That’s the folly. You don’t like him, so you can be rational. But you are not immune. If you liked him it would be different. It would all be different. Instead you place blame on your fellow woman for the actions committed by a man. Do not turn your back on your sisters.
Personal style should be a little off-putting okay? alexander mcqueen said he’d prefer to have ppl throw up after his show. Plus who hasn’t bricked a fit from time to time, acting like it’s a crime or something. U know what that tells me? That u arent dressing for YOU
You cannot transcend misogyny through individual exceptionalism. You will make a fool of yourself believing so. But I understand. Who hasn’t believed themselves above it all at one point?
a dating app is literally the exact opposite of how attraction is experienced. Braindead self-categorization devoid of sensuality and nuance. You know what’s magical about attraction? it’s that you can have preferences but it will still find ways to surprise you
out of all the problems with dating apps the worst is that they destroy the idea of romance and spontaneity. browsing out of a catalogue of ppl is cringe. meeting someone in a park or thru friends or on the street or any other chance encounter is hot and for the true lovergirls
Trial run on a bev I’m workshopping: the minimum viable product, if you will
Blended skin-on lemon, limes, & cucumbers. Coconut cream, sugar, basil. Strain pulp. Cut with sparkling water.
It’s refreshing, fragrant, creamy & uplifting all at once!
Have you ever liked someone? It’s a deeply irrational force of nature. Guess what - you overlook a lot of things when you like someone. What happens when girls and women are told to prioritize romantic love from men above the love of their friends, family, themselves?
This is where the Real Work of an adult friendship begins btw…can you both reach across the crevasse of context, circumstance, and schedule and still make time to enjoy the company of one another?
Montreal is wild cause I went to check out the local library and it’s attached to a victorian greenhouse with curved glass and a fountain and a community centre with a dance studio and theatre built in 1899
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offering kindness to a friend who needs a safe space to vent & have their feelings of upset validated is prob the most effective way of getting them to realize what they need to do on their own anyways! It just isn’t possible to bully friends out of relationships
There is a colour in Chinese called “Qing” (青), a blue-green mixed w/ black. I never noticed it doesn’t exist in English til my mom said “Clay rooftops are Qing in Japan and red in China”. 青 has connotations of spring and youth and is contextualized by nature, instead of chroma
a clean room is but a consequence of an efficient system of organization. every time my room gets messy it’s time to reevaluate what isn’t working about my current system and it shifts feeling bad about the current state of things -> imagining new habits & redirecting feng shui
Neopets’ most popular species, the shoyru, was created by Franklin Sum, a Chinese boy who mashed together dragonite and mew for the neopets create-a-pet competition in 2000. He received a three-figure lump sum for the rights to the shoyru.
Bows: look beyond the frou-frou to the reconciliation of girlhood’s naïveté—it’s nostalgia for what girls were put in when *being* dressed. A signifier for that collective experience, the interdependence in the feminine way of dressing, the actualization of girlhood in adulthood
As i am getting older i am appreciating people who take initiative more. And finding opportunities to do it more myself. Cause how else does anything get off the ground
HEAR ME OUT…the contradictory ways femininity is performed. She is objectified as a consumable, yet cannot be consumed because of her objectification.
the corn is uncooked and a girl is blocked from maturing into a grown woman with her own agency. She is for display only
naked toes are in fact a deeply sensual part of someone’s body to have on view. As extremes of our body, as contact between earth and self, the implicit vulnerability in their nakedness