"The two scripts are to have kids or to have made a righteous feminist decision to live child free, and everything in the middle is treated as unfinished, unresolved, incomplete." A Mother's Day story from a non-mother.
My college students would like to hear more about career paths adjacent to writing and editing. In other words, stable jobs that use verbal skills but aren’t necessarily in publishing or journalism. Suggestions? Advice?
I wrote a piece for
@TheAtlantic
that took about five years to lasso on the page. Will I die in this ditch today? Let's find out. (Thank you to
@SStossel
for helping me make it this far.)
One under-discussed ramification of last night's election is that Dems will conclude that calling/emailing/texting approximately 5 million times actually works.
The ability to stay calm and fair in the face of unfair questions is a power we need if we want to make it out of our current mess.
@coldxman
is hell of a role model, and (unrelated) a hell of a musician.
•
@coldxman
's appearance on The View
"There's no evidence that I've been co-opted by anyone. I have an independent podcast, I work for CNN as an analyst, I write for The Free Press, I'm independent in all of these endeavors and no one is paying me to say what I'm saying"
First Rangers game in 20+ years. Taking my side hustle as
@thedumbzone
correspondent verrrry seriously,
@NotJakeKemp
&
@bracketdan
. Also, Rhett Miller sang the national anthem ❣️
@Tyler_A_Harper
Memoir and personal essay are a career for me -- writing, teaching, editing, public speaking -- and even I think this is true. But I'd submit the problem is not people telling hard truths about their lives (often profound), but performing Their Truths (usually empty).
@billybinion
I think it might derive from a technological mindset of "controlling your settings." the idea that the world around you is out of your control becomes a foreign concept. Block/delete/mute, etc.
I think it's the best magazine story I've done. You can decide for yourself. Thank you
@texasmonthly
for the chance to tell this very Texas story about this very Texan woman.
“One is never completely certain when you drink and do drugs whether the spirits that are moving through you are the spirits from the bottle or your own. And, at a certain point, you become afraid of the answer.” — Tom Waits, who got sober many years ago
I wrote about
@rhettmiller
of the
@Old97s
for
@dallasnews
. It's a different kind of profile for me: Deeply personal, though I never actually appear (thank god). This is about a great Dallas artist and how he almost died, but started making music instead.
Never in a million years did I think I'd write a piece hitting hard at the
#Cowboys
, but here we go. You mess with the cheerleaders, you mess with me.
#americasgirls
Five years ago yesterday I walked into an animal shelter and found this guy. His cage said his name was Felix, and I knew that wasn’t right. I took him home, and now he’s Wallace.
"I’d always understood sex to be best when it arrived fast and furious, a sign of uncontrollable desire. But that kind of sex was mostly a sign I’d drank myself to a place of soft compliance."
@sarahhepola
writes
“We don’t know these people. They use us, we use them, and we’re all just f—ing each other in the endgame.”
@theoldgreywolf
speaking truth about
#cowboys
scandal.
The theme song to SUCCESSION is such a banger that after 38 episodes and multiple watches, I have not skipped it. Not once. Nicholas Britell (Moonlight, The Big Short) is some kind of genius.
The possibility hangs over all of this, one I return to over and over, that Blasey Ford’s account is absolutely true and that Kavanaugh has absolutely no memory of it and thinks he has been falsely accused.
My granddad was very Irish: the charm, the blarney, the Scotch. I think of him on St. Patrick's Day, a celebration of drunken debauchery (he would've approved). I loved him, but I wish he could have known the freedom of sobriety. But that would be for my generation to discover.
I just used the phrase “phoning it in” with a 37 year old, and he had no idea what I was talking about. “You mean, like the Regis show?” Did the phrase “phoning it in” to describe half-assery go out of style like three decades ago, and nobody told me?
"While Dr. Blasey’s brain was pumping the epinephrine and norepinephrine that would etch the moment on her brain, it is quite possible that one if not both of those men were experiencing ... a mechanical failure of the brain to record anything."
William Randolph Hearst popularized "If it bleeds, it leads." 100+ years later, the public genuinely believes the entire world is bleeding, and saying otherwise is misinformation.
Always a pleasure talking to
@coldxman
. He's back to discuss his book The End of Race Politics: Arguments for a Colorblind America.
#WalkInsWelcome
We cover a lot of ground--links below.
"Writing first-thing is the best habit I ever developed. If I put off the writing till later, I’ll likely come up with excuses for why I can’t or don’t have to do it."
I gave an interview about my writing routine for anyone who is curious.
So I've made a podcast about the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders with the team at
@texasmonthly
. We talk glamour, fame, sex, fair pay, feminism, body image, big hair, I hope you'll join us. Debuts December 7.
It's a good morning to read about something other than politics. Behold: My take on the new Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders hit docu-series on Netflix (which, yes, I appear in).
The irrepressible
@walterkirn
came on SMOKE EM to talk Tucker Carlson, class differences in media, why
@mtaibbi
isn't conservative, and to take on
@NancyRomm
about ... Viktor Orban? I loved every moment, this man is an original.
Getting to talk with the lovable scoundrels of
@wethefifth
felt like breaking the fourth wall. I’ve been obsessed with these guys for years. We talk dranking, Twitter gaslighting, Depp-Heard, the weird vibes of Bruce Springsteen’s “I’m on Fire,” and more.
I spent yesterday with Mama Sugar, whose extraordinary story I got to tell in a
@TexasHighways
piece last year about real cowgirls that landed me my first nomination for a national magazine award.
"As a full moon rose in the clear, bright sky, I felt as though I’d discovered the edge of the universe—and it came with a Nespresso machine."
The rich history, overwhelming trendiness, and unstoppable rise of glamour + camping, aka GLAMPING. I visited 4 spots in Texas, a
“One day you’re gonna get tired of giving the middle finger to the world,” a wise friend said, as I tapped out another cigarette. “Probably,” I said, placing the thing between my lips. “But not yet.”
You should never write a memoir as an act of revenge. Those books tend to be small-minded, self-justifying, and gratingly self-involved. (Not that any of that will stop a memoir by a certain scorned royal from selling a gajillion copies.)
This is far and away the best book on the creative process I’ve ever read (listened to technically), and I’d recommend it to newcomers and old-timers alike. You made a thing of beauty, Rick Rubin. Once again.
BASTARDS OF SOUL were a band, and now they're a documentary. Several local music gems populate this story, which includes the saga of the late great Chadwick Murray. Movie has its Texas premiere at the
@TexasTheatre
this Saturday (4/27).
Just did a Google search to find an old story and discovered that I died two years ago in Minnesota after a long peaceful life of teaching elementary school, so I consider this a bonus round.