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My beautiful wife has Borderline Personality Disorder #BPD ; hoping to help spouses going through the same thing I am. (Don't mean to offend w/use of word non.)

Joined March 2014

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nonBPDspouse

4 years

It's interesting....when I called my wife out for talking negatively behind my back to her "friends"....first it was, "I never did that!" Then it turned into, "That's just what women do!" Now it's, "I dont do that anymore!" Gotta take that for her word, right?

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4 years

If you have BPD do you sleep with a stuffed animal?

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3 years

If you have BPD do you get headaches a lot?

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4 years

Question for those with bpd, do you find yourself staring into space with a blank look .....a lot?

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4 years

Question if you have bpd......do you feel tired often? Like sleep a lot, and even nap during the day?

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If you have BPD do you overshare at times?

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4 years

If you have BPD do you remember more (and bring up) the negative in your life, and barely talk about nor remember the positive things?

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3 years

It usually comes down to the childhood #BPD

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7 years

My wife. Daily. (Also include multiple raging texts, voicemails, and emails in the mix.) @RespectYourself #BPD #mentalhealth #mentalillness #EUPD #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #apologies

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3 years

If you have BPD do you sometimes just zone out and stare into space?

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1 year

If you have BPD, do you have memory issues?

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4 years

If you have bpd, do you find it hard to get in a routine?

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8 years

Mental illness is not a choice. But recovery is. #BPD #mentalillness @RespectYourself

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4 years

Anyone who openly talks about their bpd has my instant respect If you don't/cant/won't for whatever reason....you are not alone

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4 years

does bpd make you forgetful?

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4 years

why is it that some people will hurt you and then act like you hurt them?

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4 years

Not trying to stereotype anyone but I'm curious....... if you suffer from bpd do you feel like you complain a lot?

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2 years

If you have BPD, was your mom critical of you at all growing up?

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3 years

I may have asked this before but if you have BPD do you find yourself starting a project but not finishing it?

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2 years

If you have BPD do you tend to overshare?

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4 years

the honesty by so many people who suffer from bpd just takes my breath away. I know it doesnt take away the suffering, but I wish you all knew how important and valuable your honesty is. It keeps you open, & talking, & growing. ITS EVERYTHING

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3 years

If you have BPD and received an official diagnosis, we're you surprised when you heard the diagnosis?

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8 years

The way we talk to our children becomes their inner voice. @RespectYourself #BPD #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #verbalchildabuse

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5 months

if you have BPD would you describe your personality as "intense"?

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8 years

Face the truth. You will be better off in the long run. @RespectYourself #BPD #childtrauma

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3 years

If you have BPD, how did you feel when you received your diagnosis? Happy? Angry? Defiant? Relieved? Something else?

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nonBPDspouse

3 years

If you have BPD do you find yourself watching a lot of TV? (Be honest)

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3 years

If you have bpd, did you have a mom that made negative, or hurtful comments, about your weight, or how you looked in clothes, when you were growing up?

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3 years

If you have bpd, do you talk about your physical health to others, but never your mental health?

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3 years

If you have BPD (and have an actual diagnosis) did you have another "professional" (excuse my sarcasm) try and talk you out believing you have it?

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5 months

If you have BPD how many days in a month on average are you genuinely "happy"?

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nonBPDspouse

3 years

From everyone I talk with, and everything I read, it sure seems like weed can really help one's BPD

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8 years

It's ok to be angry. It's never ok to be cruel. @RespectYourself #BPD #mentalhealth #mentalillness

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3 years

If you have BPD does it make you want to do absolutely nothing, or, do everything you can squeeze in a day? Meaning, there's no happy medium?

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7 months

everyone with BPD keeps telling me how forgetful they are ------losing stuff, forgetting to do things, not remembering where they put things, forgetting dates, etc etc etc do others experience the same?

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1 year

I talk with so many people with bpd who are self aware, yet they don't really have a grasp on "who" they are Can you explain???

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3 years

If you have bpd, do you complain of physical health stuff a lot? Like a headache? Stomach hurts? Back pain? Tired? Cold, feeling stuffy? You're hot, then you're cold? Pain in your knees and/or feet? You're itchy? Arm hurts? Just your body aches?

