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🇬🇭 | 28 | virgo sun, taurus moon, libra rising | INFJ-T | ADHD |software engineer 🦛 |bubble tea and matcha stan account | sometimes I bake

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3 months
Men will randomly do this and say “ous ous ous” for each jab then act normal after
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3 months
who else does this? 😂
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@JeffKwakuM Sorry sorry 🚶🏾‍♀️
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@Svalentino101 All of you!!!
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3 years
I don’t know how many times I’ll say it, but sax in a song really does it for me #NS10v10
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3 years
Just had my hysteroscopy procedure done and that was one of the MOST painful things I’ve had to endure. I couldn’t stop crying and wasn’t given anaesthesia either. I hate how women’s reproductive health is handled. It’s not fair :/
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4 years
I need to shoot more friendship shots and make new friends because, yeah a lot of my friendships have changed which was hard to come to terms with. We’ve all grown and changed. #ThreeOh
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3 years
THIS IS MY SONGGGGGG #NS10v10
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2 years
Landed my first ever tech job as a Consultant (Software Engineer) at a company I really really wanted to work for! Words can’t express how happy I am because it’s been a loooong journey 🥺😭💗
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3 years
It’s funny though, when you return the same laid back energy they don’t like it. So they know it’s not a nice feeling, yet they still wanna benefit from the loved up version of you without giving much back emotionally
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3 years
Laid back and nonchalant are red flags for me!!
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3 years
Managed to get Wizkid tickets omg yes 😭🙏🏾
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4 years
@OfficialPLT @OfficialPLT this relationship between us is unhealthy and can’t keep going on. Every time I message you, you ignore me. You’re always talking to other girls in front of me. I think it’s time we break up. I’ll forgive you, if I win your give away, from the one that got away xxx
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This!!! When I was younger I would always say “there’s something wrong with me”. The psychiatrist who diagnosed me with ADHD (also has ADHD), watched a video of my 1st assessment & said straight away it’s clear that I have ADHD and this was before any further assessment from him.
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Self-diagnosis is a valid and often necessary avenue for many, particularly within marginalized communities like Black individuals, who face biases in healthcare. This is especially true for complex neurodevelopmental diagnosis like ADHD and autism. They dont see us.
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3 years
Felt cute, you know the rest x
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Had sooooo much fun yesterday 🥺💙 #BFFSUMMERDAYPARTY @BlackFemmeFilm
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3 months
Terrible vibes. Then you’ll come and cry and say “UK” (London girls) are bad vibes. I also didn’t know that air quality only affected one gender…
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Is there something wrong with the air quality in England why do so many uk girls breathe mad hard when they’re talking
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4 years
Felt cute for the first time in 721 years x
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3 years
blue is my favourite colour 🦋💙
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4 years
So when it comes to women wanting an abortion, suddenly everyone is pro-life? However, when it comes to the death penalty, suddenly that stance goes completely out the window? Does that make any sense at all??? #BrandonBernard
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Not to mention if they are ND. ADHD kicks my ass because object permanence, overwhelm, anxiety etc. People can be so unreasonable in friendships when it comes to communication. Saying this as a general point, not in comparison to relationships as you shouldn’t ditch your friends
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I don’t get upset at my friends for not checking in constantly, because I too am on the verge of sewer side pls😭
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When non-Londoners (women) do this, it’s so loaded and disingenuous. You can understand the issue w black women being stereotyped as “aggressive” and “rude” yet you do the same thing. No one talks about it but you have this convo every 3 business days, inviting insults & abuse
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no one talks about how rude girls from London are enough
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3 years
lucky charm🍀
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2 years
chubby cheeks 🐿
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The head Andrew gave Tasha has really changed her hasn’t it, she’s got a spring in her step looool #LoveIsland
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3 years
way 2 sexy x #26 🎈
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Infinity Mirror Room by Yayoi Kusama (the last pic is by a different artist )
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4 years
“If you count the legal votes I win” 😭 he’s so childish!!!
