In my 20s, the best lesson I ever learnt was that life will go on. People come and go, we lose friends, break up with lovers, meet new people, encounter success and failure and life will go on. You will be alright.
If you have the luxury of having parents who can assist you financially, with cars, bills, building a house, take advantage of that. Life is rough out here.
@__Shezi
This will sound silly. But he is the quintessential mans man. Tall, athletic, sports star, winner and then add in the family aspect as well. He seems easy going and calm. Doesn’t let his success get to his head
I know a lady who was weeded from Poly... she ended up at MCA, became a chartered accountant and is a deputy head of dept at one of the banks.
Who got the last laugh there? 💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾
I cant find the actual tweet but basically someone said men dont confront violence against women because they benefit off it. They get to be labelled the good guy for doing the bare minimum compared to abusers(paraphrase).
This reeks of that type of mentality.
I said once and I am going to say it again... successful people dont give you the full scope of how they actually got to where they are. Nobody tells you about the backdoor deals or shady transactions. Its all work hard, be determined, wake up at 5 generic bullshit.
With all the effort that goes into chinkhoswes, dont see why you should have a white wedding. Like lets just bring a pastor to these things to make it official and go home.
@steveamaza
@DoreenGLM
@FlawlessMilo
Where is the double standard here? Men will still want to treated as King of the castle even if all they do is sit at home. Women on the other hand will work tirelessly even when at home. Cooking,cleaning,taking care of the breadwinner and kids...which part are you missing Sir???
Everytime women twerk, people want to produce thinkpieces about respectability. You can be a non twerking, God fearing ,wearing ankle length dresses with multiple degrees and men will still find a way to disrespect you. Be yourself and free yourself from bondage
Ladies in relationships/marriages
I need y’all to stop trying to convince your single friends to give that nigga they clearly dont like a chance just so they can have somebody. Its annoying.
🤗🤗🤗🤗 let me do a thread for “lazy” naturals. How to grow your hair when you are not a hair person but still want some inches and healthy hair. Catch me at 10pm.
MW ladies,
I want to start a chat. Investments. Where are you guys investing, how much, how long and whats the return like?
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