okay besties, here's the chinese GL rec doc. i'll continuously update it whenever i have time and add new novels, but it's basically done. lemme know if u need any help
Sooo interesting how whenever you see videos like this or videos of men abusing womyn or getting into fights with womyn, the male bystanders just watch and don't do shit but we're supposed to believe men are "protectors of womyn"
The fact everyone is joking about this when all but one of the victims were young womyn & literal teen girls who he raped before killing is an extremely gross example of how femicide is so normalized that no one even takes it seriously
27-year old Takahiro Shiraishi was arrested in October of 2017 after police found nine dismembered bodies in his apartment in Tokyo.
He would often respond to suicidal tweets on twitter posted by other users by saying things like: "Let's die together."
Takahiro would then
And she didn't lie one bit. Yes YOUR Korean male idols are also the same, or did we forget the Nth room case already or how deeply anti-feminist that nation is or how bad the spycam epidemic is or any of the other extremely misogynistic events happening in that nation
Over 250K likes on this TikTok where a Korean woman generalizes all Korean men as sexist, rapists, racists and homophobes. This level of throwing your race under the bus for clout is just insane.
This is really funny because there's a whole incel movement where the men are suic1dal and want to destroy everything because womyn don't want them. Men have always loved projecting their feelings onto womyn and pretending their flaws are womyn's flaws
Oh this actually sounds really interesting. This concept is basically a girl truly becoming cognizant of the discrimination she's destined to face for her sex. This usually happens once she hits puberty and starts being sexualized.
Greta Gerwig’s ‘BARBIE’ is inspired by the journey girls go through once they hit adolescence: “They’re funny and brash and confident, and then they just—stop. All of a sudden, she thinks, ‘Oh, I’m not good enough’.”
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i've said this before but the nature of male vs female socialization makes it impossible for statements to be made about "natural female behavior" because womyn are socialized to be as far away from any natural instincts as possible while men are socialized to embrace it
I sometimes think about how gross and unnatural the patriarchy is because look at female/male dynamics in animals and see how much more often it is that the females hold more power over the males. Humans are a rare exception and that should be a sign that you've been duped
Some of the jokes that are being made about her and her situation (green card, mail order bride etc) are actually so fucked up. You do not know anything about how arranged marriages work and how much pain & poverty & desperation you have to be in to consider it
If males weren't parasites then explain how married men live longer than single men while its the opposite with womyn, they live longer single & are reportedly much happier if they are both single and childfree 🤔
It's so interesting how there's so many "gender reveal" videos that actively showcase how much they hate girls and yet we still have people who don't want to admit misogyny starts from the womb
Uh no the reason why libfems have more ppl in their corner is because libfeminism is extremely easy and doesn't challenge any deeply ingrained patriarchal ideas. It's popular because it's inoffensive, ineffective, male loving & you don't have to challenge your thinking at all
Womyn like this will never be my ally. Even if they turn away from this in the future, the harm they do by pushing one of the most harmful narratives about womyn will never be erased, ESPECIALLY because this comes from a place of laziness, entitlement & selfishness
Context is that boy said he wanted to put his dick in her mouth and someone told her. This is a perfectly normal reaction to sexual harassment if you ask me! The fact the caption says it's "girl bullying boy" is such misinformation to what's actually happening
Leftists have so much more heat for white womyn than they do white men and its a very telling sign of their misogyny. The vitriol they spew at womyn speaking up about being harassed by disadvantaged men is so much more than any they have towards white men who actually harm them
You are a feminist because you want "equality", I am a feminist because I want true female liberation without any input from the parasites called males, we are not the same.
Hope yall can see what we mean by male aligned women, cause this is it. These are the women who help uphold patriarchy and who are so far gone, they'd prefer the illusion of power men give them in exchange for dehumanization
Men have been in power for so long and what do they have to show for it? The earth is dying, discrimination is rampant, so many people are starving and poor, and they blame it all on everyone but themselves for it.
