I'm naturally a loner. Even towards my own family. I really don't care to be in someone's face. I'm clingy when I love someone, but. the distance I can give a person is unreal
Donโt forget karma comes back to you 10 fold. In the form of car trouble, money issues, drama, stress, mental/health depression etc. So why yโall low vibing thinking yโall got one up on someone. Just remember, your heart/intentions can never lie to the universe..
I donโt want my man working like a slave to provide for a whole household ALONEโฆ. I need your time more than just your moneyโฆ some of yโall are weird for wanting a man not to have any quality of life outside of working and paying bills & half of you females not even worth it ๐คท๐พโโ๏ธ
I pray my son is nothing like these men in this generation ๐ฅบ I pray he end up being a loyal hard working respectful dedicated young man ๐๐ฝ I pray he never ends up in jail or on the streets โ๐พ I PRAY GREATNESS IN HIS LIFE !
GROWN WOMEN DO NOT involve themselves in Drama ๐ We Work, online Shop,Grocery Shop, Make sure home Straight, Cook Hot Meals & Listen to R&B & Drink Wine ๐ ๐ง๐พ๐ง๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐ and Stay out way!
I took myself out the mix, I'm getting my life together , keeping my circle small , learning on keeping my things private , just also trying to accept some situations , the way they are & also staying in my lane not bothering anyone โค. PROTECT PEACE ALL 2023 ๐๏ฟผ
Right before God elevates you, Heโs going to show you everybody's heart around you. This is so you'll know who to take with you & who to love from a distance once you've entered your promised land. Elevation has always required separation
Some people will never apologize to you. They donโt have the compassion, maturity or relational skills to think past their own ego to admit that they mistreated you. Not everyone can tolerate holding themselves accountable, as it involves directly facing their flawed behavior..
Sitting in your own mess is one of the hardest things to do. Realizing all the situations YOU put yourself in. All the ways YOU couldโve and shouldโve protected yourself. All the mistakes and bad decisions YOU made against your boundaries.
When Jhene Aiko said โEverything takes time . You have gotta lose your pride, You have gotta lose your mind ๐ง๐ฝโโ๏ธ Just to find your peace of mind โจ
You have got to trust the signs Everything will turn out fine ๐ค๐ผ๐ you literally have to keep smiling & keep going
Goodmorning ๐
Everything about me is changing. Iโm falling in love with myself in brand new ways. My taste in relationships has changed. The goals I have for myself have changed. The company I want to keep. My habits, my mindset. Iโm just grateful, because change isnโt easy. ๐
I saw someone say that sometimes being a loner is a trauma response. You're so use to people you love not showing up for you &/or you may have grown up in a toxic environment. The only one you could depend on was YOU, so you naturally feel safe when you're alone.
One thing about being a private person is peoples perception of you ๐. They have this whole made up Idea of who you are based off of brief encounters and your online presence.
i donโt think people understand.. you can LITERALLY drive someone to a point of not wanting to be bothered with you at all, on ANY level. rather it's a friendship, relationship, family, etc. it's only so much one person can take โผ๏ธ
Hey God๐ฅบ itโs me
Do whatever You need to do so that I don't go
back to things, people and places You delivered me from. It's a lot going on right now in my life but We've come too far to go back to that. There is nothing back there but filled lessons.
The highest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to detail. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you.๐ซ
they talked about you sis.. but they left the best parts out. you INSPIRED them. you ENCOURAGED them. you PRAYED for them. keep living girl! a table is being prepared ๐ซถ๐ฝ
When another women talks bad about you donโt be so quick to clap back ๐๐พ pray for that woman because clearly she see something in you that she doesnโt see in herself ๐คท๐พโโ๏ธremember confidence is silence๐ and insecurity is loud ๐๐
Men literally do whatโs best for them. Itโs women that are always thinking about a man or relationship before themselves.
Iโve seen dudes up and move cross country despite their kids, their family, their girl etc. but Iโve seen more women stunt their growth and not flourish
Sometimes people just want to go through life by themselves for awhile, and want to figure out their path without having to explain themselves to other people. You not trying to hurt nobody you just trying get you together.
Respecting your partner is deeper than just staying faithful. Respecting your partner means to also respect their voice and allow them to be heard. Respect is communication. Respect is avoiding the same mistakes or things you know will make your partner mad/sad. Respecting your
im so submissive & you could have whatever from me if i love you & thats why i stay to myself cause this generation will use you up & do you wrong & then tell everybody you the problem.. ion want no parts. love me correctly, i deserve it
I get in my moods and get teary eyed sometimes because I canโt honestly wait to meet ME in a few years. Grief-free, past situations free, childhood trauma free, grudge free ME. I just know sheโs happy and healed and I canโt wait to meet her ๐ซถ๐พ
I CAN'T communicate with people who don't understand it's the PRINCIPLE of things. It's not what you do, It's how you do itโฆsome people will never grow up because they have people in their corner justifying their wrongs. Right is RIGHT and wrong is WRONG. A person will never
To know me is to absolutely love me. Idc what nobody told you about me, Iโm the coolest, most humblest female you could ever meet. The only time youโll see my bad side is when you cross me. I donโt bother Fuck w Nb that doesnโt Fuck w//Me
Yโall didnโt hear Blac Chyna when she said โControl your emotions. Because I feel like if you can control your emotions you can control the room. When you can control your emotions you can control everything thatโs sent to you because you can send out a different kind of energy
You can lose it all today & be financially-stable again by tomorrow. Depressed today & find joy tomorrow. Sick today & healed tomorrow. Alone today & find love tomorrow. Jobless today & get a job offer tomorrow. Thatโs just how GOD works. Hardships are temporary.
This is the video of โSHAQUELLA ROBINSON โ ๐๏ธ before her death ?
Whatโs yโall thoughts ?
The comments on the video says they think they were โplotting against SHAQUELLA ..
๐๐๏ธ Justice for this queen Condolences ๐ to her family ๐
#justiceforshanquellarobinson
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I used to be ready to fight, ready to argue, ready to spit on me a bitch, , ready to quit a job, ready to buss me a hoe head !! But now I walk away respectfully, I express my feelings respectfully, I say fuck you respectfully , I tell a bitch to kiss my ass respectfully
Ion job shame.. ion car shame.. ion crib shame.. ion pick on people for what they donโt have because you never know โฆyou can be up today and down tomorrow ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธstay humble
Shoutout to the women who are focused on growth. To the women who handles their business while working through trauma/triggers, and loving themselves through the process. I hope that everything you touch this year prospers! ๐โจ