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@panphobias

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@panphobias
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Whenever there's a sex panic going on, one idea that goes unchallenged is the idea that sexualization is a form of harm in of itself. The truth of the matter is more complicated, as usual. 🧵
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@panphobias
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@perezidentes This is such an unhelpful framing that looks like you're just trying to be holier than thou. What's the average person supposed to do about that?
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@perezidentes Ok. What's the average voter supposed to do about that?
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@RenHavingFun @phagafaga Shockingly, hierarchies are intrinsic to the world we live in.
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@IwriteOK Respectfully, I think what is being said here is that online left proposals to solve the issue of sexual and gender based violence are not magic bullets and have massive blind spots. However that is not being acknowledged.
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@panphobias
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@CommieC0n The desire to change the world does not mean you have the ability to change it.
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@Thriveleak Focusing on fiction distracts from real child abuse hope this helps
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@RenHavingFun @phagafaga Your right, microevolution and social hierarchies emerging based on favoritism are a myth, actually. Completely made up by capitalism.
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@zack_cal "My problem is that he lied to the abusive cult"
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@RiotLinguist A man credibly accused of CSA is likely to be protected for the same reason a queer person slandered by an accusation isn't: the response to an accusation falls along the lines of power and prejudices of a society.
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@madtranny Did the sex negative feminism strain of "all kink is rape, women who like kink are brainwashed" do anything to fix the issue of sexual violence either? Or did it simply play into existing patriarchal values.
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@sunflowertaters And yet you also don't have any viable alternatives! That's what's maddening to me!
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@morgueages A joke usually has to have a joke in it.
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@hylwicks Kid, this has nothing to do with safety and everything to do with your feelings of sexual propriety.
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@CyrilAlexei @skitterspatial Says the person retweeting hard r racial slurs
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Meanwhile if bi women ask you to stop talking about us like this that's "lesbophobia"
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@cervixpiercer Contrapoints has always been unflinchingly interested deeply personal and dark topics, even at the risk of miring in controversy. Philosophy Tube is primarily about education and the ideas in politics, and so it is very deliberately more accessible in many cases.
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@panphobias
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@zoiedt Seriously? You're down with sexual harassment?
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@An_Aria_Blooms Monosexual is not a new word, nor is the concept of biphobic lesbians being butthurt over it.
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@LunosNocturne @RenHavingFun @phagafaga And afterward there was no one with a pain management problem, ever.
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@panphobias
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@bloomfilters Really? Antis are always calling everything pedophilia just like conservatives, and you see fit to call pro-ship (pro as in not anti, not problematic) people the gullible ones?
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@MrHomie15 @XiranJayZhao Hahahahahahaha what a fucking loser I bet you think that sounded so badass
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@panphobias
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@koutingmiao You truly cannot talk about the (mandatory, enforced) vows od celibacy from nuns without talking about purity. Also lul convents were glorified rape jails and an arm of colonialism and you wanna act like they're some feminist collective
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@panphobias
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@PinkRangerLB I don't think it's actually all that helpful to frame the condition of murderers in terms of disability.
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Yes let's focus on the porn and not the misogynistic society they live in or their upbringing or even any psychological predispositions they may have had. Let's focus on the one culture war scapegoat that always gets scapegoated. Brilliant fucking analysis.
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porn is not the sole reason for male violence, but it definitely contributes to a dangerous normalization of sexual depravity.
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@drdevonprice The way there are almost no trans women in trans cosplay panels
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@dailyjazzTF From ContraPoints, "Twilight | ContraPoints" 1hr0m25s
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@jlwlgbtprs @cervixpiercer Extremely uncharitable response
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Early 20 Year Olds Stop Threatening People With Physical Violence Over Fandom Opinions Challenge
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Anyone who sexualizes this scene or the entirety of the arc where Denji takes care of Power because of her paranoia gets their teeth ripped out one by one.
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@pootie_moment @Actr006 By calling it "child porn" you demonstrate how completely unserious you are.
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@GagasLeftT0e Sshhhh stop either catastrophizing or rationalizing your disgust and go spend time with people you like.
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@slucarios Kiddo, "proship" just means being thoughtful and reasonable about fiction
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@benjanun_s I'm (trans woman) in the process of being iced out of an IRL friend group (mostly cis women and trans men) for, allegedly, the way I said something and not the content of it. I genuinely wonder if what you've described is a factor.
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@P4RTY_P0150N @JCAutistic You're doing a moral panic over nothing, tool
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@lezceI Why do you think allowing bi women into lesbian spaces is allowing men in lesbian spaces?
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@eirianqueer That would suggest they loved a woman 😏
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@tpwrtrmnky Even when there are serious, substantive allegations, they always seem to come after the fandom drama.
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@panphobias
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@Walroose64 Transmisogyny of course is when trans women push back against a toxic c!s woman with a known history of targeting minorities.
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@panphobias
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@laurenthehough Ah yes, the clout we get from dunking a book which essentializes gender in a way that harms us. By the way, heard the news from Texas lately?
