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The Official community for the Female Led Relationship (FLR). Marisa Rudder, Best-Selling Author of 16 Books. Love and Obey Movement.

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Marisa Rudder
6 years
Guys, going down on your queen is a healthy form of female worship and good for you. This practice achieves longevity and vitality. You should embrace a "kind of glorified male vampirism." The female has three precious juices; the mouth, the breasts, and the most powerful vagina
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Marisa Rudder
11 months
@loveandobeybook How can you have the best FLR? When couples have a problem fully accepting female led life, it is time to reprogram Patriarchal thinking by leveraging the brain's plasticity and the power of language. It's time to engage the subconscious mind, influencing gender
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook men worship women as their Goddesses and that loving, obeying and serving them is what makes a man a real man. Selfish, scared boys who can not commit to the service of women are not worthy to be called men. Join the Love & Obey movement and find your Goddess.
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
What do you think of before and after female led relationships?
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Marisa Rudder
4 years
The Love & Obey lifestyle is entered into with an awareness of what the woman desires and wants. Your life is practiced with constant Female Awareness, and you connect to Cosmic Female Energy and achieve enlightenment about Female Superiority. #love #women #happy #lingerie
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
Once a man looses his male ego, he can really start to have fun. Learn how to Love & Obey a woman and serve her in and out of bed and you will be on your way to paradise on earth. Experience a happiness and bliss that will create a real ecstasy for you from serving your woman.
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Marisa Rudder
11 months
@loveandobeybook HAPPY LOCKTOBER! This is a time to celebrate the rise of female led marriage and relationships. This is a time to celebrate female supremacy and the amazing power of the Queens! It is time to celebrate male obedience to their female authority!
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
Sexual domination releases a woman’s inner dominatrix and her inner female strength turns her on. Dominance and submission, in essence, create a beautiful loop of pleasure and mutual satisfaction. He will be a better man thanks to your female leadership and discipline.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
Obey the woman that has the rule over you, and submit yourself to her. She now has loving authority. You must love, obey and serve her with joy, and not with grief. Your service will be rewarded with a love that will profit you in your life. Join the Love and Obey movement.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook C'mon who can resist a really hot Alpha woman. The truth is that Love & Obey Alpha Women will bring men to their knees. The men who choose to be with them will do everything they can to take care of them spiritually, emotionally and sexually.
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
Gentlemen, how many times a week do you perform oral sex on your female leader? In COMMENTS please put a number from 0-7. Ladies, please review and indicate what you think of the number. I want to get an idea of how many men need to be making a New Years Resolution!
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook women are female supremacists. This was sent to me by one of my followers and I wanted to share it. It gets to the heart of the matter. #thefutureisfemale
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook Ladies, if you want real happiness, find a man who worships you. Find a man who celebrates you - not tolerates you! Be the goddess men worship. There is no reason not to enjoy the Goddess Rising Movement at Love & Obey.
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Marisa Rudder
11 months
@loveandobeybook One of the biggest changes in FLR is that men no longer boast that they "crushed, destroyed or murdered" that pussy last night. Instead they are proud that they gave their Queen multiple orgasms and fully satisfied her. This is a paradigm shift in lifestyle focus
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Marisa Rudder
4 years
@loveandobeybook Discipline is a key component to achieving loving female leadership and happy male submission in a female led lifestyle. A man will never find true happiness until he finds a Queen. #love #romance #femalepower #girlpower #sexy #wonderwoman #chastity #lesbian
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
So many men write to me and express their eagerness to start a Love & Obey female led relationship. They say it is difficult to find a female to lead them. Ladies show you are leaders and seek out gentlemen who are ready to love, obey and serve you. We need to all come out!
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Marisa Rudder
11 months
@loveandobeybook What is transformational discipline and erotic spanking? Why are these kinks so appealing to so many couples. Although couples have diverse sexual preferences erotic spanking and transfomational disicipline are popular fantasies and FLR experiences. #Love
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook The Love & Obey movement has been evolving and growing. It is time now to enter the Love & Obey Goddess Movement stage. Men must learn to worship women as their Goddesses and that loving, obeying and serving them is what makes a man a real man.
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
It’s really simple to understand the female led relationship | love and obey movement- the woman is in charge and the men follow their lead. That’s it!