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4 years
Hello 25.
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🖤🖤🖤
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11:11 🦋
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3 years
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Why is Omar talking like this with Sean looool??? #loveIsland
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3 years
I agree with Azryah so much, I think more women would be willing to take part in casual sex, but men are so judgemental and will throw it back in your face. #threeoh
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3 years
@dean_deanhough @HysteroscopyA @Tylko Hey, I really appreciate this. Thank you so much! I’m glad this exists because more attention needs to be brought to how horrible the procedure is.
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3 years
@HysteroscopyA Thank you so much, I will definitely be joining and supporting! I’m looking forward to seeing the work you do surrounding this issue.
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3 years
@EllieDunstone I’m really sorry that you had to go through that. I agree! I was told that it was going to be a minor procedure and that taking paracetamol would be enough to manage any pain - not the case at all. It’s incredibly shocking that this is the standard in 2021. Thank you for sharing!
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The people who tend to question why people self-diagnose have no idea that individuals have been doing research for years to make sure they get the right diagnosis. It’s not something they wake up and tick off their to-do list for the day 😭
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3 years
It’s always under the guise of “not wanting to give constant reassurance” too, which I think is very disingenuous. There’s a difference between constant reassurance and complimenting someone when you know they look good.
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I understand not everybody is super expressive but you guys are doing too much with this love languages stuff. Someone wilfully withholding compliments to humble you and not gass up your head has issues they need to be resolving.
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Mmm I don’t like the idea that you learn how to be a good father through the mother. It places additional pressure and expectations on women which we don’t need esp as primary caregivers #ThreeOh
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Ewww Sean has that white thing in the corner of his mouth. How can you be asking for a kiss in that state?? 😷 #loveIsland
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4 years
When Might Guy opened the 8th gate of death against Madara. I actually screamed because it was so sick. He broke the bones in his legs, but still kept going 😭 also when Naruto arrives to fight Pain and he was on Gamakichi and Gamabunta!!
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What is your favourite anime moment? #AMPod For more Context Listen at 14:57 -
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Before #RECESSWeekender 💚 me 🤝 always eating!
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@Lesley_Faith @HysteroscopyA Thank you! And same here, I can’t believe that they’re aware of the pain it causes, but still choose to carry on in this way. I’m really sorry that you had to go through that! It’s something that I don’t think I’ll ever forget either because it was v traumatic
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Special Affair is my fave song on the album, makes me feel so sexy 😭 #TLPLive
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4 years
@ItsGhibli I’ve only watched this movie once. I don’t think I can watch it again because it’s way too sad.
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4 years
Finished the @CodeFirstGirls introduction into web development course today and also won the group project with my team. I loved the experience, learned so much and made some lovely friends. I’m so grateful and happy 🥺
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3 years
Really love these spaces, super funny and informative! 💕 #DateMyMBTI
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4 years
Can’t believe I didn’t get to hear True Love in the club 🙂 #NSXmas
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@Shomicita Generally speaking pregnancy is a risky process whether your pregnancy was easy or not, there’s still risk involved to both the mother and child - the risk is minimised due to modern medicine and technological advancements. I feel like people are just being obtuse
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4 years
I think just because you want something doesn’t necessarily mean you deserve it. I think it’s something we say to make ourselves feel better. However, to actively tell someone “you don’t deserve xyz” is horrible #areyoudeserving
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What in the Nollywood??? #Doyouhavehoil
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Wow, really been a software engineer for a whole year today now, proud of me 🥹😭
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@Fender Transition smoothly between the G and C chord and also stop leaving months between practice/teaching myself 😭
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Yes! Being more graceful towards people is something I learnt this year as well. A lot of the time we’re very caught up in our own problems/can’t see past how we feel and then we often project those feelings onto others. #ThreeOh
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@dean_deanhough @HysteroscopyA @Tylko @lynbrownmp I definitely agree and it’s such a shame that even though it’s been brought up in parliament no changes have been made. I really hope we see some action soon because I don’t want women going through that
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Also, the individual in question seeking the diagnosis knows themselves the best, so it isn’t up to any other non-qualified person to question the validity of their self-diagnosis. Esp as qualified professionals can get it wrong (this was my experience with my first assessment)
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@EllieDunstone Seriously?! That’s so horrible, especially if they themselves haven’t had the procedure done :/ it should be standard procedure to ask if you want anaesthesia beforehand. Yeah! I was alone for mine too which I hated cos I was crying loads, I’m feeling much better now, thank u 💕
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Sorry she just rapped and we are carrying on as normal??? LOOOOL #JennyBarbie
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Never. I’d be shocked if someone got offended. What’s there to be offended about? 😭…
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Do u get offended if someone ask u to take off ur shoes before entering their home?