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6 years

Verbal abuse is domestic violence. Stop pushing this under the rug. It happens all the time, to women, and YES, men too. #verbalabuse #domesticviolence #AbuseIsAbuse @RespectYourself

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2 years

If you have bpd, and you rage at your partner, do you spam them with texts or emails?

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nonBPDspouse

3 years

If you have BPD do you find yourself putting a negative filter on things more often than you should?

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nonBPDspouse

3 years

If you have BPD, were you emotionally neglected (even at times) by one, or both parents when you were growing up?

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nonBPDspouse

6 years

Such terrible stigma out there that still exists. A horrible shame. Such hurtful words are keeping good people from accepting their bpd diagnosis. Instead, say one nice thing about someone you know who is suffering from #mentalillness . @RespectYourself

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4 years

If you have bpd, what's your biggest insecurity?

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nonBPDspouse

7 years

The only thing more exhausting than having a mental illness is pretending like you don't. @RespectYourself #BPD #eatingdisorder #bulimia #PTSD #EUPD #AvPD #mentalillness #mentalhealth #KeepTalkingMH #acceptance

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29 days

bpd is so unfair because trauma isnt your fault but its your responsibility to heal

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4 years

Interesting. Just had someone say, "Denying bpd is a standard part of the bpd condition. All BPDs do this." No, "all BPDs" do not do this. In fact, a high % of them Ive spoken w/readily accept their diagnosis. Ive found few are like my wife who vehemently deny truth & reality.

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4 months

If you have BPD do you struggle with body image?

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3 years

If you have BPD do you proactively talk with your SO or any close loved ones (after the fact) about a rage/episode with the goal of helping you progress and improve yourself?

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2 years

Regulating emotions. Maybe the hardest part of bpd, at least from what i see If not, what's the hardest?

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4 years

If you have BPD, what is it about staying up late? (Is anyone actually an early riser?)

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2 years

If you have BPD has "fake it till you make it" EVER worked for you?

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nonBPDspouse

2 years

Well people heres your chance Instead of losing it over the amber herd stuff, its ur chance to start talking about bpd. Use this 2 ur advantage. Shed light on whats its like for YOU. Lets be rational, cool, calm. Talk, talk, talk & open up about it. BPD is different for everyone

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3 years

The strength among so many of you is impressive.....legendary. you should feel so proud for fighting BPD every day, hour, minute. Especially when it isn't even your fault for having it

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nonBPDspouse

8 years

I opened two gifts this morning. They were my eyes. @RespectYourself

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2 years

There's no shame in having borderline personality disorder

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2 years

You have BPD, and you rage at someone...... how long before you calm down? Is it seconds? Minutes? Hours? Days? Weeks?

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4 years

It seems like having a routine would go a very long way for those who have bpd. True?

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8 years

Are you hiding your past way deep down inside you? #BPD @RespectYourself @EatWhatYouLove #DBT #mindfulness

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3 years

Not trying to be funny here....if BPD were weather, how would you describe it? Mostly sunny? Rain? Fog?

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nonBPDspouse

2 years

So many people following me, who have BPD, are wonderful people. Sweet, caring, kind people. Just like anyone else. It's the Amber's of the world who give it a bad name because they either deny their illness or they won't seek expert help

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If you have BPD is your birthday a hard day for you? I've heard from many that they struggle on their birthday.

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4 years

How is it that so many of you who suffer from bpd are so incredibly honest?! Im constantly at a loss of words Youre so much farther along than you realize

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3 years

If you have BPD, where are you on the scale between hypersexual, and zero sex drive?

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9 years

Admitting you have #depression or #BPD is the first vital step. @RespectYourself @depressionarmy #mentalhealth

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8 years

Every women who heals herself help all the women who came before & after her. @RespectYourself #BPD #PayItForward

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8 years

Leave your past in the #past . Live now. #acceptance #BPD @RespectYourself

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6 years

Some people will hurt you and then act like you hurt them. @RespectYourself

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8 years

Eating disorders are serious mental illnesses, not lifestyle choices. @RespectYourself #BPD #eatingdisorder @ddlovato

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4 years

Did you know BPD and eating disorders are soooooo common?