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
In a female led relationship you must also train him that he always puts your pleasure first. You come first and you must control his orgasms. Once those rules are in place, he will be under your control and you can move forward. It's all explained in my Love & Obey Book.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
It’s really wonderful to see that more and more men are now supporting the female led movement. Men are accepting that women should lead in all areas of life- business, education, politics and RELATIONSHIPS! Men are now following women into the future. Join the Rebellion!
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
The difference between a Love & Obey relationship and traditional FLR. Is the difference between leadership and domination. Women have loving authority over men and lead them. We still allow men to be themselves in every “alpha, sports, action film way” that they want.
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
This all sounds very interesting. It's a new film, A Simple Favor, shows a new side of Blake Lively It seems to show her power stance and her power suit in a dominating position with a man @loveandobeybook @blakelively
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
The Days of Man Bullying Are Over !!! Stand Your Ground and Let Him Know Who's Really In Charge. #Femaleledrelationship #loveandobey
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook Domination is not so much about what you are doing, as how you take charge when you do it. Once you acts like you are in charge, and once he submits, you achieve dominance. Demonstrate your power over him with little things and work your way up to everything.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
My top reasons why a woman should led your relationship. The relationship works better. Communication is better. Arguing is much lower. Female leadership is good for everybody and the female perspective is desirable, from all fronts. They're Better problem solvers. Love & Obey.
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
Shout out to all the amazing men who treat their women like Queens, listening to their words, obeying their desires and taking action. Join the Love & Obey female led relationship movement.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook Here's something on the lighter side of FLR to end the week. Now go out and have a few laughs and enjoy the weekend. Live, Love & Obey forever!
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
It’s really wonderful to see that more women are now supporting the female led movement and taking it to the suburbs. Men are accepting that women should lead in all areas of life- business, education, politics and MARRIAGES! Men are now following women into the future. Join us!
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
There is nothing better for a man than to find his superior female and to give her authority over him. He will find his bliss in worshipping her as a goddess, serving her as his Queen and obeying her as his mistress. It is the trifecta of love and both the man and the woman win!
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook Equality is not the end of the story for women. A great Greek philosopher recognized centuries ago that once women get equal rights, they will rise to rule. Females just have a natural superiority and ability to lead better than men. #relationshipcoach
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
In Female Led relationships the women controls the man's sex life. Once this is accomplished she will get what she wants. When a man's sexual satisfaction is reliant upon obedience to his Female Leader he will communicate and become attentive, romantic and appreciative of Her.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
Female Led Relationships (FLR) are often misunderstood, but are more common than you might think. In this type of relationship, the woman is the dominant partner and her partner is willing to love, obey and serve her as his loving female authority figure. Join Love & Obey today.
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Marisa Rudder
11 months
@loveandobeybook FLR or female led relationships are real and here to stay. Why don't women realize how many men secretly crave to live in an FLR? Why do FLR power dynamics electrify the bedroom? Why are thousands of couples worldwide transitioning to FLR every day?  #Love
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
How do most women handle the public aspects of a Wife Led Marriage or Female Led Relationship? Most marriages and relationships that would not use these term are in fact female led. It's time for women and men to take pride and announce publicly when they are in an FLR or WLM.
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Marisa Rudder
10 months
@loveandobeybook Are you a woman who always wanted to be with a man who wouldn't try to control you? A man who recognized that you are beautiful, intelligent and strong and capable of managing your life? Are you a woman who never thought you could find a man who would truly put
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
A female led relationship starts with the woman being pampered and enjoying the couple's focus being on Her happiness. Female leaders control their man’s life, including money, the couple's life goals, daily activities and the sex life. Now their life is focused on Her pleasure.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
FLR starts when a Man asks a woman to lead in a few certain ways and she hesitantly agrees. After a few months, the Woman sees the benefits from the arrangement and takes the lead in everyday life, but usually sets boundaries on how far she will go.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook women who do decide to add cuckolding or another lover to their FLR marriage, it's important to take things slow. The reality of watching your spouse have sex with someone else or knowing they're doing it, if you're not there is often different than the fantasy.
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
Many men have forgotten the art of being a gentleman. They have forgotten about chivalry and treating a woman like a Queen. Join the Love and Obey movement!
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
This is not a game. Love & Obey women have great power. We expect more and give more than most women. Our Complete control over a man is real and comes with responsibility. So we will not invest too much time until we know the man agrees with our female led way of life. Join us!
