🆆🅰🆁🅽🅸🅽🅶: ᴡᴇɪʀᴅʟʏ ꜱᴛʀᴏɴɢ ᴋɪᴛᴛʏ
• MCH + PLD main
• both WoL and account owner are he/him
• 18+ only, no minors
• Sex positive, yes leather/kink at pride
• not an RP account, just an OC account
• pinned art by @/nvalkrydraws
So in Japanese, どんまい (donmai) is slang for like... "don't worry about it" (ie: don't pay it mind), which frequently gets shortened to どま/doma
This all to lead up to the funniest fucking macro I've seen in raid so far: "Doma Castle"
I like how some people are like "~i'm so relieved shadowbringers confirmed lalas are just dwarves and not children*~" like the:
> drinking
> murder
> love of titty dancer girls
> fiscal conservatives
weren't hint enough that these people are just small adults
it's so rad ppl have like, WoLs/OC with voidsent or ascian or w/e powers it's truly cool people can think up so many creative things bc I'm just like "HERE THE BOYS. THEY'RE JUST DUDES, MOSTLY. I mean that one's a sociopath but still just a dude."
[cw transphobia]
it's very funny (see: horrifying) that the same "yaoi made you think you're a man" BS I put up with 2938419234 years ago is trying legitimize itself with bad science
all jokes aside, I'm unsettled that they did this study. the Discussion section says the quiet part out loud:
"The risk lies in young females developing a romanticized or skewed perception of real-world homosexual relationships and even denying one's own female identity"
Tell me about your WoL's gender -- yes, even if they're cis. How do they feel about it? How did they decide? Could they ever change their mind or gender further on down the line?
Pro-tip for XIV twt, assuming all people in a country are ideologically in lockstep with their government while YOU, glorious English speaker, are capable of free thought is racist. You’re being racist.
@AskAKorean
you could have come to this conversation from a place of compassion and empathy for the diaspora but instead you buried tiny kernels of corn-logic in an explosive diarrhea shit of pettiness and self importance and disdain for diaspora.
Quick collection of resources for your transmasc WoLs!
‣ I did NOT create any of these
‣ By nature, some of these files are 18+ for nudity
‣ This is not an exhaustive list
‣ A link is not an endorsement of the creator or site it's hosted on
oh, uh, by the way
my trans and non-binary homies
i'm glad you're here. i'm glad i could meet you.
you being you and breathing that into your tweets and your WoLs and OCs and art means a lot.
love this funky little guy so much. love that he fucked up majorly and was able to come through the other end better for it. love that he's allowed to radiate his own brand of adoration for people. WHERE IS HE IN THE DAWNTRAIL TRAILERS, YOSHIP.................
#wolqotd
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which NPC is your absolute favorite? who do you love with every fiber of your being.
i want to read about how much you think constantly about them!! 💕😊
OH LORDT I FIXED IT
7/12 update for the list of FFXIV transmasc character creation resources!
‣ I did NOT create most of these
‣ By nature, some of these files are 18+ for nudity
‣ A link is not an endorsement of the creator or site it's hosted on
They show consensual nudity between two people next to each other. It’s implied. People kiss or touch. It’s hardly salacious
It’s a bit violent but most of it is “they added blood spray to things you already do in every other final fantasy”
stray thought: negl I can't express how grateful I am that even though Roegadyn are sort of FFXIV's answer to orcs/trolls/whatever race Warcraft and other fantasy works have, they're never really shown to be uglier/meaner/etc. than Hyurs
i for one saw jason chainsawing people and thought this was encouraged because he kept getting movies, this is why i've definitely chainsaw murdered people before, no one explicitly told me 'no' this is how you are gr00med into normalizing chainsaw
The fact that so many people in fandom right now are expecting Horror media,
Horror media,
of all things,
to present a clear life lessons for a good moral compass is unhinged to me and shows just how far purity culture goes. It never stops and just gets more and more absurd.
hello ffxiv community does anyone know of artists who are trans and/or safe to comm nsfw art of transgender characters with? idk if I've seen any threads/links before
I went into a practice party for E10S and we wiped a few times - our SAM was apparently the most experienced AND was typing like an old-timey Edo samurai to encourage us. We'd wipe and he'd say stuff like "HAHAHA! LET US MAKE GLORIOUS MISTAKES!" and danced for the healers
i think a lot of people (understandably) talk about their really awful experiences with strangers in df, but it can skew the idea of what people are usually like in ffxiv. so:
what’s a really great experience you’ve had with complete strangers in this game?
"if you post xyz im blocking you"
ok cool i guess it's w/e that you're curating your space, but idk why you think everyone needs to know? it's weird i guess. I just find who I vibe with and avoid who I don't. If they drift into my circle I block. It's not an event
Here's the thing that strikes me about fandom harassment:
even IF the people on the receiving end are "bad" -- harassment and shame aren't tools of rehabilitation. It does nothing to better the "bad" person or ensure community safety.
It's just self congratulatory at best
~*it's time for ruh'to's opinion*~
being strict about lore is nice if that's what you want to do
but if we need to get super w/e about lore adhesion I get the impression that there's enough of a diaspora between Othard/Ilsabard/Eorzea that catboy culture is p mutable
Here’s the maintenance and patch schedule.
⚠️ Be warned as once the preload begins, people will start to datamine the hell out of it so it would be best to avoid Twitter all together.
I find it interesting that to so many people "sexualize" is the worst thing that can happen to an adult queer character -- bc imo we should be allowed to show and celebrate queer sex since SPECIFICALLY QUEER SEX has been demonized so hard in the past
WOL QUESTION TIME!!!