Just read an article that says romantic love in humans evolved from same-sex friendships. It makes a lot of sense considering the majority of female animals just use males for their sperm & either solo raise the offspring or with other females of her species
The fact that this is in the realm of possibility for how depraved men can be towards womyn, and especially a womyn he was MARRIED to should be a warning sign that you cannot trust men no matter how long you are with them. Being around men is always a risk of betrayal
French man drugged wife nightly and invited 51 men to rape her, court hears
What a betrayal. He had three kids with her and they had been together for 50 years.
Notice how there's womyn in the subreddit trying to help their man who got caught? This is prime example of what peak male identified women look like. They do not care about other womyn, they are ride or die for their man only and don't even care about their daughters.
I hate seeing videos of female violence on my TL, I understand it needs to be critiqued but I still hate it so much, it's just so triggering and it's worse when I know how many men revel in seeing that kind of content & some even get off to it
This might be my most problematic opinion but like I remember being a little minx at 16/7, and at 18 I dated a 35 year old and didn't think the age gap was that bad. I don't think a guy is a pedophile for being attracted to young women. Immature perhaps but it's not pedophilia.
it's why bioessentialist statements can be made about men, but can't be made about womyn. we don't know what we actually are like naturally when so much of patriarchal society requires us to restrict ourselves & paint ourselves how they want us to look
I do genuinely believe this should be one of separatist's ideal body types. Any body type that emphasizes gaining strength (so it doesn't even need to look cut like the womyn here look) should be prioritized because being physically fit and strong will always be useful
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I remember I read this fantasy novel with surprisingly radical feminist ideas & one of the things it said was that the biggest lie & manipulation men sold to womyn to subjugate them was the illusion of love to make womyn let down their guards & THAT was how the patriarchy set in
All the people saying "the boys are victims too" but how come I don't see little girls sexually assaulting little boys after being exposed to porn or having been victims of CSA? It's always "but you have to have sympathy for little boys" but I don't see this energy for the victim
Tell me how the fuck a 6 yr old girl was forced to perform sex acts by a bunch of other 1st graders who filmed it on a school used iPad all while the teacher was in the classroom.
Could you explain this please,
@PlvwISD
? What kind of fucking school are you running?
The idea we can change men for the better is wrong on many levels but let me ask this: why do you even care about that if they have enslaved & terrorized womyn for thousands of years? You think they deserve to change? You don't feel any righteous anger at what they've done?
"If all women simply left men, refused to have anything to do with any of them -- ever, all men, the government, and the national economy would collapse completely."
"all work is exploitation which is why sex work is also exploitation" is such a dumb statement because prostitution is the only "job" that not only has the highest amount of trafficking victims, but the vast majority have untreated PTSD & injuries that would make soldiers cringe
The idea of rehabilitation is a good one when ur talking about drug addicts or thieves or ppl who haven't committed any violent crimes, but once u start getting to rape, abuse, pedophilia, etc, then that's when u need to wake up and realize there's no coming back
I don't get why pregnancy with a man should ever be celebrated. Just looking at the rates of DV that shoot way up during pregnancy should already make you feel concerned, let alone the current state of abortion rights. Also the well-known fact that men use kids to tie womyn down.
Actually getting real tired of radfems not taking racism seriously. It's always defend the racist straight white womyn because she's popular and aligns somewhat with radfem beliefs instead of even trying to understand that someone like that will turn away even more womyn instead
Radical feminists systematically targeting a woman and getting her account taken down, because she is popular and attractive and speaks well on large platforms is so emblematic of the problems within radical feminist circles.
"If you cared about women" "the majority are poor black and brown men" still don't see how that's womyn's problem. if you actually cared about black and brown womyn you'd know that moc are extremely abusive towards womyn of their own race & this coddling behavior doesn't help
I can't take comphet seriously because of yall fr. Comphet is when you have NEVER had crushes on boys and forced yourself to seem like you did or forced yourself to be with boys because you were afraid to confront your homosexuality or afraid to be out to other people
we need a support group for the lesbians who were late bloomers. and i mean lateee. crushed on boys extensively/were boy crazy all their lives. weren’t tomboys. didn’t necessarily have the “signs” growing up. decent relationships with boyfriends. it can be isolating
The mulan transmasc discourse makes me mad about another character in this chinese gl I read called "clear & muddy loss of love" or jwqs for short. The western fanbase keep calling the mc transmasc when the whole point is she had to crossdress to be an official in ancient china??