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@cheesyredrocket I’m considering doing that! I wasn’t offered any anaesthesia, but they asked if I wanted to stop the procedure and reschedule it for another time where I’d be sedated, but unfortunately they couldn’t offer that at the time of the procedure :/
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I don’t think it’s underrated and I don’t think that the Gon vs Pitou fight overshadowed Netero vs Meruem. Netero had to use a bomb just to defeat Meruem and even then he still came back to life. I think most of the hype around Gon v Pitou is seeing Gon’s transformation
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Is the Netero vs Mereum Fight Underrated? #AMPod
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Also we have way too much access to people. Twitter, Instagram, TikTok, WhatsApp, iMessage. You’re messaging me and sending me stuff on all of these, so are my other friends (you’re lucky if all your friends are part of a gc), my family. Then I also have work messages… 😭PLEASE
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UK men love doing American accents but they’re so shit at it omg looool #Doyouhavehoil
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When it comes to sex, it’s so important to ask about getting tested for your own health and safety. It’s awkward but if that scares them off then✌🏾 #ThreeOh
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Lots of DS women haven’t forgiven or forgotten what Maya said, it gets brought up. She’s just not going on a podcast and complaining that people aren’t forgiving her. Also whenever this guy “aplogises” there’s always a ‘but’
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Genuine Question? I have my own thoughts about this ....but....Why are we “not allowed” to forgive @MrExposed about his tweets from 8 years but we’ve all forgotten about Maya Jama’s? and she was even given a safe place to discuss it too. Sounds like misandry to me.
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Stand up and walk. Keep moving forward. You've got two good legs. So get up and use them. You're strong enough to make your own path. - Ed Elric
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"How can I be Hokage if I cant even save a friend" #AMPod
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Loool I’m acc so dumb, the Break into Tech webinar was the first time I used Zoom, so I didn’t cough for like 2 hours cos I thought everyone on the webinar would hear me. Sigh... #covermycv
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3 years
Also, you guys should organise an event with the community you’ve built up, I think that would be lovely (if possible)
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3 years
🚨NEW EPISODE OF THE PODCAST - IS OUT NOW, SUBSCRIBE, RETWEET and SHARE! - Available on All Platforms, Links Below Tweet! Question: What is your favourite Anime?
