Hi guys!!
For First Timers and Returning listeners on
#SpeedDatingwithSelema
Its important to follow the rules so as to have a seamless conversation.
1. Only request for the mic, if you are sure of the connection you want to make.
A THREAD 👇🏼
Hello Everyone,
Report reaching me is that today is
#SpeedDatingWithSelema
💃🏽💃🏽
I’m excited!
I’ve also been instructed to let you know that today is CHRISTIAN speed Dating.
Come with all your punchlines and ‘fetch’ your crush🫢
9:45pm
Cc
@Orethebrave
@kunle_kenny
@olobzjr
Things to note tonight:
1)
@SelemaEnang
has a cold so she’ll be absent.
I (Fortune) will be your host tonight.
Also say congratulations to me, I just graduated school🤭
2) Come with cold juice, impressive shots and a fully charged phone💃🏽
3) all the hosts will be around💃🏽
Thank you so much guys. Through the glitches and technical mess ups, you stayed till the end.
Thank you for the retweets and funny comments .
Until next time, be good and stay safe 🤗❤️
I wish for you a love that not just wants you but values you.
A love that listens and communicates.
A love that is kind, that is pure, that is intentional, thoughtful, honest and full of integrity.
I wish for you a love that will consider you in all things.
2. Briefly introduce yourself and go ahead to either shoot your shot or sell your intentions.
3. Keep to the time and be civil at all times.
Thank you 🤍
There were a few questions about the space so I hope this clears it up.
1) We are live EVERY 2 WEEKS.
2)We host a Christian Space and a Space for Non-Christians.
Yesterday was the Christian space.
Two weeks from now we will host a NON-CHRISTIAN SPACE.
#SpeedDatingWithSelema
Calling all SINGLE Nigerians in diaspora!!!!!
The news reaching me is that our
#SpeedDatingWithSelema
space this Friday is for YOU GUYS!
If you’re single & you’re finding it hard to date Nigerians?
This space is for U.
We want to help you be visible.
Will you come on Friday?
Hey everyone.
Selema here ✋
I’m having network issues here and I can’t seem to start the space.
Fortune is having battery issues because no light where she is currently.
I will try again at 11pm.
Hopefully my network is better.
Drum roll please!!!!!🥁
The gang is back!
Make it a date with us on the 2nd of June.
Bring all your crushes, your potential partners, all of them.
We’re shouting all the shots on June 2nd.
Time: 9:45pm
Venue: THIS PAGE!
Cc
@Orethebrave
@olobzjr
Hello Everyone 👋
Gentle reminder that our space is on Friday the 27th Of October.
It’ll be the NON-CHRISTIAN space.
Time: 9:30pm- 1am
Venue: HERE.
Tell all your friends, crushes and love interests. Bring everyone.
#SpeedDatingWithSelema
Cc
@olobzjr
@Orethebrave
Thank you so much to everyone who tuned in on today’s session of
#SpeedDatingWithSelema
. We appreciate the engagement and look forward to seeing you on the next space opening.
We also apologize for the break in transmissions. Hopefully, the next space will be seamless 🥺❤️
It’s a new week and this is a friendly reminder that you deserve commitment too.
Don’t let anybody string you along and offer you less than what you really want.
You deserve the very thing you’re seeking.
If you’ve come from a long line of women bending over backwards in partnerships, taking up roles they had no business in because they chose men who weren’t worth it, you better know that you’re in a fight to break generational trauma in the way you pick & date men.
Act like it
Sometimes love is a slow burn.
The constant need to have it engulf you immediately is why some people end up in relationships that are bad and partners that are wrong for them.
We miss out on really great matches because we spend too much time focusing on the wrong things.
Guyssss, it’s not enough to be in the comment section.
I need you to request the mic and shoot some serious shot.
The first person to drop some missiles will get a gift from me 🤗🤭
I had a conversation with a friend two nights ago that has stuck with me.
We talked about the time we waste with some people auditioning for affection, how these people never “see” us no matter how much time passes, how we almost give our lives hoping they’ll throw us a ‘bone.’
A love that you can trust and rely on.
One that isn’t selfish or consumed with only themselves.
But a love that puts you first.
A love that sees you.
I wish for you a love that is grounded.
A love that you also can give.
I wish genuine happiness in love for you.
The STRICTLY Christian speed Dating space being tomorrow;
Date: 2nd August
Time: 8pm (WAT)
Venue: Twitter Space
Come prepared to meet the bone of your bone and speak to her in words that feel like they were taken from songs of Solomon💃 💃
#SpeedDatingwithSelema
You people that say your friends cannot date your siblings, maybe stop having useless friends?
Because if you had friends that are genuinely great people, you’d be happy to see your sibling and them together.
Also don’t have useless siblings.
But yeah, it’s a suggestion
When you have a brain that isn't Neuronormal, one of your greatest blessings is finding someone who wants to understand your brain.
That gives you the space to be fully you.
They know when the orchestra in your head is loud & can hold space for that you.
Now that our mummy has introduced us 🌚😂
Hi, my name is Connie.
I’m an anonymous writer, I’m half crazy. 😁
I really like dating and relationships so this should be fun.
Threads written by
@SelemaEnang
will be obvious😌
Other times, it’s just me misbehaving😫
Thank you so much guysss. This was fun 🥳
Let’s do this again same time, same space on another day.
Heartfelt appreciation goes to
@Orethebrave
and
@olobzjr
. Thank you for being amazing cohosts ❤️
Goodnight and sweet dreams 😴
When you’re about to move mad this year and jump into another useless relationship that only destroys you, beat your chest three times and say;
Act like you know why we’re here, *insert name *.
