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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

You do not have to make monsters out of the people who hurt you, for your feelings to be valid.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

2 years

I’m literally in my house crying, put the sound on.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

I ain’t neva seen ass thrown like this .

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

2 years

Y’all, please come look at this.

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tj, the gremlin

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6 months

HOLLERED lol

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

1 year

Stop being so ashamed to say you’re craving affection and tenderness in a world that is a few more cans of hair spray away from going up in flames. your need and maybe even desperation for consistent touch, kisses & general intimacy is normal. Humans are community people baby. ♥️

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

if you’re depressed just look in the mirror and ask yourself “do it look like I was left off bad and boujie?”

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

5 years

For any of my mutuals/followers, if I am following/engaging with any of your abusers pls let me know I will block them. 💕💕💕 sorry you have to see that. I know it can be hella tough.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

5 years

My heart breaks when there is shame around sex. You deserve to love sex. You deserve to heal, define, and explore yourself in it and through it. Sex, like any other activity, can be frivolous and/or incredibly powerful. You are worthy of orgasms and lust. Pain and pleasure.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

1 year

my love is too specific for anyone to be vague about how they love me in return.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

10 months

y’all platonic relationships don’t fulfill y’all? y’all friend don’t cuddle u & say how valuable u are to the world? they don’t give you forehead kisses and back rubs? they don’t make sacred space for you? take u out on dates? they not your life partners? just mimosas and memes?

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

the lead up

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

6 months

this honestly my favorite part 😭 “ you look odd as hell”

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

2 years

was yours accurate?

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

5 years

HEY BAY AREA: If y’all know of anyone who hit a lick lastnight and stole a blue suitcase from a Buick LaCrosse in downtown OAKLAND. Please can y’all return a ring, it’s my aunts wedding ring & she lost her husband a few years ago. And is hella emotional pls give it back PLS RT

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

Having real, raw connections wit yo hoes >>>>>>>>>

BUTTERFLEY3🦋

@BUTTERFLEY3

3 years

Having hoes is so played out... I want real, raw connection.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

4 years

I’ma choose vulnerability every time. Yea, I could fake how I feel or pretend I’m not interested when I am bc I’m scared of rejection. But that doesn’t serve me. Whether the other person wants you or not they probably deserve to hear that they are deeply wanted and loved.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

4 months

one thing an abuser gon do is find another community 🙃.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

2 years

its lackluster support because your strong friends dont just need random check-ins, they need you to change the way that you see them so that your support helps sustain them... so they dont have to be the "strong" one.

honey x3

@honeyscube

2 years

the “check on your strong friends” thing is getting a little tired now..

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

@McCray2525 That ass was assing like never before. She might be god, idk.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

7 months

the way my close friends love me has literally forced me to love myself more. please don’t let these punk ass fake spiritualists tell u self love is the prerequisite to healing, boundaries or abundance. it was community that unraveled u & it will be community that rebuilds u.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

6 months

@BabyfaceAr when she said look at the recoil and then bounced it 😭

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

2 years

the more abuse i experience the more accountability looks like niggas getting beat tf up. talking to y’all don’t work, therapy does not work, patience does not work, kindness and compassion does not work. y’all need to be met with violence bc it’s the only language yall knw.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

1 year

this is what I mean when I say that fatness obscures gender, bc when you are larger bodied people will assign you whatever gender fits the narrative they have/can make about you. this is why fatness, transness and queerness have almost inseparable relationships.

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1 year

Nigga said Draymond look like Franklin mama 😭🤣🤣

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

13 days

people can understand and: still be hurt be disappointed experience anger no longer want to fuck with you believe you deserve consequences/ to be accountable

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

5 years

I would like to say also, that this man took a breath and went the fuck back in and handled this leak and that’s, that’s kind of energy I hope we all are bringing.