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Really happy @yeahshewrites made the ‘setting boundaries with your parents’ chat on clubhouse. The way I can relate to what’s being said. Esp as the eldest daughter in an African household! Whewwww 😩
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I can’t believe this dressing up for a concert discussion has lasted this long 😭 dress up, don’t dress up? Just do what you want, omg. Why do you care what other people are doing??? Why is this a debate??? I’m so confused???😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 ???¿¿¿
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I love the boob analogy 😂 #LonelySpace
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Charlie is too silly looool #Doyouhavehoil
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Nah Ghanaians love funerals too much. Any excuse to have a funeral and they will do it 😭
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These north London GH people are different 😂😂😂😂😂
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@Lesley_Faith @HysteroscopyA Omg no way?! I couldn’t imagine doing it more than once. If I’d known it would be that bad, I wouldn’t have done it at all. I’m so sorry you had to endure that. No empathy is given & we’re expected to just get on with it which isn’t right at all👎🏾 pain relief should be standard
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3 years
How can your boyfriend catfish you??? #talkswithAsh
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Not Paige telling the blacks to leave :O #LoveIsland
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4 years
Used CSS to add a hover effect on the pictures and to add a typewriter effect on the heading tag “Say their names”. Added a contact form with boxes that light up when clicked. Nav bar changes colour on hover. #coding #codingnewbie #100daysofcode #codingisfun
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3 years
How did Recess tickets sell out so quickly??? The price jump as well 😭
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I love successful/cute dating stories. I love romance...inject it into my veins🥺 #ThreeOh
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50/50 because you’re friends so naturally there will be a degree of openness, but also everyone is entitled to their privacy. I think it’s more weird when they want you to tell them everything going on in your life but aren’t willing to be open in the same way.
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guys your friend being secretive while you are open to them about your life is weird right ?
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What’s Dami’s problem? Why’s he being so hostile :/ #LoveIsland
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3 years
Not a swirl summit 😭
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hmm! 🤔
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Not really, Rwandan genocide and Srebrenican massacre for example (biggest failures). They were meant to “peace keep” but essentially stood by and did nothing. Countries don’t want to give up their sovereignty and be told what to do - they know there isn’t any punishment
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Sorry does the UN not have any kind of power AT ALL?
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Women stop settling!!!! #JennyBarbie
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Something I complain about daily. It makes me so mad. Councils need do be more strict with fining people who don’t pick up after their dogs
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There is a dog poo crisis in London right now. It’s like people have collectively decided to stop clearing up after their dogs?
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!!!!!!!!!!! It’s so bad in tech. Hiring juniors, not training or supporting them, but expecting them to perform at intermediate/senior level -_-
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What happened to companies who wanted to actually help their employees progress and upskill. Everyone expects you to have 25 years experience for peanuts and they don’t wanna teach you shit anymore
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The feedback that I got from my project team was so nice I want to cry 😭 they’re so patient, supportive and kind 🥺
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3 years
Put some respect on FMAB please!! The themes it explores (wide range), plot, characters, arcs, comedy and soundtrack are executed really well. The dubbing is also v good. Fighting scenes, although nice to watch, don’t necessarily make an anime great.
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3 years
Full Metal Alchemist Brotherhood Rating #AMPod For More Context Listen at 20:41-
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But it literally says it in the tweet that she wanted flowers though :(
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PinkPantheress tickets went on sale at 9am, and at 9am there were sold out. Everything happened in 3 seconds 😭
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3 years
Tough time never last, only tough people last- RUHLUBILUBJGLHLYLULUBULUBGH😋😜🤪😝😋😛😜🤪😝😋🤪
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Being sociable/connecting with people on here is scary to me loool 😭 but I’m gonna make more of an effort #LonelySpace
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Home page with JavaScript, a sign up section and social media icons with clickable links which redirect you to the black lives matter social media pages. I used a “target blank” element so that the links opened on a new tab #coding #codingisfun #codingnewbie #100daysofcode
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I won’t lie, I didn’t understand what was going on in the episode until I read up on it after, but I enjoyed it. My mouth dropped when the eldians/titans jumped out the plane and I find Gabi such a sick character. I didn’t like the cgi on the armoured titan though.
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AOT season 4 episode 1 - What Were Your Thouhghts? 🤔 #AMPod For more context listen -
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@ZorayaBlack_ I’m an earth Venus and I keep attracting earth Venus men and it’s weird cos I’ve been finding them annoying/there’s never any longevity 😭 in friendships I attract mainly fire Venus’ and my friendships last such a long time
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Loooool I got so scared
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“directed by Jordan Peele”
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The American rappers are taking it too seriously, you’re not getting signed pls 😭😭😭😭 #UKRAPBATTLES
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