You can degrade someone. You can humiliate them. You can make them drip from all the enticing words that you say. But if you forget that there is a human on the other side of that submissive desire, you are the worst kind of garbage that infects the BDSM community.
My Radical BDSM Philosophy: it is 100% possible to be intensively dominant with sadistic and tormenting behaviors AND still be a genuinely nice person.
Financial Domination was meant to help submissives get their finances in order. Help them grow and get on track. Now its become a pervasive stain on BDSM. Taking someone’s money simply because you think you deserve it is cowardly. Those takers are nothing more than common trash.
Something that I’ve come to appreciate about myself: I enjoy so much more denying your release and teasing you endlessly than simply giving you my cock. I love edging you. I love teasing you. It excites me beyond measure. Having you as a whimpering mess, willing to do anything ❤️
I wish there was an app where boys who needed a spanking could write out what they did wrong and it would match them with a local Dom who would offer compassionate discipline, with a talk, and a hug. No expectation of sex. Just a support to help a boy be the best he can be.
Sub Advice: One of the things it irritates me the most is when a boy jerks off while servicing my cock. Don’t do it. Your obligation is to focus on the task - not to concern yourself with your own instant gratification.
#learntobeagoodboy
Daily Dose of Dom Thoughts: Hugs are important in dominance. I may work on your ass until it glows beautifully red. But I know it can be an intense moment. Afterwards, there’s few things that are better than a warm supportive hug. You are never alone.
Sometimes I wonder if I’m too greedy and insensitive when I have little interest in a boy’s orgasm while enjoying his body. Thankfully the thought usually hits me only for a second, then I go right back to fucking his cute little face.
One of my absolute favorite positions with a boy is laying on my bed with my cock in his mouth and my fingers softly probing his hole. I love to hear him moan while he works. Makes my cock twitch in his throat. What’s a position that you enjoy?
Radical idea. Hear me out. Help sub boys with social distancing. Lock the boy up for a little while. Maybe a cage, to the bed, or a chair. Put a vibrating plug inside him. Control the plug from the other room. Put mitts on him. And play sounds of boys getting off for an hour. 😈
Would you rather be tied to the coffee table and left on display where you will be teased endlessly or placed a cage for entertainment and have your mouth used for my desires throughout the night? And no. You can’t pick both.
It’s one of those perfect cold days where you could just spend the entire day edging and teasing you. Tied to the bed. In my lap. Making meals. A full day of teasing. Make you earn that orgasm by the end of the night.
A periodical reminder. Your kink does not define you — it inspires you. Your role does not restrict you — it guides you. Kindness and respect are worth more than a cheap fantasy. If you say you are into BDSM, be better than sludge grows in the darkness. Be worthy of submission.
Daily Dose of Dom Thoughts (
#DDDT
): There is nothing sexier than the moans, whimpers, and pleas from a boy tied to the bed and edged to the brink of insanity. His desire for something is outweighed only by the pleasure I get in causing it. Keep moaning boy. It only encourages me.
Reminder: it’s perfectly okay as a submissive to not be interested in playing/being tied up/serving on a given day. It’s human to have off days. It doesn’t make you a bad sub.
In an ideal world, a boy would make an appointment with a dominant man for his scheduled milking. He would be emptied. Fed his mess. And sent him locked up.
Modern Supportive Dominance for troubling times:
“You better wash your hands thoroughly, boy. If I catch you slacking. I can assure you I will crop your ass until you learn to do it correctly and you can forget about orgasms anytime soon.”
Alas this is not the greatest secret. That honor rests in knowing that if you treat a sub with respect, compassion, and acknowledge their desires, you will get far more as a dominant than fantasy can every offer.
Test your dominance: Can you give a proper neck grip? Can you clasp your hand around his soft gentle skin and make him dive deeper into his urge to please you? Or do go straight to the choke? If you want to be an effective dominant, you must master this skill. Makes a boy melt.
I’m often asked, “why are you so private online?” My profession demands that be very careful. I work in education. While I’d love to show off, I do have to be careful. Nevertheless, I love my red butt photo collection. 🍑 🖐
Listen up, boy.
You are a wonderful, extraordinary person.
No, don’t look away, don’t dismiss it.
You are a wonderful extraordinary person.
Say it.
LOUDER!
SAY IT LIKE YOU MEAN IT!
GOOD! AGAIN!
Good boy.
#HumiliationThroughPositivity
It honestly turns me on to see all this content with boys submitting while wearing a face mask. Boys. This is your moment. You were made for this.
#SafeSexySubs
Fellow kinky Tumblr refugees. Retweet and comment with your former Tumblr blog name. TemptingDominance/YouthfulDominance here. Let’s fight for our community.
Ask yourself this question today. “what have I done make a Man happy?” There is no one correct response but there is one conclusion. This will give you an answer to whether you’ve been a good boy.
My challenge to you (sub or Dom): How can you better integrate kindness in your role? BDSM creates new spaces, new opportunities, and new experiences. The way you earn and give respect can and should be rooted in kindness. Expect better in our community.
Apparently we need to talk about dangers of Financial Domination. There is a difference someone offering spending restrictions vs someone demanding your money for attention. The latter are scum. Common thieves looking for advantages. Use common sense. You don’t deserve that.
A lot of people here could use something along the lines of a self care dom. “Do your fucking work you bitch! Remember to send me a video of you working out and drinking water you dirty slut!”
I had the absolute pleasure of spending two afternoons with this very good boy while visiting Melbourne. Isn’t he just the cutest damn thing you’ve ever seen?
I’m out to lunch and spot this Hispanic hottie cop with skin tight clothes and all his gear. I can’t even begin to tell you how badly wanted him on his knees with my cock down his throat.
@DamienXAzure
you can appreciate this.
@BoomerSm
A boy’s hole does not make him a good sub. Your diligence, dedication, respect, willingness to explore, and positive behavior shows that you are a good boy. And more importantly, you have a mouth. 😉
You can pretend like everything’s al right. You can act like it doesn’t matter or impact you. If you aren’t freaked out about the death of RBG, you’re a fool. Our entire existence is the US gay community is dependent upon one mere vote in the Supreme Court. We are so fucked.
You have so much to offer. Not just with service and support (especially in that jock). But I hope you remember that being submissive is more than the sexual. You offer your sweetness, your cuddles, your devotion, your skills, your warmth. Be you. Be wonderful.
Cute Ways to Address Your sub:
· Darling baby boy
· Precious fucktoy
· Adorable little slut
· Filthy little animal
· Naughty thing
· Sweet little whore
· Pathetic cutiepie
· Mine
Wouldn’t it be nice if this is how all submissive boys were allowed to have orgasms? Just make an appointment with your local Dom for your release/extraction.
Kink friends - Suggestions please. I want to redesign my guest bedroom. I want it to be a functional play space but I need it be subtle and transformable for when family is there. Do you have suggestions on furniture or set up ideas to help me design my playroom? Hidden pieces?