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@praxispapi

6 years

PSA: It’s okay to find fat bodies attractive. It is okay to find fat bodies sexy af. It’s okay to find rolls and large bellies beautiful. You do not have to hate fat bodies. You don’t have to hide the fact that you LOVE/ADORE fat ass bodies.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

1 year

people pleasers be so softly violent bro lol. you mad at people cause you don’t hold and enforce your boundaries? such fucking ball sack behavior at least fight for yourself.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

You deserve a love story that isn’t profound bc of how you reconciled after abuse/neglect but bc of how you cultivated a love so safe and healthy without it.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

Monogamous people who date polyamorous folks are stronger than the marines.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

4 years

I wanna remind folks that the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Not having ill intent doesn’t mean you don’t deeply hurt and harm folks.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

2 years

this is real tho. aromantic people exist. it’s called queer platonic relationships.

keah jai 🔮✨

@hellokeah

2 years

“in love with someone in a non- romantic way…. but more than a friend?” … bffr

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

I enjoy sex the most when folks are enjoying and worshiping my body. Devour me for you, my love. Pleasure me like my pleasure is yours and you’re sharing it with me. Revel in all that I am. Be indulgent with your desire of me. It (my body) is yours baby, just prove it to me.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

1 year

how does this not cross light skin ppls minds???

Henry Louis Gates Jr

@HenryLouisGates

1 year

“Do you know what you’re looking at? That is a list of the passengers on the Mayflower.” Our researchers discovered #AngelaDavis ’s ancestors traveled to the US on the Mayflower and here is her reaction. #FindingYourRoots

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

2 years

i have nothing to promote but my birthday 8/11 so send me a gift, paylinks on my page and follow my IG @praxispapii .

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

5 years

Abusers be like “hey I manipulated, gaslit, emotionally harmed and physically destroyed someone’s home but I’m healing.” No therapist, no restorative justice, no healing community...nothing. YOURE NOT HEALING, YOURE DELUSIONAL. AND MANIPULATING EVERYONE AROUND YOU.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

“if you feel like you’re in a tug of war just drop the rope.”

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

4 months

y’all hate ugly people so bad I wish yall hated abusers the same way.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

5 years

PSA FOR THE SUMMER! Real hot girl shit!

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

5 years

Just want to let you niggas know it is sexual assault to pull your shit out without the consent of the folks in the room. Forcing someone to look at your dick is a crime. Being younger we didn’t have the language but we do now so teach the babies. Cause niggas still do this.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

1 year

drink your water! right now! you dehydrated ass beautiful flower.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

I really am worthy of a love so fucking powerful it positively changes my life. That it aids in my healing and exceeds even my wildest expectations. Where I am comforted and the whole of me is held with honor. A love that unravels me urgently and intentionally. No holding back.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

Happy Fathers Day to the Step-Dykes out there. We see you King! We honor you on today!

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

11 months

a reminder that white women will always choose patriarchy over everything. white women have never stood in solidarity with Black womens fight against violence even when the perpetrator betrays their confidence. Black men & white women bond over their hatred for Black women.

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@praxispapi

8 months

@datalkinbook “Pink stink” is criminal lol

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

2 years

and to be clear MANY ppl THINK they are not violent because they don’t hit you or scream at you. we are way too old to play like that is the only metric for harm.

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@praxispapi

2 years

@nitaliciousss lmfao please

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

3 years

Y’all really care more about attractive ppl. Like y’all swear you coincidentally choose more conventionally attractive partners. Like them being “easier” to love or build with isn’t directly connected to desirability politics.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

4 years

Breonna Taylor not receiving the support and outrage that George did is directly linked to living in a patriarchal society and what Black women are pointing out they call out Black men. This is the privilege.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

10 months

imagine yo nigga calling you a “Michelle” PUBLICLY cause they couldn’t pull a Beyoncé. nigga call me a bridge they gon be the troubled water. KNOW THAT.

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@praxispapi

2 years

I HAVE to remind myself that people who want to share their life with me, be loved by me and love me, WILL. and those who don’t, won’t be there, invite me, share,or include me. people are intentional. not everyone who finds me useful,wants me to participate in their life.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

8 months

y’all 😭🥲 come listen to this

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@praxispapi

2 years

•29 • im a god, im a hero i survived all i been through confident, damn im lethal

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

5 years

“Sometimes I forget which country I’m in” This is my new goal. I would like to relate to that. I’ve also never felt so poor.

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Naomi does grocery shopping at Whole Foods

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@praxispapi

4 years

I used to feel hella sad when I realized I poured my heart about how much I cared or wanted someone and they didn’t feel the same. But how much I love someone has never depended on the other person. Just my strong inclination to care for people.

