myself.
@nzranasr
USA no longer "THE" country that comes to mind when you think of "best" country, x mcm dulu fikir negara asing wah modern wah freedom wah better. Nope.
Racism, healthcare, gun control, all the issues going on, it looks like a dystopian hellscape instead
@ketengahketepi
Not all pills work the same for everyone. Disarankan jumpa doktor/pharmacist for alternatives kalau too much. Sya makan Yasmin 10+ tahun okay la. Previously makan Diane 35 tapi doktor tukar Yasmin lebih selamat utk long term. Mainly utk kulit cantik, pencegahan kedua
@picibajik
That's the reality and usually from what I see kalau nurses/HCWs yg stay/balik Msia, it's because of family, or some sort of responsibility/commitment keeping them here. Walaupun diorg ada hati nak berkhidmat utk negara, the compensation(s) just does not match
@datukhensem
Sama vibe dengan foreign friends:
- Hey I am in Malaysia now
- Oh cool, where?
- KL
- I am in Labuan
Pernah juga dpt "Hey I am in Thailand/Indonesia now! It's really close to you right???"
Nope
@pelisahh
Because most strong independant women penat jadi strong independant woman to everyone, in front of partner can let go be true self which is ✨princess✨ Is how comfortable they are with you. I sama with my bf, I penat jadi leader outside, so I'm happy to let him take over, relax
@pelisahh
Ex-husb sya pun nangis2 minta maaf cakap nak berubah minta I terima dia balik tapi pun teruskan bersundal juga. Lari je anon, once trust is broken susah nak repair & kena long-term effort dr dua2 pihak, x blh tepuk sebelah tangan. Dia nangis minta maaf pun sbb kena caught
@Unknown70301718
@khairulazizi75
Orang yang betul2 kaya (old money) akan bayar pakai credit card, pastu bayar credit card. Dlm credit card dpt points/rebate/benefits mcm2 banyak. Ini mentaliti new money 🤷♀️
@FadzilahMamat
Nanti bila dah tua tertanya-tanya kenapa tiada satu pun anak nak jaga dia, nak datang tengok dia, dan/atau nak sumbat dia dalam rumah orang tua 🤔
@thisisadnin
Sebagai seorg "selebriti" nak post maki2 camtu mcm budak baru belajar swear words dah ketara siapa yg problem. Doesn't matter, if you have to resort to such bullying level. But I still stand with retail workers who have to do their due diligences & face abuses like this.
@Azfarovski
That's why I never nak pergi Europe tgk my bf during summer 🥲 Pergi masa winter paling2 bau baju kepam x cukup kering sbb terlalu sejuk je. Nasib my omputih ni pandai mandi hari2 & bidet convert pandai jaga hygiene 🤣 Just if we live together my rules mandi dua kali sehari 😤
@TheVenusDarling
I actually have been saying that too, especially since that review to citizenship laws fiasco, it looks like cyberbullying the government is the only way to affect change for them 😮💨
@meinmokhtar
Kadang2 kita malu sbb terdapat rasa bersalah terhadap mak ayah, keluarga, kebanyakan pun sbb nak jaga muka. Tapi kebahagiaan sendiri itu lebih penting ya. Ini pengalaman saya kononnya nak bahagiakan dan jaga maruah family, padahal sendiri menderita dlm perkahwinan toksik
@XavierNaxa
Seperti manusia, haiwan peliharaan seperti kucing & anjing pun akan mengalami proses penuaan & akan ada "uban" (Biasanya di anjing sekitar mulut, muka, seperti topeng). Tapi jika kucing kamu bukan tua sangat (<5 tahun) mungkin ada penyakit atau masalah hormon atau juga genetik
@UberFacts
Chester Bennington. Linkin Park's music carried me through rough and tough times, so I am a die hard fan. Sadly I still find it difficult to listen to them again even after all these years since he was gone...
Also Chadwick Boseman's death made my heart heavy
@DogsDogsMoreDog
@ask_aubry
The way my smartass mouth would've shot back your daughter didn't want you neither that's why she left.
But yes, grief is a horrible thing but MIL really crossed the line. Kudos to the husband
@nrletika
@mandarinjer
Pergi Seoul, Tokyo, ada kedai2 yg mempamerkan sign no org China Mainland, sbb diorg pergi mana2 pun x hormat budaya org, pengotor, bising. Kami Cina Malaysia mmg x suka diorg, bila travel cakap je Malaysian x nak tercampur 🤣
@tiadaguru
In early 2000s, school area considered rural, we had multiple cases of this happening too, teachers not going to class just because they don't feel like it or not even teaching according to syllabus if they are in class, so we were always behind in a way
@NewsBFM
Aaahh looks like this guy mmg ada some sort of cable or family influence behind him. Too much coincidences & even if not it's just not looking good for our justice system especially for women's rights
@IzzraifHarz
Pronunciation pun clear. My favourite show definitely (With Sandman), also because I am lifelong Addams Family fan. AND I AM REWATCHING IT FOR THIRD TIME NETFLIX GIVE ME SEASON 2 PLEASE.
Btw my bf says I talk like & emo mcm Wednesday 🤣 Just luaran mcm Enid
@puteriarchy
Kannnn lagipun masa PKP lion dance, bhangra, kompang ni semua affected teruk juga. Dapat job celebrate birthday ke annual dinner ke celebrate apa2 pun jadi lah
@hrthazfr_
Ah sama bapa saya, umur hampir 70. Bangun 4.30-5am. Tidur 11-11.30pm, tapi masa lunch nap jap 30 minit-1 jam. We non-Muslim so dia bangun, uruskan anjing2 kita (10 ekor rescue), sediakan makanan utk feed strays kat luar, urus kerja2 utk haritu (Dia bos masih kerja). Disiplin top