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@koutingmiao Yall really have to twist yourselves in knots to defend your stance of "Don't seggsuwulize nuns 🥺". A horny painting or drawing isn't automatically misogynistic, and yet you HAVE TO assume that it is in order to maintain your ridiculous stance. Also BOO jumpscare
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@panphobias
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@theavatarshawn Leftists can be really good at critiquing oppressive structures and REALLY bad at not reproducing them (intentionally or not).
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@Blind_Arachne This is a shameful opinion. This is what you get when you're so invested in the supremacy of your own group.
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@panphobias
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If your ideology requires that you believe every person who consumes porn is some kind of quasi-drug-addict-zombie you should abandon that ideology.
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Can’t believe I have to say this but, porn is bad
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@panphobias
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@SarcasticCatBoy "Doxxing is always bad" no actually I think it's great when nazis get doxxed, so there are clearly exceptions for that rule. Punching people is generally bad, but there are exceptions.
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@panphobias
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@saintsoftness You've yet to produce an iota of evidence that he actually harassed anyone. Like my god, you're obsessed. You're a self-righteous stalker. Anyone familiar with DARVO can see through your ruse.
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@panphobias
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@Perceniz Imagine being this delusional
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@panphobias
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I think you maybe tried to defend trans women and ended up being misogynistic, transandrophobic, and just generally scummy.
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@ANMedia473 Kurt Cobain would get hrt, laser and srs if she weren't killed by her repressing birthdayboy husband.
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@Viviette_Chaos Someone else writing fiction is not a violation of your boundaries because, and follow me here, you don't get to control what people do with their creative output. You're weaponizing therapy speak like an abuser.
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@panphobias
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@nihilistgf161 Religion is generally oppressive and resistant to social progress, and indigenous people believe things that are untrue or harmful the same as any other person. Enough with this noble savage leftism.
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@H_Baeee @d0nedreaming @perezidentes Ok but like you can turn that objection around and say that the average voter can't do much about foreign policy either! And it's not like there's a concerted leftist movement to make our lives better outside of electoral politics anyhow
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@panphobias
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@jessicobra There's no winning. If we're doing good we're selfish sellout bougoise bitches and if we're doing badly then we can be ignored and left to die. No matter what our economic status, there's always a reason to criticize us, to demand more from us, to withhold from us.
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@panphobias
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@Phlegmbuoy edtwt users as usual externalizing their need to persecute
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@Phlegmbuoy I think unfortunately the nuanced answers for why men should oppose patriarchy are not quite as...marketable? Snappy? Memeable? And unfortunately most people aren't thinking hard enough to engage with nuance most of the time, they engage with slogans and platitudes.
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@panphobias
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@transcuchulainn All major religions enable the worst parts of humanity and play a direct role in empire. All minor religions have the potential to become this. I don't think the long arm of the state should abolish them, because that leads to outcomes contrary to my values.
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@panphobias
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@AdorableEstrie Abuse isn't accountability.
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@panphobias
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@RenHavingFun @phagafaga Ok...and? I'm responding to the notion that coercion is uncomplicatedly evil. Clearly there are very obvious instances where coercion is warranted before we even talk about coercion in schools.
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@panphobias
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Abigail Thorn's video on JP discusses this very issue of "subjectificatjon", where by saying "Nation Celebrates Royal Birth" you imply that non celebrants aren't true members of the nation. By excluding trans women from the implicit "us", we are excluded from transness entirely
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@KatiKnitt @DreamLeaf5 Moral judgment allows you to ignore systemic failures. Not everyone has the chance to be a programmer or a comic artist or a successful sex worker.
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@ClockyGoddess This is silly, you are not a victim.
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@WinslowDumaine @creeptwin That's not a bad idea in isolation -- part of disability activism nowadays is getting people to acknowledge that we are all going to be either disabled or full dead given enough time, so we should take care of people with disabilities.
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@panphobias
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@ithayla An M rating isn't even adults only! It's "hey you shouldn't play this unless you're Mature enough to handle it"
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@hanyauau @Monkey2Bubble You're not being clever here. Also "transwomen" dogwhistle.
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@_zawmbie @owlposting Of course an edtwt user is doing a harassment mob
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@AlexPetrovnia You've fallen for the context collapse attacks Jai and her friends have been making against other people, particularly Jewish people and trans people, for MONTHS. Wake the fuck up.
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@Skepsleftbicep @Phlegmbuoy Look out! Here comes the 18 year old boy with a Just So story to neatly fit all his preconceived notions!
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@MoiraDonegan I mean on the other hand, the feminists who are most anti choice feminism tend to also be huge swerfs and terfs, sooo....
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Wow, he's weebified patriarchy and you're celebrating that.
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@Phlegmbuoy We can acknowledge the positive contributions of the second wave while also acknowledge their immediate shortcomings and also what they decayed into. One doesn't wash out the other.