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
@loveandobeybook As women evolve into the authority figures the men primarily cook, clean and do housework. The dynamic changes in a Love & Obey relationship - the woman leads and the man becomes 100% obedient, following the female leader's commands and serving Her desires. Join!
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Marisa Rudder
2 years
@loveandobeybook Why are couples so much happier when Queens rule their homes? Why do couples tell me they feel like they have reached "Female Led Relationship NIRVANA." How do couples get there? #Love #Romance #Sexy #Lgbtqia #Girl #Girls #Women #Hotwife #Bdsm #Kink #Chastity
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
Everyday for the next 10 days I will post one commandment that men must read and agree to each one, if they want to become subjects in my Queendom and followers of the Love & Obey movement.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
Super Bowl LIV will be the most-watched television show in the US in 2020 with about 100 million viewers. Sunday’s game between the Kansas City Chiefs and San Francisco 49ers was exciting. But what I found interesting was the presence of female led lifestyle messages and images.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook Men should be of use to their dominant female, wait on her, cater to her, obey her every command, be totally subservient to her, exist in perfect obedience to her will. The new alpha women are the dominant humans. We are your Queens. Join Us.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
After reading the Love & Obey book, they learned that men leading was just not modern or effective in making us happy. Join the women in the Love & Obey rebellion!
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook If all women demand it, we will get it. Stand together ladies and demand Love, Obedience and Service. If we withhold our gifts, charms and love, men will follow us. If we demand to lead, men will follow. Step up ladies. Now is the time. Join Love and Obey.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
Love & Obey and Real Men Worship Women are the definitive Rule Books that define a LOVING Female Led Relationship. Ladies, you're gonna take charge and thrive in a Love & Obey lifestyle. Gentleman, you're going to discover the joy of submitting to your loving female authority.
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
She can be a rather strict mistress but it’s best if you don’t ask too many questions and just enjoy the adventure of a female led relationship. Join the love and obey movement.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook LOVE & OBEY Women all look different. They all have different styles. They all have different men who find them beautiful and exciting. Variety truly is the spice of life. So find the woman that is right for you and let her rule your world Join Love and Obey!
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook The love of obedience. The romance of obedience. The obedient male should worship the female. Men should take on the very nature of a servant…be humbled before your women and become obedient to death. Love is submission. Love, Obey and serve your wives.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
Support female empowerment and learn how to serve women and experience the power of a female led world. The future is female! #relationshipcoach #relationshipadvice #relationshipexpert #relationshipbook #relationshipquotes #relationshipgoals #chastity #dominatrix #FLR #mistress
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook Gentlemen, always make sure your ladies are satisfied first before you worry about your own pleasure. There is nothing more important than keeping your women satisfied in every way, including sexually. Stop being selfish and thinking of your own pleasure.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook men naturally desire to serve a woman. It brings them meaning and a sense of accomplishment when they please a woman. Ladies it is our responsibility to teach men how to love obey and serve us, so they can have purpose and find fulfillment in their lives.
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook an alpha male doesn't have to dominate a woman. He doesn't have to match his strength against a woman. He needs to use his strength and talent against the world for their benefit as a couple. Join the Love & Obey movement and start living a dream relationship.
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
What does “the strongest” mean in the modern world? In the past, it might have been related to physical strength, but those days are long gone. Today, power means dominant energy — mental, emotional, and sexual. In all those areas, women are superior to men, act accordingly
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
@lovendobeybook A dominant love and obey girlfriend is not wishy-washy. She knows what she wants. She has goals and dreams and is determined to make them come true. She loves life, she loves her career, she basically just has a lot of passion and energy. She’s not boring!
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Marisa Rudder
5 years
@loveandobeybook today's women are more physically aggressive and psychologically dominating with their partners than men. Psychologists claim that today's women are more likely than men to be controlling and aggressive. Find out how both partners can be happy read Love & Obey.
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Marisa Rudder
6 years
Everyday for the next 10 days I will post one commandment. Here is the third commandment that men must read and agree to, if they want to become subjects in my Queendom and followers of the Love & Obey movement.
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Marisa Rudder
1 year
@loveandobeybook Femdom, short for female dominance, is a form of consensual adult role-play and/or a lifestyle where power dynamics are explored. Femdom supporters know that it allows couples to explore fantasies, boost intimacy and enhances any FLR. #love #romance #sexy
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