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leader of the softies🌻|🍉

2 years

"To say that I love ‘love’ would probably be akin to me saying that I am quite fond of inhaling oxygen. Love is the prism through which I view the world."

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@wand_era

3 years

So sad that the one solid thing I picked from Physics was how to assume.

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@wand_era

8 months

first stop scrolling! RAPE JOKES ARE NOT DARK HUMOUR. thank you. there shall be no debate. as you were.

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@wand_era

2 years

The graduation tweets and posts are making me so happy.🥰 Congratulations to everyone that's made it.🥳🎉

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@wand_era

2 years

@camiscribbles wait a minute, it's not a vis-count?🥲💀

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@wand_era

2 years

"MTN should just tell us if they're hotspotting us from the MD's phone."

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@wand_era

2 years

me as me, i don't understand the priorities of lovers in fiction. wdym you're in mortal danger but you must kiss now now?

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@wand_era

3 years

I used to tell my mom a lot of stuff in lower HS. She'd be out here keeping grudges on my behalf. "So that's the girl who was de-campaigning you? Okay." 😂😂

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@wand_era

1 year

“And cr-aaaaaaaaaaaaaaah-wn, crown Him, crown Him, crown Him and cr-aaa-wn Him lord of all.”

BC🕯️

@BeckyBeefJerky

1 year

What hymn has you singing like this?

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@wand_era

2 years

So a girl who eats 5 slices of bread was somebody's ick... why aren't you happy I'm eating?🙂 I guess I'll just graduate to 6 then.😪

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@wand_era

2 years

something about depression that i rarely see talked about is how much you disappoint people. and then the self-loathing that comes with breaking promises you made to the people you love. it becomes hard to trust yourself bc of this new track record of unreliability.

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@wand_era

3 years

I'm going to shine this year! I'll be like a city set on a hill that cannot be hidden!

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@wand_era

2 years

I'm tired. Just tired. Tired of fighting for my body to function normally. Tired of having to apply everything in me to do even the most simple tasks. I'm tired. And now my appetite has gone. I need your prayers. Just please say a prayer for me.

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@wand_era

4 years

My singleness is so established that whenever I'm laughing/smiling at my phone, my mom asks, "What meme is that?"

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@wand_era

3 years

Make it a habit to ask, "Do you want to talk about it?" before you ask, "What's wrong?" no matter the bond.🤍

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@wand_era

3 years

I heard drums this morning.😭😭😭 And for about ten seconds, I started panicking thinking I was back in Gayaza High School. 😭😭😭 My relief!

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@wand_era

2 years

My fellow mayonnaise lovers, I don't if I'm new to this party, but have you eaten fried cassava with mayonnaise as a dip? Wow.

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@wand_era

3 years

Fun fact: I was due on the 29th of November 2000. My mom lasted through Christmas and New Year's. And on this day, 21 years ago, they induced labour so I could live. 😂 Excited and expectant for today and the next year. 🌻

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@wand_era

2 years

“Pain is pain. It needn’t be compared.”

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@wand_era

2 years

I hope I get lots and lots of love letters when I finally start dating.

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@wand_era

9 months

in other news, i'm no longer a severely anaemic babe.🥳🥳🥳 from 7.2 in april to 11.5 in october.🥹

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@wand_era

2 years

i reserve a special type of irritation for people who don't close doors.

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@wand_era

2 years

I'll do you one better: here are two. "...I want to love you in ways that feel familiar, ways that feel like home." "I know that you'll love it and when we make love there, we shall create magic so powerful the stars will move and constellations will be named after you."

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@RwabicwambaA

2 years

@wand_era @BirimumaasoR @katocalvin @mandazipapi 😂😂💀give us a quote from his letter

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@wand_era

2 years

Girls will complain about their moms everyday and call her their best friend. It is me. I am girls.

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@wand_era

2 years

learning that i am not attracted to 'quiet' men, but emotionally unavailable ones might have been one of my biggest relationship breakthroughs this year.😂

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@wand_era

3 years

"It has medicine."

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@Uwagasabune

3 years

This always had stale passion fruit juice or fanta in it. No in between

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@wand_era

2 years

cramps are a familiar yet entirely new experience every time. i don't know how- how does that even make sense?