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@praxispapi

3 years

the suicidal kids do survive. 🥺 we here. we still here.

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@praxispapi

4 years

Idk who needs to hear this... I’m sorry your experiences with ppl made you feel like you are too complex to love. Too different to be wholly seen & desired. You don’t deserve to feel that. It’s the farthest from the truth. LOVING U IS WORTHWHILE. BEING LOVED BY U IS AN HONOR.

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@praxispapi

3 years

im just realizing right now in this conversation that my abandonment is not rooted in the "leaving" its in the not meeting needs. I feel most abandoned there, in the place of needing to the point of what I feel like is begging. cause ppl leaving is okay. thats normal.

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tj, the gremlin

@praxispapi

8 months

really good time to remind people that abusers do not (always) abuse everyone & being perceived as a loving father doesn’t mean u aren’t an abusive partner. &if you don’t see that harming your son’s mother will directly impact his well being then…are you really a good father?

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@praxispapi

2 years

See me, I been gettin fine but the pockets gettin fluff These niggas gone act real but they snow on the bluff I cannot make this up

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@praxispapi

1 year

he’s a part of a fraternity correct. that’s what those symbols mean?just asking cause all these fraternities and sororities be claiming to do so much for Black people but they’ve killed people pledging, condoned rape, colorism, elitism all kinds of violent white supremacist shit.

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@praxispapi

3 years

a half met need is still a need unmet.

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@praxispapi

4 years

It’s hard to reconcile with/realize and truly almost feels contradictory but people not wanting you/having the capability to love you doesn’t make you unlovable. YOU ARE UNCONDITIONALLY WORTHY OF LOVE AND DESIRE.

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@praxispapi

4 months

fat people are still being called precious

Andy Billington 🍃💨

@0067hceeM

4 months

I can only imagine what Gabourey Sidibe went through after filming this movie. The fatphobia and colorism people RAN with out of it…..and the movie came out in 2009 (media in the 2000s was heavily anti-fat)

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@praxispapi

2 years

Madonna having more Black kids than Diana Ross is wild to me.

Pop Crave

@PopCrave

2 years

Madonna shares a family photo for Thanksgiving. ❤️

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@praxispapi

2 years

less check on your friend more check how good of a friend you have been. i have chronic suicidal ideations that are triggered by mistreatment. it would mean more and keep me alive longer if people were accountable to how they did or didn’t show up for me.

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@praxispapi

1 year

one of the worst things about social media is that people who are adverse to vulnerability believe that transparency is inherently vulnerable and that anyone moving in vulnerability is doing so for attention/pity. the rationale only serves to justify their apathy towards others.

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@praxispapi

3 years

Tasha Cobbs “we come against the sin of homosexuality”. the gay community singing back up:

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@praxispapi

2 years

@PettMeAlex it’s not my cat, I don’t know.

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@praxispapi

1 year

your boundaries are yours and you’re not innocent bc you are trying to be “nice”. so many people pleasers are LIARS!!! you LIEEEEEEEE bc you want to make niggas happy by any means, including manipulation. people pleasing is normalized dishonesty.

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@praxispapi

5 years

Just wanna clarify you can be gay and never had sex. It’s wild to me that when a gay man “comes out” people immediately go to what type sex/how man dicks he is taking. Niggas can be celibate and gay. People can be asexual and gay. Grow up! Whores!!

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@praxispapi

1 year

also I think Leo’s in general need very clear and explicit words of affirmation and acts of service. hearing I love u is very cute, she is, but she don’t do it for me like “my life has more meaning since meeting you”/“I laugh deeper w you” or “it’s a blessing to share space w u”

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@praxispapi

5 years

I’m worthy of: a love that does not call me out my name a partner that keeps their word having my boundaries honored a peace, my lover does not try to destroy a relationship where I am holistically cared for. My love is too attentive&intentional 2 have it thrown in my face.

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@praxispapi

1 year

idk I just feel like the nigga that deserves you will set aside their fears and take responsibility for their worries to be with you. they approach you with sincerity and transparency. what is good for you, what is made for you will surrender. they won’t let you pass.