We don’t do that here.
2023 Hacks For Dating Better:
For many people, relationships and love are things they ‘pretend’ to not want because they feel that if they openly admit to wanting these things they’ll come across as ‘weak’ or ‘not content’ with their lives alone.
Meeting people and finding love has become a bit more difficult, especially for young people.
We are making it easier the
#SpeedDatingWithSelema
way.
All you have to do now is sign up and show up for this exclusive speed dating event in Lagos.🥳🥳
Link:
Have you ever considered that the reason why you’re not “soft” in that relationship is because you don’t feel Safe?
Softness for a lot of people is about safety and if you are struggling with being soft in your relationship then it’s time to ask yourself;
What is safety for me?
If the church continues to tell women to abstain and nobody is talking to men, there will be plenty women focused on sexual abstinence with no men to date because the men cannot match them.
There needs to be more programs and intimate group discussions for men to wait too.
Hi guys,
1 hour to go!!!!
I hope we’re warming up for the
#SpeedDatingwithSelema
Space coming up tonight by 8pm.
STRICTLY Christian 👀
Come prepared with all the shots in your arsenal 💃💃💃💃
If you’re married and you’ve been struggling with being romantic?
Or your spouse has told you that you need to improve?
1001 ways to be romantic by Gregory J.P Godek is a good place to start.
It’s the month of love, you can learn to do better please.
Good morning o🌞
A friendly reminder that KNOWING what you want and ACCEPTING what you want are two very different things.
You can know what you want and still accept rubbish.
Thank you so much to the wonderful hosts who made the space very engaging and entertaining ❤️.
@Orethebrave
@kunle_kenny
@olobzjr
Until next time, do have a good night rest 🤩
I think one of the key indications of interest is Effort.
If a person considers Effort a hassle or refuses to try?
They don’t really like you.
It shouldn’t be complicated please.
Are we counting down?
2nd June
9:45pm
#SpeedDatingWithSelema
Have you seen your crush?
Are you eyeing them?👀
Start collecting all the data you need for that first shot😌
We’re excited!
You show up as a different person in love when you decide to heal and do the work it takes to exist in a healthy partnership.
Our generation will do better with picking partners if we understood that nobody comes perfect and drawing the right lines for our choices.
Are we counting down?
2nd June
9:45pm
#SpeedDatingWithSelema
Have you seen your crush?
Are you eyeing them?👀
Start collecting all the data you need for that first shot😌
We’re excited!
Hi guys 🤩
While you’re going through all the requests, let’s break down SPEED DATING.
Loosely put, speed dating events are usually physical events that involve an equal number of men and women that are made to sit across each other.
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#SpeedDatingwithSelema
Hi People 🥳🤩
Trust we are good? As usual, tomorrow is another
#SpeedDatingwithSelema
space. ✨
Same Time, Same Place ! 9pm WAT!!
Come prepared to shoot your friendship and relationship shots. 🤍
Hi guys, we finally have a page. 🥳
Welcome. Feel free to follow, engage and retweet all our tweets for wider reach.
Don’t forget to also share the handle to your friends. 🤩
Cheers to making amazing connections on here 🥂
#SpeedDatingWithSelema
Hello 👋
Who else is looking forward to
#SpeedDatingWithSelema
on Friday the 6th?
@SelemaEnang
will have control of the account on that day because the space will hold from this page.
So get ready and bring your friends plus crushes 💃🏽
Is being in love with you safe for my heart?
Are you emotionally available enough to nurture my heart?
Begin to find out if you’re falling in love dears.
Hey guys!
Humor me please.
If you’re single, I have a few questions.
1) Is it by choice or did you get tired of looking?
2) What’s the first thing you’ll do with your partner when you stop being single?
You cannot make relationships transactional when you approach a woman and then turn around to ask why everybody you meet is or wants to be transactional with you.
It’s a new year, let’s stop it.
Happy New Year🎉🎊🎆
No man needs you to inspire him to do right by you, no man.
They do not need you to convince them that you are a good woman that’s worthy of respect, regard and intentional love.
When men want you, they show you that they do.
Very clearly too.
I know we don’t like to admit it but there are those of you who want to date certain kinds of women and certain kinds of men.
For those kinds of people you must level up.
You must.
You cannot refuse to do self development and be aiming for people like that.
What does safety look like to me?
Unpack the times in your life you’ve felt true safety and if you’ve never felt it at all.
When you do, sit your partner down and have a conversation about safety and softness.
People cannot improve on things that they do not know or understand
So
@SelemaEnang
decided to drop gems on her Instagram at an odd hour.
Me I thought we agreed all random content thoughts will be sent to me😑
I’ve decided you people cannot miss out on this. So I stole it.😑
Follow the thread 🧵 👇🏽
Act like you know why this is important.
You’re not a dumping site for trauma.
Have boundaries.
You were not born to be a placeholder.
Have boundaries.
Have vetting process.
Date like you know why we’re here, Sis.
You get to pick too.
Stand up.
Stop dying on the line and losing yourself to date men who have no business crossing Hello with you.
If you get this right you will be the blueprint for the generation after you that “Soft love is possible.”
You will be the reason they Stand up or never even fall.
Sis, Get Up.
If you’ve never talked to your partner about these things then it’s time to.
Some of the fights you are having can be avoided if there’s a little bit of softness in your interaction.
It’s time to stop fighting and being aggressive.
Communicate.
U better know that if you win this fight you will be the first in your generation who got it right.
Who picked & dated men that were good for you.
Who didn’t audition for affection, who didn’t ask you to die to become what they wanted.
Act like you know why this is important.