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@wand_era

2 years

They want to add weight ...to you? I don't understand. How is it your business?

JONAM’S PRINCESS👑👑

@AtimCharlotte

2 years

People who say they want to add weight annoy tf out of me……….unless you’re sick you can’t be admiring having unnecessary flesh on you🤦🏿‍♀️

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@wand_era

2 years

when i say i live in entebbe, i don't mean along entebbe road. i mean if you sit in a taxi to see me, let it reach its final destination. i mean planes were my lullabies. i mean we can leave home 1hr before flights and still have time to spare. i mean the real entebbe.

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@wand_era

2 years

I need to stop thinking of myself as a child bc a man my age will approach me and I'm panicking like "Can't you see I'm a child?"

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@wand_era

2 years

"you're not like other women." no, that's not a compliment bc i wanna be like the girls.😭

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@wand_era

1 year

If you keep quiet for the sake of keeping the peace long enough, you will resent the person you love the most even more than you ever cared about them.

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@wand_era

1 year

people are annoyed but this story brought me glee💀

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@wand_era

2 years

Finding out that your friend that appears put together is also struggling is like "You too?🥺" but at the same time, "Not you too.😭"

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@wand_era

3 years

I hate it when people tell me not to cry over things I have no control over. Not to cry because crying won't solve anything. D'you think I don't know? Crying isn't for the situation. It's for me.

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@wand_era

2 years

Mu luzungu bakayita "emotional unavailability." It's just so... dangerously attractive.🥴

Essential Mastery

@EssentialMastry

2 years

what do you find attractive that isn’t physical?

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@wand_era

2 years

this thread illustrates, perfectly, that misogynists aren't born; they're raised.

Aunt Pennie🇺🇬

@AtwijukireMrs

2 years

I see lots of young girls talking rubbish in the qualities of a man they would want to marry. As a mother of boys only, I will sit down and train my sons in everything a man should be. I eagerly wait for my daughter in law to begin this nonsense of myson should cook,simanyi wash.

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@wand_era

2 years

@Tspiceskitchen I'm sorry?😭😭😭these are allll different men?😭😭💀

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@wand_era

1 year

My mom was giving the girls their baths yesterday and the last one asked her to carry her out. My mom told her that her back was hurting. This child frowned then said, "Okay, use your hands." 😂😂😂

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@wand_era

2 years

Physics looks so cool in videos, until it's time to do the maths.

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@wand_era

2 years

@SatyaMariam @GrayAlupo It was giving Gayaza girl at a func.🥴😂

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@wand_era

2 years

If you're helping for appreciation, maybe you shouldn't be helping at all? I dunno, it's low-key giving self-proclaimed nice guy.

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@Akramz_Jnr

2 years

Unless the person is dying, I don’t advise on helping people. People are bad and unappreciative.

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@wand_era

2 years

"let me tell you something! LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING! Let Me Tell You Something!"

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@wand_era

2 years

Men's egos are a fascinating thing.

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@wand_era

2 years

I am being loved well.

VIOLIN 🎻

@Violin_rand

2 years

Life sucks, but at least?

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@wand_era

2 years

Today the eldest of the toddlers climbed the burglar proofing to the very top and the youngest was following her. I responded very... well the panic came out as anger and I shouted at her. Anyway, she started crying silently after and I asked her why and she said I'd beaten her.

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@wand_era

1 year

A few months ago, I couldn't imagine being alive to see March. I was just making it through each day. But now I have soooo much to look forward to in the coming weeks. I'm grateful for hope, and the joy of being alive, the excitement to see tomorrow and tomorrow's tomorrow.

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@wand_era

2 years

Seeing other responses and my little things feel really little but I'll share anyway.😂 I express my needs more. I express myself when I feel wronged, as well as my discomforts. I wear what I like. I have a long shower routine. I'm creating my own systems-

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@Moanerleaser

2 years

Can you guys share with me the little, but significant things you’re doing to create beautiful lives for yourselves? I need inspo.

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@wand_era

2 years

everytime i want to talk about mental health in church, i remember a sermon where they said, "there are all kinds of names for these mental issues these days, just know they're all demons," and people agreed - and i keep quiet. 1/2

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@wand_era

2 years

@mikemuhima It's like English breakfast but like Independence edition?😭

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@wand_era

2 years

"Marriage is beautiful but it's not the award of our life." Eh. You people on this app? A treasure.