One piece of misogynistic beauty standards that I think is super egregious is hairless pubic areas because not only is shaving causing micro cuts and inviting infections, the porn imagery of that is supposed to emulate children since having pubic hair means you're an adult.
This kind of messaging compounded with the casual misogyny that's so pervasive in everyday life is precisely why so many girls and young women end up IDing as "not a woman" because they think being a woman is weak and don't want to be viewed that way
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I consider it an act of intense hatred for asian womyn when I see western womyn defend asian males because the abuse asian womyn suffer at the hands of those disgusting apes is never acknowledged just because those westerners are attracted to skinny asian men that can dance
western radtwt still arguing about makeup while asian women who are living in borderline dystopian levels of beauty culture are actually able to reject it and have it be an important part of their radical actions to free themselves from patriarchal bondage
one thing that really annoys me is how womyn will forgive the men that abused them once enough time has passed. and they won't just forgive them, they expect others to forgive them too. and then when you don't, suddenly you're the bad one for not giving your abuser another chance
i see a lot of doomposting about all the ways womyn are oppressed by men, but i think you can't fully embrace being radical if you don't first realize that you being a womyn by itself makes you better than any man.
I would argue that beauty standards for asian womyn are especially harmful because the ideal body is skinny with no fat and no muscles aka the perfect weak body that anyone (men) can overpower. The ideal facial features also contribute to that feeling of a weak womyn.
I genuinely believe that women need to be more militant and embrace learning ways to strengthen themselves and learning how to fight. There's no way to guarantee that men won't attack u so having these kinds of tools will help u stay safe + dissuade them from trying again
Part of the reason why separatism is considered so important in radical feminist theory is because the end goal of the patriarchy has always been to control womyn & let men have access to them as easily as possible.
@Lanaschild_
So a 17 year old is a playful, innocent child, and a year later, she becomes a strong, independent woman with the wisdom of a mother? Doesn't anyone use their reason for a second instead of their emotions. There's practically no difference between a 16, 17 and an 18, 19 year old.
I actually don't quite understand when womyn say unlearning patriarchal conditioning is gradual because that rarely ever happens. It's usually something just clicks for you and you realize the life you've lived thus far has been a lie.
The replies... you really can't challenge a single patriarchal tradition without womyn fighting to keep it or finding some way to rationalize that's it's actually no big deal. Having a man's surname is a DIRECT way to pass things on patrilineally, it's literally patriarchal
Women are half of humanity, but lack our own names. As children, we take our fathers’ surnames; as adults, we are expected to take another man's name. We are the only major group pressured to sublimate our identity to another group in this way.
The idea of romance is one of the biggest brainwashing tools patriarchy has to keep women willingly chained to it. Men use it by pretending to be that prince charming when they first meet a woman and then once the relationship is acquired they start showing their true colors
U guys are literally contributing to the "u can turn lesbians straight" fantasy men have while simultaneously appropriating our label for a futile attempt at being left alone when men have never respected lesbians
I'm ngl if korean women can quit makeup in their type of extreme beauty culture environment where they're given paid plastic surgery procedures as graduation gifts, I'm not seeing how the excuses from western radfems hold up. You just have to be brave and take the plunge
They don't like it when women are actually comfortable with their bodies, they view their "gender queerness" as a special trait that makes them cooler than "normal" lesbians
Just to make ppl aware, this kind of wish from tw come from them being incels who think girls have life on easy mode based on their consumption of media and having never talked to actual girls before. They don't understand misogyny and never will cause it'll burst their bubble
A 10 year old boy raped a 3 year old girl. How many more times does this have to happen before boymoms stop defending their precious little boys? The only feminist male is a dead one and all male babies should be aborted
Misogynists always like using biology to justify why womyn were oppressed but it wasn't the natural order that brought about the patriarchy, it was male greed and jealousy. They couldn't stand womyn having right over future life and culture so they resorted to being savages
Womyn on the right will literally fall over in the wind but yeah sure the ones on the left are the weak ones. Every time society takes even a little step towards realistic body standards we always have some ED advocate try to fight tooth and nail for girls to starve themselves
On the right you can see a picture of the Victoria’s Secret angels that I had as a reference while growing up.