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@Skepsleftbicep @Phlegmbuoy Convents are more rape culture than sexy costumes. Countless women throughout history have been essentially imprisoned there and forced to beg for their meals while being super vulnerable to sexual abuse from the Catholic church. So don't fucking talk about rape culture blithely
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@phagafaga So I read your threads; you have a lot of saloent criticisms. But I think your abolitionist perspective is akin to ripping out someone's stomach because they have IBS. Education is a public good even if not uncomplicated, and simply removing public education would be *bad*.
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@JihadalHaqq I mean the point of that tweet is that voting is low effort, and some leftists posture about doing direct action as an alternative to that but never actually do anything. In other words, they are worth less than a pure electoralist.
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@thefemiurge Because depiction of us tends to be either Bridget or Buffalo Bill and I would like to see more characters I can personally relate to, being beautiful despite being clocky. It would be hella affirming to see that aspect of transness be normalized.
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This is crybully shit. Every one of those religions has abused state power to spread its own ideology. Anti-theism, meanwhile, not quite as much. God forbid we say your belief in a god doesn't justify, for example, stoning women.
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If you’re anti-theist you have to be able to accept that you’re also antisemitic, islamophobic, anti-pagan, anti-sikh, and every other -phobic or anti- of every theistic religion. Being anti-theist makes you all of those things by default. That’s literally what anti-theism is.
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It is in fact pretty concerning when 15 yos repeat heritage institute propaganda almost verbatim
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@SHADOWlZED Oh sweetie, it's not cishets beating your ass in the QRTs.
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So...you're not a trans man? Then why would you comment on the experiences of trans men who retain their lesbianism?
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@iwedded420birds Cool! Hey rq how does Islam deal with apostasy?
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@Phlegmbuoy Weird how the best argument against a religion is usually its most ardent defenders.
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@phagafaga Here's my critique then. I will also say that a lack of coerciveness is not an uncomplicated good either. People had to be coerced into adhering to the civil rights act. People have to be coerced into paying child support.
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@out_blacking @phagafaga Yeah, education absolutely does do that now. Institutionalized education is designed to shape and instill knowledge and values into people during a critical period of their lives on a broad scale, sometimes those values/knowledge are garbage for a set of circumstances. 1/
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@chsmpsycho It turns out a lot of children have bad opinions on sex: a subject on which most of them know very little and have been conditioned to treat as taboo.
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Wow it's almost like some lesbians are ruthless about policing the term "lesbian" while gay is widely accepted as an umbrella term.
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@ninamonei He's been supporting unions and a family friend had her student debt completely forgiven so that's an unambiguous gigantic W on the board imo
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@P1SCEANANGEL It's fine to hate it but if you do this whole "bodice ripper novels make women into victims IRL" then you must acknowledge that you're joining a long, LONG tradition of moral outrage over fiction that has obsessed over women's choices and never once prevented rape.
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@Phlegmbuoy You're thinking about this from the perspective of someone who already believes patriarchy is wrong, instead of someone who believes otherwise as a result of constant cognitive reinforcement.
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@pxndscxm Tell me you've never experienced biphobia without telling me.
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@DocViviLeandra Except it is. Like it's hard to find them now because the backlash to the backlash has drowned out everything, but it was ostensibly feminists concern trolling about misogyny.
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@loserbent Having a sober view of the enormity of a problem isn't "running defense". The only people who think that are those who aren't so much interested in solving the problem as they are using the existence of the problem as a blunt instrument for their interpersonal conflicts.
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@Itmechr3 I feel like I was the only one irritated by white people not getting it AND roslyn and co blowing things out of proportion in an effort to be taken seriously.
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You seem to hold a lot of anger towards bi women for...some reason. And those reasons seem like they could be described as "betrayal". Many such cases.
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‘sapphic’ ‘queer’ ‘wlw’ y’all remember how to spell the word lesbian only when it’s time to call us predators
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@eirianqueer This was first said about trans women.
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@bloomfilters I disagree. I think it's a perfect appropriate word to describe how both the christian right and random left elements punish sexual expression and "degeneracy" and -- wittingly or not -- further alienate people from their own bodies and pleasure.
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@MsUngovernable Ate a block for pointing this out:
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@MoiraDonegan I mean on the other hand, the feminists who are most anti choice feminism tend to also be huge swerfs and terfs, sooo....
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@cruelseason @MoiraDonegan Not what I said, but you do you.
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@projermamite You're acting like gay and lesbian aren't already umbrella terms. Put the calipers away.
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@cruelseason @MoiraDonegan Well when their activism is conspicuously absent of support for sex workers, then yeah, I tend to think that. Ya got me.
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@smoltittynerdgf I would argue that sapphic was the allegedly separate but equal term exclusionists tried to shunt bisexuals into while preserving the illusion of a unified lesbian culture, and now more recently exclus are trying to take even that away from us.
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@exiliaex Look that might be true for whatever niche spirituality you subscribe to, but for the majority of religious people their religion makes supernatural claims. Like congrats, you are the exception. I'm concerned with the people killing in the name of their god(s).
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