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nonBPDspouse

2 years

So many of you are incredibly inspiring. You keep fighting every day,pushing, clawing, digging deeper over something that's not even your fault. If you're reading this you're likely one of them. You better believe I'd go to battle with you 💪

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4 years

SO MANY OF YOU ARE SO HONEST about your bpd Amazing

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4 years

If you have BPD do you find yourself being critical of people, things.......even those closest to you?

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2 years

I just can't wrap my head around understanding someone who refuses to apologize

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4 years

Ive seen this so much so its no surprise but its gotta be so hard mentally when she'll sit for days and do nothing....just play apps and watch tv. Then finally an outburst of cleaning, laundry for like 8 hours straight. There's hardly ever regularity or consistency in her life

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If you have BPD do you "lie by omission" by leaving out stuff? Maybe explaining something that happened and not giving the full story so you "don't look as bad" to the therapist?

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7 years

The only thing more exhausting than having a mental illness is pretending like you don't. @RespectYourself #BPD #mentalillness

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2 years

If you have BPD did your parents kinda leave you alone to basically raise yourself? Not that they were bad parents, they just went out a lot, hung with neighbors, worked a lot, etc?

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2 years

If you have BPD how good (or bad) are you at taking blame or accepting fault or admitting you screwed up?

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8 years

Agree @RespectYourself

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8 years

3 ways to fail at everything in life. @RespectYourself #BPD

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7 years

The only thing more exhausting than having a mental illness is pretending like you don't. @RespectYourself #BPD #depression #mentalillness #recovery #TimeToTalk #MentalHealthAwareness #mentalhealthmatters

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8 years

Anxiety and depression @RespectYourself #BPD #anxiety #depression

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2 years

Someone who uses your anger against you when your anger is justified due to their bad behavior is a person who is manipulative to their core @RespectYourself

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8 years

A salute to those who accept their #mentalillness and continue to fight it every single minute of their lives. @RespectYourself #BPD

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2 years

If you have bpd, do you find it hard to do dishes, laundry and cleaning around the house? Or do you not notice really what needs done?

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6 years

Stay away from people who can't take responsibility for their actions & who make you feel bad for being angry at them when they do you wrong. @RespectYourself

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nonBPDspouse

6 years

Just because a person doesn't put hands on you, that doesn't mean they aren't abusive. Abuse is control, blatant disrespect, and also hurtful words. @RespectYourself #mentalillness #childhoodtrauma #Trauma #abuse #AbuseIsAbuse #verbalabuse #NOTokay #NotOK #BellLetsTalk

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8 years

Hasn't solved one thing in our home either. #hate #MayaAngelou @RespectYourself

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4 years

If you have BPD how much sleep do you get on average each night, AND, do you nap during the day?

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2 years

How can bpd narrative change when about 8 of 10 bpd-related accounts say stuff like messed up, lost soul, baddie, loser, insane, pyscho, b*tch, f-ed up. Just sayin

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6 months

If you have BPD do you have a hard time taking a compliment?

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nonBPDspouse

6 years

Due to our chaotic childhood filled with trauma abuse and neglect we missed many developmental milestones hence it is so difficult for us now in adult life to regulate our emotions. @RespectYourself

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2 years

Im no expert but it seems to me that those who handle their BPD better than most, are the ones who dont look to point the finger, or blame others, or make excuses, or blame their spouse They start their day & face the world head on. Doesnt mean they dont get angry or frustrated

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nonBPDspouse

2 years

If you have bpd, and you're reading this....you're doing great. You really are. Now read that again and let it sink in

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2 years

If you have BPD, did you feel the need to be perfect when growing up? Like, you didn't want to let your parents down?

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nonBPDspouse

3 years

So many of you with BPD are doing great, way better than you realize. I know this is easier said than done, but try to take it one week, one day, one hour, literally one minute at a time. Stay in the moment as best as humanly possible. YOU ARE NOT ALONE

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8 years

Nobody makes you angry, you decide to use anger as a response. @RespectYourself #choices

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8 years

I know it first hand.....it is truly a waste of time. @RespectYourself #BPD #NPD #lying

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2 years

@amberheardfired @warnerbros Amazing If this was a male, he'd been dropped even before the verdict

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4 years

If you have BPD is it harder to get out of bed in the morning, OR actually sleep at night? 😴😴😴

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