On the left you can see a picture of the current Victoria’s Secret models. Young girls are looking forward to have diabetes and being weak.
Out society is in decline.
Every time I see people bring up statistics to show men are terrible subhuman creatures, I don't see them bringing up the point that the statistics actually underrepresent the rate men commit crimes against womyn. It's uncommon for womyn to report abuse.
I think people underestimate how much self-esteem issues created from beauty culture can impact a womyn's life. Self-esteem is how men are able to trick womyn into being with them & how they can get away with abuse. It's also how they lose job opportunities to men.
I legit hate pride month tho cause every time it rolls around its just endless discussion about how it's biphobic to bis in het relationships to exclude them from gay events or transphobic to not date transwomen as a lesbian or how het ace ppl deserve to be in the community
Now you can't even criticize clearly misogynistic media without them calling you a fake feminist, especially media that is directly being sold to children who WILL be influenced by it & end up internalizing it thinking they need a prince or that "true love" trumps all
I think it's very weird how you're all feminists until you have to actually confront an individual womyn about making harmful choices. How do you actually change anything if your feminism only applies to broad concepts & not individual womyn? A collective is made of individuals.
I...? I think maybe bi womyn need to seriously reevaluate their dating pool if this is what's coming up when you search this. Like this is actually crazy (I also searched girlfriend to see if there's anything there and ofc nope)
It's interesting how most womyn would say you don't need sex or relationships to be happy towards male incels but can't seem to apply that to themselves 🤔
If u knowingly continue dating ur oppressor after being made fully aware on how they oppress u, especially when the easiest route of their oppression is through domestic violence and the high rates that can be backed up by anecdoctal evidence around u, then yeah u are a pick me
Was reading through that one gossip reddit that's actually on AH's side and saw a lot of comments talking about how they feel like feminism has failed them and how they dont feel safe in spaces for women anymore because of the misogynistic response from women towards DV survivors
A message to all of
#lesbitwt
who uses exclusionary rhetoric, this is your future.
They say lesbians don’t like men
They say lesbian spaces are being invaded
They say trans ppl need to make up a new label
They’re playing your song, and if you don’t wake up, you’ll sing too
Men hate aggressive womyn & hate when they are held accountable for their actions. Part of the reason why is because they are rarely ever confronted for doing something wrong & are raised since boyhood to take up space & do whatever they want.
This is similar to when my mom told me she'd pay for my double eyelid surgery & harassed me about getting that done for 6 months straight after I told her I have self esteem issues regarding my eyes cause ppl were racist to me about having small eyes.
Telling womyn to prioritize herself and her safety by removing men from having access to her most intimate and vulnerable place (her home and romantic life) is the most basic and logical conclusion you can reach once you realize men will always be a danger to womyn.
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It's interesting how much more important womyn are to the human race and yet males will reverse right from wrong and try to convince everyone that actually men are the important ones and womyn are the ones who need men to survive. They can't cope with their biological inferiority
I'm so serious, you need to stop saying stuff like "womyn are weaker than men" cause constantly seeing that will just make you not even feel like trying to do anything to better yourself. Any biological disadvantage we might have CAN be improved, don't just be a defeatist.
This is also when the patriarchal ideas that have been taught and shown to her really settle in her mind. She starts to follow the rules expected of womyn and closes off all the avenues that are considered unfeminine or unladylike and her self esteem tanks along with it.
Honestly I genuinely believe that if women were not so susceptible to the concept of love, we would not be so subjugated as we are now. Love makes u blind and makes u defend and stay with ppl who harm u, and that's the biggest obstacle that is preventing our liberation
Also why do they always bring up racism every time womyn come forward about times they've been sexually harassed by men that they view as "more oppressed" than whatever womyn brought it up. Literally weaponizing racism to defend men and shut womyn up
I used to be on kpoptwt & it was always so shocking to me how easily the fanbases full of girls & young womyn will turn their backs on womyn to defend their male faves. They'd call other womyn misogynistic slurs, tell them to kts, & harass them into submission