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@wand_era

2 years

"I didn't know you were a Gayaza girl." "You don't look/act like a firstborn." "You look mean." If I had a dollarrrrr

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@wand_era

2 years

i don't mind comments about my body (weight, acne, hair, clothing choices etc) from people that i know care for me, not an image, and are doing it out of genuine concern. "you've lost weight, are you okay?" is different from "eh, nga you've lost weigh, nti campus figure?"

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@wand_era

2 years

How do people just... throw rubbish out the window when the car is moving? Like how do you do it? What wire in your system do we need to cut?

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@wand_era

2 years

random man on the street: maaso a'malungi oli otya? me: *pretends i haven't heard* him: *jeers* amaaso gali nga nsenene. hmmmmmmmm.💀

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@wand_era

3 years

Then there's us who fall in the 1%.

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@_camaza

3 years

Girls shooting their shot have a 99% success rate

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@wand_era

8 months

my bf is genuinely the sweetest man i know. his support for me has taught me how to validate and trust myself in ways i could never describe. very grateful for him.❤️

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@wand_era

2 years

Romance books without epilogues make me feel robbed. Why haven't you finished? Why haven't you written about them 10 yrs later? Finish the illusion to the utmost pls. If we're escaping, we must reach.

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@wand_era

2 years

A soft babe like me really has NO business looking for love in these streets, eh.💀

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@wand_era

3 years

Y'all need to stop asking us 'our view' bc I've not seen what it's doing to change outcomes.

NBS Television

@nbstv

3 years

The government plans to spend over UGX 24 billion of the recently passed supplementary budget to buy vehicles for its officials. What is your view? #NBSLiveAt9 #NBSUpdates Courtesy Photo

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@wand_era

5 months

the way sense leaves my head when money hits my account😭💀<<<<<<<<<<<<<

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@wand_era

3 years

I wrote for the first time in over a yearrrr.🥳💃🏽💃🏽🥰🤧🤧

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@wand_era

2 years

DO YOU KNOW HOW EXCITING IT IS TO BE EXCITED ABOUT THE STUFF YOU'RE DOING/GOING TO BE DOING AFTER GOING THROUGH THE MOTIONS OF EXISTING FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS???!!?!!😭

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@wand_era

2 years

I just wanted to share my W for the week.😊 I've written four pieces this week. Had to record three of them bc my mind was running faster than my hands. Some aren't complete but idc. I thought I'd lost it. I almost cry everytime I open my notes app.

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@wand_era

3 years

Me: *minding my business, smiling at my phone* My dad: I don't trust men, and neither should you. Like sirrrrrrrrrrrr 💀

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@wand_era

2 years

Other people: Bye! My family: Kale!

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@wand_era

2 years

"with all due respect" - someone who holds no respect whatsoever for the person being addressed.

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@wand_era

2 years

Yesterday my pastor asked me how I was and I told her I was tired. She said, "Sometimes, that's a good thing. It means you're fighting. It means you're alive." Idk man, I almost burst into tears bc I needed that.

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@wand_era

5 months

idk who needs to hear this, but that relationship was temporary, good music is forever. give that song another memory by force; life is too short to stop enjoying art because of a person.🫶🏾

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@wand_era

6 months

and what is her name?💀

African Hub

@AfricanHub_

6 months

Young Gambian photographer is making her name in Ivory Coast in the AFCON.

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@wand_era

2 years

Beat me.

𝔍𝔦𝔪 𝔗𝔥𝔢 𝔍𝔞𝔭𝔥𝔢𝔯

@jim_trax_japher

2 years

You have no reason texting the same person on all social media platforms

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@wand_era

7 months

once you free the titties, there's really no going back.

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@wand_era

2 years

@Simply_Sayo Please share the story.🥺 Thanks.😂😚

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@wand_era

9 months

@ninagrewal97 my biggest issue is remembering that their feelings doesn't mean mine also have to be forgotten. as a recovering people pleaser, it's a work in progress fr.

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@wand_era

3 years

Do you know what it is to move from hating mirrors to staring at yourself at every opportunity you encounter one??? I call it ✨progress✨

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