What struggles or dysfunctions does your WoL/OC have with their partner/soulmate/spouse? Love is hard work and no one gets along all the time - where is the friction in the relationship?
I feel like somewhere around 2012-2014 the word "headcanon" went from 'something i am using to fill in the gaps of what canon doesn't show us' to a weird emotional crutch based on how much ppl associated/vibed with a character
begging people to understand that their headcanons are headcanons and other people aren't required to adhere to them
it being a popular headcanon doesn't make it canon, nor a mandatory part of fandom
Hello WoLs and Meowsters here’s a WoL question because I love Meownster Hunter
If your WoL/OC went meownster hunting what weapon would they main?
#WoLqotd
If someone is actively harmful: block, shun, tell others in a constructive way
If someone has bad [ships/lore/taste in ice cream], literally just block them and grow the fuck up
I feel it necessary to remind everyone with all kindness intended:
"straight" partnerships and pregnancies can happen to:
> transgender people
> bisexual people
> non-binary people
I AM NOW THINKING ABOUT THIS
Does your WoL/OC have any distinct verbal tics or habits when speaking? Are there certain words or phrases they use a lot? Are they aware they do it, or is it something unconscious?
abusing my reach within the community to say: don't do the nier raids for this for the love of god
all the nier raids give 5-7 tomes and take 40 minutes
Alexander 4 (Burden of the Father) gives 2 tomes but takes only 3-4 minutes. plus the music's better
Needing a bad guy state to point at to say “we need to punish them for the greater good” is, shockingly, incredibly conducive to abetting colonialism in the real world. Black and white thinking is a tool of propaganda.
people DESPERATELY wanting a
checks notes
238459203845034 year old ancient to be "literally a child" because why?
you want more reasons to harass and exile people you don't know?
WoL question
do they sing well? Or have some other musical talent? Do you have a singing voice claim for them or have an idea of what they’d sound like?
Brought to you by the IRL musically challenged BRD main fresh out of reclears
@astarionsrose
saw someone call invasive vidya content "literal rape" and saw red with rage. the only thing that is assault or rape is someone being assaulted or raped i cannot fucking believe people have such severe main character syndrome that they'd think about their passive experience--
[annoying gender/IRL tweets]
Whoooo this struck a chord with me.
I'm older, so I came out as trans when the first wave of radfem poison pilling was just getting started on tumblr and in the position of moving internationally, away from my first group of supportive IRL friends
Interesting Tumblr post from an ex-anti describing what it was like getting pulled into and out of anti-rhetoric and how isolated they were.
cw/ abuse
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“Not buying the game is slacktivism”
It’s a boycott. I haven’t touched poop in place wizards in years. I do not give money to it. I try to avoid geek corps that trade in its IPs and give my $ to small artists instead. My brokeass $20 for a tshirt might not mean much to JKR
No OC or WoL
@background
is “too much” or too dramatic or too cringe IMO. We only know our own inner issues IRL - the only reason “too much tragedy” etc feels unrealistic for OCs is because we can’t see the lives of the real people around us
the really wonderful thing about a trans woman playing wuk lamat is that she gets to be someone who isn't explicitly trans or 'mannish', she's just an amazing woman character.
gentle reminder, wuk lamat is an incredible character, and the person who brought her to life is a trans woman and she did a fucking fantastic job. with gaming being as toxic as it is right now, its a great reminder that there are moments like this that deserve to be celebrated.
Cw sexual abuse and victim blaming
When my abusers were exposed people I considered friends went on a “I ALWAYS KNEW” parade and it devastated me. I felt stupid and was convinced they saw me as stupid. I have these people blocked to this day. This behavior is victim blaming—
I hate how when sex pests are exposed, whether in small spaces or national platforms, we have to wade through a swamp of moralizing "the cartoons made them do it" / "well I ALWAYS knew they had bad vibes" / "oh thank god I can justify my hatred for this person/media" BULLSHIT
I understand why "why'd they let alphinaud have an army" is a joke but I feel like it makes people suffer from narrative hindsight.
In-world he's an accomplished academic acting in a diplomatic position. By most measures he's proven to be capable so of course they trusted him.
> join an engagement with only 8 ppl
> no healers lol
> use arm's length too early and die
> everyone else wipes
....from the distance a lala dressed as a namazu trots in and res's us all
I feel like fandom would be a lot less combative and difficult for people if we could collectively understand that headcanons/fanworks are not reality, are not representation, and are not a limited or exclusive resource
if minions are just instinctually attracted to evil people does that mean Zenos and Funny Daniel would just have a chorus of "BANANA" following them around at all times
FWIW THOUGH i see people making their WoL and literally everything is cool
half/full/turned voidsent? HELL YEAH.
had a baby with an NPC? SHOW ME THE BABY PICS
Pirate captain/lord? DAMN RIGHT THEY ARE
world renowned chef? OF COURSE WHY ELSE DO THEY HAVE A STOVE IN THEIR POCKET
No shade to anyone in the vicinity of this tweet but I’ve legit been operating that Alphinaud is 20 in Endwalker bc it’s clearly implied he’s been away from the studium for a while.
hehehehehehe now i have a fun WoLs-day question
What does your WoL/OC's laugh sound like? Are they a quiet giggler or do they have a loud cackle? Are they self conscious about how they sound or do they not give a fuck? Tell me all uwu
just gotta say, better not hear anyone going "ffxiv so queer" unironically considering how most of the "big names" out there just openly do not give a fuck or are actively hostile
I'm not trying to be an asshole. Think about this before answering.
Atheists... what if you die and you find out it's all real? The critical acclaim. The expanded free trial which you can play up to level 60. The no restrictions on play time... all of it. What then?