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@praxispapi

6 months

shit like this always reminds me that people absolutely have the time and capacity to endure inconvenience/risks/discomfort for white supremacy but not liberatory shit like marches/boycotts. this cup ain’t help feed, house, or care for anyone it made rich people richer.

liv⸆⸉ 🍉

@ttpdwhore

6 months

for a tumbler 😭😭😭 yall gotta be joking do you not have jobs????

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@praxispapi

3 years

“and there is the love that will be ready”

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@praxispapi

2 years

hate when niggas think polyamory is boundary-less fun. “but i thought you were poly.” sound a whole lot like “I thought I could play in your face.” or “I thought I could do whatever and you’d be fine with it.” Lol no baby. no.

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@praxispapi

3 years

why do y’all misgender people when it’s in their bio/name? especially bc you do not need to gender people to address them. Only like 11 pronouns are gendered.

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@praxispapi

9 months

i love a faux mean person. like you assume they mean but they really just unimpressed and are excellent at reading people so they don’t be in everyone face. esp mixed with a dark humor.

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@praxispapi

3 years

I want: Flowers Love letters Cards Jewelry Spontaneity* Fun Intimate ass sex Healing Positive unforgettable memories

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@praxispapi

1 year

when a nigga say to me “don’t look at me like that” and try to look away while smiling what is that?

♡.

@amourrxxniyahh

1 year

y’all think seducing ppl w ya eyes is a real thing ????

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@praxispapi

5 months

To Myy(🐙) Forever Valentine: i’m so sad I don’t get to spend today with you but i know C is holding it down! I love you forever. Thank you for all the care, laughter and highs (medical or otherwise) you have gifted me in this life. I’m in your corner always. Next Year it’s UP!

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@praxispapi

5 years

💔💔💔 She just came back from a trip. All her memorabilia from the countries she visited. Everything. Like please y’all. She def doesn’t deserve this.

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@praxispapi

10 months

every time I see this I think about how much intentional contact honey made low key hitting them on the low and I know that’s sometimes contact is cool but I hate it here.

enby 🇵🇸

@FR33WOMAN

10 months

it was bad for honey.

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2 years

love is an opportunity to repair, take it serious.

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@praxispapi

3 years

I want to remind y’all that abusers don’t abuse EVERYONE. All of my abusers were publicly sweet and goofy as hell. They were loving to children and had “manners”. Don’t confuse how abusers are with you for how they are with everyone. Including different partners.

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@praxispapi

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bawdy tea but like a hot toddy, ya know

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@praxispapi

6 months

And when the different disabilities tag team

no justice, no peace

@fluidsonja

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me when my disability disables me

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11 months

Happy Birthday to me! 😭♥️ If you would like to turn up with me and some of the best niggas on this plant meet me at the Marquette TONIGHT. I’ll probably be there at 12. The drinks are good and they play ass shaking music we gon have us a gay ball!

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seem like yall having a hard time saying baby on the left and that’s wild bc when I first saw her I was like now wait maybe I should listen to this song. y’all’s fatphobic predisposition makes it hard for yall to see our talent/skill. but they are fucking that dance up. Period

𝗱𝗮𝗻𝗻𝘆🫧💚

@beyoncegarden

3 months

which dance for BUCKIIN' do y'all like better😭?

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3 years

i was soft for you. i was softest with you.

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@praxispapi

2 years

this is really a test to see if you’re dedicated to your freedom and healing. we fail all the time bc we think the first great thing will be the only when often it’s just the beginning.

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@champagnesamx

2 years

meeting someone great in your “ima be single” phase is so crazy

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3 years

no I just sang on #spacesgottalent 😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️

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@praxispapi

1 year

people really say “just be confident” to people who have NEVER been loved all the way through. I find that to be cruel and vapid of community care. yes, we can only do what we can AND niggas will be failed by community until we understand how we all r each other’s responsibility.

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@praxispapi

6 years

Sexy af, look in the mirror I’m in love💕

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@praxispapi

2 years

Yea so I tested it and there’s cocaine in this song.

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@praxispapi

1 year

realizing over & over again tht people genuinely do not care about fatphobia/desirability and so they do not care about ME as a human being- my literal humanity, is very sick. you can NOT love/care about me and not interrogate your own personal perpetuation of that violence.

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